to Asians, swole == less evolved. it's the same with having body or facial hair, sweating, having body odor or giant testicles, or generally being built big and stocky for manual labor.
leaning into all of those things is basically admitting you're a barnyard animal. my Japanese grandma came off pretty racist, but really, she put everyone that was gross into a "subhuman, and probably a rapist" category.
Asians are an effeminate race, and they hate anyone who tries to stick out by improving themselves. They value education, intelligence, status, power and sloth. They all want to be the manager at the top controlling others and profitting off others labor by weaseling their way into a high lofty position. They do this by dedicating many years into academia to make themselves feel smart. Working hard to make your body stronger is antithetical to the Asian modus operandi. They study hard so they don't have to work their bodies in hard labor. This is probably a remnant belief back when they had a long history of autocratic rulers who punished or enslaved peasants with forced labor. There is also a sense of jealousy and fear when facing someone stronger than them because they are acutely aware that they cannot use their intelligence, status, and power to control you because you are stronger than them. So they always shame anyone who tries to "stick out from the group" and improve himself to be stronger than them.
I think worse in general. Everyone just assumes that my life is great. Not that im looking for validation or seeking attention particularly but when I was what I consider myself as ugly, I used to get compliments if I got new clothes, new haircut, new something. Always "ohhh looking so nice anon! That suits you". "Ohh have you been losing weight, your face looks so much leaner well done".
Ive been lifting on and off 12 years now. The compliments are getting treated nicely peaked during like the first 3 months, 6 months and probably 1-2 year. After that it started tapering down and idk I cant recall getting a single compliment or being treating nicely in the last like 8 years. Idk, i just assume that people assume I can take it because I look like a greek god. Nobody tries to be nice or friendly. Which is complete polar opposite to when I had the feminine cute boy aestethic. I always got told that Im cute, never handsome.
Really? That sucks, I get more compliments. Not that I'm some Greek God. I just look in shape and am friendly with people. So I always get compliments. However, are you ugly? I'm handsome as hell. Even when I was fatter I was approached. I also get clothing compliments frequently. (I'm also 6'4" so if that matters).
>If I was a 6’4 sexy rich guy I would bully the frick out of short ugly poor people
it's the opposite actually, when you have a lot you just try and help the less fortunate coz you can't fathom their lifestyle.
unless you're mentally ill ofc - which probably isn't the case seeing how chads beget chads.
Not really. Sometimes people will compliment me but other than that I am still a loser, I still get no attention from women, I still have no friends, I am still a low value male regardless because I am a manlet. Honestly, don’t even bother with the gym as a manlet, literally just do pushups at home and don’t be fat. Manlets will never be physically dominant, all they can rely on is intelligence or being an 8/10 face to ever have sex
so am I lol, that guy does not have friends becAUse hes either one not white or two depressing to be around. Im not really sure how someone can expect to get a gf if they dont have friends.
On the bright side, now that you know how shallow a lot of women are since they also don't believe in that personality shit, you have all rights to choose to be with skinny girls and only skinny girls since you're not fat anymore.
On the bright side, now that you know how shallow a lot of women are since they also don't believe in that personality shit, you have all rights to choose to be with skinny girls and only skinny girls since you're not fat anymore.
You sound like miserable homosexuals. Miserable by choice. Masculine men are always more admired. Just as we find seeing a healthy, proud stag uplifting. But seeing a fawn in the mouth of a bear may bring you down. Beauty is one of the few great things about life. It's not like it is with women where men have this innate beauty because that is often just a boyish cuteness, and twinkdeath is inevitable.
