I got IST, IST and improved my social circle. All of that for 1 date a year. I then grew a beard. All of a sudden I’m date worthy and get a bit over one a month. Most dates seem to go well but they either ghost me or don’t feel any romantic connection by the 2nd date.
I’m unironically being filtered by personality, and not in the typical ‘not bringing your best’, but as in your best isn’t enough.
I kind of just date knowing that I’ll hate myself if I don’t try but I’m not optimistic anymore. I still try to make the dates fun and I don’t feel like anything goes wrong in them. Girls just don’t like me as anymore than a friendly acquaintance.
I'm going to be completely honest with you. I have aspergers but I live in an area where women don't even go outside anymore post-covid and I can't meet any.
what do I do? hit on cashiers? like seriously a fat chick at the grocery store seems into me she's a little cute
but I want a tomboy
I'm genuinely losing motivation I haven't seen any girls with abs at all IRL since 2020 except my relatives.
How do you figure out if a girl is interested without her straight up verbally telling you? I always interpret any possible signs as them just being nice because they’re always so fricking vague
Generally women will be nice to you because they want to have sex with you
If you look at signs that a girl isn't into you, and you notice an absence of them, then usually it means she's into you. So if she talks to you a lot, is interested in you (asks questions about you), etc. then she's probably into you.
Not great. Turns out the path to getting a woman to return to tomboy is even harder than finding a tomboy in the first place. Love my gf to pieces but frick if she's not making it really difficult for me by refusing to exercise or eat properly - she keeps giving me excuses, and while I'm sympathetic to a point, eventually I've got to wonder when to just give up and write her off as a lost cause.
i dunno anymore man. i swore my standards would never drop below anything but healthy weight but there's a cute chubby tomboy at work. never liked larger girls before but i'm deep into successful noporn and it's changing me. people here warned that my standards would drop with being lonely for so long and i didn't believe them. now i guess all it takes is to be treated like a human. she's kind and has a nice smile. her face is pretty. i guess she carries the weight okay.
Fatties can get skinny, see if she likes lifting. My gf is chubby but I can see once she loses the weight there's the basketball playing tomboy she was in high school. She's still a tomboy now and it's great but oh man it's gonna be good when she starts shedding the pounds.
>tfw gf runs like 2 miles eliptical for an entire workout >tfw gf doenst like the heat so cant go on multi hour hikes >tfw gf has no athleticism
bros.... I love her but how do I into fix her?
Modern woman has it ingrained in her that you're supposed to love people for who they are, and therefore resist any attempts at being changed.
You can try to indirectly influence your partner. Does she like social activities? Find her other girls to go to the gym together, or propose trying team sports. Is she a goal oriented person? Make sure to point out and compliment her progress. Or maybe gym is boring as shit and she needs to go cycling, swimming, climbing or something that seems much more fun to her.
In any case, ask yourself a question - are you okay with being with her if she's not an athletic person? Do you understand each other, have other common interests, do you fight often? If the answer is no, then you should move on, it's best for both of you.
>tfw gf runs like 2 miles eliptical for an entire workout >tfw gf doenst like the heat so cant go on multi hour hikes >tfw gf has no athleticism
bros.... I love her but how do I into fix her?
not entirely sure, I never took her for being a type of person to do sports and stuff in college though. She is an ok weight its just her endurance sucks
My urges for intimacy and a emotional bond with a chick has practically disappeared from my psych. Sex is nice but I just don't care about staying longer than the couple of hours I spend with the girl. Honestly its not bad, feels like I've rid myself of a massive weakness. A pleasant numbness where pain used to reside
Im gonna get plastic surgery, im bulking, im not debloated, and ive got shit skin, and im still in an awkward phase of growing hair out. However, summer 2024 i might ascend or descend harder kek.
Well done.
Mine is les tomboy more yoga-bunny, but whichever way their post-partum recovery is fricking fantastic. It's like actually being active and having muscles helps with childbirth, whodafrickingthunk.
I did that once, but it only led to doctors pumping my brain with anti psychotics that made me even more moronic. Now I'm trying to quit them before becoming a total zombie. I fear it's over for me.
I have a gf with tomboy potential but she doesn't want to become very fit. So yeah, at least she's cool, we have very similar interest and despite not being very active herself, she's slim and helps with my diet cooking healthy food.
They aren't, because there's no such a thing as a real tomboy in [Current Year]
They're all LARPers and social media cosplayers
There are no girls who became tomboy naturally, without being influenced by niche media and cartoons
There's only anime escapism, just like the picture you used for OP
About as well as the previous 26 years of my life. I guess I just need to get another plate on my bench then I'll finally find someone that actually likes me.
Spent the whole day with my blue eyed tanned tomboy, sunbathing, swimming, fricking, had some food, fricked some more on the pool, drank some monster and went to the gym. Cant wait to do it again tomorrow
Last month a young dyel tomboy enrolled on my gym, she goes almost everyday with her mom and grandma. I go every day except for weekends. She has noticed my gains and ive catched her staring at me a lot of times. But if her mom and granny are involved its a no deal. I dont deal with womens families. She has nice breasts tho.
