I typically wear a textured sleeve around my sleeve, if you catch my drift
I can tell that women can tell and smell the aroma and that just makes it hotter >captcha: 8sGAYt
What helped me a lot with quitting porn was self loathing. Watching porn and jacking off is such a loser thing to do that I just didn’t want to associate myself with it. Porn is forn teenagers and morons tbh, out of all my bad habits that I’ve ditched (weed, booze, nicotine) porn is the one that made me feel the worst.
I still jack off like 2-4 times a day staring at the ceiling lmao, I feel that it relieves tension and clears your mind if you do it like that
Pain and pleasure are the same thing. Turn your capacity for pleasure into meaningful, fruitful pain. This is how you overcome it. Your destiny awaits.
The above doesn't work for the sick lazy coom brain. What you need is to wank on a schedule before you get horny and slowely decrease the interval in the weeks/months after you cold turkey porn.
I learned to trick my own brain into turning horny into motivation. When I start to get the urge to jerk off I get up and do something else, like housework or something productive.
this basically. my first thought was to sort everything into folders then, but that meant going through about 40k Files in total, so instead of wasting further time I deleted it
Getting really into bodybuilding saved me. Whenever I jerk off especially to porn my workouts are worse. I sleep worse too even if it makes it easier to fall asleep in the short term. That’s what did it for me
When I stopped feeling sorry myself and began helping other men with their issues. By taking on that task and becoming a leader that holds me accountable. Also pursuing your passions and actually living your life helps.
>wanted to stop jerking off >could go for a few months around November >just started lifting this new year >can't stop thinking about Misty's ass on my face
I've already beaten it into a shriveled bloody pulp and I just turned 30 recently too... wtf do I do? I can't get a gf yet I need to finish my indie game first.
What's it like to have a low libido? Occasionally go through these spells where my attraction towards women derives from an ideal I have of them and not their physical appearance. Can't even call it attraction as the sexual aspect is almost entirely muted. Either that or no reaction at all. It's like I'm staring at a fellow man. It usually coincides with a period of fasting or whenever I fap and feel shit for lusting after women.
I just hit 30 and my sex drive hasn’t diminished
I have, however, noticed I can’t really jerk off 3 or 4 times in a day without having symptoms very similar to a hangover and very bad lethargy the next couple of days
I’d like to bring it down to once or twice a week but I think it’s too much of a compulsion for me to manage
Get in as many life affirming session with prostitutes and you won't need to feel like you have to stop jerking off, masturbation is only a problem if you can't frick
Honestly I just stay busy. Very busy. I remind myself why it had to stop. I remind myself how good shit is when I’m on track. Even once is bad because it turns into a bender, I can’t afford that again.
I started going on long walks, which ended up turning into runs, which ended up turning into long runs, which ended up shitting up my knees, which ended up turning back into walks
I regularly get back around midnight, which is when the worst of the temptations are.
I lessened the issue by seeing an erotic masseuse every 3 weeks, same one each time, amazing girl. Genuinely like talking to her and she is gorgeous too. It’s cheaper than paying for sex, it makes me feel less lonely than escorts do because we get time to talk, she even has charged me less sometimes. She’s cutting my hair next week.
Costs about $250aud a month.
Just get a fwb lol, i meet mine most fridays or sundays at the pub and then after an hour we go back to her uni accommodation and we go like 5 times till the evening. Do that, you leave drained and you dont have any sexual urges until 2 days before meeting her again and repeat. Ive just turned 22 and i have had 3 fwb and 14 girls total from 19 and trust me ive probably haven't even jerked off 50 times. Just get on tinder and frick a bird and maybe itll turn into a fwb
If you're ruling out the possibility of sex then why not just jerk off? What exactly do you want? No testosterone production at all? There's pills for that now I hear. I don't understand the no-fappers who don't want sex. Masturbation is perfect for non sex having folx
I fell for the relationship meme. My twenties were dominated by two long term relationships, both of which fizzed out about 4/5 years in purely because my girlfriend lost interest in me
Wish I had just fricked bawds it would’ve been more productive
I'm a 31 y/o virgin, I'm stroking my wiener as I'm typing. The only feeling I have is inherent, deep sadness. That I was never given a chance. Porn is the only sexual outlet for me, without it I have nothing. How does one escape a state like this? Women never give me a chance.
This will sound stupid, but I started sugar daddy dating and now I have a stable of women I rotate through so I have sex with at least one each week.
When I started doing this my desire to jerk off basically instantly disappeared. I spend about $800 a month on literal prostitutes and my life has basically just sorted itself out since I began. I find it much easier to stick to routines, the girls drag me out of my shell to actually go out and do shit I wouldn't have otherwise been interested in doing, and scheduling around my "me time" has forced me to start using a day planner and making sure I'm not forgetting other important shit. I've jerked off maybe three times so far this year.
