FEELS BAR

It´s Friday. The feels bar is open. Come on in. What can I get you? Anything on your mind?

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Whiskey.
    Currently bored af in a voting committee, it’ll be the same thing tomorrow. It’s late night lifting for me today. At least it’s pretty chill…

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >voting committee
      Tell me you're not in Donbass, anon

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Split with ex 5 days ago.
    No job post uni
    feel like shit

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Same. I wake up to a nightmare everyday. I want to die

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      More time to lift
      Happiness comes from framing your context correctly
      Your gf was probably a whore retard anyway
      Go hit arms for 3 hours

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >What can I get you?
    Hot choccy milk
    >Anything on your mind?
    Aggy circa 2017

    Also afl grand final party today with people i haven't seen for about 6 months. I'm indifferent to footy but should b sociable cos I'm a shutin when not at tafe. Kinda nervous. Its usually fine when there but I feel pressure to not seem like a weak fuckup leading up to gatherings which often results in me not sleeping.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I have crippling fear of my generation being forsaken and driven into poverty. I am extremely cocky from my dad and mom's genetics equally but also have extreme doubt and need for approval right down to believing some things if no one else has "proven" to me it is a good argument. I get defensive whenever anyone says something about Gen Z, I'm filled with desire to prove myself and my interests and abilities to any and all people including almost-strangers probably because I had no friends as a child, and I'm horrified of making friends and seeing them destroy themselves whether with medication like fentanyl, or hormones in hormone replacement therapy.

      case in point, didn't Agatha start calling herself trans as a non-binary person?

      https://i.imgur.com/ndmDqV3.jpg

      Since August 5th I’ve had
      >cat I grew up with passed away at age 20
      >apartment broken and entered into where I got stabbed
      >lost what friends I had from the b&e because I went fully catatonic for a good month
      >girl who told me she loved me disappeared from my life
      >still expect her texts even though I haven’t talked to her in weeks and surely is with someone else
      >lost job because of genetic condition, may even affect future career
      >best friend killed himself at start of pandemic and it’s only hitting me now
      >sit alone, friendless and family-less at age 27 typing this out listening to music in the ER because I accidentally OD’d on the Xanax I used to try and sleep through my night terrors which I’ve had nightly since 23 due to trust issues because of shitty traumas (cheating girlfriends, lying abusive parents)

      I feel like a pussy typing this out because I’m sure people have it far worse on here but every second I am not sedated I crave death. Even after receiving an important surgery I’ve been waiting on for years that has drastically increased my QOL, I already feel as if I’ve checked out. Someone call me an ungrateful gay so I can man up and move on. Also, does psychiatry actually help or is it wasting my time? I am so apathetic bros…

      alright yeah this fella has it worse than me, if it makes you feel better my dog died that i've had since i was 5 ('05) died on my 22nd birthday and the cat I've had around since I was 6 got killed by a car because she couldn't hear it, oh and the only girl I was trying to form a connection with hasn't responded to me in probably months, lol.
      don't forever sleep yourself bro, I hope picrel can at least make you and all the other bros in this thread laugh.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It doesn’t make me feel better anon, I’m sorry you’re going through that. Hang in there 🙁

        Hey, anon. I don't know, if you will ever read this, or if we will ever meet. But now, we sit together in our pain through flickering monitors. I am the same age as you, and have known loneliness and death all my life. The last ten years of sorrow and regret have torn my soul apart, so I can understand when you write that you feel apathetic. I have no answers, but the believe that we have to be here in this moment, in this pain. From this point of losing everything, we will reclaim everything. I will stand up again, never surrender, never again betray my purpose. Please, join me in doing so.

        I love you bro. I’m here for you. Your words are eloquently accurate. I empathize and we will both succeed.

        >try and sleep through my night terrors which I’ve had nightly since 23
        its ok bro, I had night terrors for a long time and couldn't even sleep with an uncovered head at night. I would wake up in the middle of the night and check my whole apartment for intruders, ghosts or whatever paranoid shit I had on my mind. It goes away but at the moment back then I assumed this was normal and its but but you can work through it. Just don't despair.

        I hope you’re right anon. Thank you for the encouraging words.

        https://i.imgur.com/hJdSFjj.jpg

        Jesus Christ dude.

        Plz post pic of your late cat, Imma drink a beer in honor to him. And another one for you anon. Best of luck

        I’ll drink one for both you and him as well when I roam around when I’m out. This is the last picture I ever took with him, right before I got robbed.

        Best of luck to all my bros in here… truly appreciate you

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dry gin please.
    Traveling to another country to meet some intelligent and hot chick who's traveling and sends me loads of lovely messages and saucy texts, and is waiting for me to arrive to have sex, but then is off for near a year and probably won't see her again.
    I have also just started to date another girl (first chick told me to date before asking me to come and meet her abroad) and she won't be happy if this goes anywhere, and she finds out I'm flying to another country to bang another chick.
    Still, it's nice to have the female attention but I'd gf that first chick if it was somehow feasible.
    Also in anti depressants and feel much better but waking up with night sweats alot and getting really zapped of energy sometimes where I don't even want to speak.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Great show

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        jesus christ that's ramsay bolton

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Since August 5th I’ve had
    >cat I grew up with passed away at age 20
    >apartment broken and entered into where I got stabbed
    >lost what friends I had from the b&e because I went fully catatonic for a good month
    >girl who told me she loved me disappeared from my life
    >still expect her texts even though I haven’t talked to her in weeks and surely is with someone else
    >lost job because of genetic condition, may even affect future career
    >best friend killed himself at start of pandemic and it’s only hitting me now
    >sit alone, friendless and family-less at age 27 typing this out listening to music in the ER because I accidentally OD’d on the Xanax I used to try and sleep through my night terrors which I’ve had nightly since 23 due to trust issues because of shitty traumas (cheating girlfriends, lying abusive parents)

    I feel like a pussy typing this out because I’m sure people have it far worse on here but every second I am not sedated I crave death. Even after receiving an important surgery I’ve been waiting on for years that has drastically increased my QOL, I already feel as if I’ve checked out. Someone call me an ungrateful gay so I can man up and move on. Also, does psychiatry actually help or is it wasting my time? I am so apathetic bros…

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Depression is a medical condition and the only treatment known to help is suicide

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >lost what friends I had from the b&e because I went fully catatonic for a good month

      Did they know you were catatonic? Did you try and reach out to them?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        No, I couldn’t because I was catatonic. I don’t mean that in a douchey way, I’m just slowly coming out of it now. I barely remember august. I personally don’t believe they were my real friends, I would never act like that towards someone I cared about. It is what it is. More upset about the girl saying “I’ll always be here for you” and then look where that ended up too. Do people really just leave when things get tough or is this a selfish perspective to take?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          The way I see it is if someone is actually serious about seeing you through, they'd stick with you when the times are tough. Sounds like you only lost people who would leave you when the times are tough. Keep moving, and treasure the people you do find who stick up for you, and don't be afraid to stick your neck out for someone you'd want to be there for too. Some will take it for granted, and others won't forget it. The trick is to identify which is which.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you need a therapist. unironically i found one as life was falling apart. she was a total forgetful retard most weeks but she had very good training and gave me some very helpful perspective over the course of several months. you gotta find a professional listener to speak to about this. even if you dont wanna talk, you SHOULD talk about all that shit you typed up. theres no way to keep that all bottled up and not become a wreck. good luck friend.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        The way I see it is if someone is actually serious about seeing you through, they'd stick with you when the times are tough. Sounds like you only lost people who would leave you when the times are tough. Keep moving, and treasure the people you do find who stick up for you, and don't be afraid to stick your neck out for someone you'd want to be there for too. Some will take it for granted, and others won't forget it. The trick is to identify which is which.

        https://i.imgur.com/kkkeSvX.jpg

        Water please.

        In two days I'll move to uni, away from my family. I'm staying on the campus, with around 9 other people. The ones I've spoke to (5 of them) are all women. I've had a look at the gym there, very nice place. I've checked out the societies, one of them has you go travel via bus with the group on a hike every Sunday.

        I worked hard as fuck to get the grades to get into my favorite university, and I'll be damned if I don't make the most of the opportunities I get. My dad and his friends say they wish they had the chance I have now. I will walk out of this university with a Masters, a tomboy girlfriend (this was actually a factor in choosing the uni) and a better body.

        I am fucking MOTIVATED.

        If your friends leave you when you go through tough times, they aren't proper friends. I am terribly sorry for your loss, and truly hope you get through this.

        Thank you lads I appreciate it, I will look into it. I wish you all the best

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Water please.

      In two days I'll move to uni, away from my family. I'm staying on the campus, with around 9 other people. The ones I've spoke to (5 of them) are all women. I've had a look at the gym there, very nice place. I've checked out the societies, one of them has you go travel via bus with the group on a hike every Sunday.

      I worked hard as fuck to get the grades to get into my favorite university, and I'll be damned if I don't make the most of the opportunities I get. My dad and his friends say they wish they had the chance I have now. I will walk out of this university with a Masters, a tomboy girlfriend (this was actually a factor in choosing the uni) and a better body.

      I am fucking MOTIVATED.

      If your friends leave you when you go through tough times, they aren't proper friends. I am terribly sorry for your loss, and truly hope you get through this.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >does psychiatry actually help
      Helps if you have a good doc, and if you go with the purpose to overcoming your current situation. The doc will be in a better situation to help you if you're honest about everything. But don't spend too much time absorbed in the past, It doesn't help, It's only once you change the conversation to your future when you'll start to make real progress.

      Also, don't fuck around with xanax, talk to the doc about getting off it. If you just need something, look into gabapentin, a friend recommended it to me and it helped me allot. It's still somewhat of a sedative but It didn't put my mind in a dark place like benzos did, and it's much easier to get off of. It's sometimes prescribed off-label for anxiety, luckily my doctor was open to trying it. Took it for about a year and been off it for about 3 years now.

      Hope that you realize you can overcome this.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Also, does psychiatry actually help or is it wasting my time? I am so apathetic bros…
      It does. Talking with a pro, and getting on meds (temporarily as a crutch) can work wonders. It's not over until it's over. You're gonna make it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >try and sleep through my night terrors which I’ve had nightly since 23
      its ok bro, I had night terrors for a long time and couldn't even sleep with an uncovered head at night. I would wake up in the middle of the night and check my whole apartment for intruders, ghosts or whatever paranoid shit I had on my mind. It goes away but at the moment back then I assumed this was normal and its but but you can work through it. Just don't despair.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hey, anon. I don't know, if you will ever read this, or if we will ever meet. But now, we sit together in our pain through flickering monitors. I am the same age as you, and have known loneliness and death all my life. The last ten years of sorrow and regret have torn my soul apart, so I can understand when you write that you feel apathetic. I have no answers, but the believe that we have to be here in this moment, in this pain. From this point of losing everything, we will reclaim everything. I will stand up again, never surrender, never again betray my purpose. Please, join me in doing so.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous
    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Jesus Christ dude.

      Plz post pic of your late cat, Imma drink a beer in honor to him. And another one for you anon. Best of luck

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Bro the highs in life are only appreciated because of the lows. You’re young and things get better. You just have to keep on keepin’ on. Get off the drugs and decide to start living your life. You can do this.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Hispaniced rum please boss
    Failed to stop COOMING again. I don't even watch porn I just want to stop jacking off. I went 7 days without nutting but I ended up edging a bunch on day 4-7. I don't know how to fix my coom brain, it always happens right before I go to sleep or right after I wake up, when I have 10-15 minutes to spare.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      your test spikes high on day 5 after not coming. thats why you get antsy after 4 days of doing good. when you feel a behavioral trigger like right before going to sleep, you gotta replace that with some other thing. read easypeasymethod. youre doing great though dude you went 7 days and you arent looking at porn even? thats most of the nofap battle you got this

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >WHINY gay GENERAL

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >What can I get you?
    Whiskey Rye, Neat.
    >Anything on your mind?
    Give away the stone
    Let the oceans take and transmute
    This cold and fated anchor
    Give away the stone
    Let the waters kiss and transmute
    These leaden grudges into gold
    Let go, let go, let go, let go

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    6 pack PBR

    how the fuck do people meet women past college? it feels like i missed out on my last chance to find a relationship without resorting to dating apps/social media where i have a low success rate. it really feels like its only downhill from here in the romance department, even if im otherwise making improvements. theres no where to meet women unless you have an existing friend circle with single women in it, bars you need a friend circle to go. tinder only works for 0.001% of men. i may have to buy a mail order bride when i hit 35 or something

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >tinder only works for 0.001%

      WRONG. I have banged 17 (only 1 fatty) women mostly off of Tinder/bumble since getting on after a divorce a year ago and I'm not even close to 0.001%. Most men are absolute retards that have no idea what they're doing apparantly. I am not alone in this.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'll have a Whiskey sour please.

