Let's say you got a cute 6/10 girlfriend but she rarely works out. However, you get her to lift weights and run and she develops a really good body. Is it worth the risk? There is a massive chance she is going to leave you for a better man.
Going to the gym with gf good idea or not?
You either get a better gf, or lose a prostitute. Sounds like win-win to me.
If she leaves you and you are single again at 28+ good luck finding another girlfriend who is decent and not a used up prostitute who has no love/affection to give anymore because she is burned out from her bawd phase.
24, meet a lot of women and girls who want someone older, 30+
Old men are going to do just fine
wow what a unique and novel perspective, sorry you weren't good enough anon, hope ranting about "da hoors" makes you feel better kek
rather be single than together with some idiot. why are you afraid of being alone?
he's not afraid of being alone, he's upset because he is alone
He hates himself.
why do people here just pretend that humans aren't social creatures, that not having this perfectly natural thing that humans have had for thousands of years is some kind of thing you can just not have and have no downsides from.
7 year relationship is falling apart. I am 28. Break up seems imminent. At least I am still a solid 6/10. I believe in my ability to pull another (hopefully happier) woman that is not a prostitute. Your doom will not infect me.
ygmi
I got out of a 6 year relationship at 27 and I was able to upgrade to a younger and prettier gf with lower kill count. And this is while being in school, no job living at my parents house. I couldn’t even begin to imagine my options if I had my shit together.
I’m not trying to cope with the
>I’m 43 years old and can smash 18 year olds!!!
But at 28 you can easily meet cute 20 year olds
>And this is while being in school, no job living at my parents house
what if you are not in school, have a job and living at parents house? where do you go to meet them if you arent in school?
i know its possible but ive only seen it happen in a school/bar setting
stay sad, demoralizer
>t. bald 30 year old
If you think that you can't get better, you already lost.
get rekt homosexual
>t. 4/10 foreveralone
Lot of incel talking points there to cram into just one sentence.
You have to be an ugly, insecure loser in order to have such a doomer view of life as an old man. Young college girls will totally flirt with an older 20 something dude.
I'm 33 and get lots of interest and action from 20-something girls. They don't want guys their age
im 32 and it's easier than ever. I mean, might be different if you walled I guess. But there's rarely a week I don't see some girl interacting with me in the 'please talk to me' kind of way which is an indication of wanting you to ask her out. I'm happily taken so I don't engage of course, but it'll always be fun to take note of.
For the record I felt basically ignored by the world until my mid 20s.
How tall and attractive are you?
I'm 31 and I've never gotten more interest from girls in their early 20s than before, I'm more confident, better looking, higher status than ever before.
You must be some 20-something homosexual with no understanding of dating dynamics to say something that moronic.
>I'm 31
This is not a win. Where are your wife and your kids old man?
It can wait a few more years, zoomer.
If you're too insecure to take her around other guys because you're scared she will leave you - you're FRICKED
Then she's gonna leave you anyway and it's better for both of you if it happens sooner rather and later, with a good body as part of the deal.
Lifting isn't a social activity
May you dumbasses one day understand that
It's a personal, solo activity
The only reason to ever be in a public gym is because you can't afford a home one
t. Never played a sport in his life
You're fricking low iq
Who said anything about a team sport
Fricking hick zoomer homosexual
Seething friendless incel cope, lifting with friends is great
lifting with friends is fun and you have a free spotter but it takes longer and its a different mental state
also its always good for someone to formcheck you
t. Socially anxious autist that thinks he is a mysterious badass
You don't get it you can't wrap your head around it
To be mysterious would mean you want to be social
I know you grew up on shit sitcoms, troony sex Ed, and God knows what else
But someone people don't want to be bothered with socialising at every second
As far as socially anxious, it's the opposite. Idgaf socially, if I'm anxious about anything it's dominating weaklings because that's not my thing
I go to the gym alone. My workout is already 1h 30min long when I go as fast as possible. I don't have room to talk with other people, and I don't want to break my focus. Gym is a solo activity you can do with others, but I've no reason to befriend the people there. I've got enough friends already.
I see how much some people blab and waste everyone elses time hogging machines while they do.
Based. You won't see anyone lifting as hard as me in your local planet shitness.
One can expect this kind of answers from weirdos that are patrons to odd gyms.
It's better to have a hot gf than to not, if she leaves for someone else, she either wasn't worth settling with or you weren't a good enough man.
But the time spent with a hottie around your arm is well worth it regardless, just look at what the losers who have never had a gf spout on this board.
Do you think when women get cheated on by Chad they think "I wasn't a good enough woman"?
