So far having a gf has made me lose all my weight loss gains and push me back to my starting weight from 3 years ago, I cant even jog 6 miles anymore let alone 1. I did start working out again 5 days a week though a few months back and now I'm slowly integrating cardio and a proper a diet too. We've been dating for over a year now and her crazy spells are dying down or I'm becoming immune to it, were all gonna make it bros, arm day today
Gains goblin. Gotta stay ahead of that shit, once they drag you down you’re “not the person they fell in love with” and leave you/cheat. Always look ready to leave and slam other b***hes the next day.
>crazy spells
After spending 2.5 years trying to help/ save a bpd girl I hate to be the one to tell you but it's not ever gonna get better unless she wants to get better.
Get out brother, mine took a full year st the gym and therapy just to return back to my baseline. So in short, 3 years down the drain
I imagine it has to since having a girlfriend is alpha behavior and is healthy for you psychologically - which probably increases your testosterone. It also means that you don't need to jack off and look at porn - which also increases testosterone. Being an incel just doesn't seem like it would be good for your testosterone levels since you'll be depressed and miserable and feel like a lonely failure.
I am recently new into getting a girlfriend guys, i'm 32 and have been with tons of women but never an actual relationship. Now I finally have one and im thinking its getting serious eventhough she is much younger than me (18). How do I go best about this? I havent really worked out alot in the past year cause i got kinda depressed but she makes me happy but sometimes I still have this "what am I doing this for".
Do I lift to become more attractive for her and so I can become strong or to protect her?
>18 yo daddy issues bpd bawd >making her your gf and not just a frickbuddy
wtf are you doing Black person, also it’s not really something to brag about
Serious: you risk burning your last good dating years on a girl who will inevitably “find herself” in her mid 20s or find out she needs a “bawd phase” because she got serious too young or some other woman bullshit. Which is fine for her mid 20s.
Meanwhile you’re approaching 40 now and the dating pool has shrunk to a puddle and it’s full of fat women with kids who have given up.
I know it seems like you lucked out and you will probably have some years of bliss with this girl feeling like it’s real love.
Is that worth losing your serious chance at a relationship before it’s just pure desperation not to be alone when you’re old? That’s not a rhetorical question, I can’t say. But you should be aware. It’s easy if you look good to bridge that age gap. Gets harder through her mid 20s and then 30s when she still has options and you have none.
This is a possible scenario, so what? Ruin the chance of a lifetime with a hot 18yr old girl who you have a good connection with just so you can hope you can redo it with someone who just happens to be 25 and has already have this 'bawd phase' ? What if you dont find that one? I dont know dude, ive been alone most of my life. If I can have some years together with someone i really like i'd pick that
not taking the risk both of us arent ready and im not looking into a shit life and bringing a kid into it where 2 people do not want it
No, you need to secure your future with her so she doesn't get corrupted into a bawd phase. My 18yr old gf when I was 21 did exactly that. She liked me a lot, but all of her friends and even her fricking mom told her "settling down at your age is so early! You have soooooo much of the world to see (more wieners to service)"
she already had her bawd phase when she was 16 she met with guys in the backseat of their cars and shit now she is just my little bawd
Well if you can convince her to avoid most of the developmental shit of a woman in her early 20's, good for you. But you said she has daddy issues and is going to uni in a few months.... yeah, said that last statement out loud to yourself
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uni here in yurop is just dayschool, no sleeping over far away like in the usa
she already talks about wanting to spend a night in the week her and she is leaving clothes and shit so i think she wants to move in
>Already had her bawd phase at 18
You mean she has bad sex with like 3 men one of whom she lost her virginity to. That's literally the default for most average to decent looking women who can't land a Chad. My advice is to get the frick out of the City now before she starts going out with her girlfriends and getting eye raped 400 times a night maybe one of those nights after you get into an argument about "being at different places" or some other woman bullshit.
No, you need to secure your future with her so she doesn't get corrupted into a bawd phase. My 18yr old gf when I was 21 did exactly that. She liked me a lot, but all of her friends and even her fricking mom told her "settling down at your age is so early! You have soooooo much of the world to see (more wieners to service)"
honestly it is give and take. test boost from sexoo but also having to skip trainings to attend some BS with her family or getting into bad lazing habits might kill your gains.
