How do I start making friends at the gym if I have extreme social anxiety and am spergy? I go to the gym daily but I just have headphones on and have never spoken to anyone
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lmao thank you i fricking hate that stupid twinky zoomer image
>I don't speak to people
>wearing headphones
>at the gym where people just want to get along with their workout
Do you think people are just going up to you and asking to be your friend?
Say hi to ppl u see regularly, eventually build up to small talk, eventually build up in to deeper personal stuff, then that leads to replying to my post or ur mother will die in her sleep tonight
Damnit. Fricking again.
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Caught me off guard
Fuuuuuuug
you little homosexual
the man in your picture is my roommate
there's not like a fitness boxing class or something you can join? those are usually mostly women though
where do you live? specifically provide the correct post digits and I will train you for free and be your friend, but only the kind of friend that you have to accept cares about you but will probably barely reply to your messages apart from once or twice a week when I have a free moment from shitposting on IST, working out, or going to university
I dated a girl who looked like this for three years. She had the tightest pussy I've ever encountered.
Git gains. Show up daily. Someone will notice your hatd work and tell you "man, you've come a long way in the last few months". Introduce yourself and ask them questions. Boom. Now you can say hi to them and make small talk.
Ask for a spot
Join a smaller gym
Never talked to a single person at a commercial gym, but when I joined a powerlifting gym everybody was talking to me
This, my local commercial gym is packed with high schoolers and people wanting to get quick workouts in before/after work, everybody is inconvenienced by eachother and wants to get it over with. The small gym I went to a couple of years ago had shitty gear but was super friendly
Keep visiting regularly and you end up start talking to other regulars. Thats easy.
The thing is, how do I get people to not make friends with me in gym as regular?
Start by greeting the gym staff at the front counter and saying goodbye when you leave. Ask for a spot when you need one. Ive met a few people this way