I have a very plain 5/10 girlfriend with a flabby non-active body. I know that if she got into a sport and exercised 4-5x a week she could have a smokingly hot body. How do I do that? Just once in my life do I want to frick a girl with a sexy body.
How do you get your girlfriend into sports/exercise?
you literally cannot force it. she has to want to already. that's why fixer upper gfs are a fools errand odds are she wont want to change but you could be lucky. ask if she knows that in the 21st century man must exercise to be healthy and why is she not? then ask if the reason is because she's moronic
Where or how do I get a sporty girlfriend though? I only seem to attract 5/10 non-sporty sweethearts. Should I take up tennis or something? Also, I am already 28 years old so not really much time left to date...
sporty gf kind of rare. a girl that does basic human maintenace like running, pilates, yoga, decent diet, is more likely. you should be able to tell because they wont be fat
I met my ex wife mother of my kids in the gym
> I am already 28 years old so not really much time left to date..
Are you moronic? You're a man for frick sake, it's literally one of the best advantages of being one. You have plenty of time to date because you can date all the way down to like 23.
My girlfriend is very sporty and I met her at the bouldering gym. No fatties there, they can't pull themselves up the wall.
How did you meet her? I go bouldering 1x a week but never talked to a girl there because I don't want to be seen as a creep.
It's all about timing. You don't walk up to a girl that's with her friends and just say hi whilst she's mid conversation. You need an ice breaker.
I saw her climbing by herself, she finished a climb and jumped off and was obviously pleased with herself. I just said "nice one, that looks like a hard climb." She smiled at me (very good sign) and said thanks, and stood sort of near me. So I just started asking her how long she has been climbing and it went from there.
For what it's worth, I had tried this 20 times with different girls already. If they seem dismissive or say "thanks" and then walk away, just leave them alone. If a girl likes you, she will want to keep talking to you. You just have to do it over and over again.
I met quite a few girls from bumble just because they had climbing photos, and my first message was literally something like "I could meet you at the climbing gym if you like? I'd rather talk to you in person".
More often than not that worked.
Common incel cope/misconception
What is? What I said or the guy I replied to
t. manlet
I’m 6’1 so yeah I guess you right
be sporty yourself. but you're a gymmaxxed loser that posts in a mongolian basketweaving forum and no, powerlifting and calisthenics is not "sporty".
You have to be above 5/10 yourself
If you only attract unathletic 5/10s it probably means you’re an unathletic 5/10
I exercise 5x a week.
I met my current GF at a climbing gym. We started to date when I was 27. That was five years ago, we still climb together, and she does other stuff like yoga and calisthenics.
>Where or how do I get a sporty girlfriend though?
Meet them at sporting events. Lmao like is this even hard to answer?
Actually this, OP. You cannot force her, but you can tell her some real truth: health begins with being active. And you can tell her also that she will thank that improvement in the end because she will be able to shape her body.
>t. married dude with former lazy ass wife that has been lifting for like a year by now
No you CAN'T! Don't even try!
this, have attempted many times.
Learn how to dread game her
Get her a bike and go on cute biking dates with her, don't be too obvious but compliment her that day and the day after (my favorite is after a shower, my husband hugs me from behind, looks in the mirror and says we look good together). Almost all of our dates include some active element, plan a hike up a steep hill, go to yoga and get her to put her mat in front of yours. A rock climbing place near us had a couples climb up for valentine's which was a really fun date too. If she's skinny by flabby, just adding in some activity over time will make a difference
Humans take the path of least resistance. Doing anything takes more effort than doing nothing and if a woman knows she will enjoy the same benefits regardless then why expend the effort? It is only when that status quo is threatened (he'll leave me for someone not fat) that they will take action.
She HAS to know that she doesnt "have" you, she has to be seeking and wishing for more from you, not in a way that you're a pushover and she moves on, but in a way that she can fixate on. You should treat all wimens this way. Listen to the greatest monkey in the jungle of all time Patrice.
dump her and find someone you find attractive. Been there done that. It won't work. She'll sense your resentment over her body and won't want to frick you anymore. Waste of time.
you don't and get one that already does
does she have otherwise good qualities? good mom, homemaker, kind, supportive etc? if so just keep her and frick a hot prostitute every now and then instead
She is very sweet and understanding and spending time with her gives me a very warm and genuine feeling, like I have to worry about nothing in the world and can just truly be myself. Wish she had a hot body though.
