Why the frick are men expected to pay for dates in 2022?
We always hear about how men aren't entitled to women's bodies, then why is a woman entitled to a man's wallet?
And women have been in the workforce for decades, it's not like they don't have their own money
>women have been in the workforce for decades >it's not like they don't have their own money
The first statement unfortunately does not imply the second, despite being true. Women happen to be moronic.
I dont get why all these losers assume you're paying for both sides of the dates. eating out all the time even if you just pay for yourself is expensive. sure I can afford it but I want to save money. I wouldn't take dates out to any kind of expensive meals.
yeah depends on where you live but theres a pretty big wall in a lot of careers in the low to mid 100ks, which is basically the new middle class salary. at bcg I just get promoted every 2 years and my pay goes up like 50%. also the job gets easier every time you get promoted for some reason.
i choose my dates carefully though
im a shut-in basically unless its a v attractive lady
i dont go out with guy friends since i moved towns
i dont go out on my own
i dont spend money on dumb stuff
i have several credit cards to boost my score
>a real man, picks up, invites, pays
you invited her? you fricking pay
ignore the morons on this board
>you invited her? you fricking pay >ignore the morons on this board
Agreed. You fricking lead the parade. It's your show. Chicks are or are not along for the ride. Doesn't matter.
If you're broke, you should be preparing your own healthy meals at home anyway, filtering women better, or getting coffee.
>All my hinge and tinder dates want to go to KBBQ and Sushi
Black person what the frick is wrong with you. you got the game all fricked up but it's all good because i'm gonna help you.
first date is always a walk in the park at your local art museum or nature preserve. it's free and any b***h that turns her nose up at this is a status bawd who isn't serious about connecting with you as a person.
second date is ice cream and a walk around the nice part of town. if you don't have an ice cream parlor in a nice part of town, you can substitute ice skating at your local rink, but the cost of the second date should not exceed $15.
third date is dinner at your place with you cooking and her helping. if she does not offer to bring anything, it's a red flag. best meal you can do here is fancy grilled cheese, homemade tomato soup, and a cheap bottle of red wine. cost of this date is maybe $30, and if she agrees, it's pretty much assured that she wants to frick after dinner. have things set up afterwards for netflix and chill.
that's the blueprint. from tinder match to blowing your load on her back, it'll cost you maybe $50, including the cost of gas for getting to and from those three dates.
>DATE IDEAS THAT YOU SHOULD NEVER ENTERTAIN
never do dinner dates, movie dates, or concert dates. that shit is a special treat that you give hoes who have pledged exclusivity to you. if they want get wined and dined before you've even fricked, then you should know that they're trying to play you.
never do bar dates. it's fricking lame and the hoes that go on them are counting on you to act like a drink dispenser. those hoes will also ghost you unless you frick them that same night, and the chances of you closing the deal are already slim.
bottom line: you can't buy your way into pussy, but these hoes sure as hell want you to believe that you can. don't get manipulated. don't be a b***h.
>second date is ice cream
Oh man it's you again. You should probably start putting a disclaimer in your text block that this doesn't work
Have you got anymore desperate textlogs from recent?
i dunno what kind of schizo shit you're on or who you mistakenly think i am, but do us all a favor and tell us a better plan for date number two so we can see what kind of game you have
Used to be this guy who posted on self improovement threads with his tinder/hinge chatlogs and it'd be usually him asking the girls out for ice cream and then getting ghosted.
Asking someone out for ice cream as an adult just sounds pathetic. I usually go for coffee first date (talk to each other, get to know each other), 2nd date is usually something physical like I had one girl who was up for hiking, another who was up for roller-rinking.
Then the 3rd date is usually I invite her over for pizza and we end up having sex.
>Asking someone out for ice cream as an adult just sounds pathetic.
you're too concerned with trying to look cool, bro. ice cream has no age limit and you're like 25 so it's not like you're some big imposing adult who can never have fun.
not a bad blueprint but cutting coffee and just doing the walk on date numero uno will save you money. women who agree to meet up with you care more about the conversation than whether there is coffee available, and the high chance of the date being a dud means that you can save money long-term by just not spending a dime on initial meet-ups.
you would get better results on the third date if you cooked. it's funny that you have this aversion to ice cream because you're too grown-up or some shit but you won't put on your big boy pants and cook something for guests that come over to your place. weird.
I've slept with 7 women and never gotten laid after a dinner date except like once and that was basically just some friendly type shit. He's right that it should be free or cheap
If a chick isn't okay with an inexpensive date, she's not worth the trouble. You want a down to earth lady who isn't on the snob scale. When things get tough, she'll be alright with having to tighten her belt.
Coffee only for first meet.
Get their early so you already have your coffee by the time she gets there. She can go order her own $12 latte sugar coffee shit herself.
Don't take them to fancy restaurants
Kek I just walk around the park or drive around and shit, or we chill and smoke weed that I already bought for myself, or get starbux or some shit that costs like $10 max. You really out here taking b***hes to Gordon Ramsay 5 star gourmet shit?
Unironically, this. Every chick I've met on Hinge wants to go to PF Changs, Steakhouse, or some fancy local restaurant.
