Hater in the gym

How do you deal with a guy in a group who's always making back hand remarks yet everyone else thinks he's a "solid dude"
>Be me
>Go gym
>Say hey to all the regulars I talk to
>Handshakes and dabs for all the relevant people
>See guy in one of the groups
>"Let me guess... You want an awkward handshake too?"
>I shake his hand and say in an exaggerated voice
>"OH ME? Ohhhhh you know I LOVVVE my awkward handshakes"
That's the 2nd backhanded remark he's made to me.
1st one was a week or so back when some of the gym regulars were joking I was on steroids cus of my 200kg deadlift. And he said something along the lines of me having "small balls from all the gear I take". To which I exaggerated again and said "OHHH YEAH MATE, fricking tiny mate" which got a laugh from the regulars
>So later on during the session
>Notice he has a BMW key
>Remember some dude who was revving his BMW as he was driving past a Weather Spoons (shitty pub chain)
>Realise it was him
>Feel this is my time to say something back
>Ask him if he drives a silver 2000s BMW
>He says yeah
>I say "SO IT WAS YOU DRIVING PAST THAT WEATHER SPOONS THE OTHER DAY. Frick me man. I was wondering which dickhead was making all that noise. You weren't even driving that fast bro."
>"Nah... I wasn't "
>"Frick me man, I thought it was some fricking teenagers on a god damn 50cc moped"
>For once he actually dropped his wienery attitude And all bass in his voice was gone
His words were
>"That hurts man"
Like why the frick you talk all this shit but can't take it back
>He then went on to say something shit about it being "A 3 litre engine bro, doesn't sound anything like a 50cc"
Didn't really pay much attention as it felt good knowing that I got under his skin. Me and my gym bro have eachother the side eye and a smile as he was talking. As we know this guy is a butthole.

Now my main question is. How to I go about continuing to navigate with this guy when a good chunk of the other gym goers think he's "A solid dude"?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Keep breaking him down. Once you push him far enough and really make him feel bad he will switch up and try to be your friend. Dudes have done this to me before too anon. It's always that one dude where everyone else is cool but he just has to be a homosexual about everything. Last dude who i met like that I finally snapped and made fun of his dead mom on mother's day and after that he was super cool with me and invited me to the strip club and shit. I of course don't associate with people like him but it is fricking weird how some guys are buttholes like that and then when pushed they revert to wanting to be your friend.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    he's insecure and wants to seem cool, he's taking the piss out of you to elevate his own status in the group
    just keep pressuring him and he'll stop

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why are you spending so much time being social in the gym? Shouldn't you be more concerned with exercising?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Oh, you're the weird autistic loser no one likes but tolerates because they feel bad and one guy who just doesn't care and tells you how it is. Change gyms, stop bothering people

      It’s hard to see the dynamic from online. But the fact you are even posting about this means you need to chill out. You’re too focused on this guy and you’re so bothered by him that you’re trying to get back at him. If he’s a dick, then don’t give him attention unless you have to. Be a man and don’t let another get under your skin. Don’t take it so personally even if he is mean, it’s all good

      OP dont listen to any of these homosexuals if you don't cut him down you'll always feel like a pussy and it will eat away at your sense of well being until you die. He has chosen to position himself as your enemy. Destroy him.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Why even bother? It's a waste of time and effort, you gain literally nothing from these people they're morons you say hi to then move on with your life literal npcs. Just don't even waste energy

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Say you're a shut in NEET with no social skills without actually saying it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            They literally dont matter

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              They are literally worthless

              You're the kind of guy to get beat up and robbed and be like "hmm. Literally doesn't matter, they're worthless"

              Top kek anon, I wish you all the best

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I mean, what else are you supposed to do? Not like you know the guy the police won't do shit anyways

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >dude just let people shit on you in public in front of others
          You are a fricking coward

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            They are literally worthless

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          They literally dont matter

          They are literally worthless

          b***h made cuck

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You aren't aren't punisher my guy, you're literally a nobody wasting effort on other nobodies

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            https://i.imgur.com/d2kuOP3.jpg

            [...]
            You're the kind of guy to get beat up and robbed and be like "hmm. Literally doesn't matter, they're worthless"

            Top kek anon, I wish you all the best

            Lmao fricking losers starting fights as a fully grown man because someone doesn't like you. Absolute clowns, everyone points and laughs at you throwing a tantrum like a kid

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      #

      Oh, you're the weird autistic loser no one likes but tolerates because they feel bad and one guy who just doesn't care and tells you how it is. Change gyms, stop bothering people

      #

      It’s hard to see the dynamic from online. But the fact you are even posting about this means you need to chill out. You’re too focused on this guy and you’re so bothered by him that you’re trying to get back at him. If he’s a dick, then don’t give him attention unless you have to. Be a man and don’t let another get under your skin. Don’t take it so personally even if he is mean, it’s all good

      #

      and dabs for all the relevant people
      >>"OH ME? Ohhhhh you know I LOVVVE my awkward handshakes"
      >>I say "SO IT WAS YOU DRIVING PAST THAT WEATHER SPOONS THE OTHER DAY. Frick me man. I was wondering which dickhead was making all that noise. You weren't even driving that fast bro."
      I’d avoid you after the first sentence you uttered. Pure cringe

      The responses on this thread just show most people will hate you just because you socialise

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        there’s a difference between being social and being an obnoxious autistic homosexual

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >hate you just because you socialise

        homie it's a fricking GYM lol like, you wanna socialize, fine, do it in the fricking lobby or outside or something but on the gym floor, wtf, how annoying

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    do most of you guys make friends at the gym or what? i don't really recognize anyone i see at the gym and no one talks to each other

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >That's the 2nd backhanded remark he's made to me.
    if he makes a third remark, then it's time to unsheathe your gym katana
    you have a gym katana, right?

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Oh, you're the weird autistic loser no one likes but tolerates because they feel bad and one guy who just doesn't care and tells you how it is. Change gyms, stop bothering people

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It’s hard to see the dynamic from online. But the fact you are even posting about this means you need to chill out. You’re too focused on this guy and you’re so bothered by him that you’re trying to get back at him. If he’s a dick, then don’t give him attention unless you have to. Be a man and don’t let another get under your skin. Don’t take it so personally even if he is mean, it’s all good

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    fuark bros I need to get shredded right fricking now

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    > turning your gym into a social club and dilation-station

    wtf is wrong with nearly all of you homosexuals itt

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It sounds like you're the type of social moron who tries to hard to be funny and annoys everyone else at the gym, and the "mean" guy is "mean" for not humoring your antics

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    try this. just say frick you, deadpan, not angry or loud, then just go on with stuff. if he apologizes, accept it with grace. if he laughs when you say "frick you." hes probably ok.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    and dabs for all the relevant people
    >>"OH ME? Ohhhhh you know I LOVVVE my awkward handshakes"
    >>I say "SO IT WAS YOU DRIVING PAST THAT WEATHER SPOONS THE OTHER DAY. Frick me man. I was wondering which dickhead was making all that noise. You weren't even driving that fast bro."
    I’d avoid you after the first sentence you uttered. Pure cringe

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    slit his throat in front of everyone

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Incels bully revenge fantasy kek you won't do shit

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I'll suck your wiener homosexual

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You have crippling autism

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