Easier to just get a sporty gf instead.
I got my GF into lifting by going with her, proving a good program, telling her exactly what to do and being supportive all the way. Now she's really excited about hitting 40kg bench soon, it's really endearing. She would absolutely not go if she had to go alone, so most of the time I go with her. Yes, it has fricked with my own training little bit, but I can take that hit to have a healthier and hotter GF. And soon she'll have enough confidence to handle herself, and I can pretty much just do my own thing while we're there
>that rail thin girl with a tiny ass
>hot
You must be 18. Real men want women with curves and a big butt
have a nice day, disgusting fat fetishist
I told her my ''type'' was skinny girls with a hint of abs back when we first started dating. She got a gym membership and started counting calories the next day.
Occasionally she veers toward unhealthy behaviours (24+ hour fasts, chewing then spitting out food because she wants to taste something but can't afford the calories) but she's an easy 10/10 these days and we've been married for four years.
We started dating when she was 18 though. I imagine it's easier to correct bad habits when someone's younger.
The problem is every average girl who works out seriously and has a decent body goes up to 7/10 and don’t date down.
An average guy with a decent body also goes up to 7/10.
Kek. No. The average guy is a 4/10 to most women. Your 6ft pretty boy you could only dream of being is only a 7/10. 6'6 gigachad thunderwiener is only an 9/10. There is no such thing as a 10/10 to women as a woman can never be truly satisfied with anything.
Nah, that's terminally online uggo cope. In real life people tend to date their looksmatch
>looksmatch
Which is significantly skewed in woman's favor. You can be a 6'3 chad and you'll still only be able to pull a 5'5 Asian.
If you're "average height" just forget it. You'll never find your looksmatch because being shorter makes you inherently ugly. Therefore you'll always have to date girls uglier than your face is
>he thinks men are more attractive
who's gonna tell him
Also, I am a 5'4 asian who dates 6'3 chads so keep crying lol
>onahole has an opinion
Discarded
Lmao. Posting a picture of yourself being mogged by a chad. Being average height isn’t a big deal but this guy is clearly clueless.
>bad posture
>bad haircut
>bad facial hair
>bad outfit
>cringe tattoos
He looks like he changed nothing in his appearance since the age of 19. Good news is that aside from the tattoos it's an easy fix.
>I'm the guy in the blue shirt btw.
this is why reddit is worse than IST, obviously someone stole the pic and posted it
I don’t care if that’s a troon I would still frick it.
I just kept telling her I was going to the gym. Would occasionally send a pic of me post pump. Would also show her girls I thought were hot and said they obviously lift weights. At first she was confused and didn't believe me, so I showed her some pics female olympic athletes off season. She ogled them and asked how to get a body like that. I said they obviously lift, and she begged me for a routine.
I wouldn't lean so hard into showing off other women, but if you have an established routine and invite her along consistently she will start going.
Some/many/most women will happily adopt your interests IF she sees you worth investing in.
I would stick my tongue in her anus and lick it until it's completely clean.
My brother made this happen. He did two things. First he made sure he was always super jazzed after he came back from the gym "hey baby, you know I'm feeling great today. Man, I always feel great after I hit legs" don't be that guy who b***hes about how hard he works to get the subpar traps he's never gonna het
Second he started her with simple shit like a walk in the park 3 times a week with some playful climbing and pushups on rocks and shit. After a few months of this she was feeling great and had lost like 20 lbs. Once winter hit she didn't want to stop and he gradually transitioned her to weights and the elliptical. In total I think she lost 40 lbs and she's looking pretty frickable since she always had a cute face.
