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Anyone got a deep dive on this pic
It's called being married to a lazy c**t. My wife stacks her clothes on the floor like that as well and it's fricking infuriating. And it's not like she's some low-class mongrel, she's highly educated with a well-paying job and comes from a good family. Just never learned to live at home like a person.
Higher a maid? Divorce her? You sound outrageously bitter
>Just end a relationship over a minor annoyance bro
>just kick off a year-long process that will leave you broke and a social reject bro
>if you dont youre BITTER
summer is starting early, huh
based suplicator
At least I wasn't dumb enough to marry a slob. You reap what you sow, baby b***h
Scared to be alone huh?
Minor enough of a annoyance for you to throw b***h about it. Either tell them it bugs you, leave them, or stop fricking crying.
You sound desperate as frick, no wonder you have no other options
HAHAHA dumb c**t, you married a fat leech like every moron that falls for that scam and you're still too incompetent to remove the bloodsucker don't forget to say WOOF WOOF after each time you say "my wife" like a pussywhiped dog. Remember "happy wife, happy life!"
Spank her until she starts cooking & cleaning. Stop acting like a partner and start acting like her Daddy
whats wrong with her toes. Why are the big toes so big wtf
How hood is something like this in reality?
Probably abuse charges in 15min right?
Self checking the get
If she's working as much as you, it sounds like you need to hire a maid. You can inspire her to clean by cleaning and asking her if she'd help. Put on the Netflix show "tidying up" in front of her. She'll feel a urge to clean just to try out the tricks to cleaning in the show. Plus the show host is a based Japanese stay at home wife, former shrine maiden who made feminists seeth by making being a dutiful wife who cleans look like a good life.
If you have a b***h wtf do you need a maid for? White guys give such bad advice OMG
Because white people also let their women work a 9-5 and seethe when they don't respect them the same as they would an actual provider
i agree, you gotta let her sit at home doing some online business that brings in income. If she has to go out and work shes going to view and treat you as a roommate. This is why i dont even cohabitate, just come over, frick suck cook clean leave.
take it from me you need to either get a divorce or do something, being bitter about something and just avoiding it is not a solution, you will pay for it one day
>Just end a relationship over a minor annoyance bro
It'll only only get worse so might as well end it soon
>"f-fricking summer gays"
>posts a thing he saved from reddit
How is a filthy house and a disgusting slob cow for a wife a minor annoyance? I get irritated whenever I have to step over anything on the floor. This would make me fricking rage. I’d probably beat the shit out of her.
>my wife is a lazy c**t who infuriates me
You do sound bitter bro
>calls someone a summergay
>reddit watermark
Sunken cost fallacy, the post. moron.
u re right bro, all those replies stink of bitterness from people who don't even have a gf, let a lone a fricking wife lmao
I found myself a liberal type naive young woman, and now im shaping her however I want, everything possible if both put in effort.
>Living in a pigsty is a minor annoyance
Sorry for you, next life don't marry a warthog. Keep going like this and you might be the next chris watts though.
when you're on the other side of whatever nightmare relationship you're in that's causing you to project this hard, you'll curse yourself for throwing so many years of your life into the shitter
A young guy seeing older men get nagged by their wives, I kick women to the curb the second they don't realize it's my way or the highway.
Have you spoken to your wife about it?
About once a month for the last 8 years. It's learned behavior, like trying to make someone change how they walk.
My brother was literally in your same position. Has 2 kids.
Eventually he separated (she doesn't want an actual divorce because she'd get fricked over since my bro left EVERYTHING to her, whereas a judge would split it at least 30/70 or some shit).
Even after the separation he would still go to 'her' place (duplex they bought together) every fricking single day to clean, cook and pick up the children from school.
This lasted for 2 years until it became semi-frequent (2-3 days per week, he would end up just cooking and keeping the kitchen and the youngest kid's room clean while the rest of the house devolved into pure chaos).
I can understand the cooking since thing since he's a chef and his b***h ex can't even make a decent hamburger helper to save her life, but jesus fricking christ.
>And it's not like she's some low-class mongrel, she's highly educated with a well-paying job
its really interesting how all guys on fit and their wives are always very highly educated and in well paying careers
IDK about anyone else but I'm a STEM nerd so I have a well paying job but I don't have a social life
Resident NEET checking in. No gf and haven't earned a dime in several years
>highly educated
that means nothing
education is a fricking meme 90% of the time
Fat prostitute has her slave rectangle in perfect position for her daily mind poisoning.
>slave rectangle
Kek will use this
lazy stay at home b***h and a dude who is too much of a pussy to leave her. Plus a little asian ghost in the hallway.
>little asian ghost
oh god... oh fricking god
>asian ghost
homie I can't unsee it now
bros I'm too scared to get out of my blanket to turn on the lights but I really need to
FRICK
So many newbies in this thread have never seen Black person ghost boy
I'm stupid where is he.
It's the dirty lens smudge immediately to the left of the orange cylinder (candle?) near the hallway.
Fat wife will abort his child, but she's too lazy to exorcise its spirit.
DUDE
I kekd frick me lmao
Don't you mean a basic gestalt?
Bros, are all women fricking insane? I’m beginning to think they aren’t even human, these stories are incredibly discouraging and they’re becoming way too common. I already know marriage is mostly a meme, but I still see successful ones here and there irl. But is that shit even real or is it just a facade?
They never have been human. It's funny because women are claimed to be the emotional ones or whatever, but in reality they have no conception of morality, empathy, or just general human decency. They are a plague on our species, and it is a great misfortune that it is necessary for them to exist for the purpose of reproduction. Hopefully our stembros will solve this issue eventually...
