Either way I'm going to assume either she rejected you or you got in a 'relationship' with her and you're on the bottom of a long rollercoaster ride.
Lift, stay busy, casually talk (and very gently flirt if applicable) with other women, know that it'll eventually pass and you'll be stronger for dealing with it.
Having my heart shattered by my crazy, borderline, narcissistic ex was the best thing that ever happened to me. Made me determined to not be the weak little b***h I was when she took advantage of me.
Lift now. If you gotta cry between sets that's fine, but don't let her (or the version of her stuck in your head) have the victory of tearing you down.
Does the chick self harm, have suicidal thoughts, does reckless shit, make you feel like shit when you are near her and insult you constantly in a mean spirited away
Either way I'm going to assume either she rejected you or you got in a 'relationship' with her and you're on the bottom of a long rollercoaster ride.
Lift, stay busy, casually talk (and very gently flirt if applicable) with other women, know that it'll eventually pass and you'll be stronger for dealing with it.
Having my heart shattered by my crazy, borderline, narcissistic ex was the best thing that ever happened to me. Made me determined to not be the weak little b***h I was when she took advantage of me.
Lift now. If you gotta cry between sets that's fine, but don't let her (or the version of her stuck in your head) have the victory of tearing you down.
she was a friend who is smart, beautiful, and very nice and kind
one night when we were in my car, I confessed I had a crush (I said it was a little crush) but I was just very obviously totally head over heels in love
She sensed it, and said said "I love you too but we need to take it slow, I take a while to warm up to guys to do things physically"
So we kept hanging out and having an amazing time, even spending time alone at each others places, cuddling on couch etc.. but never anything more than that.
Basically just enjoying each others company and falling more in love with her, but after one date, I leaned in to kiss her, she pushed me away and got totally grossed out and was like "omfg eeew anon" and then confessed she never actually saw me that way, and left.
Later she said she was sorry and she thought it was like a game and that it was more fun for her to hangout if there was some sexual tension in the air
if this was bpd she would have fricked your brains out, and then ripped your heart out and stomped on it. Then fricked some dirt bag and act like you don't exist
And after that, drunk call you saying she misses you
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she was a friend who is smart, beautiful, and very nice and kind
one night when we were in my car, I confessed I had a crush (I said it was a little crush) but I was just very obviously totally head over heels in love
She sensed it, and said said "I love you too but we need to take it slow, I take a while to warm up to guys to do things physically"
So we kept hanging out and having an amazing time, even spending time alone at each others places, cuddling on couch etc.. but never anything more than that.
Basically just enjoying each others company and falling more in love with her, but after one date, I leaned in to kiss her, she pushed me away and got totally grossed out and was like "omfg eeew anon" and then confessed she never actually saw me that way, and left.
Later she said she was sorry and she thought it was like a game and that it was more fun for her to hangout if there was some sexual tension in the air
How old are you two? If you're zoomers, that honestly sounds par of the course for you guys. You are all socially stunted
Yeah sounds like she’s autistic and you’re just weird.
Why tf are you trying to takeadvantage of a moron, anon?
3 months ago
Anonymous
her parents tried to set us up
we are both NEETs with no social life or friends
never tried to take advantage of her, I was always 100% up front with my intentions and as soon as I knew I had feelings for her I told her
3 months ago
Anonymous
>her parents tried to set us up
A-are you poojeets?
3 months ago
Anonymous
nope she just was struggling socially and mom thought it would be good to have a friend or potential bf
As I got to know her I knew I had feelings and told her right away
Maybe she didnt mean to manpulate me or lead me on, but she maybe cant understand her own feelings so it still hurt badly even if unintentional on her end
3 months ago
Anonymous
her parents tried to set us up
we are both NEETs with no social life or friends
never tried to take advantage of her, I was always 100% up front with my intentions and as soon as I knew I had feelings for her I told her
BPD are usually histrionic. They dont want you or love you, its just your turn to be played with. Cut the bullshit and cut ties with her as soon as possible. Sex is not worth the literal nightmare >t. Had BPD gf
My high school girlfriend was a diagnosed schizophrenic, was a whirlwind of possessiveness and non stop jealousy.
But she was really cute and she only singled me out because even back then I was IST but a loner so thinking about it, I was groomed lol. Even with all the drama and constant gaslighting, I had a good time lol
What are the signs of someone with bpd? Seems its overdiagnosed like adhd these days
this seems like every western woman now, I don't know why this even has a name
when you get with one you'll know. Love Bombing you unlike anyone you have ever been with is a good sign to run
BCAAs, creatine, gelatin, banded stretching. Maybe epsom salt and topical progesterone.
