Have you ever had a girl that wants to have sex all the time like more than you after working out? I'm dating a girl and she always wants to have sex even when I'm tired. Anyone knows that feel? (Builtfat btw)
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Have you ever had a girl that wants to have sex all the time like more than you after working out? I'm dating a girl and she always wants to have sex even when I'm tired. Anyone knows that feel? (Builtfat btw)
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Nah man I seriously believe I live in a simulation, how the frick does a thread like this pop up now?
>Get fit over 4 years, I used to swim for a club in my teens so I got the typical swimmer body (wide shoulders, big chest)
>Get an insanely good looking gymgirl
>Though we gonna frick like rabbits
>We fricked maybe twice a week but she always wanted to cuddle
>Kept cuddling with her daily for at least 1 hour
>My sex drive is insane and I know that this is not the girl
>After 6 months try to break up with her telling her that I need more sex
>She starts sobbing and tells me she is sorry
>We frick now like 4 times a week
>Tfw mentally ill need more
>Broke up with her
>Got a new gf
>Not as good looking but she fricks like crazy
>Like 3-4 times a day crazy shit, hardcore, balls licking all the shit
>Feel like a king
>Tfw but miss the cuddling more than sex
>Sometimes I wake up thinking my ex gf is in bed besides me wanting to cuddle
The grass is always greener homosexuals, cuddling is better than sex.
when a guy tells me he cuddles with gf and licks her pussy I already know he has very little authority in relationship and it later gets confirmed
What if he doesn't say it except online? The leaning pics is definitely true.
>he cuddles with gf and licks her pussy I already know he has very little authority in relationship
wtf is wrong with zoomers? Do you even like women?
>they don't know those are humiliation rituals that make your gf subconsciously see you as less dominant
sounds hot
>click on gif
>just so happens the smacks of her riding crop matched up perfectly with the music i was listening to (atlantis by downtown binary)
>went on perfectly sync'd until the song ended like two minutes later
kek thanks anon
God that gif is hot
Samegay
You're lost if you think cuddling women is emasculation. I really don't even know what kind of math you're doing to get there.
it's ok if it's part of foreplay but imagine you're high test and you're cuddling with gf like you're kids, your D is diamonds but you can't progress to sex because she's not in the mood today. what a waste of time. what's next? you gonna wear a chastity cage lmao
You're really jumping to conclusions here, just imagining this whole moronic scenario in your head that you can shit on lmao. Cuddling and eating pussy is nice, not a substitute for sex, nobody ever said anything like that in this thread. I like to frick my gf straight after eating her out when she's still quivering. That makes her cum second time in 1-2 minutes tops. After such a start she lets me do whatever I want with her
Don't care, I'll dominate her after she sits on my face
It's not humiliation if I do it against her will.
That is just so wrong kek
>t. Closeted homosexual
>so insecure he makes eating pussy gay
i bet youre the type of guy that gets mad at banter
100% on point
and most of the times they act tough when they lick pussy because they 'love it'
Dude, I lick my wife's pussy, suck on her clit as if it was my own dick, stick my tongue deep up her ass and nearly come from her moaning and extasy
Then I jam it in, but still pause the sex to lick, suck and rim a little more cause I like it so fricking much
You restrict yourself from fun by imposing arbitrary rules of imaginary masculinity
licking pussy is objectively a submissive position, you're increasing the chance of throat and oral cancer, majority of girls have bad pussy smell, pussy is inch away from anus.
why do you think it's always the girl who asks for cuddling? can you imagine a gigachad cuddling with a girl?me being more specific doesn't mean I'm moving the goalapost
I will literally do everything I want with my gf because Im dominant as shit. Ill be sucking her clit one moment and busting my load down her throat the next with her saying thank you afterwards. I touch her everywhere and anywhere I like and I frick her in any hole and position I want. She is my fricktoy cumrag and the fact I suck her clit when I want to does not change that.
actual man
hypocondriac incel
>licking pussy is objectively a submissive position,
I tie her down and do it because I'm using her body for my own gratification
>you're increasing the chance of throat and oral cancer
Assuming she isn't vaccinated against HPV, and has it in the first place
>majority of girls have bad pussy smell
So make her fricking clean it for you
>pussy is inch away from anus.
The only drawback. My prescription is only eat if she's clean, and only if her booty sweat smells good.
Eating pussy is for fresh girls who are committed to you. People who'll lick out some bawd they've known five minutes who's seen three other guys this month are moronic.