They are perceived to be emotional because they don't have control over their emotions. It's precisely because they lack empathy and decency that they don't stop to think "Is this really worth going into a sobbing fit over? Is this worth negatively affecting other people's day?" Likewise, they cry at movies because they self-insert in the film, not because they feel genuine empathy for the characters. Basically, they are emotional in the same way that children are emotional.
theyre worse than men in every aspect
not because theyre not capable of being better, its because they dont have to be
The women you would actually enjoy spending your life with will never serendipitously appear in your life because they have their own hobbies and if you didn't meet them online between 2000 and 2015 you are shit out of luck. Every successful modern hetero relationship I've seen and personally experienced shares this quality.
I like to think women are some kind of child.
You can speak with old women and some of them actually are intelligent and they look like they care about their family and loved ones. Most of them had rough lives tho.
Meanwhile the other 90% are attentional narcissistic parasitic beings
marriage isn't a meme
civil marriage is a complete sham
marriage is a religious practice ONLY
the law doesn't exist and you should never respect it for a moment
They're just spoiled kids mostly. There are a lot of good women out there, you can easily work them out by asking non-invasive questions about their childhood
I've noticed things like after school activities, hobbies, doing chores, good relationships with their parents, having a sibling, etc make a far more considerate, emotionally healthy, rational, and compassionate girl.
Avoid women whose childhood consisted of going to school, watching TV, and never had to do any work around the house. In my experience a relationship with them always consists of coming home to a pigsty because they expect somebody else to clean up after them and binging sweets because "I deserve it" after half a shift at their low-paid zero-responsibility job and her employer should be "grateful" that she's doing the bare-minimum expected of her role. These girls are gains goblins who will never understand the value of hard work, self improvement, and discipline because they were never raises with it and see challenge as something to be avoided at all costs.
It’s “way too common” because the average person male and female are lazy homosexuals who are addicted to their phone or computer. There are plenty of sane women and men out there but they aren’t on the apps, they aren’t looking for a roidtroony, they aren’t looking for people like us.
You have to be a good man to find a good woman.
I had an ex wife just like this. Lived like a complete and utter slob. Put her trash under the bed like a fricking rat.
was she like that before you married her? whenever I hear about a story like this I wonder how anyone even chose to marry the person in the first place. that sort of piggery is a 100% dealbreaker for me.
No she was normal and trying for the first couple years then the real person started to show. But we didn't live together until we got married so some of her habits weren't obvious. And when I kept trying to improoove that's when she turned into a sinking anchor.
Evidence for the defense exhibit A
The man was acquitted.
>i lift to get a gf
>picrel is the gf
Be careful with
what you wish for
Some guy took a picture to make fun of his disgusting wife. Also Asian boy ghost shows up to make fun of her too. Probably was eaten by her. This picture is probably around 8 years old and I first saw it on 2015 ifunny
you go lift
thats it
You just push it through. Until your body fricks up. (Back, knees, shoulders, elbows, wrists)
Don't over work the strained shit.
Ease more calisthenics in.
Make sure you don't skimp stretching, but don't overdo it either.
I know it's getting memed lately, but maybe try a Mentzer/HIT style lifting routine.
>lift real frickin hard until failure ~2 times a week
>spend the rest of the week recovering (light cardio, or a physically intensive job)
That way you don't have to completely wear yourself out every day of the week without rest.
end of thread
this is why you get a self a concious wife
most fatties never move from their couch
Wamp Wamp Wamp
Assassination is the only option for that man. But he's probably too pussy to ever do it.
Imagine being an adult male and needing affection
Just leave the country
Thats a sad life ngl
Any man that doesn't get his woman to sign a prenup before marriage is a fricking idiot that deserves this fate. How many fricking stories do me have to see, read and even experience for them to understand that most women have no sense of duty and are incentivized to break off the marriage?
honest question, why doesnt he stack money and leave? Game the system, say that due to sexless life you got frustrated and lost money on hookers. Hell, find some hooker which will back your story. Hide the money. Lost the job and your credentials for 6 months - 1year. Use this time to not give a frick, go on a trip, life like a mofo, lose some weight. Once the court proceeding are done, you are on your way back in life, possibly in a different city so that the c**t cant track you down easily.
Solid advice
Both my friends have fat frick wives like this. They found them in highschool when they were skinny and half decent. I was jealous at first. Laughing behind their backs now.
My gf is thin and hot, but she started shit talking to me when we have an argument and she won’t shut the frick up. She will even make fun of me. She never cleans my home because she says it’s not her house despite her sleeping her 4-5 days a week and eating rice cakes on my bed and always leaving plates on the table after eating. Whenever I bring it up she told me that my house was a mess before she met me and that she helped me cleaned it twice(4 months ago was the last time) she told me that she has a house of her own to clean ( she lives with parents) and they even have a female cleaner from Phillipines or something.
We are getting married in August
Enjoy getting divorced by december
bro i love her, we are together for almost 2 years. she may not be a the trad women we all anons want but she is so hot, also i have zero options and not having sex is not an option. the sex is perfect i frick her twice a day
You don't love her anon, you love the in house easy access to pussy.
Think long term anon. What HELL will your life be when she squeezes your kid out her c**t and your sex life ends up on r/deadbedrooms?
>we are together for almost 2 years
Lol
I've been with mine for almost 6 years
She never brings up marriage cause she knows that if she does I'll put her in her place
you about to get divorced raped
never correct your enemy when he is making a mistake
>We are getting married in August
why?
Because the weather is nice
What do you want me to do cancel the wedding?
its only going to get worse, like
said, enjoy your divorce, and giving her half your shit. All because you're too pussy to break up and find someone better.
you can still marry her, but get her to sign a prenup
>but get her to sign a prenup
you'll be shocked to find that those aren't even legally binding in most states, i know amazing isnt it.