I live in Japan so they're all pretty/cute girls in their 20s. I treat them all well, they're like girlfriends I don't really have to put any emotional effort into, and they have all made comments on how nice I am to them outside of the bedroom, and my physique, which has made my self esteem skyrocket.
Can't recommend this hobby if you aren't in a comfortable place financially though. Also it's technically against the spirit of the law so maybe be careful.
Are you the guy that posts in the Japan general on IST bragging about how much you spend on papakatsu and acting like a big shot because you pay girls to have sex with you (or just pay attention to you from the sound of your post)?
I don't bring this up to brag at all, I couldn't care less what most of you Black folk would think of me. I just thought I'd mention it as a sincerely useful lifehack for giving up porn and coming.
I don't bring this up to brag at all, I couldn't care less what most of you Black folk would think of me. I just thought I'd mention it as a sincerely useful lifehack for giving up porn and coming.
I’m concurring with JapAnon, paying for sex has actually led to me getting off porn, and engaging with women directly. Plus it was a huge self esteem boost, be it lying or truth it worked. I’m actually good friends now with one of the escorts I hired once, invited each other to our birthdays and everything.
You don't, you weaponize it. After growing dissatisfied with my loads I looked up that old Cum Holy Grail post and started taking a stack to make myself coom harder and more messily than ever. After a week I was feeling better than I had in years. Started looking up more techniques to increase my coom power. Discovered that a diet high in protein and leafy vegetables, frequent exercise, and good sleep enhance your cooms.
I'm now in the best shape of my life. Quitting masturbation is puritan-brain pseudomasculinity undertaken by weaklings to give themselves a placebo feeling of control over their lives.
Outfit?
esl
I typically wear a textured sleeve around my sleeve, if you catch my drift
I can tell that women can tell and smell the aroma and that just makes it hotter
>captcha: 8sGAYt
What helped me a lot with quitting porn was self loathing. Watching porn and jacking off is such a loser thing to do that I just didn’t want to associate myself with it. Porn is forn teenagers and morons tbh, out of all my bad habits that I’ve ditched (weed, booze, nicotine) porn is the one that made me feel the worst.
I still jack off like 2-4 times a day staring at the ceiling lmao, I feel that it relieves tension and clears your mind if you do it like that
>I still jack off like 2-4 times a day staring at the ceiling lmao
literally be busy 16 hours of the day
the minute u get home u should be tired enough to pass out so u dont have time to wank
I wake up with a boner in my hand every morning fantasizing about milf legs.
How many hours do you work a day? Get those numbers up playa
Pain and pleasure are the same thing. Turn your capacity for pleasure into meaningful, fruitful pain. This is how you overcome it. Your destiny awaits.
The above doesn't work for the sick lazy coom brain. What you need is to wank on a schedule before you get horny and slowely decrease the interval in the weeks/months after you cold turkey porn.
I learned to trick my own brain into turning horny into motivation. When I start to get the urge to jerk off I get up and do something else, like housework or something productive.
i watched all the porn. Took me 15 years. But i have seen it all. Day 53 for me. Cannot recommend this strategy
this basically. my first thought was to sort everything into folders then, but that meant going through about 40k Files in total, so instead of wasting further time I deleted it
you have no idea.
I hate that this is true for me. Now the most erotic thing is an actual relationship and fulfilling life.
Getting really into bodybuilding saved me. Whenever I jerk off especially to porn my workouts are worse. I sleep worse too even if it makes it easier to fall asleep in the short term. That’s what did it for me
Same for me
frick your girlfriend instead
When I stopped feeling sorry myself and began helping other men with their issues. By taking on that task and becoming a leader that holds me accountable. Also pursuing your passions and actually living your life helps.
Seek help from the LORD
HAIL VICTORY
>wanted to stop jerking off
>could go for a few months around November
>just started lifting this new year
>can't stop thinking about Misty's ass on my face
I've already beaten it into a shriveled bloody pulp and I just turned 30 recently too... wtf do I do? I can't get a gf yet I need to finish my indie game first.
as long as youre not gooning or watching bbc shit, you still have a chance
Anon, about that...
FIND A WOMAN
MARRY HER, HAVE SEX, PROBLEM SOLVED
GOD WILLING
i know you guys dont want to hear this but.
i entered my 30s.
What's it like to have a low libido? Occasionally go through these spells where my attraction towards women derives from an ideal I have of them and not their physical appearance. Can't even call it attraction as the sexual aspect is almost entirely muted. Either that or no reaction at all. It's like I'm staring at a fellow man. It usually coincides with a period of fasting or whenever I fap and feel shit for lusting after women.
i dont know it happened slowly. my body just realized sex is more hustle than it's worth
Did you at least get laid before it set in?
i did have a gf when i was 26
Happy bday bro
I just hit 30 and my sex drive hasn’t diminished
I have, however, noticed I can’t really jerk off 3 or 4 times in a day without having symptoms very similar to a hangover and very bad lethargy the next couple of days
I’d like to bring it down to once or twice a week but I think it’s too much of a compulsion for me to manage
Go on a 6-month 1000-calorie deficit cut. Your sex drive will tank.
