More girls seem to be romantically interested in me. I notice substantially more women express opinions like I'll be a good father, good husband, etc. when I do lots of pushups in particular. By having a chest that juts out, I convince women I'm actually much more fit than I actually am, and so women want more relationships with me.
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>get into fitness >have a top 0.5%body >get into skin/hair care >look fairly good >get into fashion >stop looking like my mom dresses me up and have clothes that compliment my body >be wierd and socially akward since im hella autistic and never had friends during childhood untiil i turned 14
Yeah,they were right about being confident
>Yeah,they were right about being confident
I was always pretty confident. I was just in something like unemployed stage II or III obese with manboobs before, and now I have a pretty decent job and I look attractive too.
But I think I'm going to keep being cheap on dates like I was when I was in college. I somehow can't imagine taking a girl to a fancy restaurant every weekend or something. I just want to go eat pizza or watch a movie, hang out, and maybe grope a bit of titty.
Pretty much this. Not too long ago, I managed to get a girl´s insta and we started talking. After a first date, she did not talk to me anymore, lol.
I was mentally prepared to struggle with money/fitness, but I never could have known how much being a social moron impairs you.
Pretty much this. Not too long ago, I managed to get a girl´s insta and we started talking. After a first date, she did not talk to me anymore, lol.
I was mentally prepared to struggle with money/fitness, but I never could have known how much being a social moron impairs you.
>Pretty much this. Not too long ago, I managed to get a girl´s insta and we started talking. After a first date, she did not talk to me anymore, lol.
What'd you say bro?
>I was mentally prepared to struggle with money/fitness, but I never could have known how much being a social moron impairs you.
To a large extent it's just past experience with the opposite sex that improves you tbh, which is how people end up being highly promiscuous now and ending up with absurd body counts. Everybody has to learn from experience to some extent unless you got in on the childhood friend or maybe high school sweetheart stage. I got gfs in HS and college and ended up being a single kv.
>get into fitness >have a top 0.5%body >get into skin/hair care >look fairly good >get into fashion >stop looking like my mom dresses me up and have clothes that compliment my body >be wierd and socially akward since im hella autistic and never had friends during childhood untiil i turned 14
>16 year olds
What's weird about this? Age of consent is 16 or lower in 99% of the world
Even in america, IIRC 12 states out of 50 have AOC of 16
Why is it always the morons out of the 12 states that think the world revolves around them and their rules?
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Only 12 states have AOC at 16? Oh yeah, I forgot "unrestricted AOC" is a thing. Normal "restricted" AOC means any normal person can have sex with (or in my state, marry) a 16 year old. Some states go even further and let students have sex with their teachers as long as they're 16.
But we're still supposed to larp like the age of consent is 18 worldwide and you're a pedophile if you don't agree with that objectively false statement because it's illegal for a 17 year old to do porn. (And honestly, banning 17 year olds from doing porn was a good idea.)
Yes they are a lot more positive towards me and I’m sure some of them our right want to frick me. Too bad I’m such an autist and don’t dare speak to them
Yes. Before I was fit they actively ignored me or tried to repell me even when they did not know me and I made no attempt to even interact with them. Now I can approach them and they are still not interested but they don't mind interacting with me.
What a sad ass post lmao, I get b***hes throwing themselves around left and right. The totalitarian government of Iran and it's tyrannical treatment of women has caused a massive incline in the female suicide rate. It is a tragedy against human rights
People are friendlier in general after going from fat to skinny. I've been in a long term relationship so I haven't really paid much attention to how women react to me. I have had a few women just walk up and talk to me a few times out of nowhere with two of them asking about my relationship status. They weren't attractive so it isn't really anything to crow about and I'm not what anyone would call muscular just skinny.
The only exception I've noticed particularly is that while literally everyone else is friendlier women in my age bracket are generally cold towards me. Which is noticeable because as part of self improvement I have made attempts to be friendly with the people I encounter in my day to day. They were much friendlier when I was fat. It might just be they assume I'm hitting on them and they default to it because they aren't interested when I'm just genuinely being friendly.
>be me >approached by qt univ freshie asking for directions >put my hand on her shoulder >tell her directions then tap her back after >she goes and about half way before the corner looks back at me
Yep, I've made it, bros.
>be super fatty >join gym to turn life around >when girls pass by me they look at me and just walk by >2 years later lost 30kg and really good form >girls now super ignore me catwalk style when they have to pass by >notice some of them going for a super short sideeye in the last centimeters passing by
Ahh yes, because loose gold digging prostitutes are WORTHWHILE
The real "worthwhile" women are too shy to approach you, as they are too shy to approach anyone
Hahahahahaha
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I had a girl approach me and compliment my sweater once. Struck up a decent conversation. I fumbled it hard
>working internship at a park one summer >cleaning a sign outside >korean girl with her parents comes up to the visitor center >mom, in broken english, calls me handsome >blush, thank them, and show them what's around the park >go back to my sign >Korean girl comes back to me, offers me a clementine since it's warm outside >accept it, and she asks for a picture with me to remember her visit to the park >asks for my email to send it to me, and we later meet up a couple times
She moved back to Korea, but we still talk, and she's a great girl
women are the original spaghetti spillers, what you're seeing with men nowadays has more to do with them getting more fembrained
you weren't even a consideration while lardo and I assume ISTtist
but now that you're in way better shape than the average guy (I assume), they might be doing this because they want to steal a glance, while possibly on a conscious level trying to avoid giving you signals
Yeah seems like I get the "very last second, when we're side by side" checkout from barbie type women and a "10 feet away" from smarter women. I think cuz Barbie's are insensitive/brutish so they don't mind closeness whereas smart women have more intense sensitivity so they need distance to feel comfortable. Older women tend to be a good distance away as well
Choose your poison: >drug abuse >botched plastic surgeries performed in dubious medical centers in Tijuana >wearing a plaster of makeup about an inch think to hide one of the above
Also I'm pretty sure I've seen at least the middle one drinking semen and/or taking it up the ass somewhere, so if they're OF bawds then some degree of brain damage is a near certainty.
thats them flirting bro. not even kidding. just pick an uglier one and practice talking to with her. then move up until you get the one you like. Sounds douchy but these gym girls do way worse.
I recently saw a cutie at the grocery store, and her friend noticed that I was watching and nudged the cutie that I was checking her out. They seemed so happy about it, lol.
I'm 100% sure that if I still was fat they would've felt creeped out instead.
Definitely. But I started lifting when I was 13. And I was also a star athlete when I was in elementary school. And so I can't really tell how women would react to me if I wasn't fit since I've always been fit. But I've gotten countless stares and compliments on my body over the years. And while some women don't really care about muscles, lots of them do. And even for the women that don't really care about muscles, it's not like they're going to reject you simply because you're buff. And so there's no negatives when it comes to lifting, at least when it comes to attracting women.
Women actively start conversations with me now and try to keep conversations going even when I try to show disinterest. I'm not attracted to 90% of the women that attempt to talk to me though as I only like short hair girls so it's just annoying now.
Yes, lot of mires and heavy look on my veiny forearms and shredded body but still autistic moron that got laid only 4 times in my life (im 26yold it's over)
I get told I don't look anywhere near my age which is a lie because I have eye wrinkles without even smiling. Mostly people just treat me like I'm stupid now though
Every relationship I have ever had has been because a woman approached me. So idk but I think so because I was fat because of medication and then I dropped like 100lbs in a year.
Does anyone else have problems getting girls in the gym to be friendly? I have no idea what the frick the problem is but girls in the gym give me no play. I mean they just look through me or act like they don't see me while staring at me from across the gym.