Boomer moron doesnt know those are always thrown out as soon as her lawyer (which you have to pay for) says it was signed under "duress"
Red flag
Take the hint homosexual
are you marrying her just because shes hot? lol
Strongly think about whether you really want to spend the rest of your life with this girl.
>she started
Yeah it's only gonna get worse, do what
cuz you only seem to want to marry her because she's hot and you want sex.
You are either bait or moronic. Both her looks and sex will disappear the moment you sign that slavery contract. You frankly almost deserve what coming to you since so many people warn about this shit now.
we are literally living two houses apart from each other. how the frick im i going to find a new girl without her knowing? what if i see her with another guy knowing he fricks her? i can't deal with this shit, or if i can? how do i cope?
lol at this scarcity mentality. you are right, go ahead and marry her; what could possibly go wrong
not an argument
>wild guess here but she's your first gf and you make good money?
i make good amount of money yes, but no she is not my first gf but she is the hottest i had. Before her i was in a 5 year LTR with a greek girl but we broke up on covid and i met this new girl in dec 2020. so yeah i was kinda out of the game for a long time, my physique and being toxic carried me when i was single. the money part tho i listened to IST from a year ago and i'm not simping her with presents etc. I take her out once a week or so. She is not broke either tbh.
>From your description of your relationship, another guy is going to frick her whether you marry her or not.
So it's my fault i'm getting cucked? She is just born this way to be a b***h, her ex'es were soft dyels and i'm the first man that i talk when i don't like something. Just because i let out my situation it doesn't mean that im a soft beta that doesn't talk. Maybe im a beta for not leaving tho i will agree on this because she will resent me when she senses that im in a relationship that i don't like. I literally work 12h like pic rel with 6 day ppl and have sex on top of that. I don't have time to think what i even want. damn
>by thanking God she's not your problem anymore.
based, i didn't think of it like that, but i can't help the fact she will frick another dude. and im saying it again the sex with her is pretty good and she does everything.
thanks homosexual.
>So it's my fault i'm getting cucked?
It is your choice to marry her, just as it can be your choice to step back and properly thinking about your relationship. I strongly recommend you sit down with her and sort this out before you sign the marriage contract. Also, prenups are not work the paper they are printed on so you can forget about them.
Onassis poster is a beta cuck. No surprises here
lmao
>we live close by so i have no choice but to marry some lazy b***h
wild guess here but she's your first gf and you make good money?
From your description of your relationship, another guy is going to frick her whether you marry her or not.
>how do i cope?
by thanking God she's not your problem anymore. She's a garbage person. Would you feel jealous if you threw your garbage and someone picked it up because they liked it?
What a fricking beta b***h you are lmao
If you can get one girl anon you can get another. Honestly where is this low self esteem coming from? Do you believe you really can't attract another female or are you just comfortable and don't want to put in work?
>Honestly where is this low self esteem coming from?
it's honestly from me being around her. We were talking about my body one day and i told her i literally don't know anyone in my circle who is that lean and muscular, and she started rambling about that she knows guys who are better than me and that im delusional etc etc. that's just one example, another example she jokikingly said that im a 'little man' because im 178cm. The other time her best friend told her that i look skinny in that shirt and she told me about. there are more brutal examples that i won't get into. and when i confronted her she told me she was 'joking' or she did because i tried to talk her down and that i was making insecure that i thought i was the best physique she ever had (her ex was a dyel btw)
things of that nature anon. also some lookism threads here got me
dump her, she is toxic and is detrimental to your life
>BuT I LuW HeR
ok great, does she love you back or are you only a convenience to her life?
lmao so fricking hard at your life right now. break up or break down
>started rambling about that she knows guys who are better than me and that im delusional etc etc
You have a good physique. You are 178cm tall. You make good money. This is a self inflicted mental prison and she has become your warden, seriously rethink if you want to spend your life with a woman who does not clean, b***hes at you, talks about how other dudes are better than you, talks shit with her friends about you, all because she's hot and the sex is good.
How do you see this evolving 5, 10, 20 years later ?
its over before it even began holy shit. look forward to a miserable future as a cuck to your b***h wife
What a b***h. Tbh you're a massive cuck if you put up with that shit (or worse) regularly
It's literally over anon, she looks at you like a fricking tool to be used. Sounds like she had a pathetic relationship with her father (if she even had one). You can try the "I can fix her bro" but 99.9% of the time it wont work, these are deep rooted psychological issues within her which make her into an entitled b***h... and yes I learned about these type of women the hard way, you are a fricking object to be USED and disposed of as soon as you stop functioning in the desired manner, then kicked and spat on (as well as having half of your financial assets confiscated) for not being a good little cuckslave
Didn't expect this to get so many (You's) i just finished a two hour leg day and gonna take a shower now and have 3 meals ahead. I guess shit is serious
>does she love you back
She said she does but i low key don't believe her. She told me she will do 'everything' to keep the relationship alive. But my gut doesn't trust this shit.
>break up or break down
damn bro...
>How do you see this evolving 5, 10, 20 years later ?
me being divorced and having my money stolen.
>Tbh you're a massive cuck if you put up with that shit (or worse) regularly
This is not what a cuck is but i might be one soon.
>It's literally over anon
Ok...
Brahs, THANKS! My first mistake is that i thought that this shit is fun and games and didn't notice how my mental state would be affected. I will kick her out and give her her things. Im low key anxious on her reaction. What if she flips? Should i have a redpilled friend standby? Should i record anything? Im 1000% she will not take it lightly. Last time i told her to get out she broke inside my house because i wasn't answering. Any tips? THANKS to all of you anons tho...
