>he has been lifting for 1+ years
>he is in his 20's
>he still doesn't get casual sex
>meanwhile normies can get it
why?
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>he has been lifting for 1+ years. >he is in his 20's. >he still doesn't get casual sex
I'm a priest so I'm celibate.
>thinking casual sex is a good thing
>verification not required
I'm just too boring, even for this site. My therapist told me I lack social skills. Still, he said thay I can train them like I train in the gym so I'm working towards there.
We all can do it bros.
what are you doing to train your social skills?
posting on IST doesn't count by the way
I like to post on reddit too
posting in IST does count. I behave irl the exact same way I do in IST and after 10 years I've made a couple of friends and got a far gf, so I can guarantee it works
I called my dad a homosexual the other day
It just slipped out, I wasn't even thinking about what I was saying
I follow some steps everytime I have to talk to people. I think it's based on 'how achieve an objective' strategy or something. It's very large and detailed, but in short:
>when expressing myself always say facts, never make judgements, only when asked
>always talk about what I think, not what other may think or talk about others in general
>be as assertive as possible, and make clear what I want
>make sure other people knows what's important to me so they know
>reinforcement: try to make the other person win something of the conversation, even a smile counts
Also stop overthinking, differentiate between what's real and what's imaginary, as in my mind of course I always think the worst about everyone and everything, so making that difference makes easier to identify intrusive thoughts and then just try to let them go.
It feels stupid, and it's embarrassing to say. Still, yesterday I made a little small talk with a cashier and it felt good.
It's like the gym. You do your reps, rest in between them, and after the workout you need your rest day. That's how I like to see it anyway. You would me amazed of how therapist know this social anxiety thing from head to toe and are willing to help you even if you're an autistic moron like me.
I hope this helps someone.
Posting on IST literally helped me out of my shell IRL. The problem is most people filter what they're saying too much. Just saying what's on your mind works so often unless it reveals your powerlevel.
Atta boy anon 😀
I'm getting out there too now.
Thanks anon. Be well.
I'm a sperg. Always have been, always will be.
Anon I have a secret for you:
Talk to black women
not only are they very sexual beings but they really do like spergy white dudes.
i'm not attracted to black women
Some girl just added me on instagram and dmed what’s up how do I respond?
What'd she say?
(What’s up) that’s it I think she’s a friend of a friend
Reply with “what’s good nigguh?”
Girls don't DM unprompted if they're not into you. Keep it light and playful, you have a shot
homie how the frick do you reply to what’s up
>Nothin much (or say literally anything here) what are you up to?
Good that’s what I said, in real life I’m a talker but I can never get past one night stands because I can’t text for shit, I over think it
I'm 5'8", DYEL, abnormally shy, yet, get laid weekly. Still can't find a GF though, most girls I've fricked are cheating on their BFs or just recently broken up with their BFs or are of below average attractiveness.
Any tips?
Where do you find these girls? Asking for a friend.
Friends, friends of friends
Frick. You do know that shy guys don’t usually have a ton of female friends they go around fricking, right?
Because I have a girlfriend
Stupid frog
>he has been lifting for 1+ years
That's like nothing. i know highschoolers who have lifted for longer.
Casual sex is overrated as frick. The only thing someone here might get from it is some validation, which is next to worthless.
t. boomer.
t. somebody who doesn't get sex easily so it's not a fun memory
Actually, you sound like the one who struggles to get laid.
The easier you get sex, the more games women play with pretending they're pregnant and shit because they want to keep your attention. Casual sex is garbage. Disease scares are awful.
Easier to just find someone you want to frick consistently
I can’t find a woman that wants to stick around what am I doing wrong
do you eat women out?
>Be social, have a good group of friends,
>Take care of yourself
>Don't be an emotional mess. Always regulate yourself and don't look for her validation to manage your emotions
>Eat well, exercise
>Take care of your hygiene
>Don't take on too many of the hobbies in life that dry the pussies up (video games, movies, nerding out, having hobbies like being obsessed with marvel universe, etc.)
>Spend most of your free time on useful hobbies or socializing. Having a social life is probably better then spending too much time listening to self improvement stuff online. Listening to self improvement content has serious diminishing returns
Good luck homie
its to opposite dumbass. the people who say "lol casual sex is so bad actually" get tons of sex casually and in relationships
Be social
Because they are neurotypical
no lifts for your height and face
I cannot imagine a woman liking me
I'm kinda the same. I can flirt with the best of them, but I just can't get use to actually
>texting on the daily
>calling on the daily
>seeing what they're doing
>planning to hang out
I know how to flirt, frick and then I'm completely clueless how to be an actual bf.
>why?
Don't know man and why do you even care ? its not like you gonna hook me up...
the summit of a man is his 30s and early 40s and yet this gaslighting frogposting bot claims otherwise
girls are a hedonistic waste of time. sex is on the decline because food is too expensive to reproduce, and with kids off the menu the dinner isn’t worth it