Been a neet for 2 years. Bought myself high nicotine vape and started fapping everyday with it. Kinda brought myself a strong addiction, its the first thing I do in the morning, I think about it all day, made lots of gains in the gym because I like how it feels after. with all that serotonine, just edging for hours a day.
Its time for me to stop now, I'm 26 now, kinda good looking and "really" muscular from what i've been told by the only girl I met last week BUT when she started to feel my energy and who I am behind that muscle curtain, she backed up really fast. Got invited 2 times in her house for beers, I didn't even touch her fricking skin once. I'm an actor playing a good-guy but in reality i'm a creep with no self esteem I wish I could stop right now but the addiction is too strong, I might smoke without fapping then stop the smoke and get my life together for goddamn once.
>studied hard
>Had a shit office job but make good money
>Have a son with wife
>He is sever autist
>He is 9yo
>Can't talk only makes weird noises
>Only play with baby toys
>He have to wear diapers because somedays he refuses to go to the bath
>Some days he becomes agresive amd destroys the house
>He only sleeps 3-4h
>No sex with wife (sex drive goes to 0 when you don't sleep a full night for years)
>Only fun thing of my life is playing some vidya in the bus to work
>Regret not being a comfy happy neet
Just pray he never learns how to talk. My kid, 19, is *just* verbal enough to ask for shit. And he does. Non-stop. The only things he says always end in a question mark. He doesn't comment. Only asks.
>daddy do laundry when
>go to pool saturday
>daddy make sandwich for you (he means himself, but he's a tard)
It drives me insane. There is no peace to be had. But at least he doesn't destroy shit.
bots/ChatGPT
Just give the little shit to an orphanage frick that subhuman. Little kid destroyed your life and made you, a grown man, his b***h. Cmon man morons shouldnt exist. You know that deep down somewhere
My friend has a severely autistic brother who is now age 21 and he causes absolute hell for the family. They tried all sorts of things to calm him down but nothing worked. He goes around making impossible demands and then smashes things when they aren't met. They are having to send him to a permanent facility because as they grow order he becomes harder to physically restrain and the non-autistic brother quit his job to stay home and help control him because he felt bad for the parents.
they should have driven him to san francisco and left him there the minute he turned 18. more than likely he knows exactly what hes doing
white people be like
The elephant in the room no one wants to talk is the increasing numbers of disabled kids
Even young mothers and fathers are experiencing the increased risk of disabilities in their children so age is clearly not largest culprit if it even is a culprit at all.
No one knows for sure but a lot of much smarter people than us are saying that it is most likely the work of some pollutant that have increased in quantity over the last two decades, micro plastics is one of those pollutants that have been brought up many times as a likely source of this but it's almost blind speculation since no one knows for sure how 90% of the shit our industries pumps out into the biosphere actually affects the human body in the long term, the few who might know are either hiding their know for profit or doesn't care enough to spread awareness of it
>microplastics
>Air polution
>Weed during teen ages
>Tatto ink
>Paracetamol abuse
We don't really know
Yeah dude, proably air pollution and climate change, totally not something else pushed on children since literally the day they're born.
How old were the broad when the condom broke?
25
how come you didnt give up on that child? Is it the decision of your wife? I know life in a marriage is different, but I woudnt even think twice about that
Hope I don't sound like too much of a dick but... why even stay in that situation? Why bother raising a moronic child? I would not do it.
im not either of the anons you responded to, but if you have to ask this question then you will never get it. learn some compassion and develop meaningful relationships.
fembrain.
destroying your own life to keep a moron happy isn't "compassion," it's self-immolation
This is pasta you fricking morons.
It's new to me.
>1 in 44
The actual rate in the U.S. is about 81 autistic children born per every 10,000 children born (source: https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/autism-rates-by-country). The "simplified" rate is the one that says 1 in 44, but that doesn't make any fricking sense, because 89 * 44 = 3916, not 10,000. The actual reduced rate would be closer to 1 autistic child born per every 124, or about 0.008% chance of being born autistic.
These chuckle-fricks are lying to you. The "simplified rate" doesn't make any sense mathematically. There is no way to reduce 81:10,000 to 1:44.