This only happens at the gym, but every other place I'm easily able to almost immediately start being touchy and playful with girls. The fastest I've ever gotten was at a house party meeting a new girl and within 30mins was already giving her a piggy back ride and play wrestling outside. I just don't understand what's going on in the gym.
Gyms aren’t for picking up girls and they aren’t there for that shit. If they approach you, fair game. But trying to cold approach chat up or interact with broads at the gym makes you look like the biggest tool in the world.
There's a girl I like at the gym who I hadn't seen in a while (perhaps 10 times total during the last year), we talked for a while, hugged when I was heading out and she told me that I was going to see her more often.
I'm a virgin at 27 years of age and have never been in a relationship, perhaps I will make it.
One of the girls at my workplace thought I was married for some reason.
They say if you want a fit girl, you have to go where the fit girls are; but this isn't true at the gym. That's like trying to pick up girls at the dentist - it's not why they're there.
No I’ve picked up multiple girls from the gym and they usually are very friendly if I just make conversation even if I’ve never talked to them before. Maybe you’re just ugly and can only pick up drunk women?
Been lifting seriosuly for 8 months. Still skinny fat with shitty gains and only a 2 pac. I get random comments from girls at work like "oh we need anon to move this thing hehe" and "Your back is too big for that shirt".
There was some black dude that keep staring at me. I'm male. It happened that day we ended up close by when we did our reps. Sometimes he'd come nex to me as he needed to use machine, or i close to him as i needed to use the weights. We both stared at each other with the look "you gay bruh?" It was the weirdest shit ever.
Two of my female friends admitted they were terrified of me when they first met me. You either scare women with your fat or scare them with your muscle and you must chose your path.
I asked this girl if the bench right next to her was occupied (it was the only bench not obviously taken) she smiled and told me it was free. She then went on to flex her ass in the mirror like two or three times. I guess once she realized I wasn't taking the bait she felt she had to resort to extreme measures so she stopped doing bicep curls and started doing rdls with her ass sticking into my face and her whole body in full view in the mirror I was facing. I didn't give her any attention and she just left once I got up to do something else. Was this just attention seeking behavior or was she trying to display interest? She was hella cute and this is the first time something like that has happened to me since I started lifting, idk, should I expect this behavior more often once I make it?
in my headcanon, this happens next time you see her >hey nice seeing you again, my name's anon >how long have you been working out here >><whatever answer> >it shows, I got pretty distracted by you last time >I wouldn't mind being distracted by you outside the gym too, wanna grab coffee sometime?
needless to say, I am not good with woman nor fit enough to pull off the above
don't say the thing about being distracted it's cringe and comes on too strong. also don't script conversations like this, if it goes off book at all you will make a fool of yourself. just introduce yourself like you planned and make small talk. migh go somewhere might not. try ur best to be socially aware
I'll just continue the tried and true strategy of not even trying so I don't end up cringe, too strong, or making a fool of myself
can't be socially aware if I've had no role models, and no experience to learn since I've been avoiding the risks my whole life
I had girls acting differently around me even when I was a skinny homosexual. When I finally become muscular looking and stop fapping 5 times a day in order to stockpile my sexual energy there won't be a girl who can resist me.
>be a fat frick. No attention from women >lose weight and start lifting after watching one too many crushes go by
About 10 months into lifting. >At a party wing manning my friend. >freshman girl grabs my ass >grab her hand and dance a bit >make out for like 30 min >she drags me to her place
And thats how I lost my virginity. Haven't talked to her since lmao. >with another friend and his gilfriends friends >friends gf is drunk and says one of her friends needs a dicking >i say "well if nothing else, Im a good hugger" to her friend >we hug >we go to my place to frick >"uoh anon you have such big muscles I feel so nice and safe around you lets meet again :)" >end up dating for a month
Now I've got nothing going on. And Im not even fit I just lift and have some muscle. It really was that easy. Just lift and have friends. WAGMI.
>and have friends >that are girls or have girls around them
I wonder if this, or the lifting (chronic health issues) will be harder, but it's worth a shot
this is truly the answer that more people have to hear. If you dont have at least several male friends there is no way you are going to just happen to fall into a vegana.
Even better to have a female friend or two that can introduce you to their friends.
Make a couple of friends first, then meeting girls is easy.
>Have women started to act differently around you since you became IST, IST?
Yes, I get more eye contact and smiles from women when I'm out running on the trails. Today I saw a troony sitting outside a coffee shop and almost felt confident enough to talk to him since we had a lengthy stare, but chickened out at the last minute.
>Today I saw a troony sitting outside a coffee shop and almost felt confident enough to talk to him since we had a lengthy stare, but chickened out at the last minute.
lmao I hope this is bait
don't frick trannies
>be a fat frick. No attention from women >lose weight and start lifting after watching one too many crushes go by
About 10 months into lifting. >At a party wing manning my friend. >freshman girl grabs my ass >grab her hand and dance a bit >make out for like 30 min >she drags me to her place
And thats how I lost my virginity. Haven't talked to her since lmao. >with another friend and his gilfriends friends >friends gf is drunk and says one of her friends needs a dicking >i say "well if nothing else, Im a good hugger" to her friend >we hug >we go to my place to frick >"uoh anon you have such big muscles I feel so nice and safe around you lets meet again :)" >end up dating for a month
Now I've got nothing going on. And Im not even fit I just lift and have some muscle. It really was that easy. Just lift and have friends. WAGMI.
I completely 100% believe both of these stories.
Ahh yes, because loose gold digging prostitutes are WORTHWHILE
The real "worthwhile" women are too shy to approach you, as they are too shy to approach anyone
He just said that.
>see girl with bf coming up >as I'm getting close she squeezes his hand, turns him to the side and gives him a big kiss
kek. did I mog this fella and she was doing some sort of female damage control?
Could be an attempt to preemptively reject you, sometimes girls get schizo/excited about everyone wanting to sleep with them (like when I act normally nice to everyone, some girls--usually very ugly--will think I want to sleep with them). Sometimes I get reactions that seem to indicate this from girls I feel like preemptively rejecting.
People are friendlier in general after going from fat to skinny. I've been in a long term relationship so I haven't really paid much attention to how women react to me. I have had a few women just walk up and talk to me a few times out of nowhere with two of them asking about my relationship status. They weren't attractive so it isn't really anything to crow about and I'm not what anyone would call muscular just skinny.
The only exception I've noticed particularly is that while literally everyone else is friendlier women in my age bracket are generally cold towards me. Which is noticeable because as part of self improvement I have made attempts to be friendly with the people I encounter in my day to day. They were much friendlier when I was fat. It might just be they assume I'm hitting on them and they default to it because they aren't interested when I'm just genuinely being friendly.
They might be upset about the fact that, while you would ordinarily be available to them if you were single, they are unable to date you as a monogamous, unavailable man. Being a constant temptation they can never get can do that.
I was going full doom and gloom in the past few months, telling myself that I'd never have a woman be interested in me, then one out of nowhere one walked straight up to me at a coffee shop I frequent and said she'd seen me around. She turns out to be into anime and manga and she invites me to her place that night. Even after I thought I fricked things up by declining (since I had to get up very early the next day), she offered again this Wednesday. It's fricking insane man
i'm turbomanlet status too (5'4") and she's an inch taller than me
I have literally never had sex with a woman before and I'm 29. It's all so new to me
Look, don't stress to much and just take it easy.
