Have you been told that you've gotten intimidating/less approachable since getting fit?
Have you been told that you've gotten intimidating/less approachable since getting fit?
Have you been told that you've gotten intimidating/less approachable since getting fit?
She's trying so hard. Social media has destroyed her.
Who's that fugly b***h?
Its over
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She has to try hard with that ugly ass face.
no but I do find people naturally begin to treat you as though you're stupid, which is honestly sort of pleasant
because it's cope. the out of shape nerds don't want to hear that their health is entirely within their control
Trips of truth
As a researcher it can work against you as people are less likely to engage in scientific conversations with you. The treatment I get at conferences vs that of my dyel colleagues is vastly different
You sound like a brainlet. Maybe spend more time in the books and less shitposting on a homoerotic imageboard
Talking with uneducated women is boring and tiring. Why would I waste time discussing the mundane such as The Office and Kardashians when we could be exchanging ideas of quantum theories?
Educated women are even worse. It makes them think their opinions matter.
and yours do?
>brainlet
Top kek, my IQ is over 150
150 is the number of dicks your mom sucked last night, fricking nerd
>as a researcher
what do you research, homosexual? ways to get your ass blown out ?
Yes i experienced that too and i also noticed that some people get passive agressive at me once they find out that i am not only in better shape then them but also have a better career. Its like most people have this believe that everything in this universe evens out and whenever they see someone being better then them at something they cope with "well, but atleast i am better at [insert some dumb bullshit here]" and once they find out that life doesnt work like that they get pissy and defensive. Pic related is a perfect example for this
yes and I love it because I hate it when girls try to talk to me. My wife is the only woman with whom I care to interact.
I wait tables in an area that is FULL of women like this. I've interacted with hundreds of them. They all desperately want you to think they're hot shit despite being 100% plastic 6/10 narcissists OBSESSED with their appearance and "status". Quite frankly it's disgusting and sad.
No, the opposite actually. I still have resting b***h face, just now I don't also look too fat to move.
Man I got resting b***h face too. Kinda sucks.
The solution to this is to consciously smile when you approach people. And I mean a nice, broad smile with your teeth fully on display. It's exhausting, but it works.
But then I'd be more approachable and that's the opposite of what I want.
how thirsty for validation from strangers are you that you have to put on a fake social mask lmao
Add hunter eyes and death stare.
yes
i’d say i became more intimidating to men and more approachable to women
Not told directly but there's a correlation between me getting fitter and a promotion that makes everyone at levels below me act differently that I've noticed.
Prior to getting fitter (Im still a fat ass but not as much a fatass) people would be more casual and laid back with loads of eye contact. Now everyone kind of adopts this slightly bowed posture or looks down when talking to me - like apes do when being submissive.
When I noticed it, It irked me at first because I thought they were trying to say I was ugly or something but after talking it with some older buddies (who still treat me the same) they pointed out that we all did the same thing when I was a lower grade.
Shits weird.
Wait what? I'm genuinely surprised. You're saying that if you get fitter, people really see you as a 'higher monkey' and start slightly bowing and shit? What the fck. Are people really that shallow?
I don't talk to people.
no but i have consciously dropped mass to blend in socially
Not intimidating exactly but the most noticeable difference in my experience since turning into a sick c**t is that art heauxs want nothing to do with me. This is devastating to me. Art thots are my weakness. Septum piercing, librarian glasses, you know the type. And I am even an oil painter myself so it’s not like I’m shooting outside my own genre or anything. But the more fit I get the more these leftist communist plant moms steer clear of me. shit sucks.
Man, I’d love to throatfrick an art heaux with some stupid scribbles on her forearms and a lip ring. But they only have eyes for homosexuals with their nails painted and a fur buttplug.
it's their way to deal with being intimidated. I bet they act differently when they know you're on they're side and an artist yourself.
When I was sauced to the gills men stopped shooting the shit with me except for brothers, who started cat calling me about my physique. Women started treating me like pure utility. To women I was either a sex object or threat. I got exaggerated indicators of interest or feigned dismissal even when I was my own business. There was no more middle ground like simple eye contact or a polite smile.
No-one ever comments on me
Wrong.
back when i was a fst autistic ugly teenager, spergs would naturally gravitate to me, and they would fully sperg out about anime or videogames with me if i asked them about it
now when i see a dude who looks like as much of a loser as i am, i get one word answers and very little eye contact. i overheard a dork talking about dwarf fortress about a year ago, who probably only got into it because it was released on steam anyway, and when i asked him about it it was like if i was asking him if he had an inflation fetish. if i make a sarcastic/ironic joke, people take me seriously, or assume i'm stupid. i can get laid and talk to women easier now, but ive never had less friends. feel like a sheep in wolf's clothing.
I've had people tell me I look scary since high school, long before I started getting fit. Something about my resting face makes people think I'm planning murder.
>anon, when we first met you looked really scary, but you're actually a fun guy to hang with
If I had a dollar for every time people have said this to me over the years.
