How do I talk to guys at the gym? Not even for necessarily romantic/sexual reasons, just how do I talk to them? Do I need to wear those butt scrunch leggings or something? I don't talk to anyone at the gym past a "how many sets do you have left".
How do I talk to guys at the gym? Not even for necessarily romantic/sexual reasons, just how do I talk to them?
Just compliment a guy out of the blue. He will likely remember it for the rest of his life.
>Just compliment a guy out of the blue. He will likely remember it for the rest of his life
Too fucking relatable
Isn't that kind of a creepy thing to do at the gym though? I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable
If you are really a woman, compliment a guy. We rarely if ever get compliments about a physical attribute so it will be indelible in our psyche.
because we never get complimented, if we do we will assume you want to fuck
We do get compliments just not you.
>We do get compliments just not you.
I do this often because of comments like this
No because men aren't constantly vigilant for threats. It's often less comfortable to walk up to a woman and say something because they've always got it in the back of their mind that if the interaction goes bad, they're a few weight classes below.
If a guy takes it the wrong way either he's a complete weiner through and through, or he's acting like one because he's distracted or preoccupied or something.
What is wrong with you? I have surely forgotten and have not thought about countless of compliments.
Probably this
Also, don't be offended if guys don't want anything to do with you, too many woman have made gender relations at the gym awkward
Ask me if I'm looking forward to the Elden Ring expansion.
>Girl comes up to you in a gym and asks would you tap Miquella
Wdyd
I tell her i only play manly games for manly men like one piece bounty rush.
Are you looking forward to the Elden Ring expansion?
No.
ask for advice or a spot or something
Just know that a woman approaching a man at the gym is going to feel like entrapment for him. What's the catch? What are you selling? Don't get too upset if he brushes you off.
I don't understand the question. Why would you need an illustrated guide and FAQ on how to talk to someone casually? Is this what kids are like these days?
I unironically have autism
If you actually had autism, you'd be working out at home. You wouldn't be using a gym. People with actual autism isolate themselves whenever possible because it minimizes stress and anxiety. They would even avoid taking a walk around the neighborhood, opting for a treadmill in the living room, because the idea of other people being able to see them makes them uncomfortable.
I'm a psych tech and spend all day tard wrangling. I can easily spot the difference between social anxiety and legit autism. You were raised by a screen so have no idea how to deal with people. That doesn't make you autistic.
This applies to every fag that claims to have autism and aspergers on this website
Instagram addict rib BTFO
What about high functioning autists that are capable of living independently? If you're a tard wrangler then you're probably dealing with low functioning ones, correct?
Same thing. High functioning just means their verbal IQ is higher. It doesn't change their sensory issues or anxieties. Though it does help them recognize the tools to deal with it easier. To spot their triggers and know to avoid them. Lower-functioning autists often can't do that, and even worse, their wranglers force them into triggering situations because they believe it's best for them to be exposed. Which may be true for developing social skills, but it's devastating to their anxiety and comfort levels.
you assumed a lot about this person, but no an autistic person would still go to the gym, they go places, they have jobs, they just don't talk to people, don't understand social ques, they have to constantly study others, I've been this way since I was a kid, always doing the wrong thing, never understanding why I have to do something a certaint way. Spending most of my time on the computer is a symptom not the causation, I was an outside from the getgo, never had friends, never fit in, never understood what I was doing wrong. Normal people automatically just understand socialization and what is right or what is wrong, not being too clingy, not being overly negative, when to be funny. Being "psych tech" doesn't mean fuck all, went to a psychiatrist 2 years ago and they didn't even think autism was real, so fuck off queer.
don't talk to stranger guys if you're not interested in them
how do i do this but as a male
the person in OP's picrel is also male
nice psyop, chud
even better
You can't reverse psychology me. Tits or gtfo, girlie
No, you fucking idiot. Only women get uncomfortable when anybody shows something that could POSSIBLY be interpreted as romantic attraction, because they are the weaker sex. A strong man complimenting a woman subconsciously activates her fuck or flight response, because they always have to be on-guard to protect their reproductive organs from shitty genes and potential rapists. This is also why women become gigawhores in progressive societies, because one way to protect her reproductive organs from shitty genes is to fill them with superior genes-- even if they don't go through with pregnancy, subconsciously, this is what drives that behavior. Men, on the other hand, lavish in anything that resembles female attention. Social interaction tells us that we are desirable, so we love to receive it from women. A literally retarded downy woman would be able to tell that complimenting a man or simply talking to him would not bother him, and would not understand your complex, yet you cannot fathom why a man might like to be complimented.
This is most likely because you don't have any of those instincts. I would put money on you being yet another autistic fucking chud who treats this board like their personal /adv/, Reddit, or non-disclosing /lgbt/, because you won't follow the fucking rules and post pussy or tits to prove you are a woman. Not a single fucking person in this thread should take you seriously, yet they do because they are the absolute bottom of the barrel. THIS is how desperate men are for positive female attention. They will literally pretend that you might be a woman just so that you'll respond to their fucking post, and that is why everyone should report relationship/ mental health threads and SAGE them into oblivion.
most guys are afraid of interacting with women in the gym
just give yourself a reason to talk to them
Kys foid
If i'm at my gym i don't need some roastie to talk to me
Just wear your retarded yoga pants and revealing tops (only if you got big tits) so i get a test boost just by looking at it and stay the fuck away from me
Well if ur a chick, just dont be ugly. If ur ugly then get them drunk. So basically being a shit tray and hand them out while ur lifting until a guy is so wasted he'll tall to you.
Assuming youre a chick
Also YWNBAW
It is very rare for someone to start a social interaction on a positive note, and the other person be hostile. It could happen, but in that case the other person is obviously being an asshole so why would you care. Also going to echo what the other anons are saying. If you are a woman (and not a fag) you have social interactions on easy mode. You might catch a guy by surprise but he doesn't have to worry about you raping or stalking him like when the roles are reversed. Having a girl approach you is like a guys dream.
If that’s you, ask them to compare dick size.
YWNBAW
Only women want to hold conversations with people at the gym. Besides a lifting buddy you should barely ever speak to anyone around you and only questions like "are you using that?"
say "it's time" and take your shirt off
you don't. let them talk to you. you can ask them to lift bars from top of the smith machine rack if you're insistent.
oldfags don't hang around here for most part anymore.
It's a blue board, but a time stamp would prove that it isn't just a larger. Anyway who gives a shit? Fit is like 90% larpers/discord trannies
Larper*