Considering others as vain because you got closer to a state of physical excellence and became more attractive is about the fakest, gayest thing I've ever heard of. It's life, it's literally life and you're denying it for some failed valuation of innate importance. None of that shit is real. No reformed fat chick who became a 7.8/10 would ever cope with something life-denying like this.
no, i got builtfat. skinny twinks try to pick fights with me sometimes. like, really insistently, too.
however, women are often very smiley and flirty with me so i think i've achieved 'what women think dadbod is' mode
Used to be fat af after a depressed alcoholic, around 1.5-2 bottle of rum a day 54-60% don't know how fat I got my grandmas scale only went up to 290 so probably 300s. I'm 6'2 and down to around 190-195lbs, here's what happened >people were nicer to me in all kinds of situations, restaurants, asking for help, or just talking >people were cool with my interests be it vidya anime or other nerdshit as before I'd get the "oh you do look the type" and now all of the sudden is, "wow I wouldnt ahve guessed!" >gym thots and gilfs at the gym began to mire >fat people feel insecure around me, fat girls think they have a chance of being with me, sure I hit and leave but then they b***h and moan about being "used" >most men feel insecure around me, I've gotten away with being and butthole to plenty of guys who are worse looking than me and not getting shit for it, think your average skinnyfat >little sister's friend who also goes to my gym started hitting on me
10/10 would recommend, I get to frick all the fat, ugly b***hes I want and I get to date the girl who I want.
Also grandma told me I looked like Samson, so yeah it's all right not being fat
I got a complement on my lifts at the gym twice. That's more than the complements from strangers I got in my whole life prior to that. Life is pretty good, and I'm lifts are still going up
I thought it was a meme until I went back to college after leaving the military and becoming IST: >on break in between lectures >wearing a hoodie from a retro game store from my parents’ hometown >cute zoomette and her friend come up and ask what the logo is >”wow anon, are you a GAMER?” >getting all touchy and flirty and giggly with me >”I didn’t know you liked VIDEO GAMES anon!” >have no clue how to react because I thought a hobby like /vr/ was a huge turn-off for women >completely spill my spaghetti because I’m not used to women acting interested >their relentless flirting goes on until the next lecture >mutual friend later tells me the cute one likes me >still haven’t approached her for her number
As the sages say, you can’t outlift autism.
Even if you get good enough to not frick up when girls come up to you, you’re still only maybe 1% of the way to being able to make contact with girls yourself. So every missed opportunity like that is a pretty big loss.
Both yes and no. People who are normal weight are nicer to me. But some people look at me with envy and hate. Makes me have a different perspective on the kids in school who were popular because they were attractive. You can almost read the thoughts of others and how they think about you. Also makes me realize how kind most people can be. They knew I was a fatass but praised me for anything good about me. Like they like my shoes or how funny I am.
It actually seems I was more social and likable to acquaintances when I was fat. But random strangers are more kind to me when fit. Random people at the register are more likely to start a conversation with me now. One girl even called me cute. I was always the funny fat guy. I almost feel like I need a new personality to go with me appearance since sometimes it seems there’s a different expectation of me now.
Thanks for reading my blog. That’s my whitepill of the day. Blaming our looks as the reason people don’t like us is just an excuse for being shitty. Being fat never set me back socially. Or even romantically. What held me back was myself.
I've cycled fit and fat all my life. From greek god to shrek ogre and back again and the difference in how people treat you is massive. Psych issues is my cause for this hard path, currently fasting and I'm gonna drop 25kg before end of summer. Then gonna try to not live the stressed-maxxxed life I've lived the past 4.5 years, before then I had a six pack and had b***hes open their doors naked when I told them to. As a fat frick you can't even expect to have them talk to you. Such is life.
>women
Compliment, stare and smile at me way more and act less scared of me >dyel men
Usually get defensive or mad at me for no reason at all >men who work out
We mire and give tips to each other >fat, disabled or single mom women
Hit on me aggressively, but get buttmad as soon as i mention i go to the gym (what the frick do they expect) >relatives
Buttmad, except for my dad, he seems subtle proud >gf
Inexistent >regular prostitute
She gets extremely horny now, when i was a druggie fatso she wanted to end it quickly >exes
Seething >gay men (im a oportunistic bi)
Some are extra interested, some are extra buttmad but still interested >gym thots
Only the ugly, old and fat ones stare at me >gym enemies and coworker enemies
Buttmad
I want to frick them, not listen to them for hours or participate into their shit lifes. Also, most women in my enviroment already are married, have a bf or are declared degenerate trash. I just take the easiest shortcut and pay for a prostitute with giantic breasts who fricks like a pro.