Gigachad here. I do all of the above and am 100% in control of the relationship. If you’re really confident and dominate cuddling won’t change anything. Go outside more
>t. gets cheated on by every b***h he ever pulled
Show me a b***h who never has her pussy eaten and I'll show you my new cumrag
when a girl talks about "authority in the relationship" I know her life is a fricking trainwreck and it later gets confirmed
why do you think Im a girl
there's like 2 real girls on fit
She tried to do better and you still broke up with her homosexual. You don’t deserve her.
This gay doesn't know hitler was the good guy and the holocaust didn't happen.
45 spoke
>cuddling is better than sex
yeah, only incels are obsessed with sex, in reaity cuddling is much better
cuddling releases oxytocin, sex releases dopamin
scientifically speaking ocytoxin is the more addictive and stronger substance
Your brain has been ruined by porn, homosexual. Hopefully the gymgirl found someone better.
by this logic this guy
found a good lay
Your perception is entirely fricked. Read
again
>Like 3-4 times a day crazy shit, hardcore, balls licking all the shit
Oh man, that story hurts... It actually reminds me a lot of my personal situation.
My gf was very similar to the way you describe your ex. Her libido just wasn't as high as mine... She was super cool about it though, and she would do anything for me. She'd give me a bj or let me frick her literally whenever I wanted, but still, it just wasn't the same as a girl who's actually horny all the time. I really missed having that, but at the same time, my gf seemed so sweet and perfect in practically every other way.
So what I did instead, is marry my gf, and started fricking other women on the side. My wife is ok with it.
Moral of the story: Don't move to your neighbors lawn, but cultivate a motherfricking steppe on your own land, brothers.
I'm in a similar setup and starting to think it's just the way things have got to be. Can't wife a ho, but a man has needs, damn it.
thou art wise and a good Khan
Black person what the frick is wrong with u, be faithful to your wife
Samegay
>cuddling is better than sex
No.
Deep love is better than sex. But it's also destructive. Cuddling itself is kinda okay.
Reminds me of Madara's words.
>When a man learns to love, he must bear the risk of hatred
>Love and hate are two sides of the same coin
Hard pill to swallow for most guys:
If your gf doesn't crave sex with you and you don't have it often, it means she's not really attracted to you, she's settling for some other reason.
You may cope, but deep down you know I'm right.
Anon is right
Usually, but not always. My recent ex wanted sex all the time until she started birth control, which reduced it. Then she started on antidepressants and it completely died. I didn't do anything to cause that, it was the meds.
>it means she's not really attracted to you, she's settling for some other reason.
You are right and I fricking hate that my wife and I have hit bed death. But I am not gonna take this sitting the frick down, no sir.
Nice anon. Honestly anon I'm so tired from fricking her that I cuddle with her too, you new gf doesn't like to cuddle? Maybe you need to work on your communication muscles, just ask to cuddle longer.
>Sex on average 2 times a week
>Really amazing, high quality sex, just not often enough for me
>Other than that it's a mix of "I'm too tired", "my head hurts" and other excuses
>Need more, libido is high, so have to supplement it with jacking off
How do I improve the situation? She's skinny, but terribly unIST so that's probably why she's so low energy so often, I'm trying to push her in the right direction but it will take years at this rate
metabolic issues. she needs sugar, calcium, caffeine and sodium. she also needs less PUFA, sugar alcohols, fiber and starch.
Same but I get sex maybe once every 2 weeks. I'm thinking it's the contraceptive she's using, I'm about to just cave and 100% use condoms if it means I get more action
listen bud. you gotta "rape" her,. thts the only thing that really gets b***hes wet. try it
choke her randomly in the kitchen and corner her
unless ur a manlet well, gg
It is very likely that it's the contraceptive. It influences the female mind so much I'm amazed literally any 18 year old dumb girl can hop on it like it's nothing. Try the non latex condoms (polypropylene I think), they still don't feel like the "real" thing, but they're much, much closer than latex
Might be the pill, might be thyroid, might be allergies
pt-141
>gf
It's not so bad. I hate my gf and wish I were alone but she threatens to kill herself if I leave pls help
Black person what
that's not your problem and also not going to actually happen 99.99993% of the time. Stop being manipulated lil homie
>t. Big homie
homie don't knock it, my wife was the same way for years and I couldn't keep up, and now that I'm back into fitness I want sex all the time and she doesn't.