        Did you download the app recently? I used to get matches when I newly downloaded the app/made an account, but after a year of inactivity I get nothing.

        GIOYC:
        I recently asked a girl I was really into out and was rejected. Made me suddenly feel way lonelier after having not dated for a year or so. Now it's distracting me from my PhD studies and I kind of feel like shit. I know I'm not unattractive (slightly above average, like a 6/10), and I'm successful (24 year old PhD student, have money saved up, am an ex-college varsity track athlete, etc), but I can't shake this feeling that I cannot find a worthwhile date.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    checked. and water plz.

    Monday of this week I drank for the first time in 2 weeks and it kind of sucked. I wish I had more friends who didn't drink but also weren't annoying gays. The friends I have who don't drink have barely any of the same interests as me. Some of them are fun but like 1/3 to half of them are such irritating little gays it makes me not want to hang with them at all. The ones who do drink only like to drink and not do any of the other fun shit.

    I have a wedding in a few weeks that I'm the best man in. I have to write a speech for that obviously. Issue is, I have grown so far apart from the guy that's getting married. I don't know what to say in my speech, especially because I don't know their relationship that well and in the last few months I've realized I don't even like the bride that much.

    I miss my ex. I want to go somewhere else and start over, but I'm 30 with very little work experience.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The last two years have been more than unfortunate but hope has knocked on my door once again brehs. After a stormy two years and even stormier two weeks I have been uplifted by an indescribable feeling of hope. The persistence has paid off. Love has paid off. Hang in there my brothers, hope dies last.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Water.

    Anon that's been reflecting the past few weeks. Feeling a lot better now. What I figured was that I never had any real role model in my life so of course it's going to end up meh. The good news is that I did save plenty of money.

    In retrospect, what I should've done be more confident as a teenager, learn to cook and do basic stuff, get my own place at 18-22, be more social, etc. It feels so basic in retrospect at 28. But granted, rent alone would've cost me hours of work. Maybe I'm just being idealistic in retrospect, who knows.

    Anyway, starting uni in October, I've started building a chad mindset for myself, it's gonna be great.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >get it off your chest.
    ok.
    >what would you like?
    Whiskey Sour on the rocks

    I'm being chased by a 20 yr old African Muslim girl I messed around with a few months ago. Worst part is that her family knows and is supportive. She's cute, but I just can't...I'd totally bang her, but she wants a white bf and there is no way that is gonna be me. God, I wish I'd never have let her touch my pecker.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Just let her rape you

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What type of African? To this day some of the best fucks I ever had were from this Somali Muslim girl I was seeing casually at Uni. Absolute perfect little black body with perky tits.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Nigerian. She's cute, no doubt, but I'm in my 30's and her and her family have a lot more than fucking on their mind. My risk/benefit analysis has concluded that the juice ain't worth the squeeze.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >whiksey sour on the rocks
      Bartender here. Normally I say everyone should drink whatever they want but damn your drink order is fucking gay--I wanna help you.

      First of all--don't ever order something 'on the rocks' unless you are getting a martini or straight wiskey/other spirit pour. Most drinks are assumedly going to have ice so it sounds really cringe to specify in this case.

      Second--I really encourage you to branch out and try some more spirit forward cocktails. Whiskey sours or most sours are for really inexpierenced drinkers/chicks. It is really worth branching out and trying an actual adult beverage that arent spirit + juice.

      Otherwise fuck what anyone thinks and enjoy the baby drink. Who am I to stop you.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Most drinks are assumedly going to have ice
        YOU THINK THAT SHIT GROWS ON TREES?
        CONSERVE

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >your drink order is gay.

        I don't care. Chicks make fun of my drinks all the time. They still have sex with me though.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I met a girl last weekend and she is really amazing. We had two dates so far and great sex on both. I am falling super hard for her, like I havent for anyone since im a teenager. Im really happy about it, but at the same time also quite worried, because it makes me very vulnerable and I made very bad dating experiences in the past. Im scared that im moving too fast and maybe for her its just a fling, although i have the feeling she's falling for me too. Also she is super hot, by far the hottest girl i have ever been with. So basically I feel like its too good to be true and Im looking for the catch

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Be careful not to be clingy and get attached too fast. At the same time be honest about your intention and don't push her away out of fear

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks for the advice

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Find a 2nd one to have sex with while you're still seeing #1. That will frame her (and you) in the proper perspective. A man with options is a man without need.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not going to make it. The buy/rent prices for houses is this country are giving me so much stress thats it's fucking with my gains

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I want to kill myself, any lifts for it?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      1rm neck rope extension

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Goebbels was suicidally depressed before he found his purpose serving him people. You'll make it

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        *his
        Please don't let the typo detract from what I'm trying to tell you. You have worth and you have a purpose, you just have to find it.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    PBR

    Dealing with PTSD and coming down from a manic phase.(bipolar)
    I have a lot on my mind but nothing at the same time.
    I been finding myself getting trigger by simple things.
    98% of the time I can talk my way out of it but I've had to take time off work to deal with it. (used all my sick days)
    I put some of my goals on hold till I deal with the bad days.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Metoo. I haven't had a manic phase in months though. I miss it, I never felt more alive. I'm not too depressed though, I think I'm just going back to normal.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'll take a water for now, OP

    >Tinder whale caught on that I won't actually date her, sick of "being used to masterbate"
    >Feeling complacent with current job, want to find something more challenging, but finding it difficult to make a move
    >Still live with the rents, they're fine, I did get a preapproval loan for a mortgage but I may hold off until the fed chills

    I'm ok, so much to be grateful for, but I'm trying to make some moves and grow up a bit. Finding it tough to break out of a comfy routine.

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't know how to change my outlook on life.

    Millions of people live in awful conditions and struggle everyday, yet they manage to be happy with their lives. Millions of parents make life-changing decisions or give up their lives entirely so their children can have the opportunity to live a better life.

    I'm incredibly fortunate to have the opportunities I do and live the life I live, but I can't seem to find enjoyment in or feel a sense of fulfillment from what I do. I don't know what to do, anon.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What is a good opportunity to you? Were any of the doors presented to you the doors you wanted to walk through?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >What is a good opportunity to you?
        What I mean by "opportunity" is likely most similar to how my father described it to me: An opportunity is a sort of door, big or small, on the path of making something of yourself; living a life which not only do you enjoy and find fulfilling, but one in which you can help others and improve the world as a whole.

        My second paragraph tied it to the idea that there are many people out there who don't even get the chance to walk through these doors, regardless of whether they would take advantage of it or not, due to the poor conditions in which they've been born into / live in now.

        >Were any of the doors presented to you the doors you wanted to walk through?
        I think I've just done things to do them for much of my life. I agree with what my father says and I feel that it's a good way to live one's life, but I don't think the word "want" describes how I feel about doing the things that that path entails. But even disregarding those ideas entirely, I'm not sure what i "want" to do in life at all.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Some people are just happy knowing that the doors are open for them at any point and that they won't have to scramble for any one of them.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have imposter syndrome about literally everything in my life. I got into a sick masters program through good grades and I feel like I don't belong. I messed things up with the last and first chick I dated because I had a spout of horrible insecurity where I thought she found out who I really am and I got clingy/jealous/childish. I recently went to a new gym and felt completely out of place. I look better and lift more than 95% of guys there and am one of the few doing actual lifts, but somehow I feel out of place. Like I'm just pretending to be ripped and strong.
    Idk how to stop these thought patterns. I pretty much made it but somehow, deep down, I feel like I'm living a lie that could be exposed at any moment.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Your post hits me hard. But if I may ask some questions.

      Have you ever asked yourself the nature of this fraudulence?
      Who are you on the outside? How do you present yourself to others? What do you want them thinking of you?

      I also wonder if you're only addressing your image, and not your being. What is it about your being that you are ashamed of?

      I'm not the best at articulating myself anon, but I hope my questions are making sense.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I have two core issues that are connected. I feel insecure about my looks and that I've never had a gf in 27 years. I know I'm decent looking because I had chicks hit on me, get mired frequently and managed to have sex with 2 different women (one fat, one hot af) with basically 0 initiative on my part. I also know that never having a gf is mostly from my own inaction and having horrible social anxiety that I only got under control recently.
        These days I do present myself as some kind of chad, because on the surface that's what I am. I'm IST as fuck, decent looking, good at sports, good at uni, well off parents, lots of friends, active social life etc.
        But as soon as it comes to women I just revert back to my insecure self. I'm afraid that they find out I've never had a relationship and very little sex. That these facts itself make me a loser and that there HAS to be something wrong with me for being in this situation. And that I somehow trick them into finding me attractive and they will laugh at me when they find out "who I really am"

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I think that if she really likes you, she wouldn't actually care about any of that. I think she would care about how insecure you are about never having had a gf in 27 years though.

          How important is having had a gf to you? Is it like you failed to keep up when life passed you by and everyone else got one? Why is it important to you if it is. What do you hope having a gf will do for you that you personally can't do for you?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I know a woman shouldn't care and I wouldn't want to be with someone that takes issues with that anyway. The problem is that in my head them finding out I never had a gf somehow changes their perception of me. That I'm just playing a character of a chad and as soon as the facade breaks they will lose any attraction. This is kinda supported by my limited experience of women I don't know being a lot more attracted to me than chicks that are part of my social circle.

            Well I do believe never having a gf makes me a loser in some sense. It's one of the most principle parts of society. I failed in that aspect and not because I didn't want it.
            In a more practical sense, I do very well on my own. I'm decently happy and emotionally stable. But I know I would be happier with a gf to do things with and of course would like to have sex regularly.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              It sounds to me if I am getting is right is that you feel like you have to be someone you know that you're not in order to get what you want, and that being who you actually are will not get you there. Am I getting warmer? Did I hit the mark? Did I miss entirely?

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              have you trying starting off as the loser? Just no pretense, no appearances. Just saying and doing things off filter? I find relationships have a better chance of happening if you are honest and lay it all out on the table, and provide a realistic, accurate baseline for who you truly are 99% of the time to people.
              Basically ''you get what you see here''.
              Actually relationships who start off with no pretense, or set pre-requirements like character traits which are performative only, are so much easier, and have way more growth potential as everyone much prefers a good ''loser to lover'' story, than a ''cocky asshole to actually crumbling insecure gay'' storyline.

              Maybe try not lying about the goods. Just show up, be who you really are inside, at the costs of filtering the assholes who won't like what they see, but then when you find someone who does, then you'll know they truly like you for who you are, and not some retarded persona you put on the moment you step out the door and go outside.

              Maybe try that. I can't believe it's not a natural thing to people. Like people actually put on masks...wew lad couldn't be me, too much work, too much pressure...

