It's embarrassing being with her I've tried to get her on carnivore fasting diet. should I try making an at home gym and getting a squat rack? Tips?
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Flirt with skinny/fit girls when she's within earshot. Subtly is how you speak to women bro. The direct method doesn't work on most women
>Flirt with other women
This, but unironically
>Flirt with skinny/fit girls when she's within earshot.
nuclear option. just follow skinny girls on insta/mention skinny actresses are hot in her earshot first.
women get the hint - if they don't you could cheat on them and they'd still stick around. which is win win i guess.
Tell her she's starting to look more like her mother
Holy shit, this was an underrated comment. This is pure gold. OP, do this!
Are you willing to lose her? If so just be direct. Otherwise accept it and move on. You can try your sneaky manipulation techniques but it's unlikely to do much and will probably just build resentment
this, i told mine if she hit a certain weight we are done period the end. i thought in fact we would be done the moment i made that statement; unironically now she works out a bit and watches diet kek. i'm not sure being so blunt would always work though.
Basically this. How fricking desperate can you be that you'd attach and anchor to your leg? If you're the catch, which you should be as a man, then you call the shots. Stop being a beta that shit turns them off too, don't roll over because you're worried about missing out on pussy which is one of the cheapest commodities out there.
Cut off one of her legs. Should get her down at least 30 lbs.
how long have you been together? how quickly did she gain the weight? Is it a deal breaker? I could not be with an overweight woman, but you can't let her slowly gain weight for 6 months and then tell her to lose it all within 2 weeks.
>It's embarrassing being with her
This is pretty cringe from my perspective, but I'm an autist.
Start cooking for her and saying you guys have to stop eating out to save money for your baby. if you aren't planning on putting a baby in her why the frick are you with her, yeah? if you're not serious, dump the b***h and move on.
We have a baby already she lost 25 lbs since then but it's not enough
>girlfriend
>already have a baby
>unmarried
OP you forgot to mention you are white trash, everyone expects you to be with a hog you shouldn't be embarrassed out in public.
>2025
Oh yeah and getting married is also smart option for any self respecting man
It seems like only higher class people get married these days. I'm from a trash family and could not fathom getting married. My parents are not married either (or together).
I work with a bunch of people who come from dentist/doctor/lawyer/professor families and they routinely get married in their late 20s early 30s.
Being poor/low class really cripples you socially
Being married is a death sentence for any man those high class people will get raped in divorce
Your cause effect is reversed
When you're too moronic to understand marriage to a responsible partner will make you better off financially later, youre clearly moronic and will end up poor
My coworkers are husband and wife. They are both 34. They have an 18 year old son. They got married at 17 years old. They are poor.
Most poor people I know are married. It doesn't have to cost 10s of thousands to throw a wedding.
People will throw away 80k nowadays at a wedding then get divorced a year later. You have to be moronic to get married in the current year
My wife and I spent $30k on a wedding but that shouldn’t be a big deal if you have a good income.
We made $680k last year.
>two high school sweethearts
Oh lucky them
Hi OP. I read your posts and it seems like you might be struggling with this incredible change that has taken place in your life. Sometimes it is difficult for men to accept that they are no longer their partner's top priority and may create issues to try to stuff away the bad feelings. If you would like to help your girlfriend lose weight, here is my advice
Spend time with your child, doing the basic care, bonding with them and allow your girlfriend to take breaks. Be an active, engaged partner and father and do your best to enhance your time together as a family. You can do things like playing all together, group exercise where the baby is incorporated into the exercises and even just doing chores as a team. Doing yoga together is a good way to help her ease in to exercise and is well tolerated by the postpartum body. You have not given the age of your baby, but up to 6 months have to by for all the relaxin to leave her system and a year for hormone levels to regularize.
I will suggest you invest in a baby carrier if you do not already have one. Being carried this way is beneficial to your baby's development and will help your girlfriend to lose weight if she carries the baby while doing her usual chores.
Hopefully she is breastfeeding which will also help, but if she is nutrient deficient she will suffer from severe cravings which will be detrimental. Make sure you are both getting adequate protein and enough minerals.
Most important is sleep. Lack of sleep will make weight loss difficult. Make sure you are both getting adequate rest, and make sure she takes at least one nap with the baby each day.
Do better than what you were shown. This helpless person that you have created is dependent on you fixing your shit. Good luck, I really hope your get it together.
I don't get why girls get mad when you tell them they got fat. They know it. Why pretend the contrary? It fricking SHOWS, it's objectively measurable.
To answer your question: the only way I know of is waiting for her to take the decision. She has to come to terms with not being ok with her being fat. The real question is how to make her take the decision without her getting mad at you.
Because you're supposed to be attracted to her no matter how repulsive she gets
You can thank fat acceptance and feminism for that shit.
It's socially acceptable to call Boogie a lardass but dont you dare say that to a woman
Losing 30lbs especially as a women takes a lot of willpower and self discipline.
Which most women do not have.
Convince her to get on Ozempic, its weightloss on easy mode that is why normies are taking it in droves
You can't.
This is why you do your due diligence when picking a woman to be with.
The best gauge is by meeting her mother.
If your gf is petite and skinny, and he mom is still that way, you're good to go. If the mom is a goblina circle, then you hit and quit.
Or you turn your focus towards raising good healthy kids and accept your wife as a slam pig to get the venom out and hopefully she isn't a mental/social drain to interact with.
You can't be direct with women. They hate that shit and will resent you for it. You have to be clandestine and frick with her head for her own good. Really get into their mentality and use the same strategies/tactic they use on men to get their bfs/husbands to change their behavior.
>take her favorite dress in for an alteration, so she suddenly finds she can no longer wear it
>chisel away the heels of her shoes, so they snap under her bulk
>lure her to an Asian market, so all the thin, old Asian ladies gawk at her chubby frame, some of the most ancient reaching to pinch her rolls
>come up behind her all romantically, then grab her belly "on accident" and then tug your hands away as if you're disgusted but don't want to hurt her feelings
>make fun of women noticeably fatter than her, so she can consciously write it off but still be bothered by it subconsciously
>retweet, repost, and show her things from TLC shows about fat people and their horrific obesity-related diseases
>make up stories about friends/coworkers getting PCOS from being overweight
"By way of deception thou shalt make gains." - Rippetoe 20:4
To top it off you could probably make that all into a successful romcom.
Dating advice from The Twits?
Either stop having sex with her, or just keep it quick in bed: no foreplay, no dirty talk, no oral; just get yourself off. Don't ever tell her it's because of her or her weight. Just claim you're less horny. If she starts exercising or losing weight, ramp up the sex as soon as possible so she sees the connection.
start milking her and go shhh thats a good girl
Heroin
>It's embarrassing being with her
This is such a cringe mindset.
You can be disgusted at her for being too fat, but being embarrassed because others think your gf is fat is CRAZY
Like, are you 14 or what ?
Women are social creatures. Everything, from fashion, marketing, socializing, and having babies is dictated by how they perceive their peers. She won’t listen to her dork frogposter boyfriend because you are not an authority to her. My advice is to upgrade your social circle to people who are active and beautiful, she will naturally follow suit.
Ozempic is literally your only option,