When I was younger and couldn't limit my exposure to my gfs (the amount of time we spend together/what we eat/how much attention I give) they used to be the worst gains goblins.
These days my gf is usually my 4th concern after my work, fitness and recovery, and frens. I really just see her 3-4 times a week and it feels ideal.
Just don't make a girl your priority kids.
t. 30yo
you the type of dude to think israelites are just white people, get your act together and start learning to optimize your ethnicity spotting game
not even kidding, your life and nation depends on it
https://i.imgur.com/IhBZkEs.jpg
nta but I think she's a Chinese wigger that goes by dollfeva on IG
a chinese wigger is not a wigger but a chigger. chinese nword not white nword
>Does having a girlfriend increase gains and testosterone?
ehh it's mixed
my wife likes watching me work out in my home gym (it's kind of open to the living room, so she watches while reading on the couch)
so I get to work out pretty often as she even encourages me
but then we go out on date nights and I eat way to much bad food
or sometimes you just have not much time and have to prioritize - my wife always comes first there, so I lose regularity
but i'm 100% sure that getting mired daily, by the person you love, is a big testosterone boost
and one hell of a motivation to continue
So far having a gf has made me lose all my weight loss gains and push me back to my starting weight from 3 years ago, I cant even jog 6 miles anymore let alone 1. I did start working out again 5 days a week though a few months back and now I'm slowly integrating cardio and a proper a diet too. We've been dating for over a year now and her crazy spells are dying down or I'm becoming immune to it, were all gonna make it bros, arm day today
mine wants to eat goyslop and spend all my money all the time
>I cant even jog 6 miles anymore let alone 1
I don't want to be picky but this sentence is back to front. It should read
>I can't even run 1 mile anymore, let alone 6.
The idea is that you can't do even a fraction of what you could do previously.
Gains goblin. Gotta stay ahead of that shit, once they drag you down you’re “not the person they fell in love with” and leave you/cheat. Always look ready to leave and slam other b***hes the next day.
You did it to yourself, you let the gains goblins put their spell on you
>crazy spells
After spending 2.5 years trying to help/ save a bpd girl I hate to be the one to tell you but it's not ever gonna get better unless she wants to get better.
Get out brother, mine took a full year st the gym and therapy just to return back to my baseline. So in short, 3 years down the drain
The opposite ironically, being in a loving relationship decreases test. It's why I mog everyone at my gym
Only if you sniff her knickers before lifts
GFs are gains goblins
... or so I've heard (34yo khv reporting in)
El abominacion
I refuse to believe this wasn't stage and that wasn't a man in a costume, uncanny valley shit when that thing was twerking
Eddie Murphy's comeback role
DRR DRR DRR
I imagine it has to since having a girlfriend is alpha behavior and is healthy for you psychologically - which probably increases your testosterone. It also means that you don't need to jack off and look at porn - which also increases testosterone. Being an incel just doesn't seem like it would be good for your testosterone levels since you'll be depressed and miserable and feel like a lonely failure.
I am recently new into getting a girlfriend guys, i'm 32 and have been with tons of women but never an actual relationship. Now I finally have one and im thinking its getting serious eventhough she is much younger than me (18). How do I go best about this? I havent really worked out alot in the past year cause i got kinda depressed but she makes me happy but sometimes I still have this "what am I doing this for".
Do I lift to become more attractive for her and so I can become strong or to protect her?
Please help me get into the right mindset
>18 yo daddy issues bpd bawd
>making her your gf and not just a frickbuddy
wtf are you doing Black person, also it’s not really something to brag about
She doesnt have bpd she is actually highly intelligent, finished highschool and college earlier and is now going to uni in few months.
She does have daddy issues probably, but idk, i have dated alot of girls, also girls with actual bpd who were 25+ or even 30+ but it just isnt for me.
With her I have great chemistry and she is like exactly my type
Serious: you risk burning your last good dating years on a girl who will inevitably “find herself” in her mid 20s or find out she needs a “bawd phase” because she got serious too young or some other woman bullshit. Which is fine for her mid 20s.