Get in as many life affirming session with prostitutes and you won't need to feel like you have to stop jerking off, masturbation is only a problem if you can't frick
ask out a girl in-person for once and if you’re not a degenerate your instincts will kick in and fix you
By cooming
Source?
hips > breasts
Treat it like any other addiction anon. How would someone treat severe alcoholism or drug addiction?
Honestly I just stay busy. Very busy. I remind myself why it had to stop. I remind myself how good shit is when I’m on track. Even once is bad because it turns into a bender, I can’t afford that again.
this
I find post-workout, browsing my PC is one of the times I'm at my most horny and vulnerable to cooming.
I started going on long walks, which ended up turning into runs, which ended up turning into long runs, which ended up shitting up my knees, which ended up turning back into walks
I regularly get back around midnight, which is when the worst of the temptations are.
I lessened the issue by seeing an erotic masseuse every 3 weeks, same one each time, amazing girl. Genuinely like talking to her and she is gorgeous too. It’s cheaper than paying for sex, it makes me feel less lonely than escorts do because we get time to talk, she even has charged me less sometimes. She’s cutting my hair next week.
Costs about $250aud a month.
just to add, not an asian girl or place, her parlour goes out of it’s way to hire all types of women.
Just get a fwb lol, i meet mine most fridays or sundays at the pub and then after an hour we go back to her uni accommodation and we go like 5 times till the evening. Do that, you leave drained and you dont have any sexual urges until 2 days before meeting her again and repeat. Ive just turned 22 and i have had 3 fwb and 14 girls total from 19 and trust me ive probably haven't even jerked off 50 times. Just get on tinder and frick a bird and maybe itll turn into a fwb
>just have sex
Buddy, it's not this easy for everyone.
If you're ruling out the possibility of sex then why not just jerk off? What exactly do you want? No testosterone production at all? There's pills for that now I hear. I don't understand the no-fappers who don't want sex. Masturbation is perfect for non sex having folx
"just be chad"
I fell for the relationship meme. My twenties were dominated by two long term relationships, both of which fizzed out about 4/5 years in purely because my girlfriend lost interest in me
Wish I had just fricked bawds it would’ve been more productive
I'm a 31 y/o virgin, I'm stroking my wiener as I'm typing. The only feeling I have is inherent, deep sadness. That I was never given a chance. Porn is the only sexual outlet for me, without it I have nothing. How does one escape a state like this? Women never give me a chance.
This will sound stupid, but I started sugar daddy dating and now I have a stable of women I rotate through so I have sex with at least one each week.
When I started doing this my desire to jerk off basically instantly disappeared. I spend about $800 a month on literal prostitutes and my life has basically just sorted itself out since I began. I find it much easier to stick to routines, the girls drag me out of my shell to actually go out and do shit I wouldn't have otherwise been interested in doing, and scheduling around my "me time" has forced me to start using a day planner and making sure I'm not forgetting other important shit. I've jerked off maybe three times so far this year.
I live in Japan so they're all pretty/cute girls in their 20s. I treat them all well, they're like girlfriends I don't really have to put any emotional effort into, and they have all made comments on how nice I am to them outside of the bedroom, and my physique, which has made my self esteem skyrocket.
Can't recommend this hobby if you aren't in a comfortable place financially though. Also it's technically against the spirit of the law so maybe be careful.
Are you the guy that posts in the Japan general on IST bragging about how much you spend on papakatsu and acting like a big shot because you pay girls to have sex with you (or just pay attention to you from the sound of your post)?
Kek, I knew you were a complete fricking loser.
No, I only post in IST
I don't bring this up to brag at all, I couldn't care less what most of you Black folk would think of me. I just thought I'd mention it as a sincerely useful lifehack for giving up porn and coming.
>I couldn't care less what most of you Black folk would think of me.
>you Black folk
implying
I’m concurring with JapAnon, paying for sex has actually led to me getting off porn, and engaging with women directly. Plus it was a huge self esteem boost, be it lying or truth it worked. I’m actually good friends now with one of the escorts I hired once, invited each other to our birthdays and everything.
You don't, you weaponize it. After growing dissatisfied with my loads I looked up that old Cum Holy Grail post and started taking a stack to make myself coom harder and more messily than ever. After a week I was feeling better than I had in years. Started looking up more techniques to increase my coom power. Discovered that a diet high in protein and leafy vegetables, frequent exercise, and good sleep enhance your cooms.
I'm now in the best shape of my life. Quitting masturbation is puritan-brain pseudomasculinity undertaken by weaklings to give themselves a placebo feeling of control over their lives.
You should be coom-maxxing right now.