As for sex : the power of eating pussy can't be overstated. Give her a nice orgasm before you put it in
Even the homies in BBC porn do it ; there's no shame in that
I was going full doom and gloom in the past few months, telling myself that I'd never have a woman be interested in me, then one out of nowhere one walked straight up to me at a coffee shop I frequent and said she'd seen me around. She turns out to be into anime and manga and she invites me to her place that night. Even after I thought I fricked things up by declining (since I had to get up very early the next day), she offered again this Wednesday. It's fricking insane man
i'm turbomanlet status too (5'4") and she's an inch taller than me
I have literally never had sex with a woman before and I'm 29. It's all so new to me
Last thing : don't focus on "IM GONNA LOSE MY VIRGINITY HOLY SHIT"
Just try to have fun and -besides the pussy eating thing - don't try to emulate porn
Just try to have a good time, be playful, etc
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Last thing : don't focus on "IM GONNA LOSE MY VIRGINITY HOLY SHIT"
Just try to have fun and -besides the pussy eating thing - don't try to emulate porn
Just try to have a good time, be playful, etc
Thanks for the kind words my man
I'm not too worried right now, kinda went into autopilot when talking to her and it worked, felt natural, and I'm just gonna try to do the same at her place.
I'll definitely try that pussy eating lmao
The answer is YES. None of this I have to wake up early nonsense.
Smesh.
I fricked a 19 year old last night after a 8 year dry spell so you tell me. The only thing that's changed other than getting older was dropping my bmi by 12 points.
I was at the beach and 90% of guys there were out of shape so I stood out. I caught plenty of chicks who were walking with their bf checking me out. Love from Kazakhstan.
Yesterday I asked a qt for directions, she stopped in the rain, smiled at me warmly and started asking me questions. Then I think she got nervous because as I turned to walk on she said “enjoy”. Before I got IST, even the ugly ones would brush me off or look at me like a deer in the headlights.
I remember in college when I was skinnyfat hot girls would ask for my number all the time but I consistently fumbled the bag. I think im ugly but maybe my face was nicer than i thought
Then i went out of college and got fat and every woman was disgusted by me
Now im fit and they look at me but wont talk to me and im too scared to talk to them
Same first year of uni my obese female flatmate tried to have sex with me when I was really drunk she was clinging on to me the whole night and I just kind of went along with it
Ugh dude same shit happened to me. One of my friends introduced me to this group of girls and we all started hanging out together often. This obese girl, who otherwise would've been very pretty, was all over me but I was never interested. Then on her birthday we went out to a bar and she went for it like crazy. I tried to hang with my bros but even they were fricking in on it. They excused themselves and left me alone with the land whale. I was fricking fed up after a little so I texted my friend (he was my roommate at the time) to tell him I was leaving. I didn't even tell the girl, I just bailed. She then calls me wondering where I am and I told her I got too drunk, which prompts her to ask "you sure you don't wanna come over to my place and cuddleeee?" Needless to say, I noped the frick out of that friend group
The people I called friends tried to pull this shit on me too, and now I suspect they were also probably while gatekeeping any girl that wasn't completely enormous away. My only regret is how much time and energy I tried to put into maintaining those relationships.
> Start working out a year ago > Wife is indifferent says she loves me regardless > Yesterday we were having sex > During the mating press she grabs my arms > Says in a very sweet but aroused voice that she loves my big strong arms > Continue to breed her and then pass out on her breasts > We kiss and say love you's > 1 hour later we go and see Barbie
This is what is gonna keep me lifting I need more of that
My GF touches my body more. Other women are more attentive to me in general, but I don't flirt with anyone so don't know how deep that goes. That's more or less it at the moment.
For the record, I'm not even very muscly. More of DYEL level.
I was always the funny guy at work, but since I got IST a few of the girls have held their gaze a bit longer. One of them has started getting a little touchy, even making cutsie drawings for me. She's dumb as rocks, but has huge breasts, so I just soak up the extra attention.
My old friends from my fatass days have more or less dropped me because I'm not in that sort of lifestyle anymore and a lot of my female relatives started trying to sabotage my efforts to maintain not being a hamplanet anymore while also asking for diet advice. Also I'm like 80% certain this high functioning autistic chick at my work wants to smash but I'm not about that life.
Bro has a hapa autist wife who's dying to date him and he's thinking he can do better. Literally no functional difference between you and some 35 year old roastie who keeps turning down boyfriends because she "can do better"
I fricked a 19 year old last night after a 8 year dry spell so you tell me. The only thing that's changed other than getting older was dropping my bmi by 12 points.
Was out biking today and a wall splattered female was walking toward me. She smiled and said hi. I just waved. She was probably in her late 30s and I could tell she was once very attractive. I got to the end of the trail about half a mile later and turned around and caught up to her. I didn't slow down and as I passed her she said, "Oh you're so fast!" I ignored her and rode on. It was quite satisfying to blow her off as she wouldn't have given me the time of day when she was in her 20s.
Now I'll only smile and chat to cutie chicks in their early 20s who are out jogging. Feels good, anons.
>be me >see ugly girls with handsome men >see ugly guys with beautiful women >deduce that lifting is a cope for dating stuff >realize lifting for women is stupid and only an idiot would want a vain wife >lift so I can be healthy and a good father, because God wills it. >weight and size goes up like crazy >I quit drinking any alcohol >my gains and moneys increase >I meet the woman of my dreams >we marry >gains plateau, but I maintain and wife is happy >have one on the way
Lift for God and strive to be a good person bros.
Was out biking today and a wall splattered female was walking toward me. She smiled and said hi. I just waved. She was probably in her late 30s and I could tell she was once very attractive. I got to the end of the trail about half a mile later and turned around and caught up to her. I didn't slow down and as I passed her she said, "Oh you're so fast!" I ignored her and rode on. It was quite satisfying to blow her off as she wouldn't have given me the time of day when she was in her 20s.
Now I'll only smile and chat to cutie chicks in their early 20s who are out jogging. Feels good, anons.
There's some good stories in here from some of you but posts like these remind me of how much a cringefest some (most) of this board will always be.
It takes about the same effort to get a gf/sex as when I was a skelly but being bigger now normie women don't see me as invisible. They notice my existence and have conversations with me.
>bro women will act different when you've barely gone to the gym >bro women will act different when you do nofap >bro women will act different when you read hamza andrew tate mcBlack persontubers
Yesterday I approached a 9/10 Aryan girl in my gym >Hey I know you're busy with your workout and I'm in a rush as well with mine but there is some information that I think you should know >Yeah? >Your eyes are very pretty >Eyes? >Yeah >Thank you
And then we both went to do our stuff. Today I went to the gym and started to do OHP and I noticed her talking to what I assume was her bf so it made sense kek
Mostly fat and old chicks. Fat chicks are just noticeably flustered. Old women though.... so fricking thirsty and flirtatious. Unfortunately I'm not into milfs, but they REALLY want a young fit dude to rail them.
Hot young women still don't need to do jack shit to get plenty of chad attention so they I haven't noticed them change their behavior.
I don’t feel like I’ve made it but normie women are definitely looking and starting weird giggly conversations with me. Too bad I’m a fricken sperg with barely fuctional social sense.
I live abroad but I don't really get out much. US women have described me as athletic even though I'm just barely above underweight BMI at 6'4. I'm too afraid to leave the English-speaking enclave most of the time but when I do I get more attention from men.
>I live abroad but I don't really get out much. US women have described me as athletic even though I'm just barely above underweight BMI at 6'4.
They're looking for skinny, and you're skinny. There's little need to bulk up when girls are just looking for the low BFP and really have low standards because of American obesity anyway. Your impressive height simply makes your advantage all the greater.
>I'm too afraid to leave the English-speaking enclave most of the time but when I do I get more attention from men.