How do I get better at sex? I was thinking Cialis
Practice makes perfect anon.
t. Virgin
twice a week is fine after being with someone for years
I am 29 years old and I never even kissed a girl
You should try it sometime, it's quite enjoyable
>Incels are so low test even their gfs have higher sex drives than them
lol
lmao
>incels
>have sex
Room temperature iq
im seeing a chick for the last month and we met 3 times, and everytime i grab her by the pussy she gets defensive and goes ' Anon i don't want you to see me as a piece of meat'
Holy fricking shit i mean she is 29 years old and playing these games? the only reason im keep going is because she is genuinly a good person unlike my bpd ex (who is also back in town and wants me to frick her) who i have blocked .
What do
>What do
stop being a redditoid.
don't insult me like this. What was the reddit thing i did
Verification not required.
A good woman will not only keep you fed and keep your house clean, but she will also keep your balls empty. You might not be attractive enough to her or she might have other issues, but it doesn't really matter. The fact of the matter is that sex is not happening and at the end of the day, no matter how much freshly baked bread and cheap chicken you eat, your balls are blue.
I've been in this kind of situation before and I hated it, she was a virgin but it didn't matter since the next girl was also a virgin but she drained my balls quite early on. Sex is a big factor in a relationship, don't listen to virgins with no experience with women who will tell you she is trad or whatever. If you are not looking forward to spending time with her then find another b***h.
This. Its nice to have all those trad things but ultimately you have needs that need to be met or your gonna break up with her anyway. Its only date 3 so i'd say give it 1 or 2 more dates and if it continues like this just move on. By the time she does come around she might be one of those people that only fricks once or twice a week and i know ISTitzens have naturally higher libido due to the healthy life styles we pursue.
>. By the time she does come around she might be one of those people that only fricks once or twice a week and i know ISTitzens have naturally higher libido due to the healthy life styles we pursue.
literally this is what scares me the most. she looks low sex drive just by the looks of it. she never talks, always asks me the same things. not saying its bad but we were lying in bed for one hour and she said nothing and i fell aswell. She massaged me a little for those doms i had from back day and then she left. we kissed and shit but i know im too chad for her. literally my ex would frick me twice a day and she was younger that this. what a fricking homosexual i am. ill become a volcel frick this woman shit
politely ask her.
'I value healthy sexual wellbeing, and, with your permission, I would like to ask a general question about our sexual compatibility.'
--> answers yes
'How often do you generally stimulate yourself? Some range of x times per week, month, or year would be fine as an answer'
This. The pain of regret of breaking up with her will be less than the pain of resentment if you stay.
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U hv2 go bk lolol n00b
A women knows if she wants to frick a guy by the first date. Is she expressing any sexual desire to you or attraction at all?? Probably doing that dumb shit were she was pumped n dumped by chad 1 to many times and couldnt lock him down so now she thinks playing the "slow game" will yield better results and if you throw in the towel then it just means you were beta (even though shes already treating you like one.)
Tbh she looks clean, also there is no alcohol involved, I mean with my ex I fricked her sooner cause we had some beers.
>attraction
Yeah she is the one reaching out and asking me shit everyday, that’s why I said she is genuine.
She baked me some bread today and she works at a chicken store and she makes me discounts all the time and shit. We kissed and I grabbed her ass etc but she didn’t grab my dick either. Her last relationship was 2 years ago and she comes from a village. She seems to respect me but she is not giving it I don’t know what to say. But she is available every time I call her. For example if tell her to come here right now for a movie she will.
I can only tell you what I know. Maybe there's something wrong with me. But whenever I've continued to pursue a woman after she's denied me sex, I can't bring myself to respect her or myself. Even after we're fricking at a later date. Not sure how to explain it, but I just break it off if I've tried multiple time and they aren't trying to keep me satisfied.
Sounds like she really likes you. If you make it through no sex for a few dates, you'll probably have a woman ready to be your wife.
Anon, she sounds like a lovely sweet girl but a relationship that doesn't meet your sexual needs is a friendship. I think you should have one last attempt at letting her know this is important to you, and if she isn't willing to compromise then perhaps she isn't the one.
you know you could just give him the same advice as chad. pump and dump her if she has any attraction. it wasn't "throwing in the towel" for chad to go and frick her, after all.
it worked for chad, it'll work for anon.
The problem is she doesnt wanna frick him for whatever reason. I think its because she isnt attracted to him honestly but we dont know the full story.
>extremely prude and brainwashed by modern feminism
>genuinely good person
Bro...?
