I only have 1 insecurity and it’s my hands. They’re too soft. They’re not manly enough. What can I do about this? I might work in masonry just to change that. Any advice.
Hands
I only have 1 insecurity and it’s my hands. They’re too soft. They’re not manly enough. What can I do about this? I might work in masonry just to change that. Any advice.
punch some people
I honestly already did. 2 very physical altercations I’ve been in were coincidentally because I was told some slick shit about how I have b***h hands.
>physical altercations
he means a true, soulfull fight
why can you just be normal OP? why are you so weird?
Start rock climbing regularly. Almost every climbing gym has all the weights you need as well, so just get one membership and alternate climbing in with your lifting. Your hands will become rougher, your forearms will get jacked, and your veins will start popping out as long as you aren't a fat frick.
How do you get into a climbing gym if you're a poor peasant, won't everyone hate you ?
I literally feel a need to start climbing ASAP idk why
It's something I've dreamed of doing forever. It seems like something you can spend all day doing and totally get lost in it. I need that immersion
The problem at the moment is that I am perceived as a poor, backwoods peasant
The problem. Is that I'm not social at all. Is it possible to climb alone, the way I lift at 4 am? All the gym pictures seem like it's a shit ton of people
For me, it's my freaky nipples.
why the frick would you go out of your ways to get rough hands? for every person who thinks its manly you just are going to look poor or like you dont take care of yourself to someone else. Even when your hands have callouses it isnt like theyre worth going out of your way to obtain. they just dissapear after a few months if you dont use them. why the frick would you go out of your way to superficially make your hands look beat up? literally mental illness.
would u rather have ur butt groped by big manly hands or small femboy hands ???
do calluses really go away on their own?
Start (rock) climbing/bouldering. Amazing way to roughen up your hands, make some gains and it's a fun sport to do.
>They’re too soft.
Dip them in some water mixed with a little bleach and let then air dry. Bam. Chapped hands. You are welcome.
Solution to small hands? They're almost the same size as my gfs who is about 6 inches shorter than me
big hand subliminals
Rough hands aren't what you want. You want calloused hands.
You get them by working with your hands.
Using pole tools like shoveling/raking/hoe.
Play guitar.
Climbing trees and rocks as a kid.
Etc.
You want your hands to be soft though. Soft and strong. That is why picrel exists for working men.
my gf has the softest calming hands.how about you work in a gay bar anon and use that?
I have the opposite problem, how do I get rid of calluses?