I guess this is why my experience as an American differs from the meme experience.
Started lifting two months ago, and put on a lot of muscle in a short period, stretch marks and everything. Received a compliment from a girl I used to know when I ran into her a few days ago. Also my little sister randomly feels up my arms whenever we’re together.
>Also my little sister randomly feels up my arms whenever we’re together.
You know what you must do.
>constantly touching my arm without saying a word when we’re in close proximity >somehow always using to need the bathroom when I get out of the shower so I run into her >”your back and shoulders are so broad now…” >”haha is this your protagonist training arc or something?” >said I looked manly when I finally grew confident enough to walk around the house without a shirt
Yes. I get way more attention than ever before but also I do get the vibe that I am intimidating to a lot of girls in public. It is really rare for a woman to compliment me or engage in flirting with me on her own but I have noticed when I start the encounter they are almost all receptive. That being said I feel like I have gone kind of overboard. My bodycount is 86 now and I am 24 years old. Feel like I've done it all, threesomes, milfs, fricking room mates, chicks from different countries, etc.
When do I like suddenly get the urge to stop? Sometimes I do but then I become feral again the moment im horny. People tell me "oh its good to get it all out of your system while you can". I am a dude so time it definitely on my side and I am doing excellent in my career and making a name for myself but still. Will I one day just be like "oh this is someone i want to be with" and stop my Genghis khan conquest of my city?
Get fat and out of shape so you lower your test. If not then you will always have that urge. Female bodybuilders on steroids have reported the same thing.
>86
Honest question, are you neurotypical? I've never met an autist who's above 30, no matter how good they look. And I don't mean "aesthetic autism" I mean do dogs ever bite you because you can't read their signals
>That being said I feel like I have gone kind of overboard. My bodycount is 86 now and I am 24 years old.
Honestly, you know how I've prevented this? I'm just not having sex, period. I'm not having sex at all until I get married.
Get fat and out of shape so you lower your test. If not then you will always have that urge. Female bodybuilders on steroids have reported the same thing.
Terrible solution
I would rather die. I will continue to ravage my harem till I die.
based, but it is good to consider restraining your lust
>86
Honest question, are you neurotypical? I've never met an autist who's above 30, no matter how good they look. And I don't mean "aesthetic autism" I mean do dogs ever bite you because you can't read their signals
Autistics over 30 just get good at masking the symptoms. It's often called a learning disorder for a reason.
I'm still a dyel but after losing the weight some mentally ill women are attracted to me
>What does that even mean
Bro you a "I LOVE vegana" tattoo on your retinas. Anyone making eye contact with you can't help but subconsciously notice the eminating c**tlust. Gotta ear sunglasses to hide it.
I have bad eye sight and I can't get a read on people's emotions/facial expressions properly since everything is vague so I just move past time and continue on with my day
I was invited to a friend's kickback and was the only one dancing to the music like a moron. This black girl just smiled at me and said "Ok muscles!" and everyone laughed.
Not really.
My resting b***h face makes me look constantly like Im in a terrible mood and thus unapproachable. Also I have a lot of personality defects that very few women can actually tolerate. But frick it at least I'm not ugly and can get laid sometimes
I havent spoken to a woman besides my mother in 6 years. The ones I speak to at stores and such dont smile at me or make any small talk, but i have the thousand yard autist stare so that might be why.
Yes, and it feels so good >fricked this girl about 1.5 years ago when I was skinny dyel >tried to pursue her into a relationship, invited her over for dinner >she would always blow me off or ghost me then hit me up after saying she forgot or got drunk or something >don't contact her for a year >working as a cashier in the same small town now >she comes in to get shit every now and then and always tries to hit me up with small talk >I just give her the stone face every time, like I never even met her
It feels awesome bros. The best part is that she keeps getting fatter while I am getting better looking in every department
>get IST >become more social >hang out with more girls >all of my friends think Im some kind of pussy slayer >still a virgin >I know its due to a fear of rejection and being intimate with someone else
>used to be 320lbs >Now am 195lbs
I still look dyel, kinda chubby, but last year 2 different girls told me I was cute and one girl I went out with said when we met she thought I was hot. Women smile at me more and I get more positive interactions. I’m interested to see what it’s like when I finish cutting, I just want abs.
>before IST
girls didn't care about me but they weren't offended by my existence >after IST
fat girls and post menopause women treat me better >after IST and growing a beard
I managed to now get 1 date a month. The girls I date are either smack dead average looking or only a little bit above average.
Yeah other girls at the gym are all lusting after my clit now
Ywnbaw
bigclits4lyfe
NEED big clit gf
More girls seem to be romantically interested in me. I notice substantially more women express opinions like I'll be a good father, good husband, etc. when I do lots of pushups in particular. By having a chest that juts out, I convince women I'm actually much more fit than I actually am, and so women want more relationships with me.
Based
>Yeah,they were right about being confident
I was always pretty confident. I was just in something like unemployed stage II or III obese with manboobs before, and now I have a pretty decent job and I look attractive too.
But I think I'm going to keep being cheap on dates like I was when I was in college. I somehow can't imagine taking a girl to a fancy restaurant every weekend or something. I just want to go eat pizza or watch a movie, hang out, and maybe grope a bit of titty.
>Pretty much this. Not too long ago, I managed to get a girl´s insta and we started talking. After a first date, she did not talk to me anymore, lol.
What'd you say bro?
>I was mentally prepared to struggle with money/fitness, but I never could have known how much being a social moron impairs you.
To a large extent it's just past experience with the opposite sex that improves you tbh, which is how people end up being highly promiscuous now and ending up with absurd body counts. Everybody has to learn from experience to some extent unless you got in on the childhood friend or maybe high school sweetheart stage. I got gfs in HS and college and ended up being a single kv.
Based
by now you should’ve realized no one actually lifts here right
Yes but only because I was 10/10 Chad underneath the fat
(You) will see no improvement
This. I thought I was hideously ugly but I was just fat as frick with an angelic twink face buried underneath
post face
>get into fitness
>have a top 0.5%body
>get into skin/hair care
>look fairly good
>get into fashion
>stop looking like my mom dresses me up and have clothes that compliment my body
>be wierd and socially akward since im hella autistic and never had friends during childhood untiil i turned 14
Yeah,they were right about being confident
Pretty much this. Not too long ago, I managed to get a girl´s insta and we started talking. After a first date, she did not talk to me anymore, lol.
I was mentally prepared to struggle with money/fitness, but I never could have known how much being a social moron impairs you.
Being fit makes confidence easy for me.
It was hard to be confident when I looked and felt like gluttony personified.
Based fellow autist, WAGMI
Many such cases.
They flirt with me a lot more and I get mires all the time now
>that image
frick off chibi
Lmao what is this schizo shit what does OPs image have to do with this guy?
chibi is a homosexual that used the same image in OP as his profile picture
>OH MY SCIENCE DID YOU USE A HECKIN ANIME IMAGE THAT YOU CAN FIND BY USING GOOGLE?! AAAAAAA
ok schizo
hey chibi, dont you have 16 year olds to date?
This is the loser of that cringe compilation of speedrunners I saw on YouTube years ago
>16 year olds
What's weird about this? Age of consent is 16 or lower in 99% of the world
Even in america, IIRC 12 states out of 50 have AOC of 16
Why is it always the morons out of the 12 states that think the world revolves around them and their rules?
Only 12 states have AOC at 16? Oh yeah, I forgot "unrestricted AOC" is a thing. Normal "restricted" AOC means any normal person can have sex with (or in my state, marry) a 16 year old. Some states go even further and let students have sex with their teachers as long as they're 16.