>But my gut doesn't trust this shit.
Listen to your gut, your intuition is not wrong, we were able to sense this shit way before we were capable of higher intelligence. Actions speak louder than words and we know it intuitively.
>She told me she will do 'everything' to keep the relationship alive
Yeah It's always in the best interest of gold digging prostitutes to do that
Thank God you two don't live together this will be way less painful than if you were. My advice is to not explain "why" too much, keep it civil
>Should i have a redpilled friend standby?
best bring a woman i.e sister or mother. for when she undoubtable cries rape, having other men there will only make it worse, women know men will put up with shit, if there's another woman there to call her out on her bullshit hopefully she's behave
>Should i record anything
100% yes
>Last time i told her to get out she broke inside my house
jesus dude, this is long over due
sounds like youre set. good. she sounds a bit looney from your concerns. only advice I have is to stand your ground at all costs. if you have to call the police on a flip out then thats what happens. dont back down, dont play games. she either leaves reasonably or you call the cops. there's no other winning move. they'll see she's insane and deal with it. feel free to start recording if she does lose it, but make sure you announce it in the recording that youre recording. youre allowed to record in your own home, but its a good move to make sure people cant turn it on you in any way and could save your ass from poor defamation attempts.
> Last time i told her to get out she broke inside my house
cops. if shes violent be prepared. dont answer with violence if avoidable. these people always destroy themselves just fine
godspeed brother
You got to work on your mental health bro.
Your brain is fricked. Get rid of the things that pull you down bro. You can't get to the surface otherwise
>my gf is thin and hot
>we're getting married
Ho ho ho, common mistake my friend.
>We are getting married in August
Now, why would you do that?
GET OUT BRO WTF
You should only be saying two things to her (1) "shut the frick up" and (2) "I want anal"
do NOT marry her anon
I repeat, do NOT marry
>t. been through a very similar fricking relationship, standards of cleanliness are REALLY FRICKING IMPORTANT
youre actually fricking moronic
she knows that she can get away with doing shit like this now so she will 100% continue
you should have had a go at her before you proposed
Why aren’t you beating her up yet?
You know what makes women actually change their ways in these situations? You have two options.
The first is to simply give her an ultimatum. When she makes fun of you and talks shit, after the argument is over and you've all cooled off, just bring it up to her and tell her if she ever does it again you'll be forced to blah blah blah. You figure out what will "hurt" her the most, and do it. And you have to actually do it. For my ex, she would be devastated whenever she couldn't be over at my place 24/7 every day, so, my ultimatum was: knock it off or I'm sending you home and instead of 7 days a week at my place, let's move it to 6. That way I have a day that I can use to clean up this messy apartment. :^) Problem solved. Suddenly, after months, she started putting her clothes away nicely instead of tossing them all over the floor and my bed. Amazing!
The second option is throwing her own behavior right back in her face. They're mentally children, so sometimes you gotta show them, not tell them. Another ex liked to wear revealing clothing sometimes. I asked if she wouldn't mind saving those outfits for when I was with her. So the very next day she's out with her parents and best friend she posts a mirror selfie on her Snapchat story in a revealing croptop, the same croptop that had been part of the discussion the day prior. Apparently, asking nicely and respectfully had no effect. So, what did I do? I stood in front of my mirror, pulled up my shirt with my one hand, and took a mirror selfie and posted it to my Snapchat story. She was so incredibly furious, so exceptionally seething at me only doing the exact thing that she did, I cannot even begin to tell you but it was intense. In fact, she even pretended she was going to break up with me (but I didn't beg forgiveness like she thought I would, and she b***hed out when she saw I was calling her bluff). But I assure you that was the last time she wore that kind of outfit, even with me there. :^)
I just list things I do for her, then ask what do you do for me that a hooker wouldn't? She knows I like affection and that type of shit so genuinely if it's nothing besides sex she figures out she's useless to me yet costs much more than a hooker per say. Wouldn't say it to most girls but if you have a self aware one yep. In general the "what do you do for me?" is a good question to unground them because usually they only think about themselves and not your benefit to being in a relationship with them.
>getting married
Bad move. You want my advice call off the wedding
>relationship has severe issues
>get married
Genius. You know what will really solve all the issues you guys have? Have a kid or two, smooth sailing from there on out
friend of mine genuinely said he decided to have a kid because his relationship had hit a rough patch.
said it like it's the most logical thing in the world.
I hope the kid turns out okay, poor thing.
You have a right to change your mind. Why would you willingly walk into a dissaster. I was engaged too, but once she showed me who she really is and what she really thinks about me, I said no, I will not marry you.
Enjoying getting your back blown out financially when she divorces you, takes the kids, the oven, the dog, the computer, the televsion, the pots, the pans, the silverware, the unused condom box, the sex toy, and the weights away from you. Leaving you a penniless malding 30 yr old with test problems and low self esteem before a cold bullet to the temple ends your miserable existence, homosexual.
My buddies who have tried this are all miserable or divorced. Don't do it anon. These habits don't change easily. At a minimum you need to be expecting to delay the wedding to solve this. Yes it will be embarrassing but a life of misery is 100x worse.
When I asked my buddies before the wedding the answer was usually some combination of "this girl is the best I can do/have done lookswise" "her dad is rich and it's gonna be a big inheritance" "the sex is great" etc.
-t. dude in his late 30s.
>"her dad is rich and it's gonna be a big inheritance"
perfectly valid reason to get married
Not worth a lifetime of misery. There's more wealthy fish in the sea if that's a requirement.
