how do I recover from falling in love with an girl with bpd

how do I recover from falling in love with an girl with bpd

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What are the signs of someone with bpd? Seems its overdiagnosed like adhd these days

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this seems like every western woman now, I don't know why this even has a name

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      when you get with one you'll know. Love Bombing you unlike anyone you have ever been with is a good sign to run

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    BCAAs, creatine, gelatin, banded stretching. Maybe epsom salt and topical progesterone.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Are you talking bipolar or borderline?

    Either way I'm going to assume either she rejected you or you got in a 'relationship' with her and you're on the bottom of a long rollercoaster ride.

    Lift, stay busy, casually talk (and very gently flirt if applicable) with other women, know that it'll eventually pass and you'll be stronger for dealing with it.

    Having my heart shattered by my crazy, borderline, narcissistic ex was the best thing that ever happened to me. Made me determined to not be the weak little b***h I was when she took advantage of me.

    Lift now. If you gotta cry between sets that's fine, but don't let her (or the version of her stuck in your head) have the victory of tearing you down.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Does the chick self harm, have suicidal thoughts, does reckless shit, make you feel like shit when you are near her and insult you constantly in a mean spirited away

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Storytime op?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/6pldIfz.gif

      Are you talking bipolar or borderline?

      Either way I'm going to assume either she rejected you or you got in a 'relationship' with her and you're on the bottom of a long rollercoaster ride.

      Lift, stay busy, casually talk (and very gently flirt if applicable) with other women, know that it'll eventually pass and you'll be stronger for dealing with it.

      Having my heart shattered by my crazy, borderline, narcissistic ex was the best thing that ever happened to me. Made me determined to not be the weak little b***h I was when she took advantage of me.

      Lift now. If you gotta cry between sets that's fine, but don't let her (or the version of her stuck in your head) have the victory of tearing you down.

      she was a friend who is smart, beautiful, and very nice and kind

      one night when we were in my car, I confessed I had a crush (I said it was a little crush) but I was just very obviously totally head over heels in love

      She sensed it, and said said "I love you too but we need to take it slow, I take a while to warm up to guys to do things physically"

      So we kept hanging out and having an amazing time, even spending time alone at each others places, cuddling on couch etc.. but never anything more than that.

      Basically just enjoying each others company and falling more in love with her, but after one date, I leaned in to kiss her, she pushed me away and got totally grossed out and was like "omfg eeew anon" and then confessed she never actually saw me that way, and left.

      Later she said she was sorry and she thought it was like a game and that it was more fun for her to hangout if there was some sexual tension in the air

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        so where does bpd come in kek

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          If you can’t see the emotional manipulation which is consistent with BPD in that story you’re a fkn sperg.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Lol
        >This is so traumatic and must have been bpd.
        Your whole coddled pussy generation is going to collapse the western world.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          we talked on the phone every day for hours

          hungout everyday, go to gym, play basketball, get coffee, go for long drives, she would come over and cook me food, help me clean, get groceries etc

          and the whole time it felt amazing and I was totally in love

          and it was all just a game for her cause she was bored

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        How is this bpd lol

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          well, it is something that made her not understand her emotions properly

          never had a girl lead me on like that, if I confessed I had feelings they would be like, yeah there is nohting happening

          Maybe in her mind she thought I was a cool person but never any real attraction, but she wanted to try it anyways

          which is still super not nice

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        That was weird on her part. But Man you sound like a wimp

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        this is not bpd

        if this was bpd she would have fricked your brains out, and then ripped your heart out and stomped on it. Then fricked some dirt bag and act like you don't exist

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          well, what is it?

          her cousin said its autism but I cant tell if he was joking

          the most confusing part is why she was okay coming over to cuddle with me if she had zero physical attraction

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Adhd maybe

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          That sounds more like BPD

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          And after that, drunk call you saying she misses you

          [...]
          she was a friend who is smart, beautiful, and very nice and kind

          one night when we were in my car, I confessed I had a crush (I said it was a little crush) but I was just very obviously totally head over heels in love

          She sensed it, and said said "I love you too but we need to take it slow, I take a while to warm up to guys to do things physically"

          So we kept hanging out and having an amazing time, even spending time alone at each others places, cuddling on couch etc.. but never anything more than that.

          Basically just enjoying each others company and falling more in love with her, but after one date, I leaned in to kiss her, she pushed me away and got totally grossed out and was like "omfg eeew anon" and then confessed she never actually saw me that way, and left.

          Later she said she was sorry and she thought it was like a game and that it was more fun for her to hangout if there was some sexual tension in the air

          How old are you two? If you're zoomers, that honestly sounds par of the course for you guys. You are all socially stunted

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            we are both 26

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              cap

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                nope its true

                is it autism?

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah sounds like she’s autistic and you’re just weird.
                Why tf are you trying to takeadvantage of a moron, anon?

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                her parents tried to set us up

                we are both NEETs with no social life or friends

                never tried to take advantage of her, I was always 100% up front with my intentions and as soon as I knew I had feelings for her I told her

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >her parents tried to set us up
                A-are you poojeets?

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                nope she just was struggling socially and mom thought it would be good to have a friend or potential bf

                As I got to know her I knew I had feelings and told her right away

                Maybe she didnt mean to manpulate me or lead me on, but she maybe cant understand her own feelings so it still hurt badly even if unintentional on her end

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                her parents tried to set us up

                we are both NEETs with no social life or friends

                never tried to take advantage of her, I was always 100% up front with my intentions and as soon as I knew I had feelings for her I told her

                get jacked then go bang her

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >she was a friend who is smart, beautiful, and very nice and kind
              Are you a third worlder or european?

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                She was very kind and beautiful sir so pretty sir very smart sir

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >sir

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    BPD are usually histrionic. They dont want you or love you, its just your turn to be played with. Cut the bullshit and cut ties with her as soon as possible. Sex is not worth the literal nightmare
    >t. Had BPD gf

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Storytime?

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My high school girlfriend was a diagnosed schizophrenic, was a whirlwind of possessiveness and non stop jealousy.
    But she was really cute and she only singled me out because even back then I was IST but a loner so thinking about it, I was groomed lol. Even with all the drama and constant gaslighting, I had a good time lol

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Uuuuhhhh.... Fitness?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This shit's getting out of hand. I agree with you.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    sage

    jannies

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