But we're still supposed to larp like the age of consent is 18 worldwide and you're a pedophile if you don't agree with that objectively false statement because it's illegal for a 17 year old to do porn. (And honestly, banning 17 year olds from doing porn was a good idea.)
Lol is this guy well known or is he just some homosexual in your discord server?
He's some autistic speedrun moron
Explain to the folks at home what discord is
Its a gay club under the queensboro bridge
I don't usually say this, but literally who?
Isn't this the guy who got told to stfu during agdq?
yea and thats his entire legacy
Don't look up what happened to this guy
Now I'm worried, what happened?
https://twitter.com/CavemanDCJ
Nope
Yes, I can get away with groping, even after they got mad, they still forgive me
Yes they are a lot more positive towards me and I’m sure some of them our right want to frick me. Too bad I’m such an autist and don’t dare speak to them
I have almost no interaction with woman but sometimes Indian women stare at me in Tesco's
Ooweewoowoo you’re loving the dream right here, I would kill to be mired by Indian goddesses
Yes. Before I was fit they actively ignored me or tried to repell me even when they did not know me and I made no attempt to even interact with them. Now I can approach them and they are still not interested but they don't mind interacting with me.
What a sad ass post lmao, I get b***hes throwing themselves around left and right. The totalitarian government of Iran and it's tyrannical treatment of women has caused a massive incline in the female suicide rate. It is a tragedy against human rights
People are friendlier in general after going from fat to skinny. I've been in a long term relationship so I haven't really paid much attention to how women react to me. I have had a few women just walk up and talk to me a few times out of nowhere with two of them asking about my relationship status. They weren't attractive so it isn't really anything to crow about and I'm not what anyone would call muscular just skinny.
The only exception I've noticed particularly is that while literally everyone else is friendlier women in my age bracket are generally cold towards me. Which is noticeable because as part of self improvement I have made attempts to be friendly with the people I encounter in my day to day. They were much friendlier when I was fat. It might just be they assume I'm hitting on them and they default to it because they aren't interested when I'm just genuinely being friendly.
>Women are colder to me now that I'm attractive
It's a front
is this how they really are
Yes, they can be and are just as awkward as men.
Random girls you never meet: most of the time
Girls you know well: not most of the time
At lot also depends on how you carry on a conversation or look at them, if you get flirty with a girl who thinks you’re attractive they can’t hide it.
absolutely. if you walk in and a girl clams up when it's your turn to order/whatever, you're doing alright.
Woopsie this might be why I hate women
For being bigger spergs than us?
The receptionist girl at the gym front desk always gives the look on the right when I talk to her.
>Every woman is secretly attracted to me
Or maybe women have no idea what they're talking about.
I think a gay guy hit on me.
>be me
>approached by qt univ freshie asking for directions
>put my hand on her shoulder
>tell her directions then tap her back after
>she goes and about half way before the corner looks back at me
Yep, I've made it, bros.
>be super fatty
>join gym to turn life around
>when girls pass by me they look at me and just walk by
>2 years later lost 30kg and really good form
>girls now super ignore me catwalk style when they have to pass by
>notice some of them going for a super short sideeye in the last centimeters passing by
Explain
Women will never approach you no matter how hot you are
False
No woman WORTHWHILE Will approach you, no matter how hot you are.
Ahh yes, because loose gold digging prostitutes are WORTHWHILE
The real "worthwhile" women are too shy to approach you, as they are too shy to approach anyone
Hahahahahaha
Hahaha
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
I had a girl approach me and compliment my sweater once. Struck up a decent conversation.
I fumbled it hard
>working internship at a park one summer
>cleaning a sign outside
>korean girl with her parents comes up to the visitor center
>mom, in broken english, calls me handsome
>blush, thank them, and show them what's around the park
>go back to my sign
>Korean girl comes back to me, offers me a clementine since it's warm outside
>accept it, and she asks for a picture with me to remember her visit to the park
>asks for my email to send it to me, and we later meet up a couple times
She moved back to Korea, but we still talk, and she's a great girl
In Korea I had a few girls stop me and told me I was handsome. It was great. Such an ego boost.
this is uniroincally so cute and too wholesome for a website like this.
I have been approached and asked out by numerous women even when I was fat, I do not understand you, we are not the same.
women are the original spaghetti spillers, what you're seeing with men nowadays has more to do with them getting more fembrained
you weren't even a consideration while lardo and I assume ISTtist
but now that you're in way better shape than the average guy (I assume), they might be doing this because they want to steal a glance, while possibly on a conscious level trying to avoid giving you signals
>see girl with bf coming up
>as I'm getting close she squeezes his hand, turns him to the side and gives him a big kiss
kek. did I mog this fella and she was doing some sort of female damage control?
Can confirm this happens when you reach a universally demoralizing level of attractiveness.
holy frick why are bangs so hot
Because they indicate that they wanna be banged
Yeah seems like I get the "very last second, when we're side by side" checkout from barbie type women and a "10 feet away" from smarter women. I think cuz Barbie's are insensitive/brutish so they don't mind closeness whereas smart women have more intense sensitivity so they need distance to feel comfortable. Older women tend to be a good distance away as well
why do they look so strange?
Choose your poison:
>drug abuse
>botched plastic surgeries performed in dubious medical centers in Tijuana
>wearing a plaster of makeup about an inch think to hide one of the above
Also I'm pretty sure I've seen at least the middle one drinking semen and/or taking it up the ass somewhere, so if they're OF bawds then some degree of brain damage is a near certainty.
Isn't middle one in that picture with the other ethots in the back of an suv?
sauce on the one in the middle
soogsx
thats them flirting bro. not even kidding. just pick an uglier one and practice talking to with her. then move up until you get the one you like. Sounds douchy but these gym girls do way worse.
Ex fattie here too.
I recently saw a cutie at the grocery store, and her friend noticed that I was watching and nudged the cutie that I was checking her out. They seemed so happy about it, lol.
I'm 100% sure that if I still was fat they would've felt creeped out instead.
What women?
Only women ive interacted with were cashiers and post menopausal immigrant women at my job
my grandma told me to shave because i have a beautiful baby face and she said I'm too skinny now
all females in my life love my beard and my abs
If it works it works man
Definitely. But I started lifting when I was 13. And I was also a star athlete when I was in elementary school. And so I can't really tell how women would react to me if I wasn't fit since I've always been fit. But I've gotten countless stares and compliments on my body over the years. And while some women don't really care about muscles, lots of them do. And even for the women that don't really care about muscles, it's not like they're going to reject you simply because you're buff. And so there's no negatives when it comes to lifting, at least when it comes to attracting women.
I'm a 30 yo incel neet. I don't look at or speak to other people.
Yeah, I never realized women were so handsy - fricking groping pervs
Very true, usually they just touch the shoulder or forearm but they will try for the ass if they think they'll get away with it.
Women actively start conversations with me now and try to keep conversations going even when I try to show disinterest. I'm not attracted to 90% of the women that attempt to talk to me though as I only like short hair girls so it's just annoying now.
God I miss her bro...do you have any of her pics that weren’t archived?
What if you could convince a woman to cut her hair short? Is that possible?
Yes, lot of mires and heavy look on my veiny forearms and shredded body but still autistic moron that got laid only 4 times in my life (im 26yold it's over)
Dude, you got fricking laid 4 times. If you've done it before, you can do it again you dramatic gay.
>t. 25 year-old khhv
Fricking normies.