It's only miserable because you have the stress of knowing your wife can take everything you own/your kids if you don't put up with it. You don't have that problem when you marry into money
Randomly my local WAKA kickball league seems to be packed with wealthy white daughters. Most have 50-100k jobs and a safety net if they got laid off/big expensive medical problem/whatever. They otherwise mostly live a middle income until retirement. They don't have student loans, maybe they got a nice hand me down car from parents, maybe parents started some funds for them at a young age that by mid 20s is $100-$300k, maybe they have a family vacation home they can use. But otherwise until they inherit their parents money, life is middle class as usual.
t- guy who has dated several girls like this and married one. A divorce doesn't entitle you to her future inheritance. Nor would being miserable for a few decades be worth it.
Kill her and then yourself
>my gif is thin and hot
This is the only reason you're been with her as long as you have, and that's going to change. It's time to stop an evaluate whether staying with her is worth it; because her looks WILL fade, and like tha majority of women, she's probably going to put on a lot of weight after she's secure.
Moreover, the shit she says shows that she has no sense of personal accountability. A woman with no accountability will cheat on you, not feel bad about it, and rationalize it to you and herself when she gets caught. All women possess these traits to a greater or lesser extent, but the fact that you guys aren't even living together full time and she's already pulling that shit should tell you it's time to fricking run.
Damn this thread is still up? She just blocked me out of every social media platform and phone. We talked and i told her that i will NOT tolerate any other disrispect from her. I gave her examples about her bring me down, and she told me that's how she is and she can't tell me ''everyday that im good enough'' she was being uronic and hostile towards like that was my point or something. She started crying and braking down and i told her that your fake tears won't work and she told me she needed an apology for when I did her wrong. It turned against me. I told her that apologies are moronic and only actions matter and i acted properly towards you. She was rumbling about some shit and continually interpuppting me while i was speaking. I told her to frick off.
She closed the phone and blocked me out of everywhere. I'm low key sad af bros... laters...
sorry for spelling, im kinda shaking from anger. Also she told me that i should learn to behave as a 30 year old and i should see a pshychatrist. That was while I was calm.
Wait so what actually happened, did you kick her out or did you two just have an argument over her bringing you down? Only you know the full details but from your descriptions it sounds like you're in the right here, even just the breaking in part is enough.
It's gonna be okay bro, whatever happens, don't forget that there are people out there who will love you unconditionally without bringing you down or fricking breaking into your house lmoa. It's all going to be okay in the end, everything always is.
Yeah, emotional manipulation, playing the victom, and no sense of accountability.
Don't let her try to weasel her way back in by acting pitiful to make up with you. Call off the engagement.
You do NOT want to attach yourself to a woman like that.
Just move on, for your own sake. If you marry someone who acts like that, you'll end up with your very own Amber Heard.
>Don't let her try to weasel her way back in by acting pitiful to make up with you
how the frick did you know? she just unblocked me, how do i stand my ground without her being a b***h and breaking in my house again?
Because that's what women like this do.
That's why I said RUN. If you think she's making your life difficult now, she's really going to make you miserable if you keep heading where you're heading.
Get her shit out of your house, secure it--change the locks if you have to--and call the police to come get her if she tries breaking in.
She will exploit any weakness you have for her to get her hooks into you. Recognize the threat she poses to your well being--your life, even, and I'm not exaggerating--and excise her from your life.
Damn bro she is playing wicked games. Pray for me. I’m going to take a walk I feel like shit. Frick w*men
You are all the better for it. The sadness is natural, and it'll pass.
Are you a US Marine by any chance?
pls be bait
WTF THERE'S A GHOST
Am I the only one that counted 7 ghosts?
I see 2
You tweaking bro
ghosts of the babies she miscarried due to being so unhealthy
Take meds
>lit sticky
>tactical barbell
/thread
Better aim for 16h.
>marry hot girl you lowkey hate living with
>has zero reason to maintain her looks because you are tied down
>gets fat and old, and is no longer hot
>no sex and still hate living with her
>you are tied down
I thought this said "you are a tied clown" lol
many such cases
dudes dont realize a womans behavior is auditioning for commitment, most drop the charade once you begin cohabitation with them
marrying a fat b***h is getting cucked. if she was lazy before, and you married her, why would she change?
you whitee guys are actually beta and cringy as frick
and then you blame israelites for BMWF when the reality is you have zero game/leadership and let women control the relationships
Look, this mfker has his b***h in the kitchen where shes supposed to be; and she's happier for it. You cannot refute this
Norway bros...it wasn't supposed to be like this
Worked in customer service in Scandinavia for a bit. Norwegians are fricking horrible. Fricking moronic grown up babies. Worst type of boomers and karens. Even their young ones don't know how to act or how to get simple things done.
Danes on the other hand were the nicest people ever.
Can you be more precise on why Norwegians are horrible ?
Black folk dont have game or leadership, they just act on impulse and hit on women that really dont like them, ape out when it doenst go their way, then move on. Vast majority of young girls only end up with blacks because they are given drugs. There is a reason why you have to put BMWF all over TV and poorn, israelite, and its because you know Black folk are ugly incels otherwise
Sounds like you are socially awkward and can’t approach women
Black person detected opionion rejected
sperg with no game kek
What’s annoying about posts like these is that these couples are just families trying to live their lives. Those kids are just normal kids. It’s not like the mother said she wanted a black husband because BBC or some autistic racial obsession. She just loved someone who incidentally was of a different race.
>totally a coincidence goy!
Kids are mutts, anything BUT normal
go leave or at least shoot up a supermarket or something so the cops can end your pathetic existence
These couples are broadcasting their childrens faces and the layouts of their home to potential pedos rapists burglars and murders on the internet for attention money and tiktok followers. People who want to live a humble private life dont upload this information to the internet; it goes in a cloud or drive somewhere and is watched during family events by the family. Narcissists dont get a say or sympathy
Yeah but I bet they get crazy amount of social validation for race mixing.