I flat out told my wife that she's both - meat and brains
And that i want both of her
I got plenty of friends, don't need another one, but i did want a gf, which includes the meat
Don't run after something that's so easily replaced, especially in the first months of a relationship
I recently met someone with brains and looks. It feels so good and also a bit scary that she has similar thoughts and experiences as me. I let her speak her mind first to evaluate if she is just trying to copy me, but she seems to have almost as high power level than mine. Also I can't trust my feelings right now for obvious reasons, wat do? Do I have to wife her (in time of course)?
>Have you ever had a girl that wants to have sex all the time like more than you after working out?
I met my college girlfriend freshman year at the wrestling club, and a hard workout, or good practice, would make her so fricking horny we'd frick in the car, bathrooms, or even the bushes outside the building. It was pretty great.
After graduation though she slowly stopped going to the gym with me, stopped joining the club league, and eventually completely lost her sex drive. I'm still mad about it all these years later honestly, I was living the tomboy gf dream life for awhile.
My wife's was never as high as mine but it used to be pretty good, like 5-8 times a week. Over the last year it's dropped a lot though. It's been a pretty rough year for her though.
>her mom got breast cancer may 2022 (thankfully cancer free now)
>cousin she was super close with almost died from car accident/stroke June 2022
>really hard pregnancy Jul '22- Mar '23
>really hard post-partum Mar '23- May '23
>baby has some health complications Mar '23-Present
>our dog died 2 weeks ago
Also she's been having a lot of pain during sex since the birth due to some scar tissue so we have to take it really slow. We still have really good sex a couple timed week at least, but it's been rough all around.
You are a good man for being loving and understanding towards her. So refreshing to hear on /fit . Keep being kind and nurturing, and the sex will keep increasing in frequency and quality. Postpartum in particular is so fricking difficult, when your body just doesn't feel like your own and it's recovering and you're so sleep deprived. You're a keeper, Anon.
t. 9 days postpartum with my first and it's exhausting trying to function on a max of 4 hours of sleep per night
Thanks, just wait til they start smiling and laughing. It's downright magic how quickly our son can change a bad mood with a giggle and a grin. If they could bottle it, pharma companies would probably sell it as a cure all.
>Keep being kind and nurturing, and the sex will keep increasing in frequency and quality
10 years of marriage and 5 kids here. This statement is a blatant, goddamned lie.
>/fit
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I really don't want to gatekeep you because we have so few sane foids here but you're making it really, REALLY fricking hard for me sweetie.
It's a single space you autist. Not agay Reddit paragraph
context on image?
Growing up le bad. Childhood better. Waaaahhh.
A silent voice manga I believe
Her best and only friend is hospitalized in a coma because he stopped her from killing herself.
Sauce?
Not related to op, but since it has became a relationship thread:
Should you really share your weaknesses with your partner? I keep hearing this that "if you cannot be weak with your gf then she's not really your gf" and I don't get it. In my experience women are nice, sure, but if you are weak they are going to leave you. Period. Seen and sadly experienced cases of this. I really want to talk about my seasonal depression and not so seasonal porn addiction with her, but I just know I can't. Sometimes I make an attempt, but she's like "why are you depressed? You are a fit muscle guy with a nice family". Or when I was trying to talk about pornography she was just crying and we didn't get anywhere. But anyway. It's not only her. Im general I feel like you must be strong or at least keep this strong persona on all the time to keep a woman. It's just tiresome sometimes. If I confronted her she'd just get offended.
I think I wanted to ask a question originally, but I've lost track mid rant. What do you think?
Just get a SAD lamp and stop watching porn you big baby lmao
idk I think SAD can be serious. like people who live in greenland commit suicide at high rates because living in a winter wasteland is so shitty.
SAD lamp will help, but it's impossible to replace sunlight.
t. Someone who has lived at 430 latitude his whole life and still gets depression every single winter without fail. Have tried everything including SAD lamps. I also have concerns that they might have damaged my eyes.
What did you use that's better? Have you tried using fire?
>partner
There's a reason she's not your wife.
If you can't talk to her about anything then she's not the one, simple as.
If you've been with a woman you weren't crazy about, you can feel how many things there are that you just don't want to hear from her. A girl you like won't make you feel like that. And if she liked you she wouldn't feel like that.
Yes and no anon.
You should feel comfortable enough around your partner to be authentic. It shouldn't all be some macho, stoic act to keep her happy: she should genuinely like you (or at least like your positive aspects enough to look over your shortcomings) and equally you should have genuine good qualities.
