Fat GF

How to get my gf to be motivated to lose the belly fat she has similar to pic?
I'm don't have the longest dick, so the fat make having sex difficult.
She wouldn't tell me her weight, but I think it about 165 lbs or so.
In order to lose weight she need to eat less than 1300 Cal/day, And I don't see how this can be done, more so because of her sweet addiction, and her enabling friends.

  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Looks like the architect's going from the Twin Towers to the One World Trade Center.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Did you say lose?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, her fat roll make it hard to try different positions, or even reach full insertion.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm don't have the longest dick, so the fat make having sex difficult.
    So you blame something that is completely your fault on your gf, wanting to destroy her self worth and drive her to unhealthy diets? She’s be much better off with someone with a big dick that isn’t trying to gaslight her

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This. Every girl (of every size) deserves a 7.5in at the very minimum.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    First actually let her know it's a deal breaker for you. If it's NOT a deal breaker and you're OK with continuing the relationship if she stays fat, just would prefer otherwise, than give up, she'll know and won't lose weight.

    Then get her into lifting and gym. Show her some insta thots squatting heavy for the glutes and convince her she could look like them. If her TDEE is low this is easier than only diet. I had a fat coworker whose boyfriend got her into lifting, and once she got into she actually went out of her way to eat healthy to maximize her gains, she ended up looking amazing.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >If her TDEE is low this is easier than only diet
      How so?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Because the calories from exercise will be a higher portion of her TDEE than they would be if she's a fat tall dude, and it will leave more room in her diet so it can be adjusted slowly while still seeing progress

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Because the calories from exercise will be a higher portion of her TDEE than they would be if she's a fat tall dude
          How much workout would she need?
          I've calculated her TDEE based on BMR.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I hate fat gfs, dont be afraid to lose that shit hog. Tell her to dump the weight or get dumped. A simple Y/N situation, no point in arguing with a fatty.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Tell her to dump the weight or get dumped.
      This. I am an architect but if a girl doesn't qualify for you, leave her. Don't be desperate.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I had an overweight gf once. She was skinny and hot as fuck before I met her, she put on weight to avoid male attention, some weird control thing in her mind. Anyway, I never told her I went to the gym, I told her how I'd often go to the pub with my mates. One day she said to me

    >anon, you drink so much beer, how do you have a 6 pack?

    I told her I usually go to the gym after work to dick around for an hour, I didn't make a huge fuss about it. Anyway, after a couple months, my she noticed my gains

    >anon, your arms are getting huge

    This was just a pump because I started going gym before meeting up with her. So she atsks me one day if i thought she was fat and if I'd be more attracted to her if she lost weight. I told her she's beautiful and the important thing is if she is happy with herself (you shouldn't loft for someone else!) So a couple weeks later she tells me she got a gym membership, again, I didn't make a big deal, just said asked a couple questions about the gym and what she thought.

    So she started dropping weight pretty quickly after that. I broke up with her anyway because she was a pain in the ass. But my point is, you can't force her, she will hate you if she thinks you find her unattractive. Guide her to her own choice and motivation. Maybe leave your phone unlocked on the bed when you go to piss and have the Instagram of some fitness chick open, but don't say anything about it when she sees it. If she brings it up, just say that girl has a good core exercise you're wanting to try out or some bullshit. If she's attracted to you, she'll want to be attractive for you.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >pain in the ass
      How?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Well there were multiple reasons. She had an idea of me in her head that didn't align with the actual me, so she kept trying to change me in ways I didn't want, such as cut down my drinking. She was also a preachy vegan that kept trying to convert me. On top of that she had these shitty untrained dogs that got in the way of the relationship because she had to let them sleep in the bed with us. Also she likely had BPD on reflection. I didn't like how she showed me off to her friends like a trophy, and essentially tried to get me to do "tricks" on command so her friends could witness what she had been telling them previously.

        But ultimately she just didn't accept me for me, I accepted her for her and never asked her to change. We just weren't on the same wavelength and I ultimately realised she was making me miserable, causing me to lose my identity, and causing me to lose my self respect. It's hard because I'm a social worker, so I have almost infinite patience for people, but because of that I have a tendency to let people close to me wall over me and I don't set boundaries.

        Thanks for reading my blog.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >vegan
          >fat
          How

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You can be a fat vegan. Oreos are vegan. Heaps of sugary desserts are vegan. I don't know how exactly she did it, like I said, she was overweight before I met her, so how she did it I don't know. I'm not talking fupa, she just filled out like a linebacker. But she had perfect f cup tits and was 5 foot, I'm a sucker for big tits, or biggish tits on a small frame.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Indian posters please leave

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    call her thick and watch her explode
    >WTF IM NOT THICK OKAY lmao

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