>gf shows me a picture of her from a couple years before we met
>she was in much better shape
>gf shows me a picture of her from a couple years before we met. >she was in much better shape
>gf shows me a picture of her from a couple years before we met
>she was in much better shape
It is your moral obligation as her man to guide her to be her best. Physically, mentally and emotionally. You must compel her to follow you by the example you set. You must be compelled by this need to set the best example. In lieu of her father, you are now her benchmark. You are the yardstick by which she measures all men.
Keep in mind this only works if the other person has some sort of internal drive to better themselves from the beginning. You can guide people, but you can't change them. Dont waste your time being a surrogate father if you don't see her at least trying
Based. My wife is almost back to the weight she was when we started dating (almost 20 years and two children ago). When I started to become fit and happy it seemed to rub off on her. She loves how she can wear pretty much anything she wants now.
Based. I started getting back into the gym after 4-5 years. It took my wife around 7 months to voluntarily start joining me. She already looks great so everything from here on out is a bonus.
Happy for you two.
Think of it this way, she got bad enough to lower her own standards and then chose you.
kek hes gonna help her get in good enough shape to grab herself a tyrone megladong.
It will probably help to identify what changed and plan a strategy accordingly.
If she's still kinda young, maybe she was in sports that she no longer does or one of those people that half give up on life as soon as they start working full time. Maybe she let herself go with a previous partner. Maybe she got injured. Maybe her dad died.
Not all of these things can be fixed of course and even if there was a good reason it doesn't mean she'll see the need to get back in shape.
At least you have a gf
You think that's bad, just wait until you realise that she would never have considered you as an option when she was in better shape
Brutal but real
>find fat girl
>look at photos of her before she got fat
>if she looked good, she's now at a discount
>get her into shape again
>????
>profit
though I guess it's a chance she'll drop you when she figures out she's too good for you again I guess
>>get her into shape again
Delusion. Every time you mention losing weight, she will gain more.
you don't mention it moron. just invite her to go running with you, buy healthier food, etc.
She won´t have time to go run with you 3 times a week and will buy snacks when you´re not around
What?
My gf thought i had a brother before she met me and she called him the 'ugly brother'.
It was me before cutting the weight.
>start dating girl
>she tells me about how much thinner she was in the past and complains about her body
>does it basically every day
>fast forward 6 years
>she still says the same thing every day
whew lads. she´s not even chubby btw, just not super skinny
you could make hints about how much fun it is to pick her up/throw her aruond etc,
One time she asked me if I would prefer if she were a bit skinnier. She wanted to know my honest opinion and since I´m usually into pretty skinny girls I said yes. The end result was her bursting into tears and being down for a week. She didn´t make any lifestyle changes though.
That day I learned a lot about women lol.
Yeah you only make that mistake once. No matter what she's always perfect as she is, even if she promises not to get angry or upset, do not waver
You guys are a bunch of pussies. If you want your girl to be skinnier, then tell her that, and if she makes a scene out of it and makes it a problem, then she's not the one, simple as. Holy fricking cringe with all the treading on the eggshells
tell me you're single, without telling me you're single
That's true, I'm single. I just don't understand why you would want to be with someone that has a mental breakdown if they hear something they don't like, you know?
God dammit, why do women do this? Even the cool ones who roll with every fricking punch imaginable end up setting this fricking trap, and it's utterly infuriating.
I honestly don´t get it. I mean, I can understand not wanting to constantly be reminded of your flaws. But to ask for someones honest opinion on something and then not being able to handle the answer is just ???
>playing a game designed by a woman
automatic loss
There are actually women out there who will keep it together if you give them weight based criticism, especially if they asked for it, even if theyre temporarily upset they dont lose it because they wanted the painful truth.
I have no idea how you can tell them apart without just risking major blowback.
dont say yes, just repeat that you like picking her up and throwing her around jfc
"So you used to be attractive, huh?"
Personally I'm glad my girlfriend is a little chubby. If she were thin she'd literally be a 10 and probably would have found someone better than me. I have no issue with her staying an 8 and not hitting her full potential, since I'm going well above my league with her anyways lol.
How hot do you have to be to completely override the social skills meme? Would a 6-7 face with an 8, 9, or 10 body do the trick?
>6-7 face
Body is literally last on the tier list bro. It goes:
1. Money
2. Personality
3. Face
4. Body
You are SOL
adding on, personality has the chance to supercede money if it pairsalong with face. Body is just the sprinkles on top, if you only work on your body, you will be forever alone.
You homosexuals, if this is a problem you have to take action like a man. Just fricking figure out her schedule, buy her a gym membership and take her with you. This is a last resort option, obviously it's better if she goes and pays herself but if she's lazy just do this.
If you can't even say to your woman "Let's go to the gym, I'll pay" then you have bigger problems than her weight.