On the other hand, your girlfriend IS NOT your therapist. Women say they like like who are emotionally literate and expressive and all this shit - what they really mean is they want a guy who has already fought his demons (and won) and isn't going to be a whiny little b***h. Women want to be protected and looked after in a relationship, if they feel they have to take on a protector or mothering role their veganas turn into the Sahara. In the most egregious cases this can be stuff like "I got cancer, and my wife suddenly didn't feel the same about me and left to 'find herself'" or "I cried at my father's funeral, now she doesn't fund me attractive any more". Obviously those are examples of grade-A b***hes but more generally you don't want to give your woman any ammunition to find you weak, incompetent, Beta, needy or pathetic. Women NEED status and security in a man. All the rest - looks, fitness, wit, intelligence, emotional availability - is secondary and in some cases optional.
Just drop the b***h
You need to be able to talk to your partner and be vulnerable with them. That doesn't mean you act like a moody b***h all the fricking time though either. It means you sit and talk with them about how you are feeling and yes that means if you are gonna cry just let it out. If she can't stand seeing you act like anything but a rock with no emotions then she isn't the one period.
Also wtf is there to explain about your porn addiction? Just fricking quit. There really isn't anything to explain about that.
You can be vulnerable in the sense that you can demonstrate the capacity for introspection. You have to really REALLY be a 10/10 in every other capacity if you’re a blank slate internally.
When I was debating whether or not to move in with my gf I opened up about being afraid of losing my independence, having to compromise on things the way I would with a roommate. I needed her to understand that my reluctance to move in with her had nothing to do with her quality as a partner but with my fear of losing my sense of self as we brought our lives closer.
Fast forward. Moving in with her was a great decision. We got married. Bought a house. We made little money but were frugal and got lucky buying at a low point in the local housing market. We had a kid after we both got promotions but money was still tight. I admitted to her I had considered hurting myself in order to get an insurance payout to set her and our son up financially, but I knew having a father is more important than having money. My wife appreciated my feelings of not being able to give our son enough and the idea that I’d give my life to make theirs better. I was never actually going to do it, but the ideations were there. She emphasized the value of me in her and our son’s life over financial security.
These are vulnerability. Vulnerability is not “baby I gotta tell you something I can’t stop touching my dick.”
I can't help you
My girlfriend loves to have sex and I love to bang her of course. But recently I’ve been crying in her arms over fear that I’m not a good enough boyfriend. I’ve been doing lots of good stuff for her as far as dates and everything are concerned, she says I’m the best sex she’s ever had and I can tell she’s telling the truth. I’m also on steroids so everything is better physique and sex wise. But idk, I feel like a total homosexual crying twice now in front of her. I can’t control my emotions it’s been this way since I was born. I can’t control my laughter or tears at all ever. She asks me “what’s wrong?” And I don’t know what to say. I just want to watch tv with her, go on some dates, get to know her family better and have sex. I let her initiate the sex and she is grateful for that, we’ve banged like 3 days in a row now at nights. I constantly offer to do nice things for her and sometimes they just don’t work out, and I feel awful.
>also I’m the only one who says “I love you”. She says she isn’t on that level yet. Imagine how that feels? The person you love doesn’t say it back. And so you turn into an emotional crybaby. A 210 Lbs 6’1 hairy crybaby. And I still love her. We are going to see eachother today tmw and Wednesday. We just got back from a family vacation she crashed the last couple of days flew down and everything.
Sorry for the blogpost but I refuse to go to therapy. I’m convinced it makes people moronic.
Oh look at that. Another steroid taker fools a woman into being with him when in reality he's an emotional cry baby b***h and basically a woman. Typical and pathetic.
I mog you and I didn’t fool anyone, she likes it quite a lot and so do I frankly. Perhaps you have a misconception about anabolic androgenic steroids and what they do.
>I’m the only one who says “I love you”
This hits home hard....
Yeah this happens in my relationship too, I just don't say it now and I'm open to meeting someone else.
hey.
as a femanon, I think your efforts are very sweet and I would definitely appreciate them immensely. your feelings are not just a "blogpost".
my boyfriend is sometimes emotionally constipated, and I think part of the issue is in communicating differing love languages or just trying to understand his cultural background and talking about why I think some things should change.
like he didn't invite me to a family event because he was too shy to ask so I got upset about that and let him know that he needs to speak up more. He is also shy about showing affection in public or just in general - so I let him know that it hurts me over time when I feel ignored when showing affection. I also like to make my boyfriend shy in public when I hug him or something because there is nothing perverted about it and I enjoy teasing him and he deserves it. Gradually he has gotten used to it.
