Ever try to pickup chicks at the gym? what's your best approach?
I think you only get 1 chance at it, and if you frick up you can't ever do it again or go to that gym
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Ever try to pickup chicks at the gym? what's your best approach?
just dont
if they are hitting on you its one thing but interrupting some chick to hit on her is not a great idea
Compliment their squat form
i asked a girl out but she got flustered and said she had plans that night and her phone was in the lockers
i was like ok i'll ask you next time i see you
>don't ask her next time i see her because it seems desperate
that was it. i'm happy i went for it though
>>don't ask her next time i see her because it seems desperate
YOU FOOL
Womyn like men who pursue them in a non-raepy way, it shows confidence and builds rapport. If she gives you a hard no, then you know to stop for real
this
hard nos are super obvious and that's when you quit
ok thanks for the advice, i might see her today and ask her again
If digits you WILL get your dick sucked by this b***h
Reminder that 5 sets of talking to girls is an important excercise to incorporate into your routine
the hard part is finding a place with a bunch of girls you can talk to on a consistent basis, might be worth it to just never ask out a few girls so you have some "girl friends" to socialize with occasionaly
Ntayrt but I added a mentally ill foid from here on Disc for this exact purpose. Ez passive social exp and she gives me advice and useful criticism from a foid perspective. Just don't simp and NEVER give them a dime
yeah i'm basically trying to become a PUA but i'm stuck at the beginning phase
need to suck it up and just talk to a few girls every day to train
>the hard part is finding a place with a bunch of girls you can talk to on a consistent basis
fortunately this is not a problem for me
>might be worth it to just never ask out a few girls so you have some "girl friends" to socialize with occasionaly
not sure about this, at least not until i start fricking girls regularly. i only see women as sex objects at the moment
it's over...
>most of the guys on here need to ACTUALLY LIFT before they try cold approaching
this is very important
i found that lifting helps a lot with confidence/posture/being calm and I'm still a DYEL
>dubs
It's only just begun
yeah i'm thinking we're back
>i asked a girl out but she got flustered and said she had plans that night and her phone was in the lockers
>i was like ok i'll ask you next time i see you
You do know she hella lied to you. When have you ever seen a woman without her phone, and if she had headphones on she had to be playing music from her phone.
Anyways if a woman she says she already had plans she is trying to let you down nicely. She can always make time for you. If she really wanted to go out with you she would have 1, gotten her phone from the locker, and 2 made time for your date.
Please don't. She tried to let you down nicely and you'll only come off as "the gym creep"
It is that simple if you're a normal person with an attractive face
I've found that if a girl in the gym tries to casually talk to me and I screw it up she'll never bother looking at me again.
They are very strict.
I've gotten like 5 numbers past 3 months their dying to get approached. Just say hey don't think I've seen you here before and introduce urself
They are
>I've gotten like 5 numbers past 3 months their dying to get approached.
I mean that's not really a lot, how many girls have you actually approached
most of the guys on here need to ACTUALLY LIFT before they try cold approaching
Actual autist here, can you unironically give me a play-by-play greentext example of how one of these conversations goes?
cold approaching in public is ultra nightmare mode for autists
you should just talk to classmates or girls at work (don't outright hit on chicks at work just try to small talk them)
if you don't go to college or something like that where there is a fertile bed of girls to talk to I don't really know how to help you tbh
if you don't lift then fricking lift a good physique is cheat mode and it WILL take you like 2 years to have a good physique so start NOW Black person
I used to be IST by normalgay standards before the ~~*lockdown*~~, been slowly building my fuhzeek back up but I'm still friendless with no game
This one literally happen yesterday. The gym was dead which helps bc too many ppl gets flustered
I waited till she walked to the cubby storage to grab her jacket as she was about to leave and literally just walked up to her and said hey dont think I've seen u here before do u come here lots she said yea sometimes. She ran Hella on the treadmill before so I said well I can confeditalty say u can outrun me (obv she couldn't) and then I introduced my name asked her what she's up to rest of weekend and if I can grab ur # she said yea.
Another one few weeks ago we had the same all black fit on I go up to her hey quit stealing my fit. She was tall too so after I said short kings don't stand a change she laughed then asked for her #.
>be me
>working out
>woman starts a conversation
>try to respond
>interrupted with I HAVE A BOYFRIEND
I don't talk to women anymore.
I will fricking snap and end up strangling one.
>"I have a boyfriend"
>"cool, anyway..."
I was a test, anon.
>observational_humor.exe
>ask what they're up to that weekend
>ask for number
It can't be this simple
this works at an astoundingly low rate
even if a girl likes you trying to set something up that quickly with a chick who's never seen you before is the highest possible bar to set for yourself
Dude u ask a chick what she likes in a guy 7/10 times she's guna say confidence.
that doesn't go against what I said
She doesn't need to like u yet? As long as u don't give off creep vibes she will give it just bc she's happy she got all ready and dragged herself to the gym and got acknowledged for it
>hot girl comes up to you
>makes a funny joke
>asks what you're up to this weekend
>asks for your number
>no way gay
I don't understand what could possibly make you say no unless you're just a complete c**t or an actual gay. Why do women do this?
>this LITERALLY NEVER happens to men
>this happens to women on a weekly possibly daily to multiple-times-a-day basis
>>ask what they're up to that weekend
Disgusting. Observational humor is based
I don't try to pick up women because I have a gf but I compliment the ladies at the front desk and try to make them laugh and stuff just because.
A girl approached ME today , she asked about competing, I gave her hard eye contact and she kept looking away all flustered. I wasn’t nervous but I did ask her how her workout was going and after she told me I gave her a small response and we continued about our business. We kept looking at each other throughout the workout but I never got the chance to approach her again to talk some more because I was busy lol. Also I got another gym girls number and we’ve been texting on and off for a few days , my interactions with her have been pretty good I got to know her and her interests and likes , but I think I texted her too much and maybe seemed needy. I’m going to start ignoring her cold Turkey , maybe she pissed me off with her slow replies.
there are no attractive women at my gym except one who comes in with her boyfriend