Are you talking bipolar or borderline?
Either way I'm going to assume either she rejected you or you got in a 'relationship' with her and you're on the bottom of a long rollercoaster ride.
Lift, stay busy, casually talk (and very gently flirt if applicable) with other women, know that it'll eventually pass and you'll be stronger for dealing with it.
Having my heart shattered by my crazy, borderline, narcissistic ex was the best thing that ever happened to me. Made me determined to not be the weak little b***h I was when she took advantage of me.
Lift now. If you gotta cry between sets that's fine, but don't let her (or the version of her stuck in your head) have the victory of tearing you down.
Does the chick self harm, have suicidal thoughts, does reckless shit, make you feel like shit when you are near her and insult you constantly in a mean spirited away
Storytime op?
she was a friend who is smart, beautiful, and very nice and kind
one night when we were in my car, I confessed I had a crush (I said it was a little crush) but I was just very obviously totally head over heels in love
She sensed it, and said said "I love you too but we need to take it slow, I take a while to warm up to guys to do things physically"
So we kept hanging out and having an amazing time, even spending time alone at each others places, cuddling on couch etc.. but never anything more than that.
Basically just enjoying each others company and falling more in love with her, but after one date, I leaned in to kiss her, she pushed me away and got totally grossed out and was like "omfg eeew anon" and then confessed she never actually saw me that way, and left.
Later she said she was sorry and she thought it was like a game and that it was more fun for her to hangout if there was some sexual tension in the air
so where does bpd come in kek
If you can’t see the emotional manipulation which is consistent with BPD in that story you’re a fkn sperg.
Lol
>This is so traumatic and must have been bpd.
Your whole coddled pussy generation is going to collapse the western world.
we talked on the phone every day for hours
hungout everyday, go to gym, play basketball, get coffee, go for long drives, she would come over and cook me food, help me clean, get groceries etc
and the whole time it felt amazing and I was totally in love
and it was all just a game for her cause she was bored
How is this bpd lol
well, it is something that made her not understand her emotions properly
never had a girl lead me on like that, if I confessed I had feelings they would be like, yeah there is nohting happening
Maybe in her mind she thought I was a cool person but never any real attraction, but she wanted to try it anyways
which is still super not nice
That was weird on her part. But Man you sound like a wimp
this is not bpd
if this was bpd she would have fricked your brains out, and then ripped your heart out and stomped on it. Then fricked some dirt bag and act like you don't exist
well, what is it?
her cousin said its autism but I cant tell if he was joking
the most confusing part is why she was okay coming over to cuddle with me if she had zero physical attraction
Adhd maybe
That sounds more like BPD
And after that, drunk call you saying she misses you
How old are you two? If you're zoomers, that honestly sounds par of the course for you guys. You are all socially stunted
we are both 26
cap
nope its true
is it autism?
Yeah sounds like she’s autistic and you’re just weird.
Why tf are you trying to takeadvantage of a moron, anon?
her parents tried to set us up
we are both NEETs with no social life or friends
never tried to take advantage of her, I was always 100% up front with my intentions and as soon as I knew I had feelings for her I told her
>her parents tried to set us up
A-are you poojeets?
nope she just was struggling socially and mom thought it would be good to have a friend or potential bf
As I got to know her I knew I had feelings and told her right away
Maybe she didnt mean to manpulate me or lead me on, but she maybe cant understand her own feelings so it still hurt badly even if unintentional on her end
get jacked then go bang her
>she was a friend who is smart, beautiful, and very nice and kind
Are you a third worlder or european?
She was very kind and beautiful sir so pretty sir very smart sir
>sir
BPD are usually histrionic. They dont want you or love you, its just your turn to be played with. Cut the bullshit and cut ties with her as soon as possible. Sex is not worth the literal nightmare
>t. Had BPD gf
Storytime?
My high school girlfriend was a diagnosed schizophrenic, was a whirlwind of possessiveness and non stop jealousy.
But she was really cute and she only singled me out because even back then I was IST but a loner so thinking about it, I was groomed lol. Even with all the drama and constant gaslighting, I had a good time lol
Uuuuhhhh.... Fitness?
This shit's getting out of hand. I agree with you.
jannies