>36yo muscular wizard
I get told I don't look anywhere near my age which is a lie because I have eye wrinkles without even smiling. Mostly people just treat me like I'm stupid now though
They are slightly friendlier at work, more likely to say hi to you or laugh at some stupid thing you say when before they'd ignore you
i cant even tell
Every relationship I have ever had has been because a woman approached me. So idk but I think so because I was fat because of medication and then I dropped like 100lbs in a year.
charlie take your size pills
Does anyone else have problems getting girls in the gym to be friendly? I have no idea what the frick the problem is but girls in the gym give me no play. I mean they just look through me or act like they don't see me while staring at me from across the gym.
This only happens at the gym, but every other place I'm easily able to almost immediately start being touchy and playful with girls. The fastest I've ever gotten was at a house party meeting a new girl and within 30mins was already giving her a piggy back ride and play wrestling outside. I just don't understand what's going on in the gym.
Gym is a hostile environment for them so they're on guard. It's like if you were walking in the ghetto you'd be hyper vigilant.
Gyms aren’t for picking up girls and they aren’t there for that shit. If they approach you, fair game. But trying to cold approach chat up or interact with broads at the gym makes you look like the biggest tool in the world.
There's a girl I like at the gym who I hadn't seen in a while (perhaps 10 times total during the last year), we talked for a while, hugged when I was heading out and she told me that I was going to see her more often.
I'm a virgin at 27 years of age and have never been in a relationship, perhaps I will make it.
One of the girls at my workplace thought I was married for some reason.
They say if you want a fit girl, you have to go where the fit girls are; but this isn't true at the gym. That's like trying to pick up girls at the dentist - it's not why they're there.
The nurse at the dentist was hitting on me.
goto a gym with an attached juice bar and hang out there.
>but every other place I'm easily able to almost immediately start being touchy and playful with girls.
You're the type of guy I despise.
Mad cuz bad
Maybe, but the degree in which I find such behavior distasteful is to one of the highest possible.
No I’ve picked up multiple girls from the gym and they usually are very friendly if I just make conversation even if I’ve never talked to them before. Maybe you’re just ugly and can only pick up drunk women?
Been lifting seriosuly for 8 months. Still skinny fat with shitty gains and only a 2 pac. I get random comments from girls at work like "oh we need anon to move this thing hehe" and "Your back is too big for that shirt".
Feels terrifying bro what if they make you take your shirt off someday
There was some black dude that keep staring at me. I'm male. It happened that day we ended up close by when we did our reps. Sometimes he'd come nex to me as he needed to use machine, or i close to him as i needed to use the weights. We both stared at each other with the look "you gay bruh?" It was the weirdest shit ever.
>We both stared at each other with the look "you gay bruh?" It was the weirdest shit ever.
so ? was he gay too ?
I think more of them check me out, but I'm still too afraid to talk to them, so nothing's changed.
no, because i look the same in clothes
Two of my female friends admitted they were terrified of me when they first met me. You either scare women with your fat or scare them with your muscle and you must chose your path.
you can also repulse them with your weakness and unmanly behavior, I don't recommend that path
I asked this girl if the bench right next to her was occupied (it was the only bench not obviously taken) she smiled and told me it was free. She then went on to flex her ass in the mirror like two or three times. I guess once she realized I wasn't taking the bait she felt she had to resort to extreme measures so she stopped doing bicep curls and started doing rdls with her ass sticking into my face and her whole body in full view in the mirror I was facing. I didn't give her any attention and she just left once I got up to do something else. Was this just attention seeking behavior or was she trying to display interest? She was hella cute and this is the first time something like that has happened to me since I started lifting, idk, should I expect this behavior more often once I make it?
Ignore women and just lift.
in my headcanon, this happens next time you see her
>hey nice seeing you again, my name's anon
>how long have you been working out here
>><whatever answer>
>it shows, I got pretty distracted by you last time
>I wouldn't mind being distracted by you outside the gym too, wanna grab coffee sometime?
needless to say, I am not good with woman nor fit enough to pull off the above
don't say the thing about being distracted it's cringe and comes on too strong. also don't script conversations like this, if it goes off book at all you will make a fool of yourself. just introduce yourself like you planned and make small talk. migh go somewhere might not. try ur best to be socially aware
I'll just continue the tried and true strategy of not even trying so I don't end up cringe, too strong, or making a fool of myself
can't be socially aware if I've had no role models, and no experience to learn since I've been avoiding the risks my whole life
you'll get better with practice. try watching body language tutorials on youtube or something
She just did her workout anon.
I had girls acting differently around me even when I was a skinny homosexual. When I finally become muscular looking and stop fapping 5 times a day in order to stockpile my sexual energy there won't be a girl who can resist me.
>be a fat frick. No attention from women
>lose weight and start lifting after watching one too many crushes go by
About 10 months into lifting.
>At a party wing manning my friend.
>freshman girl grabs my ass
>grab her hand and dance a bit
>make out for like 30 min
>she drags me to her place
And thats how I lost my virginity. Haven't talked to her since lmao.
>with another friend and his gilfriends friends
>friends gf is drunk and says one of her friends needs a dicking
>i say "well if nothing else, Im a good hugger" to her friend
>we hug
>we go to my place to frick
>"uoh anon you have such big muscles I feel so nice and safe around you lets meet again :)"
>end up dating for a month
Now I've got nothing going on. And Im not even fit I just lift and have some muscle. It really was that easy. Just lift and have friends. WAGMI.
>and have friends
>that are girls or have girls around them
I wonder if this, or the lifting (chronic health issues) will be harder, but it's worth a shot
this is truly the answer that more people have to hear. If you dont have at least several male friends there is no way you are going to just happen to fall into a vegana.
Even better to have a female friend or two that can introduce you to their friends.
Make a couple of friends first, then meeting girls is easy.
>make friends
???
Anon doesn't owe the woman anything, including a return of her friendliness.
He wasn't actively rude to her; that's the best you can hope for.
nobody said he owned her anything. Did they?
Resentment is cringe
>Make friends
There is no gym for this
There is. It's called school, work, social gatherings etc.
>Have women started to act differently around you since you became IST, IST?
Yes, I get more eye contact and smiles from women when I'm out running on the trails. Today I saw a troony sitting outside a coffee shop and almost felt confident enough to talk to him since we had a lengthy stare, but chickened out at the last minute.
>Today I saw a troony sitting outside a coffee shop and almost felt confident enough to talk to him since we had a lengthy stare, but chickened out at the last minute.
lmao I hope this is bait
don't frick trannies
Iktf bro but don't ever actually frick one of those freaks, you will regret it.
on the contrary, don't chicken out next time
ngmi
I completely 100% believe both of these stories.
He just said that.
Could be an attempt to preemptively reject you, sometimes girls get schizo/excited about everyone wanting to sleep with them (like when I act normally nice to everyone, some girls--usually very ugly--will think I want to sleep with them). Sometimes I get reactions that seem to indicate this from girls I feel like preemptively rejecting.
They might be upset about the fact that, while you would ordinarily be available to them if you were single, they are unable to date you as a monogamous, unavailable man. Being a constant temptation they can never get can do that.
yeah, started lifting 8 months ago.
I was going full doom and gloom in the past few months, telling myself that I'd never have a woman be interested in me, then one out of nowhere one walked straight up to me at a coffee shop I frequent and said she'd seen me around. She turns out to be into anime and manga and she invites me to her place that night. Even after I thought I fricked things up by declining (since I had to get up very early the next day), she offered again this Wednesday. It's fricking insane man
i'm turbomanlet status too (5'4") and she's an inch taller than me
I have literally never had sex with a woman before and I'm 29. It's all so new to me
Holy fricking cool dude!
I"m happy for you
Look, don't stress to much and just take it easy.
