how can I manipulate this transformation?
gf looks like left pic. I want the 2014 anorexic girl sauce not some dieting bull
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get gf to lose weight
how can I manipulate this transformation?
gf looks like left pic. I want the 2014 anorexic girl sauce not some dieting bull
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looked better before 🙂
I want a wife who won't struggle to run after my children
hide cotton balls in her food
what does this do?
you can't digest cotton, it doesn't taste like anything and absorbs water making you feel full while not absorbing any calories
Why not simply find a thin girlfriend? You can't make them lose weight. All fats have severe self loathing over their bodies and even living like that is not enough to make them lose it.
Different anon than OP, my gf got chubby since 2020, but she's the nicest least toxic/insane gf I've ever had. I love her and her senpai. But I'm losing sexual interest. I don't want to break up with someone because they gained weight, but I really struggle with letting her know to do so.
this, very hard to find woman who are not insane, and very time consuming to verify. Also thin woman can get fat easily (specially the insane ones) but it's more difficult for a woman to become crazy
Hmmm. Well it does sound like you love her and that isn't something to give up lightly. Well you either have a difficult conversation or you resign to a life without sexual fulfillment for either of you. You can take your time to figure out the right angle that suits her sensitivities. Maybe you can say that you want to live a long life together and both of you need to try to be healthy to do so. And then introduce some new fit hobbies you do together.
This is the only thing that works. My wife ballooned after we got married, mostly because she got a job that was stressful and left her no free time. She was drinking like 4 of those 500+ calorie Starbucks coffees every day.
Had a calm, serious sit down talk with her about it. Said I want to live a long healthy life with her. What really cinched it though was saying that I wanted her to be able to keep up with the kids we planned to have (we have since had one). That got her to change her habits, change her job and she started working out. She has kept the weight off and is more fit than when we first met.
And to add, telling her you're losing sexual attraction most likely will backfire, but you can instead give positive feedback for her gains (or in this case losses) by demonstrating how much more sexually attracted you feel about them.
You can't change someone
I had a living gf but I hated myself for dating a fatty. Talked to her multiple time about it and she would always say yeah I'm gonna change, but she never did
Cut your losses and leave the fat b***h. I left my gf and should have done it easy earlier
my wife is only 10-15lbs overweight but she's 5'0 so it looks like more. it would be the equivalent of me gaining 30lbs
Just simply find the most rare and simultaneously most desirable quality for a woman to have. Oh and if you do win the lottery and find one it won't last.
There's no surefire way. Most of the time you either have to leave them or accept them (lmao). It's impossible to change people who don't want to change, and if they wanted to to stop being fat, they would actively be doing so without your input.
The adult thing to do is to gently explain to her that her being fat is going to prevent you from committing more fully because you see yourself with a partner who stays healthy for both health reasons and physical attraction.
But that probably isn't going to work, so instead what you should do is dump her, go find a new gf who already puts in the effort to be trim before dating you, and then call it out quickly if she starts showing signs of letting herself go. Early correction is key.
OP you're doing it backwards
Semaglutide and 2 IU of GH a day.
>GH
Good head is indeed a great motivator OP.
where to get gf. i mean gh
Internets. Grey tops are nice. 14 IU a vial about $120 a kit so under $1 per IU.
My wife works out if I work out, but only if I'm consistent for weeks at a time. We have a home gym so she will come down and workout with me. But only when I'm consistently down there. It's a true reflection of my inner worth, so far I've failed miserably, she has gained 15lbs since we got married. She could definitely be fit as frick but since I've been slacking, she has too. I hate my own mind, discipline and body. But maybe one day I'll get better
I just let it build up inside until I get mad enough to scold her about it. Seems like it finally worked.
Women will not commit to drastically changing their appearance unless they are put through something traumatizing. The only thing that will probably get her to seriously lose weight and keep it off is if you break up with her and tell her it’s because of her weight.
Not true. It's easy to get fat because most people rack disciprine and they need some outside motivation to choose the difficult path, but not necessarily trauma. Trauma usually makes people just put on more weight either as a coping or defense mechanism.
I spent two years telling my woman I wasn't happy with our sexual situation and she didn't listen and kept gaining weight and our sex life was horrible. I went out and started seeing other girls. I got with about five women over the course of a month. She found out and after huge fights and arguments, we kept the relationship, she forgave me and lost sixty pounds. This is the life of an attractive alpha man who can actually command women and most of you will never experience that. My girl does anything I ask. Of course I'm good to her in exchange.
Dude, she’s gonna leave you. Nobody forgives that shit lmao
Btw I hate these threads. Every few days I see a new one pop up. Just a total psyop. Stop asking these questions. If you want a woman who stays fit, find one who knows how to get fit.
If your girl won't lose weight for you then you aren't attractive enough and she isn't afraid to lose you. Fear of losing her man is the only thing that will make a woman lose weight.
once you've impregnated them, you lose a lot of leverage
you cant change people they have to change themselves. go next. I wasted years.
>get gf to lose weight
and why would you want to do that?
how does she not have loose skin? or is the left the after?
panniculectomy is really cheap outside the us shitty healthcare system. like 3K will get you one in turkey and 5k southern Europe
Do you guys live together?
back before I was married mt gf she lived at her parents and I couldn't understand how she was so big, she was around 190 but ate like 120 around me.
Then I beggan to eat dinner at her house and her mom was monstrously overfeeding her. every meal was three courses had a side of bread, and a caloric bomb of a desert. She only ate dinner at home but that alone was like 1500 calories. when we moved in I began cooking for both of us and she got in shape very fast
>How can I get her to change
Why don’t you get a new girlfriend and cut out the middleman. I’m serious. Statically, women leave the moment someone in the relationship loses weight. If she loses weight, she runs to every man who gives her attention. If he loses weight, she defaults to thinking he is going to cheat so she decides to beat him to the punch and runs to any man who gives her attention.
Left is architect approved.