>0.008%
anon... i think you might be the 1 in 124 in this thread...
I hate autistic people so much. My younger brother is severely autistic and ever since that moron was born, my parents effectively no longer have a life.
I wish everyday he died in his sleep.
kill your son, start over dude, you are wasting your time with that autismo child
Mate, look into the Andy Cutler Chelation protocol.
Give your child up to the foster system or to a willing extended family member if possible
If your wife doesn't go along, save up and make an escape plan to abandon your "family" and make a new life elsewhere
There's nothing noble about pouring your sacred life force down the drain to sustain a mental cripple
Weird way to demoralize, but i already saw this copy pasta
>People often ask why they are so quiet
Talk more. Say what's on your mind, ask people questions, stop having whatever feelings of superiority or inferiority that prevent your from talking more. Start small, e.g. asking strangers for the time or directions, talk more with people you know, mention movies you've watched or books you've read, notice things going on in the surroundings and mention it, etc.
>Has friends but doesn't feel fully apart [sic] of the group
Either invite them to do stuff or make actual friends with whom you will feel a part of the group. The latter is very difficult, but you only really need to make friends with one person, become good buddies with him/her, and then they'll gradually introduce you into their group. Again, you do this is small steps.
>Most people they like just seem to disappear eventually
Keep in contact with the people you actually like, and ask them to do stuff together.
>Always wonders how their life could've turned out differently
Find hobbies that you enjoy and work towards something. Work on thinking forward, not backward.
>Never had a gf, has finally given up their optimism
Assuming you're training and have a good body (you'd better since you're posting this on this board), get better at talking to women, approaching them, etc. Talk to them in your new hobbies, and ask them on dates, etc. I recommend goodlookingloser com, since it gives genuinely good advice and allows you to work your way up from zero gradually so that you get out of your comfort zone, but not to the point where something will discourage you.
>Above average but not big penis
Idk, apparently jelqing or penis pumps can help, but just deal with it otherwise.
>Can always sense most people don't really want to be talking to them when they are
Realize that you're the one who doesn't want to be there, not them. This is extremely difficult, but you need to build up a certain sense of delusion about how great you are. Become good at things and content
Thanks for the advice I'm saving your post. I might start nofap I guess the confidence I will be getting will fix all those problems who seems just some social issues.
Godspeed anon, the problem I feel is your wife even tho she must be really sweet and loving, I sense a lot of negativity since your autist child is born.
Yeah, it's kind of a meme, but nofap can be genuinely helpful as you'll find yourself busier and more eager to do various activities. It can also "force" you to approach more women and actually start trying in life.
>Recommending nofap
>Always feels out of place
Find places that you actually like and spend more time there.
>Seems normal to other people, but always feels alone inside
Find better people that you actually like. Get better and things so that you actually like yourself. Also, as above, find a girl.
>Has a psychologist, helped initially but realised they can't fix their lonely life, just the feelings
Don't go to a shrink or psychologist. They are scam artists. Spend more time at the gym/doing hobbies/activities, etc.
>No best friend since primary school
Same as above. Find better people. Eventually you'll find someone (guy or girl) with whom you connect. Believe me, if I could, then you can. You just gotta follow the process.
>Feels a deep sense of regret and embarrassment over lifelong lack of sex and intimacy. Wonders if they are now somehow damaged or broken.
If you are jacked, realize that nobody is aware of your lack of sex/intimacy, and in fact they'll be extremely surprised if you tell them you're a virgin or whatever. As above, find girls you like, ask them on dates, etc.
>Doesn't really care where their life is going anymore
Get off the internet, go outside. Find things places and things you like. Find out about places you'd like to visit. These should inspire some goals in you.
>Handsome but not quite handsome "enough" to truly make it
Get jacked. Also, as I said, gll is good for this. There are so many uglier guys than you that have made it. Once you got the physical, you only gotta fix the mental, and that takes time and small baby steps.
>Constant mental health issues and self esteem issues
Realize that mental health is entirely pseudo-scientific BS. Go to the gym. To fix self-esteem issues, you need positive reinforcement. Going out and talking to women and getting compliments and reassurance that people like you will help ameliorate these issues.