They're consciously making content for asian incels to spam. This is their purpose in life. "Honey we must post a video, Liu Kang needs help with not getting pussy."
Serves a few propaganda purposes.
>Demoralization of the native population.
>Encouragement of immigrants to travel to Norway with the promise of a middle-class 1st world life and a white woman.
>Traditional dress pushes the idea that to be truly Norweigen is nothing more than an elective identity that anyone from anywhere can choose to adopt.
There will be a israelite facilitating this somewhere in the background.
>I actually love seeing foreigners embracing and being embraced by other cultures
Maybe I'm a gay but that's me.
>Black folk
>Leadership
Choose one
and where is your white wife and 3+ children?
>gf gets mad if I dare keeping my jeans inside instead of changing to clean home clothes
glad I got the opposite extreme
Fricking based nagger
>being alone is miserable (don't try and convince me otherwise, I haven't had a gf in years and it sucks)
>even if you do find a wife, there's a solid chance it will end in divorce or OP's pic
What the frick am I supposed to do?
maybe stop being a momma's boy homosexual who tried to emulate his relationship with his mommy through random roasties? That mentality is precisely why you're single. Happiness is supposed to come from within
Become happy alone
Become a little happier with the right woman at your side
alone is miserable
maybe im just numb and broken inside but i find it far more tolerable than being around people, even family.
Too bad city gay, but stay the frick out of the rurals.
My gf is renting a room from me in my house
If she gets uppity, i give her a 30 day notice and its over
>having no gf is miserable
if you are not happy alone you will never EVER be happy, period.
i was in the same boat a while back, learnt that being single for life is the life for me. i eventually will make a deal with a nice women to let me impregnate her to give me a son though.
become a world champion and live in the woods
I'm alone and not miserable. I've been with a couple of women in my life and they were shit. I thank them for effectively black-pilling me on relationships, well before the notion of black-pilling was even a thing.
The traditional way? Always have something to offer and find a way to make her wait for it. The second you give her access to everything and have nothing else lined up to give her is the day you lose her love and respect. That's why you live life in stages:
>When are we getting married?
>When are we having kids?
>When are we getting a bigger house?
Once she runs out of things to ask for she gets bored and tries to frick the delivery guy to spice things up, because women are essentially biologically programmed to be needy whiny c**ts that are never satisfied. They're the ultimate mindless consumer. If you can find a way to always have something appealing on the horizon you'll never run into any issues, unless someone else can offer her more than you can, but that's another battle. That's why planning for your future is essential to making things last in a relationship. Especially retirement. And if they slip up you can literally tell them "I don't see a future with you if you continue X behavior."
That whole strategy has worked since the dawn of time, but now with our hyper-sexualized liberal feminist women that think they can pretty much do and frick whoever they want, you have to be incredibly selective of who you give your time to. If you can convince them to work out with you and cook and clean because it's the kind of family you want to have in the future, then you should be good, as long as she believes you'll actually break up with her you'll hold power in the relationship. If she's resistant to that or thinks she can change your mind or trick you, she's for the streets and you need to broom her.
I've never seen the power dynamic change faster in a relationship than when a woman realizes he'll never leave her. Woman are parasitic by nature and that's carte blanche.
>tl;dr
She'll never love you, only what you can provide for her. So make sure she's worthy of providing for by telling her exactly what standards you have and living by them.
ty for the thread guys
now i know i should beat my future wife
very grateful, i shall learn from your mistakes
I workout on my free time.
That's it.
From what I've seen in this thread and read posts elsewhere about similar situations, it seems like a common theme with guys who get into and stay in relationships with women who regularly shit all over them, have zero respect for them and don't even sleep with them. What the frick is wrong with you people? Were you not given a spine at birth or something? Do you not have an ounce of self-worth and just let everyone walk over you? Man the frick up or just cut your dick off now. Shit like this is a disgrace to manhood.
such is the nature of some women. this hurts my soul
If anyone remembers the BPD gf anon that broke up with his gf please help me I guess we are back together I don't know what to do
I don't want to hurt her but I can't be a psychiatristt to her I can't save her AHHHHHHHHH
Bpd women are soul sucking manipulative nightmares and they all cheat. Don’t let her manipulate you to get her way. Just fricking leave her dude.
I am legit considering just suffering out this life so as not to have to break her heart again
she is not as bad as most bpd stories I hear about but I am still suffering, even just being in the relationship is wearing away at me despite nothing going on right now, I know that's a mental issue on my side but it's what the relationship had left me with.
Everything was going great after the break-up until I fricking learned she was to attend a festival in my uni town that I was going to, she is kinda a part of my friend group so I told them I thought it'd be better if we don't meet.
Afterwards she started texting me, berating me about how she wanted to see me and how she just got told I didn't want to see her (fair I guess) and I felt suicide-level bad about myself, having just wanted to fricking retain my mental integrity.
Then I drove over to her uni town to make it up for her by spending 2 nights at her place and we ended up somehow getting together again.
captcha XD JMH
You spent two nights and her and you “somehow” got back together with her.
People on this board that get a crumb of pussy are so fricking pathetic. No advice anybody gives you is going to make you do anything different. Just learn the hard way homosexual
>that get a crumb of pussy are so fricking pathetic
I don't give a shit about pussy lol, I fricking detest having sex because it disgusts me how animalistic it is and how everything in the world spins around it (my dislike probably has to do with my unhappy relationship situation though kek)
I can't let her go because I fricking hate hurting her and seeing her do shit while she isn't mine, we "somehow" got together because I couldn't bear being around her in town among other people without her being my "property" and because we hugged for like 30 minutes nonstop and it was very strong...
