how to deal with uncooperative family regarding diet?

this Christmas I was with my family (as always) and my aunt offered us all some pudding she made earlier, I politely refused saying I was cutting and coulnd't eat it

My aunt kept insisting but I didn't budge, she accepted. During the entire meeting she kept begging me to try and kept making snarky comments to me (at least 3 times in different moments) until I had enough and told her "I don't want to eat your stupid pudding" and she started fake crying, and even though most people in my family saw her edging me on they still took her side and the day after it my dad messaged me saying I shouldn't go to our family christmas anymore (even though they're still going?)

I thought it was just something in the heat of the moment but it's already 6th of jan and they still don't want me going to christmas anymore until I apologize (which I won't, my aunt knew I coulnd't eat it and kept making fun of me)

how can I reverse this mess? anyone has had similar experiences?

  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Brother just eat a spoonful of pudding, accept a serving and then don't eat it saying you started feeling a stomachache or something. no need to be an autist about it. Your aunt just wanted to feed you some lovely food made by her for the family.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Eat the pudding and tell her it sucks

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Your issue is saying "you're cutting" and aggressively responding. Normies will take offence regardless when you're bettering yourself and it's better to just keep it quiet. You're better off just having a teaspoon to gaslight her into agreeing it's tasty, then when no one's looking dumping the serving you received in the bin to remain polite. If anyone catches you doing this just say you're full and couldn't eat anymore. Regardless the whole thing will either be eaten by someone else or dumped in the bin later after Christmas is done.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      just grow a spine and tell her to fuck off
      if she takes offence to that it's her problem
      she is trying to sabotage you and doesn't love you if she doesn't understand that
      being polite and being a coward are two different things

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Knowing when and how to pick your fights will differentiate you between a head-strong aggressively autistic sperg and someone that is loved and respected. Figure out the difference

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Normies will take offence regardless when you're bettering yourself
      Especially when you're bettering yourself while they stay lazy and shitty. Its subconscious jelaousy and fear of missing out

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >'bettering yourself'
      He may be aiming for a better body but op certainly isnt bettering himself mentally and emotionally. He will be an eternal child.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >God mom why don't you understand me
    >i told you 100 times i'm cutting
    >no this isn't only a phase i hate you so much

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just take a small portion, like 1 or 2 spoonfuls, and say you’re not hungry if she complains.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Instead of saying you're cutting say you're in training. Most people don't know what cutting means. Also you can have a couple spoonfuls just to humor her without it being a problem.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just eat the pudding you pussy. Go for a run afterwards. Why be such a gay and argue with your family who loves you?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      That family does not love him if they acted that way lmao. He said one aggressive thing to the old bitch that was egging him on for who knows how long, then they tell him he can’t go to Christmas dinner anymore. Shit family.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It would be a different story if it were a generic family sunday dinner. But it was literally Christmas. Can also tell OP is a petulant crybaby and wasn't able to properly express why he wishes to pass on the pudding.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          No, it isn’t a different story. There’s no reason he can’t deny the pudding and the old bitch not complain about it. There isn’t anything wrong with this dude staying consistent on a goal during Christmas lmao. Like I said, shit family.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I guarantee there is more to the story than OP is willing to admit. He clearly wants to play the victim and thats why he has come to IST to make a thread and seek validation.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Who cares. This is the only information we know. She was a bitch, he did nothing wrong. Shit family.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Sure thing op.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I'm not op, fuck you

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Lol did you say cutting or did you say on a diet?
    Lmao you said cutting didn't you.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i get the feeling you did more than just call her pudding stupid

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    WHERE WERE ALL THE TENDIES WHEN I WAS BULKING MOM

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >FUCK YOU MUM AND DAD, THAT HAS CARBS!!!!!

  12. 1 month ago
    Giddy

    Tldr, it's one week. You aren't gonna get fat in 1 week.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If its homemade dessert, i usually eat a piece out of respect. She put time and effort into making it and was probably excited for people to try it. You should have taken 2 spoonfulls, said a kind word and given the rest to someone else. If its a storebought dessert no one should get offended if you decline it.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    just cut contact with the family. seriously your parents should be on your side of this issue. heck they should have see the positive side that there''s more pudding to eat.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Rape her. No srsly, you did wrong by sperging out, if she still insists then you still politely refusing

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i mean, don't get me wrong, you're a grown man and you decide what goes in your body and when, so you don't have to do shit
    but its christmas, you don't have another family type opportunity to eat a bunch of food until easter, 4 months later. a day of eating like shit won't kill you. I get where you're coming from, so i would've taken a single spoonful, given her a smile and said it's good. that's really all she wanted.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I don't want to eat your stupid pudding
    Dude....poor lady

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >During the entire meeting she kept begging me to try and kept making snarky comments to me (at least 3 times in different moments)
    Wow she asked you to eat the pudding THREE times and you were soo upset you snapped at her and shouted I DONT WANT YOUR STUPID FUCKING PUDDING AUNT ROSEMARY GO SHOVE IT UP YOUR ASS then slammed your hands on the table and started hyperventilating. No wonder your family doesnt want you at christmas. They probably fear your roidchud rage.

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Kill your aunt, bottom for your dad

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You and your aunt are both autistic as fuck. I turn down dessert all the time at family holiday dinners without even giving an excuse, and they never ask questions. That being said, if they did happen to insist, it's not worth sperging out over. Your best bet was to just try a little bit of it as a kindness. Her best bet was to drop it immediately after being told the first time. Nobody came away clean here.

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    One day you'll miss the fact that someone used to make you pudding
    Just take a small portion, it's not the end of the world

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This. Gains can be recovered, but soon enough you won't have homemade Christmas food made by mom/grandma/aunt anymore

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Don't be a bitch, eat the fucking pudding

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    > anon with body dysmorphia ruins his family relations because he thinks he will lose his chance of being a gymshark sponsored athlete if he eats pudding once

    Leancels takes another life

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    > cutting
    > at christmas

    God it feels good to not be a leancel

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