It could be that your girlfriend shows affection in different ways. Or it could be that she is emotionally constipated and needs a nudge. Or it could be that she is not as emotionally needy - some people just don't inherently have as much of a need for emotional connection in a relationship. This is all stuff you should talk about.
Also it is okay to cry. I hate making my boyfriend cry because of something I did. If your girlfriend cares, she will listen. If she is emotionally constipated, she might process things and show a change later. Or, she may respond immediately. Just as long as she's trying, try to notice those things. If she isn't trying, that's unfortunate.
also try to not use steroids. they're not healthy.
Thank you for this
you are fat irl
ye
steroids are healthy, especially tren
ywnbaw
Get out
Get out.
troony
>try not to use steroids
ywnbaw.
>. But recently I’ve been crying in her arms
Yeah it's literally over.
its literally the only thing that will forever put a guy in the friendzone, it is crying
I once tore my fricking kneecap out of my socket playing football, and the girl i liked was watching. Did I cry, no. Was it the worst pain ive ever felt you bet
NEVEr. CRY. INFRONT OF A FEMALE UNLESS ITS UR MOM
>Mom dies while you're young
>Now can no longer have any vulnerabilities nor be open about what little feelings you do have
>100% virginity rate among single father children
>>Now can no longer have any vulnerabilities nor be open about what little feelings you do have
Go cry in the woods, mother nature will be there to comfort you. You don't need some roastie's low EQ/IQ to help you subside those feelings.
i once jizzed in the woods. i seeded gaia. while watching porn on my phone of course
Just once? N00b. I was known as the Forest Fapper from 4chinz for a good while.
This is such a gay and moronic opinion. Maybe it's because I like women, too, but I love when my husband is vulnerable with me. Usually when he cries (which doesn't happen too often) we get to have sloppy emotional sex which is my favorite. I opened him up emotionally so much and I feel so honored that he trusts me so much with his vulnerable side after everything he's been through. It isn't healthy to repress your emotions holy frick the cortisol alone ages you like milk and inflames the frick out of your body. Just man up and face your feelings instead of pushing them down like a pathetic little b***h
>Verification not required.
Stop. Right. There
when you uttered the phrase "sloppy emotional sex" you actually killed my boner (i had a boner because im browsing pornhub and IST at the same time)
What we have here is a female who wants control, a dominant b***h, an anomaly. What you want is to have a weak man, a beta, because then atleast he will be too weak to leave you
Just admit that when your man cries you know it turns you off, hes a little b***h, he would be buckbroken in the streets if a man looked your way
And your man is probably a manlet midget aswell
>so addicted to porn he can't even communicate without watching it
>giving relationship advice
>Browses porn
So you admit you're a pathetic incel then? Sad
My husband is the sexually dominant one and loves holding me down and taking what he wants from me. And I let him because that's my duty as his wife. And because I like it.
He's also 6'5 with broad shoulders, gorgeous face, and good bone structure, a full head of hair, and hung like a stallion. And that's without mentioning how good of a provider he is for me (I cook from scratch and take care of the home and our baby because that's my job), how supportive he is of me, how well he treats me, and how much I love him.
So when it's all too much, I instinctively want to take care of him (just like he does for me) and I let him put his head on my massive breasts and cry it out. And then when he's through I let him pump me full and tell me I'm a good girl.
Genuinely sorry you had such shit experiences with women that the idea of a woman loving her husband and wanting to pleasure him is incomprehensible to you
too much larp going on
discarded and muted
frickoff
if you cry you die. simple as
>He's also 6'5 with broad shoulders, gorgeous face, and good bone structure, a full head of hair, and hung like a stallion. And that's without mentioning how good of a provider he is for me (I cook from scratch and take care of the home and our baby because that's my job), how supportive he is of me, how well he treats me, and how much I love him.
>So when it's all too much, I instinctively want to take care of him (just like he does for me) and I let him put his head on my massive breasts and cry it out. And then when he's through I let him pump me full and tell me I'm a good girl.
Oh yeah this is a troony for sure, nvm. YWNBAW.
Everything you just said, plus the fact that you're here, and is so convinient to this context in particular is a massive statistical anomaly akin to being born.
oh no didn't ya know there's plenty of happily married females just casually browsning IST fit when they are not busy tending to their husband or 3 kids, or cooking apparently
She is totally believeable
Fricking trannies are unhinged (that's obvious) but to take that LARP that far? LMAO, yeah bro, I gotta go visit my dad (he's the CEO of the world) I'll get back to you.