I'm a 45yo manlet. Progressed from skinny to skinny fat to hard gainer over the years. Now I'm losing my hair and been on a finasteride for a year (no new hair growth). Also been pretty rigorous on my workouts of late and I consider myself quite fit for my age.
Anyway I haven't been "treated good by people" ever but of late I started to see younger people showing some sort respect and submission towards me. And I see in them the same hesitation and nervousness that I felt most of my life except now I think I have stopped giving a frick about most of things as it is pretty much all over for me and they mistake my state as confidence the frick should I know.
I was always fit. Doctor called me wiry when I was delivered.
People treated me well my whole life being athletic, I would say 80/20 rule. I always had an outgoing charismatic personality, so when I started training weights after calisthenics, people gravitated towards me much more.
My resistance training was to supplement boxing to go up half a weight class at a time (14-17). My father is old school and looked down on bulky un-athletic men. This forced me to stay quite lean throughout my teenage years while living with him.
People treated me even better as I got more fit in college (17-22). Women would have sex with me on location, no number, or meeting up at their/my place. They would constantly fight for my attention, to the point it was laughable. As I got older, I got more fit, and people continued to open doors for me, based on my charismatic personality, and iron will, which built my body.
I have always been athletic, and the people I have met in my life respect that. Most people think I am a former football player when they meet me, sometimes I play it up and get better tables at restaurants, comped items, but only once in a while.
Now I am still fit, and its more or less the same thing. I think it is my personality and the aura I emit, along with by body that makes people react to me in a positive way. They sense I am charismatic and will treat them the way they treat me.
Things go really well for me on a daily basis. Today purchased some headphones and two employees complimented me, said I looked so cool and sleek like a movie star, several times. I thanked them and said I was just trying to keep up with their look and they were very happy.
Everyone treated me better when I got fit, more respect and kindness was given to me, however I attribute it to my personality, and aura.
I also respect those I interact with and it has garnered a lot of support for me in my city and where ever I travel. This is my back as a young untrained child.
people look at me less friendly if i'm wearing tight shirts and showing my arms. especially boomers twist their faces into expressions of disgust and anger
You wearing too small shirts probably sticks out like a sore thumb, like an insecure teen craving for attention from other people. Such behaviour is often exacerbated by demeanor(s) unnoticed by yourself. Just learn to accept and love yourself as you are
yeah
i wear heavy clothing at work but the face gains are shocking >coworkers staring and flirting with me >hear new rumors every week about how X is into me >bang coworkers (bad idea but still) >customers flirt with me >old women tease me sometimes aggressively about being handsome >people are generally more sociable around me, but i think i am partially responsible for this
I got none of this when I was 40 lbs heavier
Yes.
>
I got swole shamed by some chink grandma
swole shamed?
She told me i was too muscular
why were you hitting on chinese grandmas?
Older chinese women are twink traditionalists.
should have fricked her. i want an asian gilf gf.
to Asians, swole == less evolved. it's the same with having body or facial hair, sweating, having body odor or giant testicles, or generally being built big and stocky for manual labor.
leaning into all of those things is basically admitting you're a barnyard animal. my Japanese grandma came off pretty racist, but really, she put everyone that was gross into a "subhuman, and probably a rapist" category.
fitness isn't ISTness.
Asians are an effeminate race, and they hate anyone who tries to stick out by improving themselves. They value education, intelligence, status, power and sloth. They all want to be the manager at the top controlling others and profitting off others labor by weaseling their way into a high lofty position. They do this by dedicating many years into academia to make themselves feel smart. Working hard to make your body stronger is antithetical to the Asian modus operandi. They study hard so they don't have to work their bodies in hard labor. This is probably a remnant belief back when they had a long history of autocratic rulers who punished or enslaved peasants with forced labor. There is also a sense of jealousy and fear when facing someone stronger than them because they are acutely aware that they cannot use their intelligence, status, and power to control you because you are stronger than them. So they always shame anyone who tries to "stick out from the group" and improve himself to be stronger than them.
chinksects
This is not completely correct, if you can't do 10 pullups in China you won't even be able to graduate.