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I was considering if I do dating profiles again, just seeing what would happen if I made myself seem incredibly loserish
                Last time I tried I made "good niceboy" profiles and had a couple results, but nothing worth bragging about
                Thought hard about changing it all to badboy shithead profile and seeing what happens

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You're a lost cause.
                You'd rather be anything than be who you are. God, you must really hate yourself...
                Why? Maybe get to the bottom of that.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                It's not like I was planning on lying about things or my circumstances

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I generally agree with your advice. It's much easier and more natural to just literally be yourself. Being confident goes a long way even if you are a bit autistic.
                But I'm not lying to anybody or putting on a persona. When I'm confident I can be very social and even charismatic.
                My problem is ironically that I just don't act like an incel. Everyone I interact with is extremely surprised I'm not good with women. And that precisely is the problem. I don't lie or deceive women. They just assume I've had plenty of relationships and sex and then inevitably get confronted with the sad reality I spent 27 years single. Like I said, I don't think that's a big deal. I don't want a gf that cares about that. But I see no way around their perception immediately changing because there essentially HAS to be something wrong with me for this to be the case.
                I should also mention I'm a baldfag, so I also look older than 27. And while I got definitely lucky with the rest of my genetics and can pull of being bald, looking even older than I am makes it even more of a hinderance to be in this situation.

                It sounds to me if I am getting is right is that you feel like you have to be someone you know that you're not in order to get what you want, and that being who you actually are will not get you there. Am I getting warmer? Did I hit the mark? Did I miss entirely?

                Essentially yeah. I feel like a person my age and my specific circumstances needs to have relationship experience to get a gf, at least when you are aiming for an attractive, normal chick.

                Thanks for all the advice lads. I know it's not impossible for me. It's just a stupid thought pattern that I always revert to whenever a chick shows interest in me. I know I can overcome this hurdle it's just hard sometimes

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      > I pretty much made it but somehow, deep down, I feel like I'm living a lie that could be exposed at any moment.
      Then own it. Instead of feeling bad for "scamming" people feel good that the "scam" worked. If you can't feel honest at least feel confident.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girl sent me a pic before the shower wearing only a towel. How do i escalate without being too creepy?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Ask her on a date, vibe, you're in. In terms of replying, maybe a shirtless pic or something. Dick pics are seldom received well

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Already been on a date. Im dyel andni dont have an excuse to send her a pic like that. I was thinking saying something about her pocnbit i take 6 hours to come up with decent confident replies.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >creepy
      She knows what she's doing. Show interest by saying something like, "I'm jealous of the towel, you should ditch it and use me instead."

      >That sounds stupid.

      Women are stupid and it will work.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        that's pretty good. Will update on the reply. I didn't mean being sexual would be creepy, but the line between cocky and creepy is a thin one and I take a few hours to find it. I should've let her sleep waiting on my reply but I stupidly rushed it yesterday so it's weird going back to it.
        Tbh she doesn't seem like a super slut, I've only been with 2 of those where one was a ONS and the other let me rub her pussy first time we kissed.
        But I'm trying to not fuck this one up because I fucked up 2 before her and I'm not talking to anyone else.
        I realise you can't care about bitches, but the only way to not care is to have many bitches, but you can't have many bitches if you care in the first place. How do I get out of this mentality?
        It's very hard not to simp when I'm not getting laid and this girls keeps lying on my lap and hugging me.

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw every girl and all the sex just makes me miss Her even more

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Be me, 22 virgin
    >Start a FWB relationship with a classmate during summer (she lives in another city so we only sexted)
    >Since I was coming out from a rejection I didn't want to invest emotionally with someone else
    >Fall in love with her, literally gaslight myself into believing I didn't like her.
    >She comes back to the city, Lose my v-card with her
    >One my best friends passed away and I lose it, shut myself from the world.
    >Two weeks later I'm at her place but her friends are there too, nothing happens we just kiss and she touches my dick under the blankets. She says that she wants me to come next week just the two of us
    >Exactly the next day she tells me she wants something serious but not with me.
    >During the next I analyze my feelings for her, I realized I really like her.
    >Tell her in a text since we rarely see each other at uni.
    >"I never saw you in that way", we keep being friends
    >She keeps inviting me to stuff with her friend group
    >A couple of days later we talked over the phone and "ended" whatever we had. Told her I really like her.
    >Keep talking during the next week by message and the few times we saw each other uni, still a bit if tension
    >Exactly next week she sends me a sexy message, I play along. Nothing happens. I end up super confused and I decided to talk with her best friend (sill wondering if it was the right choice).
    >Her BF gets mad at her for playing with my feelings, tells me to put at stop at her. I did. She apologized.
    >Two days later my former FWB calls me over and asks me if she ever gave me illusions that something serious might happen. I was very sensitive that day because was exactly one month since my friend passed away.
    >Cried over the phone, she tells me we should "take a break" from each other. No messages nor calls, I was no longer invited to her friend hangouts or her place. I literally begged not to do so.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >begging
      >telling her you really like her
      Beta behavior. Gotta act like you don't give a fuck about her. That's obviously what she was attracted to in the first place.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I was at a very sensitive place when she called me, it was the "month anniversary" of my friend's death. I still grieve for him, he was a good lad.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Next week at uni she gets mad because I didn't said "Hi" to her when she greeted me (I was studying and she was a few meters away)
      >I say hi to her friend group and she completely ignores me, not even a glance.
      >I kinda confronted her and said "why don't you say hi". She gets mad saying that she did and I ignored her, I just laughed it off and said I didn't hear her.
      >Next day I'm talking with her best friend about some normie series we both love, she tries to join the conversation.
      >The day after that she sees me and tries to hug me, I just bump fist her. She literally ignores me the entire hour I'm with there (my professor didn't came and I joined her friend group, actually I have a couple of friends there so it's kinda "our friend group".

      I'm confused af with her, she says she doesn't want anything with me and then gets mad at me

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Sucks that you share friends with her, otherwise would just ghost in your situation. Might just be best to just stay friendly, so that it doesn't ruin any relationships with mutual friends.

        >t. friendless autist who knows nothing

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >she says she doesn't want anything with me
        She doesn't.
        >and then gets mad at me
        She still wants to leech you for attention and validation, and gets mad when she can't get it from you (like fist bumping her like a bro, instead of hugging her with desire she won't reciprocate).

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          This 100%. Apathy towards them is the best emotion to have. It protects you and infuriates them.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            The funny part is, that once you’re able to piss her off like this, she’s gonna try and suck your dick haha. Women are funny as shit

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Never cry in front of a women. Never tell a women how much you like her. Never beg In front of women. You are still young so this should be a learning experience for you. Life is not a fairytale. Women are not delicate princesses looking for a prince.

      They want a leader, they want a man that is confident, they want a man that can be aloof and affectionate at the same time.

      Play with her emotions. Piss her off on purpose. Then be affectionate with her. Give her attention and then take it away. Fuck the shit out of her. If you do all these things they will be obsessed with you. They are all the same and respond to the same shit.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Like I said, I was at very very sensitive place, it was the month anniversary of one of my best friend's death and just have ended taking with his mother. I was a mess emotionally when she called. But yeah, you're a completely right. My plan, just for the lols is to be super attentive and simp some days then completely ignore for days just to make her mad.

        >she says she doesn't want anything with me
        She doesn't.
        >and then gets mad at me
        She still wants to leech you for attention and validation, and gets mad when she can't get it from you (like fist bumping her like a bro, instead of hugging her with desire she won't reciprocate).

        Yeah, that's what I'm thinking.

        Sucks that you share friends with her, otherwise would just ghost in your situation. Might just be best to just stay friendly, so that it doesn't ruin any relationships with mutual friends.

        >t. friendless autist who knows nothing

        None of our mutual friends have taken any sides, but surprisingly her best friend and other girl friend of her have started talking with me more since she and I "broke up"

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >simp
          ngmi

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >. I was a mess emotionally when she called
          then don't fucking answer. If you do, say you can't talk now and tell her to call tomorrow, hang up.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Lmfao this is the most incel, middle school shit I’ve ever heard of

        I seriously hope none of you guys do this.

        “some people don’t grow, they just get older”

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          virgin detected. of course if you show weakness she will get the icks. My gf's stepdad once cried infront of her mom when his son got a rare disease and she had a disgusted face while she was doing it

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            If you cry in front of a woman, it's over. Not even remotely joking about this.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I concur

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Classic example of “hurt people hurt people.”

            The only meaningful relationships I’ve had, I’ve been able to open up to them. They love it because it makes them feel special - and it should, that’s what being a partner is about. If I suffered a great loss, my partner should be able to provide comfort and support for me (and I to her). Otherwise you’re hiding parts of yourself and hoping they never surface, which is not a way to live. Face those parts and get over the hardship, don’t pretend it “doesn’t affect you.”

            I hope you’re trolling, or really young. You’ve got a lot to learn about being a partner and a person with integrity.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >relationships
              funny how yours don't last huh

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              35 yo boomer here, together for 12, married for 3.
              NEVER cry and show weakness in front of a woman you want to be/remain attracted to you.
              The female brain is literally wired to be sexually repusled by men who cry.
              The one exception would be crying WITH her, in situations she's already sobbing so you can cry a little bit to empathize with her, but even then you should not cry too overtly.

              Fuck off, relationship garden gnome.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              You're wasting your time here but I appreciate you talking into the void anyways. It's good to know not everyone is completely fucked in the head.

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’m 30 years old and never had a real relationship. I’m not a virgin but it feels like I am. Once women find out I’m actually autistic, they head for the hills.

    I’ve come to the conclusion that I will never be a normal person.

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I feel stuck again. Idk where to start so

    Spent 5 years in a rut and working out of it. Went from panic attacks daily couldn’t leave my house to working, getting a career cert, working a high paying job 7 days a week interacting with hundreds of people, saving and 180’ing my financial situation. I was celibate the whole time, recently got a gf again and after 5 months I ended it. Idk if it’s her or just the relationship but I wasn’t interested. And now I feel hopeless not in a “oh no I kiss my bitch” type of way but more like “what’s the point?”. Like pussy didn’t make me happy. I’ve sat on my ass the last 3 weeks. I have shit to do and can’t find it in me to just get it done. It’s like I don’t care anymore. Pussy was my only motivation as a teen and it’s like me depending on that as a crutch to get shit done didn’t develop discipline in me or something. That’s how it feels.

    I’m broke again, jobless, bitchless, and it’s killing me. I CARE, but my actions aren’t reflective of that.

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ice cold milk for me, please.

    I'm 41. 6 months ago I left my 28 yo fiancé (8 year gf) because she cheated on me... with the boomer Democrat Mayor of the City, I kid you not. They met at paddle tennis class. Yes, I was the one paying for her classes.

    I did not propose/marry her sooner because I always saw signs of her not being trustworthy. I'm happy now, and lifting is the highlight of my day, but I'm so blackpilled on women it physically hurts every time a girl smiles or interacts with me. In my eyes they're all worthless, mindless whores and I don't think there's a single female on Earth that can change my mind about it.

    Is there any Christian monastic order that embraces physical exercise? I'm thinking about checking out of goyworld for real folks.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      How did you find out about her cheating, Anon?
      This could be enlightening to Anons in relationships that are unkowingly being cucked.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I instantly knew she was up to something by the way she was dressing and behaving when she told me she was going "to sleep in at her gf's apartment tonight". I knew she had both her Google account and Whatsapp logged in on her laptop that she always left open at the office/studio I built for her at my house, so I just told her "ok" then patiently checked her Maps history and messages early the next morning. It was all there, the hotel, the nudes and sexy talk, her voice messages confessing (aka bragging) to her friends, etc. Her friends being all so giggly and excited about it, while lying to my face, was very blackpilling by itself.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Christ, anon. That's brutal. Like you said, though, good thing you didn't marry her.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah. I boxed all of her stuff and fedex'd it to her parents house as soon as she confessed and never talked to her again, despite her numerous attempts. By the way, of course she lied and kept on lying when I confronted her about it. The usual progression you see in greentexts:

            >no anon I swear I didn't, I was at X apt I swear!!
            >I never would do something like that honey you know me I swear!
            >Ok, but it was only one kiss
            >Ok I fucked but it was only this one time
            >Ok I fucked him twice but...
            etc

            It wasn't until she understood I had physical proof that she told the truth. It was a whole ordeal of course, my mother was very fond of her and everyone in the family thought she was the enchanting, virginal, kind-hearted and well educated young lady she liked to LARP as in public.