>Hobby/skill they worked hard at but just not good enough to be professional
Happens to almost everyone. Find a different hobby or something, but continue with that other hobby nevertheless in order to have something to brag about. People will still be insanely impressed by it, even if you are disappointed.
>Tried to improve their life with education, job, gym and meeting new people but didn't make a difference
Realize this is impossible. It always makes a difference. You need to be aware enough to actualize this difference though. Chances are, you didn't get enough positive reinforcement, so you think it made no difference. Use your newly developed skills to your advantage, and continue to refine them.
>Secret lifelong porn addiction
Just don't watch it lmao. Spend more time outside, in public, etc. Keep yourself occupied.
>Never gets messaged first, still tries to reach out occasionally but always ends up left on read
Almost everybody thinks this. Women generally will not message first, so realize that you gotta pretty much always message them first. In any case, again, find better people.
This this this this
Also not op and other person but very based
Let me just add one more thing
Start distancing yourself from those "friends" who only invite you to time and money wasters (bars, restaurants, shitty unprepared parties)
Ever notice why they don't invite you to the gym, play mini golf, go hiking/biking?
They might not even know it but they want to bring you down with them.
I am currently in the process of learning this.
Having parasites like this is unironically worse than being alone
Keep grinding.
Literally my friends. They do many fun social activities, but invite me only to bars or smoke weed. Why are they doing it? Are they ashamed of me?
Ask them to come with them too but don't ask why you aren't invited
I did. Once they promised to invite me, other time guy said that I can come but it would be boring for me, he was clearly nervous and didn't want me to come. I really try to be a normal, but they feel something wrong with me
>Full head of hair
Lucky bastard
This meme bothers me because it could be good but there a few very specific details that are unrelated to the rest that makes it less of an archetype and more of a list of traits one specific guy wrote.
have a nice day. Or take some advice next time you see that girl she is crushing on you BTW you dumb virgin. So tell her next time you meet that you have a confession to make and tell her you are in love with her and then say do you wanna go out wit me ?then smile. You are welcome
Its shocking how accurate this is to me, also smoking weed daily and wearing NC headphones most of the day to further isolate myself, I think I'm a schizoid too.
>also smoking weed daily and wearing NC headphones most of the day to further isolate myself
I did that in my teens. Frick how stupid i wish i didn't do that
fight Fight FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHTTTTTTTT OP FIGHT IM WITH YOU BUT IM FIGHTING. I LOSE MORE OFTEN THAN I WIN BUT THAT MAKES THE WIN EVER SO SWEET. FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT YOU WILL FALL GET UP ANS FIGHTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
You're not autistic, you are just in a learned helplessness state, it's not a rare things, can be caused by early childhood trauma, growing up with abusive parents, early childhood stress, poor nutrition, you name it. My advice is to start a positive feedback loop, go get a massage at a nice place, start living a healthy life and go out and get some sun. You're 26, your weekends should be spent outside the house. Change yourself man.
>dude you don't have autism, you have learned helplessness
>no you have avoidant personality disorder
>no no actually you just have autism
>uhhhhhhhh no AKSHUALLY you're a schizoid
>no my mom is an expert bro, you have a generalized anxiety disorder
>no no no dude you're just agoraphobic!
I guess I have it all
>BUT when she started to feel my energy and who I am behind that muscle curtain, she backed up really fast. Got invited 2 times in her house for beers, I didn't even touch her fricking skin once. I'm an actor playing a good-guy but in reality i'm a creep with no self esteem I wish I could stop right now but the addiction is too strong, I might smoke without fapping then stop the smoke and get my life together for goddamn once.
sounds like you probably have a warped perception of yourself. Plus self-esteem issues (you admitted to this). Look, the biggest piece of advice I can give you is stop feeling sorry for yourself. Stop the negative self-talk. If you think you can belittle yourself into changing then you'd be flat out wrong. Trust me, I speak from experience.