As for sex : the power of eating pussy can't be overstated. Give her a nice orgasm before you put it in
Even the homies in BBC porn do it ; there's no shame in that
Last thing : don't focus on "IM GONNA LOSE MY VIRGINITY HOLY SHIT"
Just try to have fun and -besides the pussy eating thing - don't try to emulate porn
Just try to have a good time, be playful, etc
>be playful
So that means yes to bringing out the war hammer figurines?
Thanks for the kind words my man
I'm not too worried right now, kinda went into autopilot when talking to her and it worked, felt natural, and I'm just gonna try to do the same at her place.
I'll definitely try that pussy eating lmao
>I'll definitely try that pussy eating lmao
beta loser, you’ll definitely lose her before the weeksover
>i'm turbomanlet status too (5'4")
Holy shit man, good for you
Brother...
The answer is YES. None of this I have to wake up early nonsense.
Smesh.
based, congrats.
ygmi. report back
Just make sure she's not an organ harvester. Just kidding, good for you. Go for it.
Good luck, brother.
Pleasw be real
she wants to peg you
I want women to objectify me. Grope me! Fawn over my face and muscles! Yearn to snuggle with me!
I was at the beach and 90% of guys there were out of shape so I stood out. I caught plenty of chicks who were walking with their bf checking me out. Love from Kazakhstan.
Yesterday I asked a qt for directions, she stopped in the rain, smiled at me warmly and started asking me questions. Then I think she got nervous because as I turned to walk on she said “enjoy”. Before I got IST, even the ugly ones would brush me off or look at me like a deer in the headlights.
>Get flirted
>Get touched
>Few have even slapped my ass
My wife squeezed my bicep and said wow your arms are getting big!
Which was nice
gtfo married gay let me sulk in my loneliness
I've received one (1) mire from a female since I started lifting. Nothing else has changed.
I remember in college when I was skinnyfat hot girls would ask for my number all the time but I consistently fumbled the bag. I think im ugly but maybe my face was nicer than i thought
Then i went out of college and got fat and every woman was disgusted by me
Now im fit and they look at me but wont talk to me and im too scared to talk to them
So basically just go to college
yeah they’re attracted to me now but sex still scares me and i can’t live up to their expectations
Fat women are thirsty frickers for me
It's absolutely disgusting.
Is this how hot chicks feel when ugly nerds try talk to them?
Same first year of uni my obese female flatmate tried to have sex with me when I was really drunk she was clinging on to me the whole night and I just kind of went along with it
Ugh dude same shit happened to me. One of my friends introduced me to this group of girls and we all started hanging out together often. This obese girl, who otherwise would've been very pretty, was all over me but I was never interested. Then on her birthday we went out to a bar and she went for it like crazy. I tried to hang with my bros but even they were fricking in on it. They excused themselves and left me alone with the land whale. I was fricking fed up after a little so I texted my friend (he was my roommate at the time) to tell him I was leaving. I didn't even tell the girl, I just bailed. She then calls me wondering where I am and I told her I got too drunk, which prompts her to ask "you sure you don't wanna come over to my place and cuddleeee?" Needless to say, I noped the frick out of that friend group
reverse-architect her
The people I called friends tried to pull this shit on me too, and now I suspect they were also probably while gatekeeping any girl that wasn't completely enormous away. My only regret is how much time and energy I tried to put into maintaining those relationships.
Yes but I'm still autistic so even if they thirst for me they lose interest cause I have no game.
Kinda from my wife
> Start working out a year ago
> Wife is indifferent says she loves me regardless
> Yesterday we were having sex
> During the mating press she grabs my arms
> Says in a very sweet but aroused voice that she loves my big strong arms
> Continue to breed her and then pass out on her breasts
> We kiss and say love you's
> 1 hour later we go and see Barbie
This is what is gonna keep me lifting I need more of that
My GF touches my body more. Other women are more attentive to me in general, but I don't flirt with anyone so don't know how deep that goes. That's more or less it at the moment.
For the record, I'm not even very muscly. More of DYEL level.
Yes.
I was always the funny guy at work, but since I got IST a few of the girls have held their gaze a bit longer. One of them has started getting a little touchy, even making cutsie drawings for me. She's dumb as rocks, but has huge breasts, so I just soak up the extra attention.
>She's dumb as rocks, but has huge breasts,
Wife material
Never interacted with women due to my deep self image issues, so I don't know
I dont think so. But then I've always considered myself to be nothing but an ugly burden so I wouldnt notice even if a girl did look my way.
My mom says I'm her strong little man
🙂
My old friends from my fatass days have more or less dropped me because I'm not in that sort of lifestyle anymore and a lot of my female relatives started trying to sabotage my efforts to maintain not being a hamplanet anymore while also asking for diet advice. Also I'm like 80% certain this high functioning autistic chick at my work wants to smash but I'm not about that life.
You should feel her out. A high functioning autist girl that practices basic hygiene is the ideal wife.
I'm not a dyke nor do I have any desire to eat out someone that is essentially a biological female hapa Chris-chan.
Bro has a hapa autist wife who's dying to date him and he's thinking he can do better. Literally no functional difference between you and some 35 year old roastie who keeps turning down boyfriends because she "can do better"
>bro
>him
>he's
By any chance do you know what dyke means?
Of course, it's a type of river
>YWNBAW
I fricked a 19 year old last night after a 8 year dry spell so you tell me. The only thing that's changed other than getting older was dropping my bmi by 12 points.
I hate women. Why aren't I good enough for one to like me?
You are.
well obviously not, according to them
Naw, there were 4 girls I liked since I became fit by normie standards, 3 of them rejected me and I have yet to ask out the one remaining grill.
I can pull the occasional thot at a bar/house party now, but as far as quality women go, not really.
>go from 275 to 190
>no real change from the opposite sex
>either really unfriendly looking or ugly
>most likely a mixture of both
Was out biking today and a wall splattered female was walking toward me. She smiled and said hi. I just waved. She was probably in her late 30s and I could tell she was once very attractive. I got to the end of the trail about half a mile later and turned around and caught up to her. I didn't slow down and as I passed her she said, "Oh you're so fast!" I ignored her and rode on. It was quite satisfying to blow her off as she wouldn't have given me the time of day when she was in her 20s.
Now I'll only smile and chat to cutie chicks in their early 20s who are out jogging. Feels good, anons.
You didn't know what she was like anon. Stop this
feels good being petty and resentful amirite
cringe dude
its not a lot of effort to be kind to people. if it doesnt cost me anything i try to be friendly and cool.
you dont owe them anything obviously, i guess it depends on how you want to live your life
>be me
>see ugly girls with handsome men
>see ugly guys with beautiful women
>deduce that lifting is a cope for dating stuff
>realize lifting for women is stupid and only an idiot would want a vain wife
>lift so I can be healthy and a good father, because God wills it.
>weight and size goes up like crazy
>I quit drinking any alcohol
>my gains and moneys increase
>I meet the woman of my dreams
>we marry
>gains plateau, but I maintain and wife is happy
>have one on the way
Lift for God and strive to be a good person bros.
Thanks man. I love my little family. I gotta get my gains up so i can lift them up higher than i was growing up.
>god
somebody skipped 3 sets of library.
Please be b8
There's some good stories in here from some of you but posts like these remind me of how much a cringefest some (most) of this board will always be.
Ignoring a roastie is based, not cringe. Anon saved himself the indignity of smelling 30 litter boxes.
I hope I can be you one day
It takes about the same effort to get a gf/sex as when I was a skelly but being bigger now normie women don't see me as invisible. They notice my existence and have conversations with me.