She's got two generations of female relatives with her. You could glean a lot of intel about their sanity, and hers by extension if you started chatting them up. Worth pursuing longterm if their relationship is healthy.
I saved up, worked fricking food deliveries on the side, found a cheap flight to Ho chi minh City and fricked 6 girls like Pic related in my 30 days.
I was a somewhat fit virgin and they were all over me. It feels good to be wanted.
. Guess I'll betray the white race and have a new preference for those truly petite Asians but they've betrayed me first.
It feels good to be wanted and finally receive some of those "signals" which I've only read before. It's truly easy once you know the girls wants you, flirting is only a charade afterwards.
If c25k works and I don't frick up I'll be able to ask girls out on jogging dates in about a month. There's a Christian sports group in my town and though I'm not good at sports I'll see if I can't go there and make some friends, maybe even meet a girl.
Never had a gf in my 23 years, I've given up. Not a chance I'm getting anything unless a girl just randomly shows up at my door
Just talk to women bros, i’m sure there has been many women throughout your life that were dying for you to ask them out
You were just aspergers and didn’t notice
I’m getting dates anon, still no gf.
Wait, y'all even get dates?
I got IST, IST and improved my social circle. All of that for 1 date a year. I then grew a beard. All of a sudden I’m date worthy and get a bit over one a month. Most dates seem to go well but they either ghost me or don’t feel any romantic connection by the 2nd date.
I’m unironically being filtered by personality, and not in the typical ‘not bringing your best’, but as in your best isn’t enough.
I kind of just date knowing that I’ll hate myself if I don’t try but I’m not optimistic anymore. I still try to make the dates fun and I don’t feel like anything goes wrong in them. Girls just don’t like me as anymore than a friendly acquaintance.
I'm going to be completely honest with you. I have aspergers but I live in an area where women don't even go outside anymore post-covid and I can't meet any.
what do I do? hit on cashiers? like seriously a fat chick at the grocery store seems into me she's a little cute
but I want a tomboy
I'm genuinely losing motivation I haven't seen any girls with abs at all IRL since 2020 except my relatives.
How do you figure out if a girl is interested without her straight up verbally telling you? I always interpret any possible signs as them just being nice because they’re always so fricking vague
Generally women will be nice to you because they want to have sex with you
If you look at signs that a girl isn't into you, and you notice an absence of them, then usually it means she's into you. So if she talks to you a lot, is interested in you (asks questions about you), etc. then she's probably into you.
I can’t even get a gf
Me monkey lift
No sex
Sex bad
I will catch them all!!
Not great. Turns out the path to getting a woman to return to tomboy is even harder than finding a tomboy in the first place. Love my gf to pieces but frick if she's not making it really difficult for me by refusing to exercise or eat properly - she keeps giving me excuses, and while I'm sympathetic to a point, eventually I've got to wonder when to just give up and write her off as a lost cause.
sunk cost fallacy
Chubby tomboy mode is underrated.
Look man, I indulged in my inner architect for a bit and enjoyed the chub, but she's going too far and I want a fit gf.
Architecting was the easer part. Now you must learn remodeling. You can do it anon.
i dunno anymore man. i swore my standards would never drop below anything but healthy weight but there's a cute chubby tomboy at work. never liked larger girls before but i'm deep into successful noporn and it's changing me. people here warned that my standards would drop with being lonely for so long and i didn't believe them. now i guess all it takes is to be treated like a human. she's kind and has a nice smile. her face is pretty. i guess she carries the weight okay.
Fatties can get skinny, see if she likes lifting. My gf is chubby but I can see once she loses the weight there's the basketball playing tomboy she was in high school. She's still a tomboy now and it's great but oh man it's gonna be good when she starts shedding the pounds.
Modern woman has it ingrained in her that you're supposed to love people for who they are, and therefore resist any attempts at being changed.
You can try to indirectly influence your partner. Does she like social activities? Find her other girls to go to the gym together, or propose trying team sports. Is she a goal oriented person? Make sure to point out and compliment her progress. Or maybe gym is boring as shit and she needs to go cycling, swimming, climbing or something that seems much more fun to her.
In any case, ask yourself a question - are you okay with being with her if she's not an athletic person? Do you understand each other, have other common interests, do you fight often? If the answer is no, then you should move on, it's best for both of you.
I have a tomboy wife that I am trying to convince to go back to the gym. She’s starting to let herself go.
I haven't talked to a single woman that wasn't part of my family in 2023
every time I think about getting a tomboy gf I think about killing myself
same
I've accepted my fate and just want to be content by myself
>tfw gf runs like 2 miles eliptical for an entire workout
>tfw gf doenst like the heat so cant go on multi hour hikes
>tfw gf has no athleticism
bros.... I love her but how do I into fix her?