However, it did end in sex 2/3 times though.
agreed, hinge is fun because you send out stupid shit to chicks and see what sticks, I fricked a girl just because I had an extra ticket to this show because I spammed a bunch of messages to random chicks until one was interested.
>avoid dinners for a first date >if there's no other choice, split the bill
honestly most women have no issues splitting the bill. If they do, they just wanted a free meal so you would have wasted your time anyway.
Remember, you don't owe them anything. If you've gone out a few times and they're into you, by all means.
I only take my wife out for dinner on our anniversary and I make her pay. I also only allow us to go to Dave and Busters so I can flex on her in skeeball.
Frick that shit. I have the money, but first dates get something cheap now. I got burned one to many times after paying +$100 resturant bills with NO sex. Now they all get cheap bar dates or coffee. Expensive dinner dates are reserved for women I've already had sex with at least once.
They're using you. I only pay for a girl's dinner if I really like them and feel like it's going to lead somewhere. Otherwise, it's cheap dates to the park, seeing a movie, getting ice cream, or Netflix at my place.
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Go dutch, or talk about believing in real equality.
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they have a israeli trait of charging their friends and relatives for things like coffee and biscuits with a app called tikkie
I never ever pay for their meal. What the frick are you a cuck? You pay your portion and they pay theirs. Jesus Christ anon. It's called equality.
Cuck
Before I met my gf I only did drinks or coffee for a first date and only paid if I really had a good time. Worked fine for me.
lucky. i would GLADLY pay for dinner
Why the frick are men expected to pay for dates in 2022?
We always hear about how men aren't entitled to women's bodies, then why is a woman entitled to a man's wallet?
And women have been in the workforce for decades, it's not like they don't have their own money
DON'T QUESTION THE SYSTEM
DO WHAT THE RULES SAY, NOT WHAT I DO.
I don't date nor accept the money pit that is a woman.
You arent? Just don't pay. It's a shit test to see if you're a pushover.
because you want pussy and she has the pussy, so better pay up boyo and dance or no snatch for you
>women have been in the workforce for decades
>it's not like they don't have their own money
The first statement unfortunately does not imply the second, despite being true. Women happen to be moronic.
I dont get why all these losers assume you're paying for both sides of the dates. eating out all the time even if you just pay for yourself is expensive. sure I can afford it but I want to save money. I wouldn't take dates out to any kind of expensive meals.
I make 140,000$/yr as a sysadmin. I can afford 70$ for dinner once a week lol.
IT losers shouldnt be allowed to post on this board
>t.
>IT losers shouldnt be allowed to post on this board
hi, swe here I earn more in an hour than you do in a day sweaty
oh yeah? i'm a sisadmin (i admin your sister)
also applying for momadmin (your mom)
Probably my sister is a raging prostitute she literally slept with the dad of the kids she was babysitting and ruined a marriage
As if the marraige wasn't fricked before if the man was trying to frick the babysitter. Do you have her snapchat
I make 370k a year and I wouldn't waste $70 eating out once a week.
>I make 370k a year
How?
I'm a principal at bcg
I just asked out of curiosity because I'm getting fricking insane trying to rise above my current 100k
yeah depends on where you live but theres a pretty big wall in a lot of careers in the low to mid 100ks, which is basically the new middle class salary. at bcg I just get promoted every 2 years and my pay goes up like 50%. also the job gets easier every time you get promoted for some reason.
Well you save a lot because a dakimakura can't actually eat
i have a job
side hustle
etc
i choose my dates carefully though
im a shut-in basically unless its a v attractive lady
i dont go out with guy friends since i moved towns
i dont go out on my own
i dont spend money on dumb stuff
i have several credit cards to boost my score
>a real man, picks up, invites, pays
you invited her? you fricking pay
ignore the morons on this board
Ah yes let’s listen to the shut in with no friends or hobbies
>you invited her? you fricking pay
>ignore the morons on this board
Agreed. You fricking lead the parade. It's your show. Chicks are or are not along for the ride. Doesn't matter.
If you're broke, you should be preparing your own healthy meals at home anyway, filtering women better, or getting coffee.
I'm ugly and can't get dates and also sage and kys
I don't date so its pretty easy. Maybe once a year.
>All my hinge and tinder dates want to go to KBBQ and Sushi
Black person what the frick is wrong with you. you got the game all fricked up but it's all good because i'm gonna help you.
first date is always a walk in the park at your local art museum or nature preserve. it's free and any b***h that turns her nose up at this is a status bawd who isn't serious about connecting with you as a person.
second date is ice cream and a walk around the nice part of town. if you don't have an ice cream parlor in a nice part of town, you can substitute ice skating at your local rink, but the cost of the second date should not exceed $15.
third date is dinner at your place with you cooking and her helping. if she does not offer to bring anything, it's a red flag. best meal you can do here is fancy grilled cheese, homemade tomato soup, and a cheap bottle of red wine. cost of this date is maybe $30, and if she agrees, it's pretty much assured that she wants to frick after dinner. have things set up afterwards for netflix and chill.
that's the blueprint. from tinder match to blowing your load on her back, it'll cost you maybe $50, including the cost of gas for getting to and from those three dates.