            The thing is I really can't look at women the same ever again. I used to think they're capable of maturity, thought and integrity. I don't anymore.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              At least you learned your lesson buddy. Stay up.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Don't let her make you become damaged goods. But do be wary of women, I suppose.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Mount Athos anon, you need to be Orthodox, but there are no women there, they aren't allowed. You join a monastic crew of masons, you get to lift every day.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks anon, will actually look into it.

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'll take a blue Hawaii thanks
    I'm just feeling no motivation to go out and accomplish things recently. Like I feel so comfortable that it's getting in the way of improving my life. I have a lot of things I need to get done and I'm not sure how to kick my ass into gear again

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    had a huge fight with gf and she tried to physically assault me. I stopped her and kicked her out of my house. She parked there and she wouldn't leave and she told me that she hopes i die. I gave her the middle finger and spit on her car ( an her). One hour later she called me to apologize.

    Im broken.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >One hour later she called me to apologize.
      Lucky bastard, most women would slap you with DV charges.
      You should start recording these altercations, always have free space on your cellphone and start video recording whenever you think things are going south.
      Trust me, unless you are an actual woman beater, video evidence is your best friend.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        she need a big beating but im not risking it. she told me to go to hell and that im the 'most bad person' she ever met and that she didn't cry in all her life more than she cried in the last month. the thing is that i know im a good person and mostly my interactions with people leave a positive vibe. Im not a saint but she got on my nerves. She will never shut the fuck up.

        >recording
        She wanted her clothes when she was in the car and i recorded me taking the clothes there and her talking shit to me. After an hour when i calmed down she came knocking on my door without even calling me. Im waiting for her period to come then end it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Leave her now asap never give a second chance. It WILL happen again and again and it WILL be worse than last time. This is a point of no return. She will beg, she might threaten suicide, she will try to proove that it was a one time mistake, but it NEVER is.
      T. Have been with a girl who got abusive after 5 years of happy relationship and it took me waaay to long to get out of that shit.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        My gf is thin and hot, but she started shit talking to me when we have an argument and she won’t shut the fuck up. She will even make fun of me. She never cleans my home because she says it’s not her house despite her sleeping her 4-5 days a week and eating rice cakes on my bed and always leaving plates on the table after eating. Whenever I bring it up she told me that my house was a mess before she met me and that she helped me cleaned it twice(4 months ago was the last time) she told me that she has a house of her own to clean (she lives with parents) and they even have a female cleaner from Phillipines or something.

        Should i leave her as well?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          yes she will never change, my ex was like this and when we started living together we would have a lot of arguments because i got pissed of how little she did around the house
          her parents house was pretty dirty always too, people like this never change

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            did you find a new girl? The never changes thing is true because everytime i gaver her chances she got worse

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          how the fuck do you get in a relationship with a woman who's not clean? one of the biggest green flags when I talk to a girl is when she says she was busy cleaning her place or making dinner.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        i literally can't leave. she lives next door, every move i make she is watching me. She called me 5 times today. Should i move out?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yes

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >she told me that she hopes i die.
      Mate, fucking this

      Leave her now asap never give a second chance. It WILL happen again and again and it WILL be worse than last time. This is a point of no return. She will beg, she might threaten suicide, she will try to proove that it was a one time mistake, but it NEVER is.
      T. Have been with a girl who got abusive after 5 years of happy relationship and it took me waaay to long to get out of that shit.

      Trust me, she's poison.

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    double rye whiskey, neat
    >Met a girl at country dancing last thursday
    >get her number and met her again yesterday
    >we really hit it off, though she mentions in conversation that she likes to listen to Christian music and her faith seems pretty important to her
    I had to tell her I'm an atheist, I had a feeling that was a dealbreaker for her and it was. I'm more disappointed for her than I am for myself but it really sucks all around

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      > I'm more disappointed for her than I am for myself but it really sucks all around
      You shouldn't be disappointed in her at all, she has every right not to date atheists and she's actually pretty based for holding to her faith that strongly.

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 31 and I wish I'd become an aero/astronautical engineer instead of a patent attorney (biotech). My work has no meaning.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you bros are going to make sure that I get a lot of money
      t. biotech researcher with patents

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why would your work have more meaning if you were making weapons to kill browns than if you are tangentially involved in making medicines that might save people's lives?

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Hello frens, felling finally great and enjoing the high. Also i got the number of a girl today. Just wanted to say WAGMI.

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Got laid off from my job wednesday along with everyone on my team including my boss and my boss’ boss
    I was told getting laid off is traumatic but it’s the opposite for me. I get paid to not work for the next 15 weeks and they will help me find a new job, where I’ll likely be able to get a significant salary increase.
    And now I can spend the rest of the year lifting and running and reading

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Broke up with girlfriend last night because she became way too busy for our relationship and lives 2 hours away at college. We still love eachoher but it was just the wrong time in our lives.

    I'm feeling free and unshackled. But its still painful to not be hers anymore. She was also my first relationship.

    any advice what to do going forward? How do I heal from this..?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Drink tonight, then lift more this weekend. Simple as. Whatever you do, don't sit around dwelling on it. Find something to keep your mind occupied for the next few days.
      t. oldfag

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        i broke up with gf 3 days ago. i'm feeling like shit, how to dig myself up?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          do like a mental cleaning exercise.
          Just go through everything that happened from the beginning. At first you will remember the notable things, then little by little, more and more will come back as you begin to think on some things.
          Pay your dues, do the due diligence, like acknowledging the good times, pondering on the things this experience taught you, try and see what are the main takeaways, things that changed in you, things you worked on. how it affected you, the benefits, the drawbacks, etc.

          At some point you will feel like you have turned every emotional stone, processed your grief for the relationship and feel less heavy carrying all the memories. Basically it's a process of disaffection by leaving distant memories behind, with nothing more to take from them with you.

          Maybe it will help you move on.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            thanks man, i'll try writing it down, so i got it on writing, since there was a lot of bad times also

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I dont drink but im gonna hang out with some friends. then hit the gym extra hard. thanks anon

  34. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girl I told I had a crush on last month, 2 weeks awkward silence out of embarrassment.
    now we chat a lot and flirt and get off to each other, she flirtingly feigns interest in my amateur boxing progress cos I send her shirtless post workout pics (and her spanking kink means she likes the way I can put force into a slap/punch)
    I think I'm gonna make it lads

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      felt like a new person after a measly 4km run/sprint

      cardio is the answer, i'm gonna become obsessed with it again

      I've been living like an animal for a week, agoraphobia kicked in in a big way since I came back home from a trip last month and I spend days not leaving my room now (pic related)

      >(and her spanking kink means she likes the way I can put force into a slap/punch)
      kekkk

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Please activate your windows

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          isildur.gif

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        jesus christ anon

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        wholesome family pic

        At least you learned your lesson buddy. Stay up.

        will do bro, cheers

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        What county lad

  35. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The neighborhood gun nut and cat lady found love together and I really support them.
    I am happy that he didn't take the safe route in life, filling the void with porn, consumerism, or whatever this society offers to distract us from our lack of love.
    I recognize her (measured?) bravery to open her heart to a man even when she has little experience with them, as dangerous as they can be.
    I am inspired that in a world where political has become personal and blood runs hot on both sides of the spectrum, two people with very different politics can put it all aside and simply enjoy each other’s company.
    I find it admirable that she was able to put aside her delusions that she's happy and fulfilled in that empty house and accept she's not an emotional island.
    I respect that he's overcoming his fear of rejection, sacrificing some of his much coveted independence, and putting his (strange idea of) masculinity on the line to connect with someone else.
    And most importantly, I understand and am fully supportive of what courage it must have taken for them to overcome all the insecurities of age and to start learning the game of love even after the world is telling you you've already lost it.
    I really wish them the best and would jump at the opportunity to support them as they navigate this part of their lives.

    I just really wish they could learn to fuck, and every other night not sounding like a murder is taking place over the course of an hour
    Like, I'm in a completely different house and her fucking wailing STILL finds a way to keep me up at night.
    Goddam

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Give 'em a break anon. It's just the passion of first true love, sex will quiet down after a while even if their affection for each other does not.

  36. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Going to a wedding where I don’t know anyone tomorrow bros. My gf invited me but she is sitting at the top table and I am sitting at a table with randoms. How do I stop the full day being awkward? I’m not normally chatty but I guess I’ll have to try to be.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Psyche yourself into thinking that you're here to have a good time. A wedding is a celebration, and most people are here to celebrate. If you hear some people having a happy sounding conversation and you have a joke or a line that could make them all laugh even if it isn't really all that funny but still adds to the cheer, go ahead and do it. If they retort back, just keep it going but introduce yourself to them. Don't be a stranger even if you are one.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I’m between two women that’s all I know, I hope they aren’t hot or with their bfs or I’ll be spilling spaghetti the whole meal.

        Why tf isn't your gf letting you sit with her? Are you sure she's your gf?

        >My gf invited me but she is sitting at the top table and I am sitting at a table with randoms
        DONT GO
        DONT LET HER GO

        You are getting cucked if you go there.

        She’s at the top table, she’s the maid of honor.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Then let's hope they aren't serving spaghetti.

          Boyfriend or no, just talk to them if an opening is provided and have a good time whether or not one comes up. If their boyfriend(s) get jealous, that's their problem.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why tf isn't your gf letting you sit with her? Are you sure she's your gf?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >My gf invited me but she is sitting at the top table and I am sitting at a table with randoms
      DONT GO
      DONT LET HER GO

      You are getting cucked if you go there.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Is she really your girlfriend?

  37. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I wish I could summarize my feels in only a few words. I feel like if I try to type or say anything, I recall something else I did and realize that I had it coming and that I have no right to complain. At least I know these feels are my own and not imposed on me.

  38. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Just walk up to her and say "hi, my name is anon"
    >it actually works

    What in the fuck? I thought you fuckers were baiting this entire time

  39. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Me and my girlfriend (honorary wife before God, for now) are basically at an impasse due to our life circumstances. We met online about six years ago soon, and have been together since (one year LDR, five IRL). She came to join me here, but ever since it's been an incredibly hard, and expensive journey to get her to remain in my birth country, as our immigration laws are quite strict/costly (for anyone who's not a welfare refugee from the third world).
    Basically, at the end of this year, this is make or break for us. We won't have the fund to get her a more permanent type of immigration status, so she would have to go back home, until we'd figured out a solution.
    Until, a deus machina sort of occured.
    Through family connections, we learned that one of her family member could lend us an apartment to live in, in a country where we both are citizens by descent (she has one parent who was naturalized, both my parents were born on territory). We only have to get our passports.
    So she told me about it, and asked me if I'd be willing to move with her to London (where the apartment is located) so we can continue on with our life. Prior, she had expressed similar plans to go back to Europe, which she greatly missed, and compared positively to my home, in terms of health/life quality. As I did not speak her home language, I was sort of reticent, thinking I may have difficulty finding a job.
    But this would solve all our problems. I am confident I can get a job in my field in the London Area, and she would finally get access to her full rights (medical, social) which would help also support us.
    Anyways I'm wondering if anyone here ever relocated across the world, and maybe had some tips on how to do it the safe way.
    Also if you're from >LONDON
    please let me know what's the situation like in the Gunnersbury area. It's a decent flat, and no rent would probably allow us to save 60% of our income, so we're not too fussy regardless.

  40. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I study law, and the stress of the current assignment is literally killing me. I overeat like crazy to somehow handle the stress. No time to go running as when I finish work it is deep night. I injured my arm aswell, so currently no lifting to at least turn it into gainz. The universe conspires against me to make me fat again.

    At least the deadline is wednesday and get my life back then, I hope at least...
    I can't handle this level of pressure much longer.