Make her do something, then touch her muscles and purr or moan and praise it
Frick her brains out
Repeat for weeks until she seeks your affirmation
Was she athletic before? Or has she always been sedentary?
not entirely sure, I never took her for being a type of person to do sports and stuff in college though. She is an ok weight its just her endurance sucks
Well here's the thing; I don't want a tomboy gf.
I want a hot, ditzy, klutzy girl who's only desire in life is to be my wife and a SAHM.
My urges for intimacy and a emotional bond with a chick has practically disappeared from my psych. Sex is nice but I just don't care about staying longer than the couple of hours I spend with the girl. Honestly its not bad, feels like I've rid myself of a massive weakness. A pleasant numbness where pain used to reside
Gratz, you grew up and attained normal male testosterone levels.
Im gonna get plastic surgery, im bulking, im not debloated, and ive got shit skin, and im still in an awkward phase of growing hair out. However, summer 2024 i might ascend or descend harder kek.
She's my tomboy wife. She's currently pregnant. I guess things are going pretty well.
Well done.
Mine is les tomboy more yoga-bunny, but whichever way their post-partum recovery is fricking fantastic. It's like actually being active and having muscles helps with childbirth, whodafrickingthunk.
Still look’n, still working on myself.
Just like fitness, it’s a long game. If you don’t enjoy the journey, you will never make it to the destination.
Thats one insanely hot tomboy, she's got the kind of face and phenotype that I'm weak for
Thing is I forgot what phenotype that is
Pretty good. I met a tomboy at a BJJ tournament and now she's my tomboy gf.
how can I stop myself from ruining potential relationships because of anger outbursts and inappropriate comments? this stuff really hinders my chances
get yourself checked for autism
I did that once, but it only led to doctors pumping my brain with anti psychotics that made me even more moronic. Now I'm trying to quit them before becoming a total zombie. I fear it's over for me.
yup, sucks being mentally ill, better luck next time
I have a gf with tomboy potential but she doesn't want to become very fit. So yeah, at least she's cool, we have very similar interest and despite not being very active herself, she's slim and helps with my diet cooking healthy food.
FINDING a tomboy (single) is the hardest part
the rest easy mode
Realized I was into Tomboys but they were too rare.
Switched to femboys and got the best of both worlds.
>Improved gains
>Higher test
>No bullshit
Feels good
nobody's falling for your bullshit gay
You're a homosexual, anon
I… uuh… i am still working on it dad! You will meet her soon enough…
Lost mine.
They aren't, because there's no such a thing as a real tomboy in [Current Year]
They're all LARPers and social media cosplayers
There are no girls who became tomboy naturally, without being influenced by niche media and cartoons
There's only anime escapism, just like the picture you used for OP
we know about that... you don't really have to point it out... that's not cool man.....
i don't think it will ever happen for me bro's. im ugly, socially awkward and a loser.
I feel you vagabondbro
Just dedicate your life to the art of the sword
About as well as the previous 26 years of my life. I guess I just need to get another plate on my bench then I'll finally find someone that actually likes me.
she was insanely attractive, tall, androgynous and built muscle really easily
but she was a serial cheater
so i feel like killing myself
Spent the whole day with my blue eyed tanned tomboy, sunbathing, swimming, fricking, had some food, fricked some more on the pool, drank some monster and went to the gym. Cant wait to do it again tomorrow
living the dream, hh
I hope she gets pregnant with your big White wiener anon.
Thanks anon
I am currently dating passable troon so not well. I like her a lot though so it’s whatever
You're a delusional homosexual
Had a tomboy gf im 2022
>stopped lifitng
>started smoking
>started drinking rapidly
>lost tomboy gf
Yeah, its not worth anons
I WILL HAVE ONE
Hell yeah you will
Thats pretty much what a lot of christians do already lmao
Last month a young dyel tomboy enrolled on my gym, she goes almost everyday with her mom and grandma. I go every day except for weekends. She has noticed my gains and ive catched her staring at me a lot of times. But if her mom and granny are involved its a no deal. I dont deal with womens families. She has nice breasts tho.
She's got two generations of female relatives with her. You could glean a lot of intel about their sanity, and hers by extension if you started chatting them up. Worth pursuing longterm if their relationship is healthy.
Is her granny good looking? You know what to do
I can't even get a petite latina with almost no body to smile at me. Am I worthless?
I saved up, worked fricking food deliveries on the side, found a cheap flight to Ho chi minh City and fricked 6 girls like Pic related in my 30 days.
I was a somewhat fit virgin and they were all over me. It feels good to be wanted.
. Guess I'll betray the white race and have a new preference for those truly petite Asians but they've betrayed me first.
It feels good to be wanted and finally receive some of those "signals" which I've only read before. It's truly easy once you know the girls wants you, flirting is only a charade afterwards.
If c25k works and I don't frick up I'll be able to ask girls out on jogging dates in about a month. There's a Christian sports group in my town and though I'm not good at sports I'll see if I can't go there and make some friends, maybe even meet a girl.
There's a very cute tomboy I see almost everytime I go to the gym. It hurts a little bit.