>who moves 3 states away to live in a "lesbian leather house"
that's the fricking thing anon she won't let go she never will she is fricking obsessed with me, everything she does revolves around me and everything bad she does revolves about her being sad about not being around me or having my attention
You’re a lost cause. All you’re doing is blog posting and no amount of advice will change anything you do. Frick off
bro you sound exactly like me when I was with my toxic ex. It didn't end well (she cheated on me). She doesn't love you. You know it's not going to work but you still rationalize continuing this any way you can because you are desperate, for whatever reason. Trust me bro this will NOT end well for you, it's only a matter of time, the choice is yours how long you want to prolong it. It's gonna hurt like a motherfricker and you'll feel depressed about it for a while but it's going to be ok, time heals everything. Broke up with mine 1.5 years ago and I couldn't be happier. Yes I do miss her sometimes as toxic as she was but I feel less and less every day and I'm the happiest I've been in for the last 4 years.
Thank you friend. The 1 month or so after we broke up and beforre the festival incident happened was the happiest period of my life in a very long while. Is there any roundabout way I could do this without explicitly breaking up with her for a second time?
Just tell her you made a mistake and you don’t belong together. Frick her feelings you’re so worried about “hurting her” that’s what happens when people break up stop being such a pathetic pussy dude. Grab your fricking balls, produce some test, and be a man for once in your life. You have no spine
You can become a piece of shit so she breaks up with you but that will hurt her even more. Just gotta be straight up with her and tell her exactly how you feel and that you cannot continue this relationship. Don't act over emotional but don't be stone cold, she should understand you thought about it for a long time and you did not take this decision lightly. Just be mature about it.
>she should understand you thought about it for a long time and you did not take this decision lightly
kuk but that's the thing I literally just got back together with her a few weeks ago after having broken up with her a month prior to that, at this point I'm pretty much a homosexual toying with her feelings
>well you sound fricked in the head
Yeah it's what these relationships do to you sadly, I wasn't anywhere near as possessive or whatever before it.
It's not about being spineless, I have firm boundaries that I let her know and I already broke up with her once, I'm just under the impression that my capacity to suffer through is much higher than hers and I don't want to hurt people who feel dependent on me.
I think I might be able to maneuver around it in the moments where she's still unsure of whether she's ready for a relationship or not.
>I'm just under the impression that my capacity to suffer through is much higher than hers and I don't want to hurt people who feel dependent on me.
That's a good quality to have when you have loving wife and children. But it can be exploited by people like your gf.
Okay so here's my crazy-ass borderline gf story:
b***h slept around. She was a fricking nympho and I couldn't satisfy her so I just put up with it like a dingus.
Eventually I met a nice girl in swimming practice and that sort of gave me the courage to break up with dah crazy. Breaking up was easy: I simply waited for her next meltdown and went "yeah ok, if you want me to GTFO I will do just that bye" and cut contact for a few months.
Eventually we got back in touch and would sometimes frick (the sex was amazing tbhngl). Then she faked a pregnancy scare because I wasn't paying her enough attention. After this I stopped ALL contact.
Then she banged one of my acquaintances to... well, obviously to spite me but she also thought it would somehow make me go back to her. Haven't talked to her ever since.
Thank you for reading my blogspot.
As for the relationship itself, she was incredibly abusive and epic gaslighter. She negged the frick out of me so I'd feel like I have no chances with other girls (not to brag but I'm literally 9/10 with a 7/10 body and she's a hard 8 with 8/10 body) but she would also praise my faults and make me feel loved/nurtured. What anon here describes
really hits home.
It was a weird as frick affective roller coaster and definitely served to keep me hooked.
well you sound fricked in the head and you would think you suit each other well, BUT...
>that's the fricking thing anon she won't let go
she will if you have a kid with her
crazy b***hes can't have a normal life and will do anything to sabotage your attempts at pursuing happiness together
so yeah, you can't have a BPD happy ending
it just doesn't exist
she clings to you because you're still ambivalent, but once she knows she's got you under her thumb she will ramp up the psychoness to 11 until you call it quits or she leaves you for another mentalcel
It isn't her choice to make, it never was. Just leave
what's your end game, anon? nothing goon can come out of it
imagine you get her knocked up and having to fight tooth and nail for custody, or worse yet having your kid raised by a crazy-ass b***h who moves 3 states away to live in a "lesbian leather house" just to frick you over
>what's your end game, anon?
Also to answer this, I guess the ultimate end game is to die and go next but I don't want to bother you guys with my metaphysical beliefs kek.
But the endgame rn would be for the circumstances to somehow aling so that we separate without either of us hurting over it and without me having to endure the knowledge that she's doing whatever the frick out there without me. Worth noting I was never this insecure/protective before her, I think some of her shit seeped onto me, now I'm insecure as frick over her.
Yeah I'm kinda ranting you are right. I did take advice from here the last time when I broke up with her though. It just went to shit when she came into my fricking uni city where she neither studies nor lives and made me feel bad about a normal decision I'd made. I'm full of vitriol and I don't know what to do with it. I want both of us to be happy.
Are you me?
My bod gf lives with me and I cant fricking get reid of her, she treats me like shit until I try and end it then the fricking water works and manipulation come out.
I regret moving in with her so badly, if she had her own place I would honestly just ghost the c**t.
Damn I'm sorry to hear that anon. Thankfully moving in with her isn't an option so far and won't be for some time.
I lived with a BPD gf for a bit anon. Just leave, that is the only thing you can do. Don't put her feelings above your own.
For all the shit this board gives women, this thread is proof that men are moronic when it comes to relationships and are often authors of their own misery.