Meanwhile you’re approaching 40 now and the dating pool has shrunk to a puddle and it’s full of fat women with kids who have given up.
I know it seems like you lucked out and you will probably have some years of bliss with this girl feeling like it’s real love.
Is that worth losing your serious chance at a relationship before it’s just pure desperation not to be alone when you’re old? That’s not a rhetorical question, I can’t say. But you should be aware. It’s easy if you look good to bridge that age gap. Gets harder through her mid 20s and then 30s when she still has options and you have none.
This is a possible scenario, so what? Ruin the chance of a lifetime with a hot 18yr old girl who you have a good connection with just so you can hope you can redo it with someone who just happens to be 25 and has already have this 'bawd phase' ? What if you dont find that one? I dont know dude, ive been alone most of my life. If I can have some years together with someone i really like i'd pick that
Are you a 30yo, divorced mum of three? "Cause you sure as hell sound like one...
>Which is fine for her mid 20s.
Lmao that's what women tell themselves, then they're burned out roasties trying to squeeze out one kid on 35 year old ovaries
Pump a kid into her
lol she isnt ready and me neither, by the time im 42 she is 28 so I still got 10 years to decide what to do
No, you absolute moron. At 18 she is at peak fertility, every son you have with her now will be a Chad, every daughter a Stacy. Use that opportunity.
not taking the risk both of us arent ready and im not looking into a shit life and bringing a kid into it where 2 people do not want it
she already had her bawd phase when she was 16 she met with guys in the backseat of their cars and shit now she is just my little bawd
Well if you can convince her to avoid most of the developmental shit of a woman in her early 20's, good for you. But you said she has daddy issues and is going to uni in a few months.... yeah, said that last statement out loud to yourself
uni here in yurop is just dayschool, no sleeping over far away like in the usa
she already talks about wanting to spend a night in the week her and she is leaving clothes and shit so i think she wants to move in
>Already had her bawd phase at 18
You mean she has bad sex with like 3 men one of whom she lost her virginity to. That's literally the default for most average to decent looking women who can't land a Chad. My advice is to get the frick out of the City now before she starts going out with her girlfriends and getting eye raped 400 times a night maybe one of those nights after you get into an argument about "being at different places" or some other woman bullshit.
Break up with her moron.
No, you need to secure your future with her so she doesn't get corrupted into a bawd phase. My 18yr old gf when I was 21 did exactly that. She liked me a lot, but all of her friends and even her fricking mom told her "settling down at your age is so early! You have soooooo much of the world to see (more wieners to service)"
he gave you the right answer. you want her to be happy and loyal and feminine you need to put babies in her.
CUM
In the beginning, yes
But after a while it's the opposite, women are gains goblins
honestly it is give and take. test boost from sexoo but also having to skip trainings to attend some BS with her family or getting into bad lazing habits might kill your gains.
When I was younger and couldn't limit my exposure to my gfs (the amount of time we spend together/what we eat/how much attention I give) they used to be the worst gains goblins.
These days my gf is usually my 4th concern after my work, fitness and recovery, and frens. I really just see her 3-4 times a week and it feels ideal.
Just don't make a girl your priority kids.
t. 30yo
who?
nta but I think she's a Chinese wigger that goes by dollfeva on IG
I believe she is Chinese.
my gf is chinese but looks different
She is some sort of wannabe pop star idk
https://www.youtube.com/@dadoll7618
you the type of dude to think israelites are just white people, get your act together and start learning to optimize your ethnicity spotting game
not even kidding, your life and nation depends on it
a chinese wigger is not a wigger but a chigger. chinese nword not white nword
Look at you trying to act big but you wont even say Black person, you Black person homosexual.
My girlfriend mostly makes me feel like shit.
>Does having a girlfriend increase gains and testosterone?
ehh it's mixed
my wife likes watching me work out in my home gym (it's kind of open to the living room, so she watches while reading on the couch)
so I get to work out pretty often as she even encourages me
but then we go out on date nights and I eat way to much bad food
or sometimes you just have not much time and have to prioritize - my wife always comes first there, so I lose regularity
but i'm 100% sure that getting mired daily, by the person you love, is a big testosterone boost
and one hell of a motivation to continue