>bro women will act different when you've barely gone to the gym
>bro women will act different when you do nofap
>bro women will act different when you read hamza andrew tate mcBlack persontubers
>Bro women will act different if you have confidence, even if that confidence is baseless
Your argument is?
Yesterday I approached a 9/10 Aryan girl in my gym
>Hey I know you're busy with your workout and I'm in a rush as well with mine but there is some information that I think you should know
>Yeah?
>Your eyes are very pretty
>Eyes?
>Yeah
>Thank you
And then we both went to do our stuff. Today I went to the gym and started to do OHP and I noticed her talking to what I assume was her bf so it made sense kek
It's just another notch on her bedpost of admirers but it's good for your confidence nonetheless
Mostly fat and old chicks. Fat chicks are just noticeably flustered. Old women though.... so fricking thirsty and flirtatious. Unfortunately I'm not into milfs, but they REALLY want a young fit dude to rail them.
Hot young women still don't need to do jack shit to get plenty of chad attention so they I haven't noticed them change their behavior.
no
They start flirting with me more.
One of them even held my arm.
I sadly can’t out-lift my autism.
I don’t feel like I’ve made it but normie women are definitely looking and starting weird giggly conversations with me. Too bad I’m a fricken sperg with barely fuctional social sense.
I live abroad but I don't really get out much. US women have described me as athletic even though I'm just barely above underweight BMI at 6'4. I'm too afraid to leave the English-speaking enclave most of the time but when I do I get more attention from men.
>I live abroad but I don't really get out much. US women have described me as athletic even though I'm just barely above underweight BMI at 6'4.
They're looking for skinny, and you're skinny. There's little need to bulk up when girls are just looking for the low BFP and really have low standards because of American obesity anyway. Your impressive height simply makes your advantage all the greater.
>I'm too afraid to leave the English-speaking enclave most of the time but when I do I get more attention from men.
I guess this is why my experience as an American differs from the meme experience.
Started lifting two months ago, and put on a lot of muscle in a short period, stretch marks and everything. Received a compliment from a girl I used to know when I ran into her a few days ago. Also my little sister randomly feels up my arms whenever we’re together.
Your little sister "feels [you] up"?
>constantly touching my arm without saying a word when we’re in close proximity
>somehow always using to need the bathroom when I get out of the shower so I run into her
>”your back and shoulders are so broad now…”
>”haha is this your protagonist training arc or something?”
>said I looked manly when I finally grew confident enough to walk around the house without a shirt
What does she mean by this?
She wants you to rape your dad and assert your dominance as head of the household
>Also my little sister randomly feels up my arms whenever we’re together.
You know what you must do.
I wouldn't know because I don't interact or care about people.
Yes. I get way more attention than ever before but also I do get the vibe that I am intimidating to a lot of girls in public. It is really rare for a woman to compliment me or engage in flirting with me on her own but I have noticed when I start the encounter they are almost all receptive. That being said I feel like I have gone kind of overboard. My bodycount is 86 now and I am 24 years old. Feel like I've done it all, threesomes, milfs, fricking room mates, chicks from different countries, etc.
When do I like suddenly get the urge to stop? Sometimes I do but then I become feral again the moment im horny. People tell me "oh its good to get it all out of your system while you can". I am a dude so time it definitely on my side and I am doing excellent in my career and making a name for myself but still. Will I one day just be like "oh this is someone i want to be with" and stop my Genghis khan conquest of my city?
Get fat and out of shape so you lower your test. If not then you will always have that urge. Female bodybuilders on steroids have reported the same thing.
I would rather die. I will continue to ravage my harem till I die.
>86
Honest question, are you neurotypical? I've never met an autist who's above 30, no matter how good they look. And I don't mean "aesthetic autism" I mean do dogs ever bite you because you can't read their signals
>That being said I feel like I have gone kind of overboard. My bodycount is 86 now and I am 24 years old.
Honestly, you know how I've prevented this? I'm just not having sex, period. I'm not having sex at all until I get married.
Terrible solution
based, but it is good to consider restraining your lust
Autistics over 30 just get good at masking the symptoms. It's often called a learning disorder for a reason.
All women are mentally ill.
>Girls constantly giving me hints or some even approaching
>Cute guys want nothing from me
Fricking. Why???
I just want a cute BF.
One I approached turned me down but we kept chatting, he told me I looked "really straight". What does that even mean??
tbh it probably means he thinks you dress poorly
>What does that even mean
Bro you a "I LOVE vegana" tattoo on your retinas. Anyone making eye contact with you can't help but subconsciously notice the eminating c**tlust. Gotta ear sunglasses to hide it.
I have bad eye sight and I can't get a read on people's emotions/facial expressions properly since everything is vague so I just move past time and continue on with my day
I’ve never been really lean, but I got more attention when I was builtfat than when I was just built and just fat.
Ive had a few male truck drivers hit on me and invite back to their motel or truck
i have had to come to terms with the fact that im just super ugly or something
>still get no mires
>still get no matches
I am so tired
I was invited to a friend's kickback and was the only one dancing to the music like a moron. This black girl just smiled at me and said "Ok muscles!" and everyone laughed.
Lmao, awkward but in that scenario you just gotta own it. Should've asked her to dance with you.
Not really.
My resting b***h face makes me look constantly like Im in a terrible mood and thus unapproachable. Also I have a lot of personality defects that very few women can actually tolerate. But frick it at least I'm not ugly and can get laid sometimes
I'm still a dyel but after losing the weight some mentally ill women are attracted to me
I havent spoken to a woman besides my mother in 6 years. The ones I speak to at stores and such dont smile at me or make any small talk, but i have the thousand yard autist stare so that might be why.
The same weird kind of cute-ugly girls who liked me before now drool over me like animals and stutter a lot. Hotter girls still hate me tho.
>cute-ugly girls
Well that's one way to cope with being unhappy with the girls in your league.
Yes, and it feels so good
>fricked this girl about 1.5 years ago when I was skinny dyel
>tried to pursue her into a relationship, invited her over for dinner
>she would always blow me off or ghost me then hit me up after saying she forgot or got drunk or something
>don't contact her for a year
>working as a cashier in the same small town now
>she comes in to get shit every now and then and always tries to hit me up with small talk
>I just give her the stone face every time, like I never even met her
It feels awesome bros. The best part is that she keeps getting fatter while I am getting better looking in every department
You should offer her the senior discount
They just stare at me a little bit longer.
>get IST
>become more social
>hang out with more girls
>all of my friends think Im some kind of pussy slayer
>still a virgin
>I know its due to a fear of rejection and being intimate with someone else
only girls older than 30. not really into that shit.
>used to be 320lbs
>Now am 195lbs
I still look dyel, kinda chubby, but last year 2 different girls told me I was cute and one girl I went out with said when we met she thought I was hot. Women smile at me more and I get more positive interactions. I’m interested to see what it’s like when I finish cutting, I just want abs.
I got 0 attention at 98kg and I get 0 attention now at 75kg.
you just an ugly mf. it's over
I dont know, Im too terrifed to talk to women or even look them in the eyes
I think this girl at my gym was looking at me for way too long when she was resting
>before IST
girls didn't care about me but they weren't offended by my existence
>after IST
fat girls and post menopause women treat me better
>after IST and growing a beard
I managed to now get 1 date a month. The girls I date are either smack dead average looking or only a little bit above average.
Elliot was cute. He shoulda just took the gay pill and let hot, gay chads finger his butthole in his beemer.
He wasn't cute, he was LULZ with a rich israelite dad. Lifting and cardio for that would've been like spraying shit with cologne.
I don't interact with women.