>DATE IDEAS THAT YOU SHOULD NEVER ENTERTAIN
never do dinner dates, movie dates, or concert dates. that shit is a special treat that you give hoes who have pledged exclusivity to you. if they want get wined and dined before you've even fricked, then you should know that they're trying to play you.
never do bar dates. it's fricking lame and the hoes that go on them are counting on you to act like a drink dispenser. those hoes will also ghost you unless you frick them that same night, and the chances of you closing the deal are already slim.
bottom line: you can't buy your way into pussy, but these hoes sure as hell want you to believe that you can. don't get manipulated. don't be a b***h.
>second date is ice cream
Oh man it's you again. You should probably start putting a disclaimer in your text block that this doesn't work
Have you got anymore desperate textlogs from recent?
i'm confused do women not like ice cream it sound like a good idea
i dunno what kind of schizo shit you're on or who you mistakenly think i am, but do us all a favor and tell us a better plan for date number two so we can see what kind of game you have
Used to be this guy who posted on self improovement threads with his tinder/hinge chatlogs and it'd be usually him asking the girls out for ice cream and then getting ghosted.
Asking someone out for ice cream as an adult just sounds pathetic. I usually go for coffee first date (talk to each other, get to know each other), 2nd date is usually something physical like I had one girl who was up for hiking, another who was up for roller-rinking.
Then the 3rd date is usually I invite her over for pizza and we end up having sex.
>Asking someone out for ice cream as an adult just sounds pathetic.
you're too concerned with trying to look cool, bro. ice cream has no age limit and you're like 25 so it's not like you're some big imposing adult who can never have fun.
not a bad blueprint but cutting coffee and just doing the walk on date numero uno will save you money. women who agree to meet up with you care more about the conversation than whether there is coffee available, and the high chance of the date being a dud means that you can save money long-term by just not spending a dime on initial meet-ups.
you would get better results on the third date if you cooked. it's funny that you have this aversion to ice cream because you're too grown-up or some shit but you won't put on your big boy pants and cook something for guests that come over to your place. weird.
I've slept with 7 women and never gotten laid after a dinner date except like once and that was basically just some friendly type shit. He's right that it should be free or cheap
im rich so i take my b***hes to matsuhisa and sleep with them lel
If a chick isn't okay with an inexpensive date, she's not worth the trouble. You want a down to earth lady who isn't on the snob scale. When things get tough, she'll be alright with having to tighten her belt.
You are getting exploited bro
Coffee only for first meet.
Get their early so you already have your coffee by the time she gets there. She can go order her own $12 latte sugar coffee shit herself.
>How does IST afford dating?
by having a comfy warehouse job that pays $25/hr with 3 days on and 4 days off
I fricked her
Bro do you have same job as me? Only issue is that with so much time off my time feels doesn’t feel very valuable so I always waste it
Don't take them to fancy restaurants
Kek I just walk around the park or drive around and shit, or we chill and smoke weed that I already bought for myself, or get starbux or some shit that costs like $10 max. You really out here taking b***hes to Gordon Ramsay 5 star gourmet shit?
Taking a girl to dinner as a date is a cuck move. Go for drinks or a walk.
your supposed to get money for yourself first before wasting it on prostitutes anon
You guys are going on dates?
yes, fricking this wheyfu at the uni gym i have alumni access too
No I can't even afford to feed myself properly
If they want K*rean food, just take them to the pet food aisle
Kek
Mirin' da.
What's his arm routine?
If you can't afford a date you can't afford to support a family. Back to work, bucko.
>Hinge
Stop using this app unless you want to be a betabux
Unironically, this. Every chick I've met on Hinge wants to go to PF Changs, Steakhouse, or some fancy local restaurant.
However, it did end in sex 2/3 times though.
Hinge is the best dating app now, followed by bumble. I get way more quality matches that turn into dates with Hinge than with tinder.
agreed, hinge is fun because you send out stupid shit to chicks and see what sticks, I fricked a girl just because I had an extra ticket to this show because I spammed a bunch of messages to random chicks until one was interested.
>avoid dinners for a first date
>if there's no other choice, split the bill
honestly most women have no issues splitting the bill. If they do, they just wanted a free meal so you would have wasted your time anyway.
Remember, you don't owe them anything. If you've gone out a few times and they're into you, by all means.
>He pays for dates
You think /LULZ/ is getting dates?
>he doesn't pirate his food
>you wouldn't steal a 3 course dinner
I only take my wife out for dinner on our anniversary and I make her pay. I also only allow us to go to Dave and Busters so I can flex on her in skeeball.
Frick that shit. I have the money, but first dates get something cheap now. I got burned one to many times after paying +$100 resturant bills with NO sex. Now they all get cheap bar dates or coffee. Expensive dinner dates are reserved for women I've already had sex with at least once.
...just thinking about it makes my blood boil.
homie just get an escort
They're using you. I only pay for a girl's dinner if I really like them and feel like it's going to lead somewhere. Otherwise, it's cheap dates to the park, seeing a movie, getting ice cream, or Netflix at my place.
sucks to be an american these days I guess