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>I love my husband to be vulnerable and cry
>(which doesn't happen too often)
You're literally proving my point, you're just arguing for the sake of it.
I'm not saying you need to be a corpse, I'm just saying that crying like a homosexual all day like the OP of that message is a surefire way to get cucked. You have to be the pillar of the relationship when it comes to physical and emotional stability. The gross percentage of a female's nurturing nature is for their offspring, not for a crybaby manchild.
>resort to sensationalism because you have no counterpoint to make
discarded
to sensationalism because you have no counterpoint to make
>discarded
What? Where's the sensationalism?
>Resorting to pseudointellectual babble to avoid being genuine
I'm finished discussing this with you.
Not either anon, but I started tearing up and crying at the beginning of the relationship with my gf a lot and now I don't cry at all and we're still together. Idk why guys are so scared of crying. That soccer guy could have cried and the girl he liked could have comforted him if she was a woman of value and if she didn't she's an evil bpd roastie anyway.
hi. im the soccer guy. and i found out that the girl was INFACT a mentally ill bpd roastie low iq b***h
You did well not crying in front of her, then anon. Did your plan work? I hope you're in pursuit of better women.
I also started crying in front of my gf and I never did because she was a good person unlike my other girls I trust her. Love her and she loves me more than ever.
but she no longer loves you. You cried infront of your gf. lmao. better luck next time, now you know better
Sure anon. Whatever cope you need.
Lil homie you sound like a teenager. If you can't be vulnerable around your woman then you are in a shit relationship and/or you need therapy
youre probably autistic so you cant wrap your head around social interractions. your gf is probably a fat redditor aswell and equally as sociallly disabled as you. I guess thats a good thing, that way your abnormal brain wiring can have an abornomal relationship
meanwhile in the real world neurotypical women will absolutely friendzone any man who cries infront of them. No buts, no ifs. just facts
No fren, I'm a grown ass man with children in a 13-year marriage. Take your head out of your ass.
grown ass man ur probaby 29 and met ur wife in college or something. two autistic spergs who never fricked anybody besides each other
if she knew better she would leave ur crying ass
you write like an incel bot man
do you have any internal monologue? genuine question, for data gathering
exactly.
also, I'm the same femanon with the boyfriend earlier in this thread. I used to have a friend (female) who was very selfish. emotional vampire. I didn't catch on at first. She would constantly open up to me about very personal stuff, and the minute I did it, she said I needed therapy.
Some people are just shitty people like that who want all the attention on them. Those people are ass and won't like having others open up to them - just dump them. they're not good people to invest your life in.
Taking advice about females from a female
Not today b***h. Frickoff and go watch your "boyfriend" aka friendzoned cuck cry some more
Black person
Black person lover
get out
Get out
bad incel
go stand in the corner until you learn to be nice
Sad but true
>be me
>no dad
>abusive step dad and step brother (both physically and sexually)
>mom is a foot mat who is completely emotionally unavailable
>move out and live with a drug dealer in a crack house for years
>be tormented by hate and guilt my entire childhood and young adult life
>start dating qt 17yo catholic virgin at 19
>the kindest girl I’ve ever met
>literally couldn’t get up bc of my fricked association with sex
>inb4 she’s not a real catholic if she fricked before marriage
>she was patient and caring, and listened to and helped me move past everything
>relationship is still strong 6 years later
> planning on how and when I’m going marry this girl
If you fall for the meme where stoicism means being a rock to everyone including your woman you will lead a lonely life. Stop being a homosexual and ask her for help if something seriously haunts you and she will be there if she’s worth a damn
hahaha implying anything can make life less lonely
you think having a gf or wife means having a friend for life? ma Black person she can drop you any fricking time she wants. Oh you got 3 kids together? DIVORCED.
LIfe is loneliness get used to it. but you will be more lonely if you cry infront of girls because i guarantee they will leave you alone
She won’t leave me because I provide value to her. We’re both open about our expectations for each other and we both work hard to fulfill those expectations. I won’t get to a point where I’d rather sit on my ass and drink while she bloats up bc I’m not a bitter homosexual like you two, I’m comfortable with my emotions. I have found that diamond in the rough of good women among these detestable prostitutes, one who has helped pull me out of my darkest depths and find God. And I pray that you find the same and change.
>have you cried in front of her
Yes, when talking through the confusion and pain that my rapist step dad caused me, and the confusion over why my mother would allow such a monster into her life.