  41. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    am i a retard for getting a crush on a waitress

  42. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    This is a weird situation I have going on that I don't know how to deal with honestly. I'm gonna tldr this shit
    >gym thot
    >I notice her constantly staring at me for like a few months
    >i mean full on staring and holding eye contact with me
    >finally talk to her
    >oh teehee i'm married
    >completely ignore her now
    >i alternate gyms in the same commercial gym chain so I go to a few other gyms just to get away from the whole situation
    >come back a month later to the same gym as married girl
    >immediately notice her staring at me from across the gym
    >try to keep to myself so as to not make it awkward for each other
    >didn't realize I'd feel this weird as it's been awhile since I've seen her and yup still attracted to her
    >move downstairs and go do a machine just to get away from her staring at me and me trying hard not to stare at her
    >2 mins later she shows up and full on uses the machine right next to me that is pointed straight at me
    >can full on feel her staring at me the entire time like she wants me to look at her
    I don't get what the fuck she's doing or how should i act. Should I just look at her and not be intimidated or just completely ghost her like she isn't even there?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is a tricky one. You're gonna have to finesse this shit. Do you have a guest pass on your plan?
      If so - I would suggest asking a female friend to come with you a few times at the gym with the hopes you can find her there, staring.
      Make sure to prime the female friend on the situation, tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable being stared at, etc...
      And basically ask your friend to stare daggers back into the girl, and act disgusted. Make sure to visibly mimic or pantomime a scene where she asks you if you know that girl (vague point towards her) whilst whispering, and you answer ''oh her, she's married'' (touch your own ring finger subconsciously). Then the girl has to show shock and ask sort of loud whispering, ''then why is she staring at you like that, it's weird'' (grimace of shock/disgust). Basically very soft, covert and passive social shaming using another female to exact the judgment, so you get off scot free but the offender will feel shame and back off your personal boundaries (physically).
      Then basically, your relative/friend can stop showing up to the gym, and hopefully the woman will stop acting like such a sex pervert.

      Otherwise you know you could just show disgust when she looks at you, or comes close to you, as you leave. Just give her a quick look of ''eww you disgusting whore'' and ''certainly not'' while you make your way out to like a different machine.

      I don't know...this seems to me like either you get someone else involved who can be more direct, without involving the authorities, i.e. a peer rather than the gym manager - or you go into full covert mind games mode, and express your true thoughts via grimaces and snarls. You have to be subtle enough about it, people could mis-interpet it as you being a huge ego narcissist.
      Like some bitch takes the machine next to you and you go ''ew'' and walk away kek...
      Anyways, iron hand in a velvet glove anon.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This is some advanced autism but it would probably actually work.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        You're a woman, there's no way a man would know this much about social manipulation.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >don't get what the fuck she's doing
      She wants to cheat, but also wants to show mild resistance so she can rationalize "it wasn't completely her fault" when she opens her legs to a man that is not her husband. Even though she's actively going out of her way to facilitate her cheating, she still wants to claim (even if just for herself) "she tried to resist".

      Do what you will with this information.

  43. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Heavy dose of datura thanks.
    I hate my life so much it feels like i have my heart chained to an anchor that keep descending into the abyss and it pains me both phisically than emotionally.
    I have money, place to live, car, friends and the whole shabam of normie successful stuff but i’m still miserable. I need to do something but I don’t know what

  44. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    https://discord.gg/n6tg4Uec

  45. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    My female coworkers are trying to pick up that I am making them fat by always bringing food. I think it's gonna be time to switch job and start the architect game again

  46. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw golemgut

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      At least you're not a cookiecutter

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I wonder what made that happen
        A diet including meat and milk my whole upbringing maybe

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Your picture related is ab implants

          have you trying starting off as the loser? Just no pretense, no appearances. Just saying and doing things off filter? I find relationships have a better chance of happening if you are honest and lay it all out on the table, and provide a realistic, accurate baseline for who you truly are 99% of the time to people.
          Basically ''you get what you see here''.
          Actually relationships who start off with no pretense, or set pre-requirements like character traits which are performative only, are so much easier, and have way more growth potential as everyone much prefers a good ''loser to lover'' story, than a ''cocky asshole to actually crumbling insecure gay'' storyline.

          Maybe try not lying about the goods. Just show up, be who you really are inside, at the costs of filtering the assholes who won't like what they see, but then when you find someone who does, then you'll know they truly like you for who you are, and not some retarded persona you put on the moment you step out the door and go outside.

          Maybe try that. I can't believe it's not a natural thing to people. Like people actually put on masks...wew lad couldn't be me, too much work, too much pressure...

          Not who you're responding to, but that was a good read and full of truth.

  47. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    A beer pint please. Triple.

    Feel like shit. Loner, went back to uni after a year of doin nothing i dont belong there and dont think i would fit in other type of institutions. Don't know what to do.

    Yesterday was trying to do squats cause i never do them (I'm a pussy) and a guy approaches me and asks if its my first time at the gym. Felt even more like shit but he didnt mean it bad and gave good advice tho

  48. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >/LULZgen/

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      /LULZ/ is for people who don't want to improve

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I specifically come here because I can talk about the pains of being laid or trying to, which the robots can't do

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Me on the right

  49. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    To be desired, to have people come for you, must feel insane and intense. Never experienced it myself. It must be the closest thing to feeling immortal.

  50. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just tonic water and lime.
    The girl I thought I was going to marry and I had an explosive blowout because of my drinking 4 months ago. I’ve been sober since, and lost 25 pounds 185-160. I would do anything to talk to her, but she filed a restraining order through the next year.
    Can’t stop worrying and stressing about her. Losing my fucking mind, only solid things are work and lifting.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It gets better. Keep going.

  51. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    got nothing in this world, one of these days i'll man up and just kill myself, preferably making it look like an accident so my parents don't worry too much

  52. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Goddamn this weather has fucked me over
    >80+ and humid to 50 and chilly in the span of less than 24 hours
    >The sudden drop in climate and pressure gave me fucking bronchitis and a migraine
    I didn't go to the gym all week which I guess works out for me, I was thinking about taking a week off anyways, just never thought it would be like this.

  53. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >keep sabotaging weight loss efforts with drinking
    Even getting hammered once a week is too much nowadays, the entire weeks efforts just poofs in 1 day
    I also overdo it on the whole milk just a bit, I cant stop drinking like 4+ cups in the hours before bed to help relax enough to fall asleep

  54. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    notes folder full of draft messages i stopped myself from posting

    one of them is just a hi

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hi, anon. How's it going?

  55. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I know this is a textbook whiny spoilt bitch comment but besides lifting, how do I cope with being so ugly? Everybody on this website I've ever seen is more attractive than me, doesn't matter whether it's IST IST /adv/ /soc/ or any other board. Most people I know that don't look good are that way because they're fat or have no sense of style, both of which are fixable. I have an incel chud jaw, an enormous garden gnome nose, a drooping lip on one side and a totally asymmetrical face.

  56. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm sick of society and sick of humanity. Maybe it's just my inner sperg getting louder inside, but "normies" and normal culture is so fucking empty. I make a decent living, which puts me around regular folks, but my fucking god I hate almost everyone I'm around save for a few people here and there.

    And what sucks is that I make just enough to not be in relative trouble, but not enough to really do anything I'd actually enjoy or look forward to. Feel like a fucking sucker cause I worked hard to get here and it's all disappointing and empty.

    So now I'm contemplating quitting my job and just fucking off into the wilderness or somewhere. I don't know. Today isn't a good day. Everything looks like it's infected with corporations and there's nothing truly valuable to be experienced. All fucking curated, analyzed, and sanitized so everyone and everything has same dull fucking experience with life.

  57. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >engineering student, basically top of the class
    >fairly fit and lean (people can tell I lift)
    >employed with not insignificant savings
    >also probably something wrong with me (was always the weird one until recently)
    >hobbies include lifting, reading, learning about early medieval history, pool
    >picked up a cute 6/10 nerdy mexican 1st year chick 3 days ago on a night out with the boys
    >also I am a religious catholic
    and yet, there is simply an emptiness that cannot be filled. I don't want to mope around, since I know that I have it extremely well all things considered, but there is simply something inside me that makes it all feel worthless. I don't mind personally, I can cope with it, it's an ally too sometimes, but it's making me consider whether I really want to engage emotionally with this girl. Currently my mind is torn between the following three states of mind:
    >I just need to fucking get over myself and be a man, why bury myself in despair when so many things are going so well?
    >I may as well let things flourish with her, the relationship is going to be useful experience regardless, and I'll be grateful for it when I do eventually meet the one
    >But, I do not want to hurt her by leading her down a path which I know is simply a means to an end, not an end in itself.
    Also, I am coming to realise how difficult it may be to not sin by committing adultery if I get into a relationship. Not in the sense that I may accidentally sin, but rather that my refusal may stunt some important emotional connections.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If things get heated, bring that up to the chick you picked up. Tell her how you feel about your reluctance. If she's into you, she'll stick with you. Heck, she may want to get closer to you for that.

  58. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Rocky Road shake.

    I'm trying to fuck on a clerk at my work and am being a complete retard to my girlfriend, and am waiting for an interview at my job for a possible promotion. I'm tired of self-sabotaging myself but I think I'm just going to be a little broken for the rest of my life I guess.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I'm trying to fuck on a clerk at my work and am being a complete retard to my girlfriend
      You deserve everything bad that will happen to you, anon.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Oh my girlfriend is well aware and is actually trying to help me get with her but this seems like an ill-fated idea, not sure

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I would trust your gut and back off from doing that.

          What do you think the clerk would do for you that your girl can't

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >What do you think the clerk would do for you that your girl can't
            We've been together for 8 years since I was like 20, this clerk is like 6 years my junior and is a perfectly professional regularly unavailble career-driven girl who makes time to talk to me and flirt with me. Otherwise I legit turn down other women who approach me if I'm not impressed by them, and I've turned down 4 hard passes at my work since I started working there 3 years ago. My girlfriend has known me/been friends for 14 years (I've dated her best friend when we were high schoolers) and she's aware I'm a slutty retard sometimes because she knows all my exes so she's being supportive since this our first sorta crisis and she always expected me to do something like this at some point since she has a realistic outlook on life and relationships. In exchange I'm fine with helping her get with an attractive woman she sees at conventions she goes to regularly. I guess really I'm desperate to Hispanice my life up before I hit my midlife (28y/o); we're getting old and we've settled into our lives and honestly it can get boring which we're aware is a consequence of being together for so long. But I guess I should vocalize my concerns and use my frontal cortex instead first. I haven't thought about the part where I say "oh yeah I have a girlfriend by the way but she's totally fine with us fucking" yeah right what the fuck is the average person going to do with that shit, they'd probably prefer if I said I was cheating. Yes, this is all happening because I am IST.

  59. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    No one is going to remember this but
    >few weeks ago when I was jogging some women looked like they were about to start making fun of me
    >one of them tries to talk to me, i told her to fuck off and kept going

    A little embarrassing update.
    >at a family bbq
    >uncle walks over to me
    >"hey anon! Did you tell my daughter to fuck off?"
    >I feel extremely confused
    >"No?"
    >"She says you did!"
    >She says that she saw me jogging while she was with her friends and tried to say hi
    >explain I didn't recognize her and I hope she wasn't embarrassed
    >she said "No, not at all we just found it funny and laughed about it"

    I felt like an idiot the rest of the day. But I'm glad she didn't feel too badly.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I actually do remember that, and I must admit I laughed. Just going to return the "hi" back from now on?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Wait, this you? I thought that story sounded familiar. Had to cap it for the incel rage collage I'm building. You very strange, king of cringe.