>chink
the question said 'people' anon
I think worse in general. Everyone just assumes that my life is great. Not that im looking for validation or seeking attention particularly but when I was what I consider myself as ugly, I used to get compliments if I got new clothes, new haircut, new something. Always "ohhh looking so nice anon! That suits you". "Ohh have you been losing weight, your face looks so much leaner well done".
Ive been lifting on and off 12 years now. The compliments are getting treated nicely peaked during like the first 3 months, 6 months and probably 1-2 year. After that it started tapering down and idk I cant recall getting a single compliment or being treating nicely in the last like 8 years. Idk, i just assume that people assume I can take it because I look like a greek god. Nobody tries to be nice or friendly. Which is complete polar opposite to when I had the feminine cute boy aestethic. I always got told that Im cute, never handsome.
Post before and after
People were friendly because they didn't take you seriously... "cute" means gay.
Imagine a dude with model like looks interacting with others - nobody would complement him on anything due to insecurities.
Really? That sucks, I get more compliments. Not that I'm some Greek God. I just look in shape and am friendly with people. So I always get compliments. However, are you ugly? I'm handsome as hell. Even when I was fatter I was approached. I also get clothing compliments frequently. (I'm also 6'4" so if that matters).
Yeah and I hate them for it.
What do you mean? Isn’t getting treated better a good thing?
He's saying he hates how superficial people are
Who cares if people are superficial. If I was a 6’4 sexy rich guy I would bully the frick out of short ugly poor people
>If I was a 6’4 sexy rich guy I would bully the frick out of short ugly poor people
it's the opposite actually, when you have a lot you just try and help the less fortunate coz you can't fathom their lifestyle.
unless you're mentally ill ofc - which probably isn't the case seeing how chads beget chads.
Unironically this.
>6'6" former d1 athlete
Yes, but I focus on treating others with kindness and gratefulness.
Maybe a little but I don’t have enough of a social life to notice a difference.
Not really. Sometimes people will compliment me but other than that I am still a loser, I still get no attention from women, I still have no friends, I am still a low value male regardless because I am a manlet. Honestly, don’t even bother with the gym as a manlet, literally just do pushups at home and don’t be fat. Manlets will never be physically dominant, all they can rely on is intelligence or being an 8/10 face to ever have sex
Thats wild because I'm a manlet and dont have these problems you do.
that manlet ugly af brah
so am I lol, that guy does not have friends becAUse hes either one not white or two depressing to be around. Im not really sure how someone can expect to get a gf if they dont have friends.
not him but im ugly manlet with no frens too and nonwhite im dying alone still gonna lift tho
haha lmfao
I’m average face though
Larping or 5’11. Cope more
Yes, looks matters most.
>girls smile at me more
>wagies are nicer to me
On the bright side, now that you know how shallow a lot of women are since they also don't believe in that personality shit, you have all rights to choose to be with skinny girls and only skinny girls since you're not fat anymore.
You sound like miserable homosexuals. Miserable by choice. Masculine men are always more admired. Just as we find seeing a healthy, proud stag uplifting. But seeing a fawn in the mouth of a bear may bring you down. Beauty is one of the few great things about life. It's not like it is with women where men have this innate beauty because that is often just a boyish cuteness, and twinkdeath is inevitable.
Considering others as vain because you got closer to a state of physical excellence and became more attractive is about the fakest, gayest thing I've ever heard of. It's life, it's literally life and you're denying it for some failed valuation of innate importance. None of that shit is real. No reformed fat chick who became a 7.8/10 would ever cope with something life-denying like this.
I get eyeraped when running sleeveless at 12%bf
Cant wait to run shirtless in summer sub 10%
no, i got builtfat. skinny twinks try to pick fights with me sometimes. like, really insistently, too.
however, women are often very smiley and flirty with me so i think i've achieved 'what women think dadbod is' mode
Used to be fat af after a depressed alcoholic, around 1.5-2 bottle of rum a day 54-60% don't know how fat I got my grandmas scale only went up to 290 so probably 300s. I'm 6'2 and down to around 190-195lbs, here's what happened
>people were nicer to me in all kinds of situations, restaurants, asking for help, or just talking
>people were cool with my interests be it vidya anime or other nerdshit as before I'd get the "oh you do look the type" and now all of the sudden is, "wow I wouldnt ahve guessed!"