I went with an ex years ago. It was her idea. She even paid for our memberships. I actually went 4 days a week and quickly made progress with the help of changing my diet (this is a long time ago and I am still a dyel) where she would feel sick and need a hamburger most nights because she was starving. Eventually she accused me of cheating (maybe she was idc at this point) and would go off about how unfair it is that I can go to the gym and make fast progress just because I am male but it is impossible for it to work for females unless they have good genetics. I moved all my shit out of our apartment at the end of the lease and blocked her phone from calling me. I guess all that is just to say, yeah, I recommend taking your gf to the gym if possible
>There is a massive chance she is going to leave you for a better man
Then become a better man
There is a clear genetic ceiling where you are not able to become better in the eyes of a girlfriend. If you are like 5'10" with a good physique she will leave you for a 6'2" guy with a good physique.
People always say you shouldn't compare yourself to others because there is always a bigger fish but girls want the biggest fish there is.
No, if she is decent she won't. Have you guys ever seen a life-long marriage or do you just read doomposts on IST all day.
Don’t try to help these people, they’re fricked
Those types of relationships don't exist anymore
they do, you just don't notice because you doompost on IST all day
Dude you are aware that netorare doujins do not actually reflect reality, aren't you?
Netorare hentais might be overblown but there are enough girls who get together with a guy who has an average penis and she starts missing her FWB from college who was bigger and she cheats on her average boyfriend. Given that most girls have lots of hook ups and FWBs when young the chance that they frick a big dick is very high.
Yes, we are all aware that prostitutes exist. But you seem to me conflating "enough" with "all", ignoring the fact that women like that are not as common as you believe they are. Like frick, your response was basically "Yeah NTR isn't real but actually it really is and always happens".
They are common for sure, just look at almost every college girl. What's so devastating is that after they had their fun they can just lie about their past and play the sweet innocent girl who only likes vanilla sex 1x a week because "her sex drive is low". 4 years later you are married, dead bedroom, she doesn't actually love you and cheats on you with her college ex.
You can't spot these prostitutes.
>You can't spot these prostitutes.
skill issue
there is literally no bigger fish than me.
Thread should have ended here.
How would you know one way or the other?
I go with my gf to the gym all the time. She asks me what lifts to do so she can tone up her arms and her abs. I trick her into doing squats and deadlifts for dat ass.
> she develops a really good body. Is it worth the risk?
Yes.
>There is a massive chance she is going to leave you for a better man.
No. There is no chance if you use that time correctly. Treat the gym as a bonding opportunity with her.
>bonding opportunity
Lmao I bet you also believe women like cuddling and don't just do it because it's actually just men who are in need of intimacy.
my gf is always hanging on me, especially in the winter, tf are you on about incel
It's a mind trick and you're falling for it
>affection from a girl?? she's tricking you
>good thing I'm too smart to fall for it
do incels really?
Let me get this straight, you're saying a woman who cuddles with her boyfriend is actually employing psychological manipulation to...do what, exactly? Because I'm pretty sure none of your answers to that question are going to be anything less than completely fricking deluded.
Because she knows you like it
that's a bad thing.... why exactly?
It means you're hen pecked
>instead of a woman doing it because she loves you and wants cuddles, she does it because she loves you and wants to make you happy because she knows you like it
Still not understanding how that constitutes a "mind trick".
She doesn't want to make you happy because she loves you, that's man thinking. She wants to make you happy to keep all your benefits around
Yes. Benefits like my 1 bedroom or my 2008 Subaru Legacy. Maybe she's after my XBoxOne.
You never know man she's probably just trying to get you on child support
I think you need to hang with better quality people, anon.
This is what everyone think until it happens to them, watch your back don't let your life get ruined over a woman
ishygddt
imagine coping over your own shortcomings so hard you unironically believe this
Touch grass, you sad autistic sack of shit.
Blackpilled homosexuals are so funny
The internet is not the same thing as reality.
Get out there, sling some dick and find yourself a good woman. They exist and they are out there. Work on yourself, apply yourself and you can find a good woman. Its not easy but nothing worth anything ever is.
>find yourself a good woman
love when subhumans like you say shit like this, like yeah it's that easy lmao the good ones are walking around with post-it notes attached to their heads saying "not a prostitute" fricking brain dead moron. I'm sure the guy standing in divorce court right now was looking for a "bad one" when looking for a woman to spend the rest of his life with. literally have a nice day
i can tell this homie a boomer by the way he type KEk
kek how all this normies hate that anon for spilling truth. If you can't walk out of a relationship at any time you ain't no man but a trained rat
My ex absolutely wanted to cuddle more than I did. It was a main part of why we split up in her mind (she had profoundly autistic communication problems).
I've been single since March and I've hooked up with a few girls since then and honestly I kinda enjoy the post sex cuddles and back rubs a little more than sex at this point.
Lrn2 make a woman cum, nerds.
the female orgasm is a myth designed to keep men from realizing that women use sex as a tool to control them.