Throw these things into a search browser, research them, and start practicing: Cognitive restructuring, positive self-reinforcement, and self-affirmations. If you correct your maladaptive behaviors and thought patterns you'll feel far stronger and more in control. If it makes you feel more powerful then that's good, if it makes you feel weaker then that's bad. It applies to behaviors and thoughts. That's the only useful heuristic for self-improvement.
but he didn't say any of that? All he said was you seem to be symptomatic of learned helplessness, which has a variety of causes. You're making insane assumptions about yourself that no one implied. This is the "warped perception of yourself" I was talking about that I think is leading to a lot of your problems.
>Cognitive restructuring, positive self-reinforcement, and self-affirmations
isn't this what trannies do? deny reality and just try to basically brainwash themselves into thinking that they are actually great looking women when in reality everyone knows they are the very opposite of that?
No
>If it makes you feel more powerful then that's good, if it makes you feel weaker then that's bad
excellent advice. I've been beating myself down with "le hard tr00ths" but every truth serves a will. you're doing your rivals' work for them if you demoralize yourself. what, do you not want money and pussy? play the game of life buddy
no.
>cognitive restructuring.
wiki definition: "a psychotherapeutic process that helps individuals identify and challenge negative and irrational thoughts." There's nothing rational about a troon convincing himself he should cut off his dick.
>positive self-reinforcement
basically just rewarding yourself when you do well instead of scolding yourself when you do poorly. Since anon is struggling with self esteem he shouldn't be too harsh on himself. This can enforce corrected behavior without eliciting the stress response/feeling of weakness. I don't see what it has to do with troons.
>self-affirmations
Basically just speaking highly of yourself. Like with anything in life this is contextual. If you think someone struggling with self worth issues constantly belittling themselves is analogous to a troon telling himself he's a beautiful women while he has a 5 o'clock shadow then I don't know what to tell you. Stop being disingenuous? There's a stark contrast between being kind to yourself and full blown detachment from reality.
Like I said all of my advice is geared towards helping anon feel more autonomous, strong, and in control. My thinking is heavily influenced by Nietzsche and his concept of Will to Power. You think Caesar, Napoleon, or Alexander would have been able to accomplish what they did if they thought of themselves as 'doomer' blackpilled schmucks? No. Feeling STRONG and CAPABLE are the initial catalyst for all acts of greatness.
> I've been beating myself down with "le hard tr00ths"
yeah one of the most insidious effects of the redpill/bluepill dichotomy you see promoted on the chans is that it always conflates truth with harshness and falsehood with comforting when life doesn't always work like that. Sometimes truths can be very pleasant, and harsh beliefs completely false. You're not "blackpilled" or "redpilled" bro. You're just rationalizing your defeatism and pessimism without even asking if they're accurate.
You’re a good dude anon
ty anon, I know we don't know each other but it means a lot.
accurate mood chart
>You're 26, your weekends should be spent outside the house. Change yourself man.
DUDE JUST GO OUTSIDE, ALL YOUR PROBLEMS WILL BE SOLVED!
this is literally me except im 20
lately i've kind of stagnated in life and i've come to realize that progress was the only thing keeping me stable and i'm mentally deteriorating at a frightening rate. i will be 100% nuts soon if something doesn't change
ever thoguht about trooning out?
no I do not like trannies
https://psychology-tools.com/test/autism-spectrum-quotient
israeli test
>da joos
yeah, you don't need to take a test
Hello redd1t Lurk more
back to your containment board, schizo homosexual
>nooo it's not da joos
it's da joos simple as
Sources: 1. "Simon Baron-Cohen"
send help
Damn this is literally me at 22
what did you end up doing
>t. directionless and stagnant but outwardly normal zoomer
Is it impossible to make friends in your late 20s? Like I think what if I get lucky enough to meet a girl and get married. Who the frick is even coming to my wedding other than my mom? I wouldn't even have a best man. Also what girl wants to go out with a guy who has no friends?
Besides the not really want to be spoken too this is literally me at 24. The signs to becoming literally OP’s pic emerged around 20.
become someone? throw the vape out? jerk off without porn? do it step by step? many things.
That was me in high school. Then it was me in college. Then it was me throughout all my 20s. Now I am 31 and want to commit suicide every waking moment of my life.