  60. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I fractured my tibial plateau in 4 pieces a couple months ago. Could barely move my leg and the pain was pretty rough.
    Today I tried walking without crutches for the first time and did without any issues aside from a limp from muscle atrophy.
    It's impressive how fast the body can regenerate from such trauma. I hope I can get back to the gym soon.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Too bad you didn't break a plateau instead

  61. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Group of people who just blew into town invite a bar regular and me out to drink
    >Head out after work
    >The sexy latina regular is super excited I came out for drinks
    >Immediately grabs my hand and leads me to the bar
    >Grab a drink, split off, mingle, then bar hop to go hang with my co workers
    Practicing my salsa moves for next time I catch a drink with her. WAGMI.

  62. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >no gf
    >no wife
    >just a lot of money, a dog, good friends, a thriving business, hobbies, nice house, cars
    >tfw

  63. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Anything that makes the pounding in my head stop.

    NIPT (prenatal genetic test) came back yesterday. Baby boy flagged for kleinfelter, 70-80% chance. Doc said it's nothing to do with us, especially since we're young. Apparently it just happens in like 1/500 boys, no rhyme or reason. Have to schedule a diagnostic to confirm if it's true. My wife is hysterical and I just can't stop my head from hurting. I feel sick.

    Pray for us, that the test is wrong or that we can handle it if it's right.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      praying for you brother

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I am speaking a prayer for you, brother.

        Thank you. My wife has calmed down some but she's heartbroken. She keeps flipping between wishing she wasn't having this baby and being afraid we'll lose it. I've talked her down a good bit so she is calm at least. It's our anniversary tonight, so it all hits extra hard.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I am speaking a prayer for you, brother.

  64. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Whole milk, on the rocks.

    How do you b confident? I have this major roadblock that always comes back when thinking about or trying to get a gf, that I always ask why she would choose me?
    I'm not the worst guy in the world, but I don't understand why she would be with me when there are better guys she could have in 5 minutes. Anyone else figure this out?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >when thinking about or trying to get a bf, that I always ask why he would choose me?
      >I'm not the worst girl in the world, but I don't understand why he would be with me when there are better girls he could have in 5 minutes.
      its a human condition thing
      turbosluts aren't human though

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >How do you b confident?

      By realizing that most people out there have opinions about you, will think things about you, but realize that that never stopped you. Most people out there won't lend you a hand when you need it, so why should you care about what they think of you? Such people are there to pull you down when you're trying to stand up. To "be confident" is you putting your happiness into your hands and not in another's. Not some random shmuck's hand, not in the hands of a big-tits cum slut, and not even in the hands of an authority figure or a peer.

      Have you done anything to challenge yourself simply to see if you can do it? That's the sort of stuff that builds it. This can mean reaching a fitness goal or two, become proficient or fluent in another language, or picking up a new skill. What is something you want to be like right now, and what do you need to do to get there? From there, take the steps to get there.

  65. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >started working out more
    >feel better about myself since I'm improving, even though I still haven't visibly changed
    >now horny but in a different way, not satisfied with falling and want to actually go and get a girl
    >still have almost no experience trying to get women, and maybe a little bit of confidence issue since my body hasn't changed much
    Wat do fit frens, I wouldn't consider myself an incel I just have no experience with trying to get women. I'm also in college if that makes any difference, but it's a really small campus of only around 800 people or so, and I also don't have my own place or dorm because I commute.

  66. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Have been losing 1.5kg a week every week for past 8 weeks
    >Go on 3x 20 min walks every weekday, and a big 2 hour walk on sat and sunday (I lift 7 times in 14 days as well)
    >Friday is when I weigh myself and also when I take a break from walking for the day
    >Every friday getting more and more jittery
    >Start mentally feeling like i HAVE to walk
    Any other walks get this feel? Feels like ive gotten myself addicted.

  67. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >feels
    Suicidal. One new life, please.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Granted. It begins now. Do your best Anon

  68. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Through recent dietary changes I have discovered I cannot consume milk or yogurt of virtually any kind.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's great to be White, eat shit brownoid.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm still R1b, retard.

  69. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Water please
    Things are going well but it feels weird, it feels like I doesn't deserve things to be like this. I just started classes and at the moment I'm doing well, I'm getting my driver's license and I go to the gym during the week but it feels weird. It's a weird feeling. I guess it's because I haven't had a quiet moment in years and now that I do I don't know how to feel.

  70. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    gym is my therapy and the only time of the day where i feel really alive, without it i'm miserable but we just keep going.

  71. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'll have a beer. It hasn't been to bad lately, trying to set goals for myself and be productive every day. I went through a period that lasted a few years where I didn't want to date anyone at all or even try. I thought that I didn't wish upon anyone to have to deal with me. That's how much I felt sorry for myself. Now when I'm starting to feel a bit better about myself and trying to meet women I find it really difficult.
    >we chat on diner
    >go out and have a great time
    >do that maybe one more time
    >they stop replying or start being flakey
    >this has happened 3-4 times in the last 4 months
    what the fuck am I doing wrong? Did I show interest too early? I really don't know bros, its really disheartening.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Did you get physical, touching them a bit? Do you text like a needy clingy bitch?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Did you get physical, touching them a bit?
        I stopped doing it on first dates because I almost went overboard with this one time.
        > Do you text like a needy clingy bitch?
        I don't think I do but I enjoy talking to people so i'm thinking is part of the problem. What pisses me off is going out of my way not to text someone just so I don't seem clingy or too attached. Has it always been this way? I really don't remember this autistic shit.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Keep texting to a minimum, basically only to set up meetings. Anything you text about you could talk about a thousand times better.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            that was my general idea too but last time I tried to set a meeting she flaked. I texted a week and a half later and she left me on read. Whatever, carrying on

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Hey think of it like this: you're getting dates. Also they're the ones who miss out on you, what the hell do they have to offer anyway. Keep at it

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Cheers bro, hope you are doing good too

  72. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Been scrolling so hard on my night shifts that I started getting these ads. Anyone else know this feel?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You seem like someone with huge gains

  73. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Too ugly for women. Even average/above average guys on tinder with careers and more to offer than me are incel these days. It's pretty much over no matter how much my weights progress.

    The only hope is surgery but the amount of effort it would take of years of going back to school, studying, saving etc to make enough money for everything I need (bimax, rhino, genio, canthalo, jaw implants, hair transplant, etc) is beyond unrealistic and by then I'll be so old to build a family

  74. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'll take a black coffee. Just broke it off with an 18yo who lives like 3 hours away. We banged and she blew me in my car a couple times, but we just didn't have anything to talk about, and it was getting tiresome, and she felt the same way. A real load off. Other than that, thinking about trying to finish up my degree in mechanical engineering at 28 and maybe getting a really high paying job with my uncle, but I'd hate to have to move to Texas to do it. Maybe I'd just make bank for a few years and then move back up north.

  75. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'll take a virgin margarita.

    I want to make a business, but I have no idea what to do. I just can't wrap my head around anything I'd love doing for my whole life besides some form of helping people, but that's not really profitable.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Exact same spot

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Do you have any ideas? I'm a software engineer so i'm thinking about doing something related to that. Maybe app development or building websites for local businesses. Or even offering courses to people. I dunno.

  76. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’ll need something strong for clearing my corona brainfog please, 10 shots of absinth should do the trick.

    Second rona infection messed up my mind. Cant focus for shit, can barely read on any form of tv/phone screens for more than a few seconda before totally losing focus, and can barely remember what i read. Sometimes i have to read work emails 6 times over just to understand what i just read.
    How the fuck doni clear this shit its driving me insane

  77. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Unironically a beer because I'm drinking one right now.

    I've been fine the last few weeks, just some very minor problems and one recurring one that has no solution.

    >lifting
    I feel a slight pain behind my left knee, pushed myself a bit too much during squats and so I've taken it lighter with the weights, even stopped doing squats this week but today I've done some light squats and still felt some kind of pain there but not as frightening.
    Just fyi, I'm 164lbs and 6'5'' so I'm a living skeleton and my weights reflect that as well, so doing lighter squats just feels bad as fuck, I can already barely lift let alone with a fucking pain that could become a permanent injury if I'm not careful.
    I hate my body.

    >work
    Work has been great, got a raise, been incredibly productive and clever lately, or so I think, most of the time I feel like I'm barely average IQ.

    >life
    Aced my motorcycle exams one after another and two days ago I got my license, going to work on my bike has never been so fun, traffic sucks as always but whatever.
    On the bad side, I keep dreaming about my ex and she gives zero fucks about me but still sends me texts and wants to be my "friend", but I suspect she's lonely and needs a microphone as we don't even hang out. I should just ditch her completely but I can't for the life of me do that considering I was the one who has broken up with her as well.

  78. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’m depressed. I finally had a girl that liked me for me and who wasn’t a thot with a high body count and I still had to let her go. The relationship went bad. It was fights at the end. She said some fucked up shit to me. I lost all interest. I love her, but it felt shitty being in a relationship with her and I was unhappy. So now I don’t know what to do. I feel lost. I miss her. I worry I’ll never meet anyone like that or who I feel that way about.

  79. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Got some viral infection while off from work. Just sleeping, eating and hoisting. Thought I had depression first because I was down.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Were you top or bottom?

  80. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Had been liking this girl for a about 1-2 months and we were getting really intimate, she always took a long time to text back but we met everyday and would talk for 1-2 hours straight about anything that could come up on ours minds, one day my best friend just comes up to mw wanting to talk and says he is also liking her, me and my friend have been through a lot of shit together since we met and we are almost like brothers, after that shit just went downhill, she just walked away from me and now spends almost all time with him and is clearly into him.
    This shit is making my blood boil all the fucking time, I have never had a gf or a relationship with any girl in general, don't wanna lose this friend for nothing but I still like her and I am afraid my jealousy will violence.
    6'3 170lbs boxer btw

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's over, he's not your friend any more.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This.

        Had been liking this girl for a about 1-2 months and we were getting really intimate, she always took a long time to text back but we met everyday and would talk for 1-2 hours straight about anything that could come up on ours minds, one day my best friend just comes up to mw wanting to talk and says he is also liking her, me and my friend have been through a lot of shit together since we met and we are almost like brothers, after that shit just went downhill, she just walked away from me and now spends almost all time with him and is clearly into him.
        This shit is making my blood boil all the fucking time, I have never had a gf or a relationship with any girl in general, don't wanna lose this friend for nothing but I still like her and I am afraid my jealousy will violence.
        6'3 170lbs boxer btw

        You found out that she is not the one. I speak to you from the bottom of my heart here, move on. There are others out there, and maybe someone who would actually like you like.

  81. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bourbon old fashioned
    I feel like I’ll forever be a poorfag if I don’t get a bachelors degree. I’m 23 now and want to make six figs before 30. I get paid and then my damn check is gone before the next week starts. What do. Any advice on either coping w/ being a poorfag or elevating yourself into being wealthy would be great.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Money won't solve shit.

  82. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    My dog is sick, he havent eated nothing in 3 days, I'm scared bros

  83. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I feel pretty alone, made a little worse because I actually stopped drinking. This is week two. So much of social life revolves around going to a bar or having drinks together. I get it. But being a sober person is still kinda hard

  84. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Thoughts on dating an ex-con?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You may think about getting old, passage of time, having family, etc., but here's a movie quote about settling that has stuck with me "Don't settle. You don't have to. Even at the end of the world." I would rephrase it by removing the 2nd sentence.

  85. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I often think that I should have killed myself two years ago when HR at my work told me to...