>gym thots and gilfs at the gym began to mire
>fat people feel insecure around me, fat girls think they have a chance of being with me, sure I hit and leave but then they b***h and moan about being "used"
>most men feel insecure around me, I've gotten away with being and butthole to plenty of guys who are worse looking than me and not getting shit for it, think your average skinnyfat
>little sister's friend who also goes to my gym started hitting on me
10/10 would recommend, I get to frick all the fat, ugly b***hes I want and I get to date the girl who I want.
Also grandma told me I looked like Samson, so yeah it's all right not being fat
I got a complement on my lifts at the gym twice. That's more than the complements from strangers I got in my whole life prior to that. Life is pretty good, and I'm lifts are still going up
I thought it was a meme until I went back to college after leaving the military and becoming IST:
>on break in between lectures
>wearing a hoodie from a retro game store from my parents’ hometown
>cute zoomette and her friend come up and ask what the logo is
>”wow anon, are you a GAMER?”
>getting all touchy and flirty and giggly with me
>”I didn’t know you liked VIDEO GAMES anon!”
>have no clue how to react because I thought a hobby like /vr/ was a huge turn-off for women
>completely spill my spaghetti because I’m not used to women acting interested
>their relentless flirting goes on until the next lecture
>mutual friend later tells me the cute one likes me
>still haven’t approached her for her number
As the sages say, you can’t outlift autism.
Just have to put yourself in those uncomfortable situations enough. Then it all becomes natural. You can do it fellow autismo
Even if you get good enough to not frick up when girls come up to you, you’re still only maybe 1% of the way to being able to make contact with girls yourself. So every missed opportunity like that is a pretty big loss.
>just bee yourself bro
ask for her number you moron, if not I will come to your house and touch ur pp full homo
She's going to hold you down and suck your dick whether you consent or not, be careful out there anon
You aren't autistic you just lack confidence and are still a boy
run away, she’s going to rape you haha…
Yes there's a huge difference, I've been obese and then been down to normal weight and the difference was massive
Growing a big beard also made a big difference, you look friendlier, less threatening and approachable when you've a beard
I was never fat so not much, but a few guys have commented on my physique randomly (dude, great arms! Wyd?)
I've gotten more compliments by women when I'm well dressed. It seems that women care more about your clothes than your breasts and back lol
Yes, my wife stopped cheating on me after I lost the weight.
Wtf pls be joking
Both yes and no. People who are normal weight are nicer to me. But some people look at me with envy and hate. Makes me have a different perspective on the kids in school who were popular because they were attractive. You can almost read the thoughts of others and how they think about you. Also makes me realize how kind most people can be. They knew I was a fatass but praised me for anything good about me. Like they like my shoes or how funny I am.
It actually seems I was more social and likable to acquaintances when I was fat. But random strangers are more kind to me when fit. Random people at the register are more likely to start a conversation with me now. One girl even called me cute. I was always the funny fat guy. I almost feel like I need a new personality to go with me appearance since sometimes it seems there’s a different expectation of me now.
Interesting post, the point about how kind most people can be was a gem
Thanks for reading my blog. That’s my whitepill of the day. Blaming our looks as the reason people don’t like us is just an excuse for being shitty. Being fat never set me back socially. Or even romantically. What held me back was myself.
I don't understand this, I'm not a shitty person and I get friendzoned all the time. It has to be my looks, because what else is really there?
Not really, maybe it depends on how fat you are. I went from overweight to amorexic and vice versa, nobody really noticed or treated me any different
You have to be social for it to matter
In general, yes. Especially when it comes to finding a job. Between two equally skilled people, the job always goes to the fitter person.
I've cycled fit and fat all my life. From greek god to shrek ogre and back again and the difference in how people treat you is massive. Psych issues is my cause for this hard path, currently fasting and I'm gonna drop 25kg before end of summer. Then gonna try to not live the stressed-maxxxed life I've lived the past 4.5 years, before then I had a six pack and had b***hes open their doors naked when I told them to. As a fat frick you can't even expect to have them talk to you. Such is life.