No but do get some shitty / passive agressive crap from other middle aged guys. I'm 50 and have been getting fit for the last year and a half. It started when I lost enough weight for my facial structure to a show through. Since I added a load of calisthenic work (don't lift heavy stuff for medical reasons) and I have a bit of a bod back it's ramped up to the point It's getting tiresome.
Women look at me again, which is a bonus for a half bald, average height guy (LTR so nothing doing...)
Unfortunately not yet, any tips?
Being physically fit is a not a metric whatsoever for being approachable or liked. I’m a 32 year old boomer and know a thing or two about this stuff.
Animal magnetism goes much deeper than your physique. Sure if you’re fit and healthy you’re likely to be more relaxed and calm, which will make people more at ease with you, but your physique and physical appearance has nothing to do with it because the entire spectrum exists whereby fit people have tons of friends, and other fit folk with zero approachability. You know the type.
The other side is non fit goblin dorks with tons of friends of similar interests and is warm etc then you have of course goblin dorks who are outcasts forever.
It’s to do with animal magnetism, your aura, your energy. It might sound woo-woo but if you’re ever experimented with psychedelics or psilocybin you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about.
When tripping on shrooms I’ll have strangers approach me in public and strike up conversations with me and completely have their guard down and open up with me. Absolute strangers, unprompted.
Working in a restaurant in my younger years I had periods of being a husk where nobody would talk to or look at me for weeks - customers and colleagues.
When I had periods of having my shit together and feeling magnetic, people would turn their heads to smile at me as I walk past.
Children are great indicators of magnetism because they are purer beings with more intrinsic instincts that isn’t guided by ego or whatever. When you’re in a low magnetic state, children will hide behind their parents legs in your presence. When you’ve got a positive aura, children will interact and play with you. I noticed this as my nieces and nephews were growing up.
The key to having a positive aura or strong animal magnetism is having pure thoughts and habits, and being where you’re supposed to in life. Rather, feeling where you’re supposed to be. Mushrooms Help open up your mind
>I’m a 32 year old boomer
what
KYS newhomosexual
not reading your blog post homie
does hold a shred of truth
your behavior and emotions change when you are tripping you moron, its not auras or magnetism.
Interesting post, thanks anon. I think you might be right. I used to be into psychedelics and the entactogenic effect is something I've never really been able to fully describe, but you did a pretty good job of it.
Now the trick is as always after experimenting with psychedelics, to take that state of mind and achieve it while sober, through hard work and confidence building habits. Cheers!
Damn ive thought about this shit too, almost scarily paranormal the amount of times ive experienced some form of female gratification when only at a heightened emotional state. I would say paranormal because even through dating/messaging apps where the person cant physically see you, they still get a "feeling" to chat you up and make plans, or all of a sudden open up to you, just like you described with the magnetic pull. Also its not only females, but friends in general too, family members etc. People who dont normally talk to you suddenly integrate into your life on a whim, compliment you, or say some cryptic smalltalk that subconciously makes you think they are entirely aware what you were thinking.
my coworker said "you are at the point of being fit where ugly chicks are intimidated by you but hot chicks dont give a frick about you, you need to keep improving".
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hes a fat dyel who lives with his parents and plays pokemon and playstation and watches fricking naruto all day, so i guess it could be worse for me. all likes, matches and messages i get without starting them in dating apps are landwhales, druggies and single moms while he expects for a 10/10 space engineer woman to marry him but gets zero attention from anyone.
you need to keep people like that at an arms length because they will try to bring you down
yes, it was funny because one day at work we needed to walk uphill to get to my car and he got absolutely gassed and destroyed while i was just chilling. he swore to god he was going to start exercising to get fit. he ran on a threadmill 3 days and after that he started boasting to me he was eating porkchops covered in mayo cooked by his mom and that i should give up on fitness because it was not enjoyable. he thinks that is funny and he thinks hes being quirky but he looks like an absolute moron to me. he also tries to explain to me why eating like a pig once a day and eating 3 kinder eggs to get the funko inside is healthier than doing 3 balanced meals full of protein. i could go on talking about this guy, but i wont blog post anymore.
>tldr i just like to make fat and weak normies seethe
No, but the boys at the gun store said when I showed up the first time there 10 years ago I was very spindly, but now I look decent.
No I dont talk to ppl much at all. I have a resting b***h face and an intense stare but look athletic and have a pretty boy face so I still get looks from women.
Quite the reverse. I'm in a better mental state from lifting, moreso from supporting my progress with a consistent sleep schedule and sensible food choices. People stop and ask me for directions, I get free stuff at bars and shops, I get hit on sometimes by both men and women. I suppose being physically larger and stronger (100kg 1.83m 1/2/3/4 for reps) allows me to feel more at ease in general than when I was a skinny 70kg kid, and that comes off as more approachable than the bag of nerves I once was.
If you're lifting to be intimidating then I suppose you'll reap what you sow.
I’ve been told by grown men that I’m intimidating
woman expect fit man to approach them 100%. but men are intimidated by fit woman. a real conundrum.