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Story?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >be seriously stressed at work because management are a bunch of incompetent retards
        >wfh because of da coof
        >having phone call with HR and manager
        >they know about my stress levels and how its making me suicidal
        >getting more and more annoyed with their continued ineptitude
        >HR wench just keeps shouting her same dumb points over and over again
        >need to bail on this conversation before I call them all the gamer word
        >calmly say something to the effect of "we're not getting anywhere, how about we reschedule this conversation for another day?"
        >HR wench says "how about I fire you so you fucking have a nice day?"
        >all of my wat
        >She realises she dun fucked up and terminates the call
        >decide to angrily play some Quake because fuck my job and gibbing some ogres might de-stress me
        >thirty minutes later the fuzz knock on my front door because "they're had reports of an attempted suicide"
        >even though I insist I'm fine they still have to take me to the hospital because muh protocol
        >launch an official complaint against HR
        >company investigate themselves and conclude that they did no wrong
        >shocker
        >appeal the decision
        >company investigates again and concludes that this is all MY fault
        >heavily imply that if I go to the union over this I'll be fired
        >I cuck out and don't mention it to the union at all
        >a year later I realise that what they had just done was kind of massively illegal (thank you UK commie labour laws)
        >but I've passed some sort of window to take it further apparently
        >still working at that shit hole because the pay is good even if I do have no will to live

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          just work at tesco mate

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >doesn't record all phone calls with work
          Dun goofd

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          It's easy...here's how you get back to them.
          You ''attempt suicide'' again at your work place.
          Just pop (or pretend to) pop a non-lethal dose of sleeping pills or something, and pass out in the bathroom, waiting for someone to find you.

          Make sure to make it obvious you tried to have a nice day, get them to call an ambulance, get a record of it, etc...
          Then make sure that ''anonymous tippers'' let all the local press/media know that an employee at the company tried to commit suicide because he had allegedly been emotionally abused by the HR manager and his manager (make sure he is mentioned so the fag will buckle under pressure and throw the cunt under the bus when this shit gets investigated).
          Anyways, some journos will probably try to contact you for an interview after they're tipped. You play that side of operations fair, you confirm that the person who contacted them is correct, they will ask for more information, you tell this story exactly.

          The HR department will probably have to lead an investigation, after these claims were made. Now you have a new circumstance in which you can bring this event as conclusive evidence.
          The HR department probably records all their calls as policy. The legal department will ask to see the call during investigation.

          Make sure you apply a lot of pressure by keeping up your media presence, telling your story, how they tried to bury the issue when they could have simply disciplined the person who literally incited you to commit suicide.

          Cont.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            [...]
            At some point their legal department will contact you. They will ask you what you want to stop ruining their public reputation. Tell them you just want justice and for the truth to emerge. She probably conducted her own investigation. In which case just tell them, drop her - let it be known she acted alone, etc. Agree to even say that it was only her in the media etc, if they agree to fire her.
            Tell them that if they provide you with the record of the incident, you will agree to drop all charges against the company, and instead sue her alone in civil court.

            Not him but anon you're a fucking genius

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Well...it's only logical...The cunt literally threatened to fire him so he would kill himself. All he has to do is attempt to do it at his workplace to get this bitch thoroughly steamrolled by the legal department. Guaranteed she deleted the record which is admission of guilt, basically. So you include the other manager as a guilty party, so he has to be the snitch and throw her under the bus so he can get out of this mess. He tells on her, confirms your story, gets off clean and then, you sue her alone in civil court. If there's a record still kept, even better. You just request via a lawyer the record from their legal department, your lawyer will bargain with them to give it to you in exchange to dropping charges about the company. They will agree and say fuck this bitch.

              I mean when people threaten you with something that will end up doing them more harm than you...maybe consider ''doing'' it just to pin them into it. Pretty logical.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          It's easy...here's how you get back to them.
          You ''attempt suicide'' again at your work place.
          Just pop (or pretend to) pop a non-lethal dose of sleeping pills or something, and pass out in the bathroom, waiting for someone to find you.

          Make sure to make it obvious you tried to have a nice day, get them to call an ambulance, get a record of it, etc...
          Then make sure that ''anonymous tippers'' let all the local press/media know that an employee at the company tried to commit suicide because he had allegedly been emotionally abused by the HR manager and his manager (make sure he is mentioned so the fag will buckle under pressure and throw the cunt under the bus when this shit gets investigated).
          Anyways, some journos will probably try to contact you for an interview after they're tipped. You play that side of operations fair, you confirm that the person who contacted them is correct, they will ask for more information, you tell this story exactly.

          The HR department will probably have to lead an investigation, after these claims were made. Now you have a new circumstance in which you can bring this event as conclusive evidence.
          The HR department probably records all their calls as policy. The legal department will ask to see the call during investigation.

          Make sure you apply a lot of pressure by keeping up your media presence, telling your story, how they tried to bury the issue when they could have simply disciplined the person who literally incited you to commit suicide.

          Cont.

          At some point their legal department will contact you. They will ask you what you want to stop ruining their public reputation. Tell them you just want justice and for the truth to emerge. She probably conducted her own investigation. In which case just tell them, drop her - let it be known she acted alone, etc. Agree to even say that it was only her in the media etc, if they agree to fire her.
          Tell them that if they provide you with the record of the incident, you will agree to drop all charges against the company, and instead sue her alone in civil court.

  86. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i'm sick of living with my family i need to get my own place and fuck my gf every day. fucking 1-2 a week is just not a life worth living. but I still got two years left of uni FUCK

  87. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just a good ol' fashion beer. I missed out on teenage love in high school because I was too much of a fucking pussy. Still a virgin at 20 going to the gym and watching vtubers to make the pain go away.

  88. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Met the perfect girl a couple weeks ago at a social event, we talked for like 4 hours straight and I enjoyed ever second of it. I'm kinda retarded so I forgot to ask for contact info, I know her first name but it's a common name and impossible to find her on social media with just that. I have a pretty good memory so I've been running through my head all the info from our conversation. I know she lives in my general area, she goes to the gym, her favorite day and time to go is on Saturday around 4pm, and it's a chain gym (based on her saying how when she travels she generally tries to book locations next to her gym). I think I located the most likely gym (there's not that many options) and they offer a free trial. I'm going to go and hopefully run into her.

  89. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >What can I get you?
    Cuba libre, plenty of lime
    >Anything on your mind?
    I've realised I'm not angry anymore. To hate is to suffer, and I've realised that coming to people with love and understanding, even the people in my life who've played the antagonist, only makes me happier.
    You can respect the people who have hurt you. Now when I think of the hard times, I say to myself, "what a shame that happened to me, but I'm okay now". And, saying that enough times, it became the truth.
    The people who hurt me didn't do it because they wanted to cause me harm. They did it because they wanted something for themselves, and their actions hurt me in the process. It's human nature to want the best for yourself, can I hate them for that? No.
    We wallow in our emotions, and if you begin to hate someone, your mental health will be the true victim. Instead it is better to understand and accept what has happened, and allow your troubles to pass on.

  90. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >probably 5 months ago
    >oneitis at gym, constantly see her, catch her looking at me/working out near me
    >decide to test the waters, make small talk, get rejected (e.g. one word answers)
    >stop seeing her, figure I just scared her away
    >whatever, crush slowly starts to fade
    -
    -
    >last week she starts coming regularly again
    >can't stop thinking about her

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don't get how people get oneitis from just fucking looking at a girl. You have zero clue about get personality and you think about her for months?

  91. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    About a month ago I was fantasizing about dying. It's not that my life is miserable, I know what it's like to live a miserable life, in fact it's the opposite. I think if I died right now I'd die at my peak. I wont have as much fun as I already have and I'm rapidly burning out. Even if everything works out, which is a massive effort, it won't be as cool as it already was. I'll become old, weak, full of responsibility and stress. Now I'm young, handsome, done everything, have a girl and a family who loves me, damn I had my share I can die peacefully.

  92. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Janny leaves this shit up but deletes mine? Just for that janny when I find you i'm going to stuff your fucking cock up your ass and make you do anal masturbation with it. You can screen cap me on that you cocksucking over paid gay

  93. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Cheated on my pregnant wife for 6 months. Almost left her when I got oneitis for a coworker. Got suicidal when it came out and everything fell apart. Trying to piece things back together now with my wife because my daughter doesn't deserve a piece of shit father. Keep on lifting through the pain though.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Your marriage has already failed, your daughter is going to grow up hating you, and it's all your fault.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Lmfao

        Cheated on my pregnant wife for 6 months. Almost left her when I got oneitis for a coworker. Got suicidal when it came out and everything fell apart. Trying to piece things back together now with my wife because my daughter doesn't deserve a piece of shit father. Keep on lifting through the pain though.

        You know the older I get and the more life experience I attain, the more I realize that having multiple women is 1000% natural and should be the norm. ‘Cheating’ is when you have an established commitment and understanding between you and your woman, so moving forward you should just both have the mutual understanding that you’re going to have multiple women. It really is as simple as that.
        >b-but I can’t have multiple men?! Isn’t that a double standard??!
        Indeed it is. Men and women have different standards to abide by, get used to it. I can fuck 100 bitches and have 100 children in 9 months where as a woman can only produce one. Almost every animal lives in this exact way

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          This poster is a LARPing incel

  94. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Being lonely and poor hurts extra bad on the weekend
    Im close to an hero

  95. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tequilla, tonic.
    To be honest, I'm not sad, I'm not even really gloomy, but I just feel dread. Like, knowing that I can't even get laid in college because I'm in that zone where I'm nowhere near desperate enough to be an """architect""" and pipe a pig, but I'll probably never take a somewhat cute girl's virginity. I don't want to be 30 year old virgin, but even that would be better than being a desperate gay who loses his v-card to sloppy seconds and raises a dysfunctional family, or a pedo-with-extra-steps dating a woman who didn't even exist when he was in like high school.
    That, and I'm also bummed to hell with assignments and shit, yet I never feel like I have the energy to just do them in a reasonably quick time.

  96. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >itt actual attention whores

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      yeah we're on IST

  97. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >girl from campus asks me out
    >go on date, she rejects me
    >a month later wants a second date
    >cancels second date
    >don’t talk for months
    >starts talking to me again (on campus)
    >i don’t really respond besides being polite
    >clear she is going to ask me out again

    best reply?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      rape

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Beat the shit out her ass in an alleyway until she looks like picrel.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      "No thank you"

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      tell her "sure, my place, 8pm"

      if she says no, say you're busy

      if she says yes, try to fuck within 5 minutes of her coming over

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Unironically this

      rape

      but not quite
      Being forceful pays off a lot of the time, but if she's, like, really struggling to not get fucked, then back off.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >"you had your chance"

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like an attention whore. You'll never meet a more frustrating bitch in your life. Invite her over to your place and if she declines ignore her completely. Trust me, these bitches will stick around so long as you keep replying to them but when it comes time for action she'll ALWAYS have a fucking reason to not go out with you or let you advance.

  98. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I keep getting tinder matches but then the girls don't text me back what am I doing wrong

    Last time it was because I left instagram attached and it was showing pictures of me and my girlfriend now I don't know why this is happened like do these women not want this sausage

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Post your bio and tell us what pics you have.

      In addition to making yourself seem attractive physically, you also have to communicate your intelligence, intentions, and mental state. You communicate intelligence by being funny, intentions by being candid and timely (don't say "wyd babe" at 1pm on a weeknight), and mental state by being positive, reasonable, and not spamming or withholding messages.

      A lot of women on tinder aren't actually dumb whores, they adopt that identity as a social self-protection mechanism. By transcending from their individuality to embody what they think is a collective ideal, they also transcend from personal failure, accountability, or attack. Why this is important is that a chick with a profile that makes her look like a dumb slut might just be an insecure but decent chick with genuine and respectable desires.

  99. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Friend of the last 8 years is moving away, tonight is his going away party. Probably going to be the last time I see him. I'm also moving across the country in another 10 months. I am both excited for the fresh start and worried. I won't know anybody where I am moving, but I think that is a good thing. I have wasted my 18-24 range of my life. I feel like moving is the best thing for me but I am worried I will fall into old habits, or worse, because I don't know anyone where I am going I never meet anybody at all and become a true neet.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm in the same position bro. I'm moving to the other side of my country in the next weeks. Haven't even got an apartment lined up because the housing market is a fucking joke.
      I'm also afraid of not meeting any people. I'm really shit at making new friends because I'm an autist. All my of my current social circle are decade old school mates than then their friends.
      But I believe we can make it. It's just a matter of effort anon. Things like this are scary for everyone.

