I got shot down by my gym crush too OP.
it actually hurts seeing her at the gym now. I'm pretty sure I'm in love and it sucks.
When I see her working out with her male friend I feel physically ill.
I asked her one time if she was dating that guy (before I made my intentions obvious) and she said no.
I want to dislike her for keeping beta orbiters around, but honestly what girl doesn't do that nowadays?
I feel hopeless bros. I'm 29 years old. Never had a girlfriend because I can't find a girl worth wifing up. the good ones are all taken or they think they're out of my league.
I'm thinking about just degenmaxxing at this point. Maybe make a trip down to thailand and just frick hookers until I'm no longer capable of loving a woman.
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You are not in love because you never even had a relationship with this girl. Sorry about the rejection bro but gym girls that's are a dime a dozen nowadays
Im pretty sure my gym crush is into me but shes autistic as frick. Anyways, im not risking my gym membership for a woman. In the other gym i was before i had a crush too and she tried sparking conversation with me but i dropped the ball because i was autistic too. Current gym crush did something 2 weeks ago like she had intentions of talking to me, but she 360'd and walked away like she changed her opinion. Im getting a shit ton of matches off dating apps but if shes not my gym crush i dont give a frick. Women are worthless, but this autistic girl looks like shes worth of my time just for being autistic. Single moms, fatsos and generic prostitutes of dating apps can go kick rocks.
You guys need to realise that it's not a life ending scenario and take it on the gym. Don't be a gay but just be polite and normal. Make a joke of it or whatever. Just ask if they'd be interested in doing something some time. If they say no just be like
>fair, worth a shot
then when you see them around say hi and act normal. You can only be embarrassed if you act embarrassed. In fact it's absolutely okay to feel a bit embarrassed. Just be the sort of person that laughs at that embarrassment rather than recoiling in horror and swerving out the way whenever you see them around.
>it's not a life ending scenario and take it on the chin
Not on the gym
Don't know how that happened
You're stopping yourself from getting anywhere because of an abstract concept.
Talk to her you spastic
I got called gross by a down syndrome looking Hispanic homosexual it feels bad man
Probably just saw her reflection in your eyes, dont let it bother you
> Maybe make a trip down to thailand and just frick hookers until I'm no longer capable of loving a woman.
Do this but stick to “massage” parlors. Taking them to the hotel and hanging out with hookers is a waste of time and theyre trying to milk you for gifts and cash. Just walk in and out of the parlors as often as you can coom. You get to choose a new chick from a lineup each time it feels like being a kid in a candy store. These girls are submissive and let you lead.
>When I see her working out with her male friend I feel physically ill.
Start dating her male friend.
Feelsbadman.
I alternate between idolizing my gym crushes to completely ignoring them for weeks on end while muttering to myself every time I see them "she's Chad only".
stop going to the gym to meet women. you're supposed to be there to meet yourself
>Maybe make a trip down to thailand and just frick hookers until I'm no longer capable of loving a woman.
that doesn't work my dude, you can't frick the romantic streak out of you. Lost count of how many hookers I've been to, but if I can still fet infatuated
tho fricking hookers does help immensely with handling women so yeah do it
you shot your shot and now you can move on with your life. good work.
>I want to dislike her for keeping beta orbiters around
OP you are the beta orbiter.
>have crush on girl in my fluids class
>asked for her number, phrased it in a way that it was meant for class
>got her number, but don’t know how to flirt without making me disingenuous
I know your feeling to some extent
>29 years old
Dude you're acting like a highschool boy with a crush. Grow the frick up and get control of your emotions. I turn 29 tomorrow and don't think I've had a crush on anyone in almost a decade.
What do you LOVE about her exactly? You have built up an idea of who she is in your mind without even knowing her, you don't love her.
You simply lust for her.
I'm 33, had plenty of relationships/frick things and now I'm engaged. I know I love this woman; there's only ever been 2 women I thought I "loved" before, it turns out they were just people I cared about and liked.
When you meet the one it'll work, why you simping for a girl that played you and humiliated you?
>or they think they're out of my league
lmao yeah dude that's definitely it haha
>I'm pretty sure I'm in love and it sucks.
Your first puppy crush is not "love" or whatever the frick. Stop looking for "love" from women, they are incapable of that. Instead look for traits you want a woman to have.
>male friend
LMAO she's an absolute prostitute and you're a little b***h
Also she's probably going in there with a guy to spite you, because she's a fricked up person
Same thing happened to me (except I rejected her during our date) and then she rejected me in turn, then I saw her dressed like a prostitute at the gym, not even glancing my way, pretending I don't even exist
She kissed me and held my hands at a party and pretended like nothing happened
Now I never even look at her, she doesn't exist to me. She came in with some dork and tried to say hi to me while I was doing dips, totally ignored her
Came back one more time and since I'm ignoring her she stopped coming in altogether, it's been a week
Girl had a whole range of problems, divorce parents, partying for weeks straight, made me feel uneasy
I hope that b***h never comes to the gym again. I hope I never have to see her moronic mug again
She wanted to date me and I had such high hopes for her. I even tried to accept her with her red flags but she outright removed herself from my life. She's my worst enemy and every time she's in there I get motivated to lift harder as a "frick you" to her
But I can't wait until she stops going there altogether because she's an inconsistent, nutty person who needs attention from men for literally everything she does
You're in the anger phase rn bro dw you'll get over it