Make sure you keep it fun and easy. Go slow and alway make it clear it's about her improving herself
Built for BBC
Just start working out hard as frick, and casually drop the benefits of such to your girl (better orgasms, more acrobatic shit)
Just told my wife I’m going to start going to the gym 3 days a week at night without her and she was like “nah I’ll come with”.
do not waste your time. you will regret trying. just get a girl who is already IST and enjoys sports/working out.
>How do you get your girlfriend into sports/exercise?
Show interest in women who do.
She'll either beg for your attention by participating or you'll get a new girlfriend.
she's cheating on you
Mm alright op, I have a real answer because I did it. But my girlfriend was already really into the outdoors hiking, camping, etc.
Anyway, the way I did it, was you get into a new sport together. Ours was tennis. You might also try pickle ball since tons of yuppies love it. Unless you’re a track athlete yourself she’ll never get into sprinting or pole vaulting or competitive swimming because they’re just not fun and social.
Can you get into tennis as a 28 years old guy? It seems more like a sport for young people.
Yeah that’s right around how old we were. Just play together a bunch before you start playing against other couples. Let people know you’re new when you start.
Okay thanks, I'll look into it.
she's cheating on you
I dated a girl who was good looking but had no strength / vitality. I suggested she start getting active and her family found out and thought I was saying she was too fat. It's delicate because people are too soft to women.
Beware, if you succeed you might find out how much of a c**t she really was when she ups her bf game.
Just start slipping her medium doses of laxatives. She'll lose weight if she can't keep the food in her body to digest it.
Bro I’ve been on that “just once I want to frick a girl with a better body than my gf shit.” It ended in a break up. It’s an impossible drive to ignore, god knows I tried.
So you suggest to ignore that drive or to instead directly break up?
Nah, man. Keep the fatty if she makes you happy, but start angling towards 3somes with fit chicks.
BUNDA
>I can change him
>I can change her
Many such cases
lmfao what a beta question. Your gf should have been doing that shit already, otherwise you are really lowering your standards just to have a girlfriend.
Yeaaaa I've been in longer term relationships where the person puts on weight. It sucks every time. It's just not sexy to see a skinny frame you could grab at the waist get rolls on it and flob around while you pound them. Repulsive, actually. When my ex put on pounds (30-40?) I just started closing my eyes and thinking about other women I fricked.
There are a few paths you can try. In my experience, it literally never goes well. You can be subtle and be like "hey I wanna lose some weight and be more active. Let's start eating healthier and going for walks or doing whatever physical exercise." This kind of sets off alarms but it makes it more of a team thing and so mentally she won't be as offended.
The less subtle is just being direct. good luck with that lmao but honestly it's the way the world should be. She will cry and you might be yelled at and called a dick, even if you put it nicely. But thats the price for telling the truth - the alternative is the cost of either being unhappy with a fat woman for the rest of your life OR you both lose a solid relationship. So in a way, although it shouldn't be presented as an ultimatum, it kind of is.
Women whispering is pretty much impossible, unless she's the 1/1000 that just woman's the frick up and is like "yea my health is important and I want our relationship to be stronger." Fat fricking chance on that one bud! But doing nothing gets you nowhere fast.
Every now and then I am bothered by being single but then stuff like this comes up and reminds me of how much easier it is to jerk off into a tissue.
do something active with her, give her compliments about how you like when she is active
also go to the gym yourself. don't be lazy/undisciplined and hopefully she will take after you
My wife gained a bit of weight after pregnancy and I gave her more than a year and a half to lose it then I started a complex mind game beginning with prolonged gazes at skinny attractive women then talking about attractive coworkers and neighbors. I was simultaneously encouraging her to go to the gym and eat better and when she wouldn’t do this consistently I started low key negging her and brushing off advances saying I wasn’t interested (hard to do because I’m always horny). It culminated in me acting suspicious as if I was cheating especially when I got back from work trips. She asked why I was distant and I said I wasn’t as attracted to her and after the tears and defensiveness she got back into the gym and is now in better shape than before kids.
It was a long game (6 months) but I knew I had to use psychological games because direct confrontation would never work. I needed her to think that her giving up should cause me to wander and that it was her choice to make.
OP you have for some reason decided to settle with your gf so you have a choice to make.