  100. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Finally got a FUCKING MIRE! was at walmart self checkout today and the employee lady said "that's an adult beverage you know", I was like "yeah it's wine", then she cards me, and said "you don't look 28". Pretty sick. 30lbs + 5 months of dieting/exercise.

  101. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How the fuck do you talk to girls online, and how long do you have to until it's appropriate to ask for an in-person date? I can easily start a few conversations using subjects from their profiles, but after that I have nothing left. I can't talk about shit I'm doing, how my day's going, or what I'm interested in or they'll get bored. After a while the well runs dry about their lives, and I'm not witty enough to text banger jokes all day. This is exhausting, help

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You're probably not going to like my answer but talk to women irl. Women will match with guys they have 0 intention of actually meeting just to fish for compliments. You're in a sea of dicks on dating apps and the stuff that helps you set yourself apart can't be done through texting. If you come off irl as confident, funny or charming you're already at least memorable for when you get her # and try and hit her up.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        My coworker was using the same dating app as me about a year ago. He looks objectively worse than me and now he has a qt chinese girlfriend he recently impregnated. I am currently speaking to a qt Japanese girl. I refuse to give up. I will make her my wife, and mother of my children.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Ok man, I wish you the best of luck. I'm just not a fan of dating apps, I feel like they're an escape route for men who are afraid to talk to and develop their skills with women.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not a fan of dating apps either man, just doesn't feel right. It's the best way to meet single women though. I'm much better at talking to them irl than I am online.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This
        Women get flooded with messages online, in person is much easier. For me personally I always over think how to respond to message but in person you pick up social ques and the conversations always go much smoother.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This
        Women get flooded with messages online, in person is much easier. For me personally I always over think how to respond to message but in person you pick up social ques and the conversations always go much smoother.

        Even if it's possible to get a decent girl, I refuse to put myself through this fucking farce like I'm some showdog begging for a treat.

  102. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    how do people have time for relationships
    im working full time in my field while also studying full time for uni
    by the time I finish it up and get income im satisfied with I will be like 30 years old

    no wonder some many guys go for younger women, probably will just snag some 20 year old at that point and get her preggo

  103. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >start gym, be 90 kg pure fat
    >a year later, prob 100kg with some muscle
    >because of the added weight I'm still stuck at 95kg squats for 3x5
    pain.

  104. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I just want another beer
    I accomplished everything I ever wanted. But I just hate myself, my choices, ever girl I ever had sex with, I just wanna end things but I won’t cuz I don’t wanna make my mom sad

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Go do something you’ve never thought you could
      Stop being a pussy
      Simple as

  105. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    28, lost my 250,000 crypto portfolio. Have shitty 52k salary job. Girlfriend been talking shit about me with friends and pretty sure she's going looking to break up and get with her male friend. Only thing going for me is I'm getting in great shape.

  106. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Don't get drunk with normies. They can't handle your true thoughts. It's better to just be that wierd quiet dude than the racist sexist homophobe

  107. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    These threads have, in almost all certainty, saved some men's lives.

  108. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've never had sex. No woman has ever shown any romantic interest in any context towards me.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Join the party
      The Nazi Party 2.0
      We're taking America back
      It was built by and for the White man and our rightful position of power within the hierarchy shall be restored. We will take back our future that the garden gnome parasites have stolen from us. Get on board, with strength in numbers we can defeat them

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Save up enough money for a round trip to the Philippines/Thailand
      >Save an extra $1000-1500
      >Fuck every slut that comes onto you, and many will
      >Come home a non-virgin
      There, problem solved
      >b-but anon, I want a woman to fuck me for ME
      At this point, you've been without sex for so long you have the pussy on a pearlescent pedestal. Cum buckets in some Filipinas so you don't reek of desperation trying to engage with women back home.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Fuck every slut that comes onto you, and many will
        Are you talking about prostitutes? What kind of victory is paying for sex?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          If being a virgin is messing with you that much, why not pay for it? Where's the victory in never getting laid?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          being a tall, white guy in the Philipines gets you so much pussy. Especially if your nose isn't flat. No need to pay, just go out to bars/clubs.
          t. flip

  109. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Hurricane coming my way, and the girl I was seeing got pregnant with another guy. Fuck women, gonna be nailing femboys and hookers from now on. I basically told her to fuck off after she told me I was gonna be a "father" to the kid. Not even close.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >not your kid.

      You dodged a whole mag of bullets there, my man. Count your lucky stars and go celebrate! You're going to look back at this and laugh a year from now.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I basically told her to fuck off after she told me I was gonna be a "father" to the kid
      HAHAHAHA good job. Remember to stick to your guns and demand a paternity test if she tries to drain your money.

  110. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The nights are getting longer.
    I cant believe I'm going on 3 years since I needed to walk away from her. Back then, she told me how she thought we would be in each other's lives for the long haul, whether or not we we worked out as a couple. And yet, I was pretty easy to be tossed aside.
    I've been with a few girls since. None have compared to her.
    I hate that I let myself get this way. I hate that I'm weak enough to have this girl whom I've not spoken to in 2.5 years still have her claws in me.
    But its these long autumn nights where the city bustles with vibrancy that I always feel the most alone, and I don't know how much self improvement can be done to that end.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I hate that I'm weak enough to have this girl whom I've not spoken to in 2.5 years still have her claws in me.
      I ask myself the same; "how is it fair she's still stuck inside me when I don't even cross her mind?" If I let myself think of memories it still hurts, and if I'm not careful I can end up making myself cry. It's miserable.
      >But its these long autumn nights where the city bustles with vibrancy that I always feel the most alone
      It's the summer for me. Had an awful one, no real plans or shit to do, while I knew she was out and about, friends, parties, events. I don't know how I made it through, last time I was that low a couple years ago my mental snapped and I had to go to a doctor, shrink, meds, the whole thing.
      Autumn though, it's the thought of not being able to go for a walk with her while the wind blows the brown leaves around. Our cold hands warming each other's. JDIMSA, fuck

  111. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I miss her so much bros

  112. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Had a date on Tuesday with a girl I've been texting for a week or so. Great conversations before the date, seemed like the date went well, but now she claims she doesn't have time to date. Seems like a dead end. It's a shame, I liked her and she was really hot.

    Plus a couple other girls I was interested in ghosted me over the past couple days. Shit's frustrating. As far as I'm aware I don't have that repulsive of a personality and I'm sure I'm fairly attractive, so I don't know what the deal is.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Plus a couple other girls I was interested in ghosted me over the past couple days. Shit's frustrating.
      aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

  113. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Damn, just got back from lifting and its closing time

  114. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >get a new haircut
    >go to work hoping people will mention it
    >only person that says something is a guy that I'm pretty sure is gay and is probably flirting with me

  115. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I had a dream I ate at a buffet. I woke up hungry, so I ate some egg whites.

  116. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    ladies...let me be clear
    as long as you are not deformed and/or obese, i will have sex with you
    please forward me your information
    i am 6'1 185 white with 8 inch cock

  117. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >jerk off in shower
    >30 minutes pass
    >nowhere near coming
    >have to stop because my dick physically hurts
    I just wasted so much hot water bros..

  118. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >go on a date with girl
    >She's had her phone stolen
    >let her use ig on my phone to talk to her mom
    >date going well
    >go to the bathroom
    >look through her dms
    >plenty of guys
    >extensive texts with one of the guys making plans
    >shirtless pfp
    >immediately turned off
    >discussing past she tells me she dated a 21yo when she was 13
    Idk if I can do it bros

  119. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm tired of everything.
    Everywhere I go someone finds a way to bully me or assume that I'm weak.
    No one gives me a chance.
    Someone said at my last job "anon looks sad all the time" when talking about me.
    These challenges, I didn't ask for, I try to overcome but they only get stronger as I learn and become better but it's never enough.
    I end up ghosting literally everyone because I'm too tired to deal with their immature nonsense.
    I hope this pain in my chest that's been around for a couple weeks ends up killing me.
    I just want to give it all away.

  120. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i just want a qt blonde gf who will gym & go on hikes with me, why is that so hard to find?

  121. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >go on hike to watch the sunset
    >couple other people up there, talk to them while waiting
    >one of the girls was super cute, likes hiking, guns, same kind of music
    >i'm stumbling over words and can't think of anything witty or charming
    >will never see her again
    How do I outlift the autism? Even if I get in shape, get the hobbies, how do I get past over almost a decade of social isolation?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      practice and confidence
      Unironically talking to myself helped me with articulation in times where I had little interactions

  122. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tequila

    My younger brother is a fucking asshole. He's an addict, a bully, and more than likely a schizo. He eats like shit, doesn't have any friends, and smokes pot all day yet he still acts like he owed something. He terrorizes our parents on an almost daily basis. Tonight, my mom admitted to me that he threatens to hit her on an almost daily basis and I am shaking with rage. I want nothing more than to rock his shit, and I know that I can, but I just can't bring myself to do it. Whenever I look at him, all I see is the young happy kid that he was just a few years ago until he was twisted into this vile being that exists today. It doesn't matter how much I lift or how much time I spend in the gym, I feel like a coward and all I wanna do is curl into a ball and cry.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Help him

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        How? He refuses to quit and he's completely convinced that he's in the right, so logic is out of the question. He sees doctors but they don't help. He's on meds but they barely work, The police have gotten involved on multiple occasions, but nothing ever comes of it.If they take him away he's always out the next day

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Not him but.
          Wait for a day where he's being really unhinged, and an argument is escalating to the point of him becoming violent or aggressive towards you or your mother. You can even sort of induce it if you know his buttons.
          Then, go outside for a minute, and call the cops for a psychiatric emergency, make sure to specify that he is being violent and is threatening to hurt your mother. Wait until they show up, he will deny and resist but this will only make it worst. Tell the cops that he needs some time away to get off drugs and calm himself, and say that you want him interned at the family's will. Sometimes the cops won't even say it's you who wanted it, and just do it in the dangerous situations. Your brother doesn't have to know you're the one that called, nor that you are the one signing on the papers for him to get taken away.

          He will spend maybe a month in the mental hospital - what you need to do to make it last as long as possible, is that from the get go you will get in touch with the psychiatrist that runs his case, tell them he needs to stay so he can get clean off the drugs he takes, and also if you mention he is violent they will keep him for longer than if he's just suicidal. Also mention you suspect weed induced schizophrenia to the psych. It will take them at least 2 weeks to do an evaluation.

          cont.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            This will hopefully scare this gay straight. He might not be full on crazy, but he is a piece of shit to be around from what you told us, and thinks he can get away scott free with being violent with your family.
            This might not teach him that what he's doing is wrong, but this will 100% teach him that if he steps out of line, he will get sent off to the loony bin again for another month of his life behind bars.
            He might not stop smoking, but he will 100% understand he needs to stop being violent or else he'll lose his ''freedom'' again. Basically hold that over his head from now on. But subtle. Don't tell him ''we'll send you back'' but more passive stuff like ''hmm lately it seems we are going back to old patterns of violence here'', you know...He will straighten out just for fear of going back.

  123. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >This place is so empty, my thoughts are so tempting
    >I don't know how it got so bad
    >Sometimes, it's so crazy that nothing can save me
    >But it's the only thing that I have
    >If you believe it's in my soul
    >I'd say all the words that I know
    >Just to see if it would show
    >That I'm trying to let you know
    >That I'm better off on my own

  124. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    A glass of the house red
    Outside of fist bumps and hand shakes ive not been touched by another person in 5 years, nor have I had a kind word said to me. I havent shared a genuine laugh or produced a warm smile. Every woman i have loved has hurt me and every dollar ive made i squandered. My days are repetitive, mirthless and without the horizon of hope.
    i find myself lamenting that I didnt die in that ambush in Afghanistan, because at least then i would have left a mark to be remembered, instead of staining the lives of those around me like an unflushed smear of shit on the toilet bowl

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