>How do you combine gym with physically intensive job?
do calisthenics
just don't be a b***h
Do everything possible to avoid the hell of physical labour in the 21.century
I will never understand people who fail to do laundry in 2022. It's beyond fricking simple. Put clothes into a washer and throw a tide pod into it, then go back to watching your goyflix for an hour, then transfer the washed clothes to the dryer, throw in a drying sheet, and continue watching goyflix.
It isn't like the old days where laundry was an all day affair with a scrub board and then you're manually hanging shit onto a clothesline.
Same goes for doing dishes literally just throw in a cascade platinum pod and go back to your phone.
Fricking lmao at SAHMs who act like this is a job.
how do you reach adulthood and think this is ok?
Thought bad. Just consooooome
By just fricking doing it.
>Meme_man_JUST_DO_IT.gif
I have a much easier job now, but at the peak of things I was working 12 hour days at a very physically demanding place and still managing to get my butt to the gym and do a proper workout every night. Yeah, it fricking sucked at first, but once I got used to it I was in the best shape of my life. (Just don't forget to eat enough calories/get your protons/etc, look up how much militarygays burn hauling all their shit around and you'll see that it can get really high).
I ended up breaking my arm, leg, and three ribs, (car accident), and needing surgery including pins in my arm and leg, so couldn't work a lot OR go to the gym for a long while, and when I finally could get back into it even just my usual workout that I used to do after a 12 hour day kicked my ass severely to the point I would have quit if I didn't already know I could do it if I just applied myself.
It took a long ass time but I did get back to my usual workout schedule, although now my job involves chatting with normies and using a computer so it makes working out every day significantly easier.
pic is my bf
He works 40 and I work 60 hrs/week, only have one day off, do the cooking and 80% of the cleaning. Since I started training I have no time to see friends cause I'm picking up his slack.
hard to feel attracted to him when its like living with a teenager
If you're a woman this is a self-inflicted problem, you have infinite choice in partnership and can be as selective as you want with no downside so choosing poorly is more a reflection of your priorities than anything else.
If you're gayboi420, suxbro.
Gaybros also have an abundance of choice. If you are attracted to men at all it's fish in a barrel.
>infinite choices in partnership
I dated for years and maybe I’ve been unlucky, but it seems like the only types of guys I’ve come across are the ones that just want sex or the ones that want relationships but aren’t getting their shit together.
Lower your standards severely on literally everything EXCEPT personality and world view. Figure it out day 1 instead of after you've moved in with the person. Look for actual physical evidence that their actions match their words. It's not that difficult.
Sounds like you're just mid. You can get pumped by hot guys who won't commit, and resent the ones average enough to want you long term.
Many such cases. Mid tier women with nothing to offer but some mediocre pussy don’t realize that this is the reality. I’ve even tried explaining it to some of them but they just call me an butthole lol
you're smashable but not loveable. we know how to get sex but do you know how to make a guy fall in love?
I do this, I think it fricks my lifting up a bit because sometimes I have expended most of my energy at work and have no energy to lift heavy. Drinking a pre workout is essential, and helps a lot.
I'm a tree surgeon which is quite physically intensive and this is what I do
>Mon work 9-4, gym 5-7
>Tues work 9-4
>Weds work 9-4, gym 5-7
>Thurs work 9-4
>Fri work 9-4, gym 5-7
Going into the gym straight after work is key so you're still warmed up and motivated from work, but I'll have a snack and a quick shower to wash the sawdust and sap off between work and gym
The only real problem is balancing it with the gf. I spend 36 hours working, 6 hours gyming, and despite having 126 hours together she claims I never have time for her.
get a better job
GHOST KID
I was 28 when I started grooming this 15 years old fatty with a cute face. After a couple of years she's lost the weight and she turned out to look stunning. I also gave her a job in my business and I plan to marry her soon.
Undeniably based and Elvis-pilled. Decent women are basically out of stock, so you have to grow your own.
Be anal about sleep hygiene
Shoot for 9 hours per night
Eat grass-fed meat and drink raw milk
At work, wear knee pads, wrist braces, etc. proactively at the slightest hint of soreness or overuse
Also, get in with the cool clique favored by management so that you can work less hard and make everyone seethe
How did you get a picture of my sister?
I hate American women so much it's unreal
>beta white males let women walk all over him
>hey why are they dating strong black alpha males? Must be israelites!
I have recently come about using this approach anon, it actually saves me a bunch of time and stress
I just kinda messed up since I basically went out with a girl from HR in my company and when she tried to friend zone me i finished my drink in one swing and just said " ok I'm going home, later"
I swear the look on her face as she realized I was serious did make me happy, but i never should've asked a girl from HR out in the first place
Shit cous backfire to me in the long run big time
Damn i mean to reply with this post
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My wife literally cleans and cooks 4+ times a week
She does it so much that I feel guilty for working out while she cleans even though she tells me she just needs me to do the yard and laundry (which I do, but still)
> My wife literally cleans and cooks 4+ times a week
Mine cooked 7 times… but she cheated on me at the end.
I told her if she ever cheated on me I’d kill her and her lover, she told me that’s only fair cause she’d do the same
I wake up 04:30, in the gym at 05:00, out at 06:00 and at work by 07:30.
t. HVAC tech
As a paramedic I've had to sacrifice a consistent gym schedule, we have gym at the station and I fit in a workout when I can but the heavy/real lifting I save for my days off but that means I'm only really pushing it 2-3 times a week because sometimes I need 1 day off to fully recuperate from work.
I SWEAR if this is some Ringu shit and I end up getting killed by ghosts I'll curse your dumb ass
I hate women, but lazy slob women like pic really makes me think of murder.
Good thing I married a Filipina, she even cleans up after making one of her big Filipinx meals