>cuddles are manipulation
>orgasms are manipulation
>your mother's love is manipulation
>your dog's tail wagging? manipulation
>your mother's love is manipulation
unironically is because it sets the stage for all other forms of female manipulation and is used to make men feel bad about pursuing their own lives so that they care for their mothers when they are older.
>the female orgasm is a myth
Lmao imagine telling on yourself like that
the way you phrase it makes it sound like you’re already punching above your weight dating a 6/10
>There is a massive chance she is going to leave you for a better man.
It sounds like you're not very high quality then.
There is always someone better than you
At your gym flirting with your gf? I feel if that is the case, you have a number of other issues to sort out first.
Autistic engineer op
mid af. Um, I don't think it's smart to go to the same gym as your gf. I see couples in my gym all the time and there's something cringe about it. Especially when the girl is more knowledgeable and shows the guy how to lift. That is sad to see. There's this one couple that is always there on Tuesdays and Thursdays. The chick is asian and has enormous tiddies. Her boyfriend is just a fat dude with a weak chin. She is always correcting his squat form.
A lot of couples i see under 30 are cringe.
Dont do it women are selfish c**ts who only want to do their workout and make you leave early after they do their butt blasters and gay ass pec dec workout while youre still on your second exercise
there's already a chance she is going to leave you for another man regardless if she works out or not. Would you rather your women leave you for a fat loser or for a stronger chad?
Just like dating a coworker. NEVER shit where you eat.
No
>pic rel
So that's what's it like to have an ugly gf
>he thinks hot women are less annoying when in reality they're just more likely to get away with being annoying due to their looks
I think it's cute.
I only ever saw one couple, out of on the order of hundreds, that didn't look unhappy being together at the gym. The couple that did look happy would try different exercises out together, coach each other, and generally be good gym buddies, from what I could see
Worked out great for my wife and I, keeps us both on task and she's really good at tracking work outs. For years I'd jsut go and spin my wheels, when we started going together I started making progress past noob gains
>There is a massive chance she is going to leave you for a better man
It's not like you're gonna keep her away from hotter, more jacked men your whole life, anon. It's gonna be a catalyst for sure. Catalyst for what? Either good relationship, or losing a prostitute, just like fpbp said.
Guys that lift with their gf's are beta as frick.
They usually hang on to the roasties for dear life their entire workout so no men will approach them / look at them.
I just got this serial killer glare from another guy yesterday because his bawd of a gf was doing some doggystyle shit with her ass staring right into my soul and I accidentally had a look lmao
tldr it'll ruin your workout every time
It's a bad idea. Other than it being cringe you'll constantly be focused on helping her out, checking her form, thinking of good workouts for her and trying to give her advice without sounding too demanding/demeaning. That shit will put a rift into your relationship and will cause arguments.
Don't do it, I did it with two women and learned my lesson. Either get her a girl friend who works out so they can go together or get a home gym where you can yell at her/slap her when she gets out of line
Yeah its great when dudes bring their gfs to stare at my ass while I squat.
If you're wearing baggy sweats and a t-shirt to the gym but she's showing up half naked.
can you just have a nice day already? or at least frick off from IST?
I've never kissed a girl so my advice is make her skinnyfat and insecure
Anon there's like two people on all of IST who can actually get a girlfriend and those dudes are probably resentful fricks with low self-esteem dating landwhales.
Don't get your relationship advice here.
knew a cute couple in my local boxing gym
they are so happy togather lol wroking out make them both super happy but i always felt that tenseness with her boyfriend IDK if i should feel safe talking to someone else's girlfriend or train with her, everytime i hold pad for her I felt a bit worried like what if her BF think of anything... it bothered me so much I tried to stay away from workiing out with her, she super liked me tho, remembered she always wanted me to teach her and stuff
hmmm and .... would going to gym togather seeing her workout with someone else bother you? i def don't want you to feel unease cause of it?
If you increase your GFs value to a point where you don't actually have enough value to sustain the relationship then yes she could very possibly leave depending on her personality.
No, it's not worth the risk especially if she's cute. If you get her pregnant, then the story changes as you want her body to handle the pregnancy as well as possible so SS+GOMAD her.
Depending on how serious you are about the gym it can be a bit difficult in the beginning. My gf really annoyed the frick out of me in the beginning and we had some fights over it. Somehow women can't seem to understand that I am not in the socializing mood when I just put hundreds of pounds on my fricking back and feel like I am gonna pass out between sets.
We figured all that out and it is actually fun working out with her and she doesn't bother me during my few heavy sets in my workout anymore. Nothing worse than the drama of "anon why are you ignoring me" right before you go for a Squat PR.
>Nothing worse than the drama of "anon why are you ignoring me" right before you go for a Squat PR.
I felt sick reading it