None of them report the rapes anymore
>women
Compliment, stare and smile at me way more and act less scared of me
>dyel men
Usually get defensive or mad at me for no reason at all
>men who work out
We mire and give tips to each other
>fat, disabled or single mom women
Hit on me aggressively, but get buttmad as soon as i mention i go to the gym (what the frick do they expect)
>relatives
Buttmad, except for my dad, he seems subtle proud
>gf
Inexistent
>regular prostitute
She gets extremely horny now, when i was a druggie fatso she wanted to end it quickly
>exes
Seething
>gay men (im a oportunistic bi)
Some are extra interested, some are extra buttmad but still interested
>gym thots
Only the ugly, old and fat ones stare at me
>gym enemies and coworker enemies
Buttmad
I do love the fact that you use a prostitute despite getting attention from grills
I want to frick them, not listen to them for hours or participate into their shit lifes. Also, most women in my enviroment already are married, have a bf or are declared degenerate trash. I just take the easiest shortcut and pay for a prostitute with giantic breasts who fricks like a pro.
The main thing is I look better in clothes, again girls love it
Old Mexican ladies talk to me now.
>ohhhh you like it spicy
Yeah old lady I want some peppers on my carnitas
I'm a 45yo manlet. Progressed from skinny to skinny fat to hard gainer over the years. Now I'm losing my hair and been on a finasteride for a year (no new hair growth). Also been pretty rigorous on my workouts of late and I consider myself quite fit for my age.
Anyway I haven't been "treated good by people" ever but of late I started to see younger people showing some sort respect and submission towards me. And I see in them the same hesitation and nervousness that I felt most of my life except now I think I have stopped giving a frick about most of things as it is pretty much all over for me and they mistake my state as confidence the frick should I know.
I was always fit. Doctor called me wiry when I was delivered.
People treated me well my whole life being athletic, I would say 80/20 rule. I always had an outgoing charismatic personality, so when I started training weights after calisthenics, people gravitated towards me much more.
My resistance training was to supplement boxing to go up half a weight class at a time (14-17). My father is old school and looked down on bulky un-athletic men. This forced me to stay quite lean throughout my teenage years while living with him.
People treated me even better as I got more fit in college (17-22). Women would have sex with me on location, no number, or meeting up at their/my place. They would constantly fight for my attention, to the point it was laughable. As I got older, I got more fit, and people continued to open doors for me, based on my charismatic personality, and iron will, which built my body.
I have always been athletic, and the people I have met in my life respect that. Most people think I am a former football player when they meet me, sometimes I play it up and get better tables at restaurants, comped items, but only once in a while.
Now I am still fit, and its more or less the same thing. I think it is my personality and the aura I emit, along with by body that makes people react to me in a positive way. They sense I am charismatic and will treat them the way they treat me.
Things go really well for me on a daily basis. Today purchased some headphones and two employees complimented me, said I looked so cool and sleek like a movie star, several times. I thanked them and said I was just trying to keep up with their look and they were very happy.
Everyone treated me better when I got fit, more respect and kindness was given to me, however I attribute it to my personality, and aura.
I also respect those I interact with and it has garnered a lot of support for me in my city and where ever I travel. This is my back as a young untrained child.
people look at me less friendly if i'm wearing tight shirts and showing my arms. especially boomers twist their faces into expressions of disgust and anger
anyone else notice this or am i schizo?
You wearing too small shirts probably sticks out like a sore thumb, like an insecure teen craving for attention from other people. Such behaviour is often exacerbated by demeanor(s) unnoticed by yourself. Just learn to accept and love yourself as you are
they jelly bro
wear a less tight shirt homie
dont care i mog these fat fricks
yeah
i wear heavy clothing at work but the face gains are shocking
>coworkers staring and flirting with me
>hear new rumors every week about how X is into me
>bang coworkers (bad idea but still)
>customers flirt with me
>old women tease me sometimes aggressively about being handsome
>people are generally more sociable around me, but i think i am partially responsible for this
I got none of this when I was 40 lbs heavier
I don’t know. Nobody compliments me or seems to care and girls like this still ignore me.
No but I treat people worse