20 heading for this. Unsure of how to curb my life
As the 31 year old who posted above who has been like this basically my whole life, let me tell anyone here reading about how to solve this
Be social when you are younger. Life is completely worthless and miserable if you don't have friends or relationships to spend it with. And not having these can cause you to not give a shit about the rest of your life, and you end up a severely depressed, miserable, suicidal, worthless waste of space.
>23
>Kissless Handholdless Hugless Virgin
>NEET with no income
>internet addiction
>no real friends or hobbies
honestly I’m blessed that my mom puts up with me for how little I do even given our overall situation. I wanted to get into calisthenics but I just don’t have motivation or willpower to drive myself to do that; I don’t eat particularly healthy either, I definitely over-eat (almost always processed) so it’s not surprising I’m ~30 pounds overweight.
I desperately want to have irl friends, but it’s been 10 years since I’ve had a friend that I’d feel intimidated by the amount of effort needed to keep one now; not to mention my KHHV status so I’m already a no-go with girls on any level.
I’m a shut-in that never leaves the house and I’m too accustomed not talking to people. I’ve grown up “learning” how to be an unproductive and asocial person, so “simply” talking to a stranger is honestly not even worth considering anymore. I’m practically a professional victim at this point; doesn’t help that I feel inferior to my severely disabled little brother since mom gives him the most attention / thoughts.
The worst part about this is that, even if someone were to reply to me trying to give advice, I likely wouldn’t do anything to change. I don’t know how.
You have to realize something, you are in a situation where you think you are fricked, now there are two possibilities:
1. You are actually fricked.
2. You aren't fricked.
What you should do is trying to do whatever is possible to unfrick the situation, because if you aren't fricked you will actually save yourself, and if you are actually fricked you will give one hell of a fight before going down.
My advice for you is to go get a shitty job (fast food cook, janny whatever). With the money you'll make join a sports club (martial arts will give you more confidence), you'll met people and get in shape and money, all the "I don't know how to interact with people" shit is your brain shutting off all the stuff needed for social interactions because you never use them, at work and doing sports you will be forced to interact with people and that feeling will go away in like two months, the money will give you freedom, if you don't click with people change jobs and sport clubs until you make friends with someone. You have to realize also that if you attempt doing this you will screw up over and over again, but that's ok because it's part of the process.
I don’t think I am fricked. all I really need is a job so I have money to help out and maybe buy stuff. I am more of a closed off / shy person in general, but I can see how being forced to interact with people would help me learn how to interact with people properly.
as for GF stuff, while I want and dream of it, I’ve never even pursued one before so I don’t care too much about having one, it’s mainly the friend thing I’d want—and even then I’d rather work on myself physically, mentally, and financially beforehand.
I should say I hate screwing up though. Absolutely loathe it. I’m the kind of person to want to be shown how to do something multiple / several times before I feel confident enough to do it myself. (prob the biggest reason why I don’t cook even though I need to)
>I should say I hate screwing up though. Absolutely loathe it. I’m the kind of person to want to be shown how to do something multiple / several times before I feel confident enough to do it myself. (prob the biggest reason why I don’t cook even though I need to)
You are like this because you don't have any confidence in yourself, you gain confidence by actually doing stuff. Also doing all that stuff that I told you is hard while staying at home rotting is easy, so there is that too.
frickin hell, that picture really resonates with me, just lost my gf that i had for 10 years, and i am back to square one with no friends, no jobs and no future.
Calisthenics is simple, you dont even need to leave the house, just start with pushups, look up a beginner routine on youtube. Try to make 2-3 healthy meals that are simple, I make protein pancakes daily for example. I also work as a grocery boy, its easy work but it helps casually interacting with other humans.
You simply have to start somewhere, its good to even make a small change.
>met girl the other day
>we chat, I feel like there's affinity
>she writes me after
>I reply
>get ghosted
I can't take this shit. I cannot enjoy the moment, the expectations for a minute that everything is already over.
eventually, I'm going to be the cause of death of a human being, and it could be either myself or other people
I am some of these things
It's the new version of the horoscope. You'll always relate to some points and that'll be the pull.
Unless you use the superior types.