Good for you anon. Glad you got through it and found a good girl to help you. Hope you two make it together
It sounds like your mother is just an evil b***h and there’s nothing else you can do except cut her iff
Beep boop, are you a robot? You sound like you are programmed
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also i dont give a frick if u found some virgin religious girl
that shit doesnt exist in real life. thats an anomaly and you sound naive as frick
try dating a real female, one that isnt brainwashed into being a religious submissive, and youll quickly find out how far being emotionally open will take you
>Mental illness projecting from incel
but have you cried in front of her?
step dad and step brother (both physically and sexually)
no homo
That’s nice anon. Break the cycle of shit, best luck to ya
>I also started crying
You'll never know because women are social creatures by nature and KNOW that shaming their men for being emotionally visible is a social death sentence. It is verboten unless they're venting to their closest friend, even then, it's still a touchy subject. As soon as you ugly-face cry in a context where it's not fitting (a loved one died in front of you) and/or do it too often you'll just activate her female lizard brain that'll see you as a weak person and thus you'll lose her attraction.
They say a man can only cry when his cat or dog dies. My dad is oldschool, and the only time iver seen him cry was when our 18 year old cat died
and yes, that guy lost his gf. he just doesnt know it yet
Who is they? You mean ~~*they*~~ who want you to go to therapy?
but hes a fat redditor and his gf is a 3/10 landwhale with pimples
It never even began
She’s actually 5’0 and 95 Lbs i overhead press her and carry her all the time and have sex in mid air maybe you can try it sometime weird homosexual
shes 5'0? i bet youre a 5'5 midget too then?
manlet frick
>She’s actually 5’0 and 95 Lbs i overhead press her and carry her all the time and have sex in mid air maybe you can try it sometime weird homosexual
Literally nobody gives a frick, you cry like a b***h infront of her nonstop. It's only a matter of time before you get cucked
Post body (you) won’t
>Post body (you) won’t
Alright, post yours now you fat fricking Black person crybaby.
>185cm in the evening
i know the guy whose replying to you is some fat reddit manlet with pimples and glasses
you nuked him your pic, its literally GG
>5 feet tall
Enjoy your genetic trash gf
If your gf leaves over that she was never your gf to begin with, it was just your turn.
You dumby. This is some neurotic shit. You're fricking her, she enjoys it, you're good enough.
Lol fair enough this is what too much seinfeld does to a homie ig
>biggest homosexual in the thread is a roider
like poetry
Maybe you should stop pinning if it makes you this emotional. Imagine showing this post to your gf, c'mon man.
>I refuse to go to therapy
You're literally using your gf as a therapist. It sounds like you desperately need to talk to someone anon, why not make that person NOT the same person who decides whether you get sex or not?
Kek fricking pathetic honestly bro just break up with her, godamn being a virgin single is less embarrassing than this shit
hahahahahaahhahahahahahah
fricking roidtroonys man.
homosexual post
My friend, get your estrogen, progesterone, estradiol and prolactin tested. If your emotions are all screwy while roiding one or more of those is almost certainly out of whack.
As a man never cry in front of anyone, be it you wife , family. You'll be interpreted as weak and made fun of when not around.
If you really still want to cry , cry in a closed space where you're alone
Get your prolactin checked , prolactomania make you emotionally sensitive, but as a man you should be able to wear it off.
A MAN must never cry
get your estrogen and prolactin tested. i was sensitive as a kid and it turns out both my T and E2 are naturally high. in adulthood my schizoid apathy drowns out the mental effects of E2 though.
>I feel like a total homosexual crying twice now in front of her
Black person you need to cut that shit out immediately
Get your bloodwork done, your hormones are out of balance and roiding is probably making things much worse
Don't bother with therapy, open up to some bros if you have any, go out for some beers and a chat.
Frick, talk to your parents if you have to and can. Your mother is the ONLY woman in the world you should ever cry in front of.
HAHAHAHA HOLY SHIT.
IT'S FRICKING OVER FOR YOU.
My wife's is unironically higher than mine. Need to get my T tested.
women are only capable of being horny 7 days each month around their period
if your woman is horny outside of that 7 day time window, then that means she has serious mental problems and I suggest you run away
High but shes fat so I don't have any urge to touch her sexually. haven't fricked my wife in about 2 years.
I am in shape and not fat. I lift 4-5 times a week.
I have accepted I will have in a sexless marriage for the rest of my life.
Dude what?! How big is she?
If I were you, I would give her an ultimatum about her weight. Neither of you (especially not you since you're not being a fat lazy pig) deserves a sexless marriage. Help her lose the weight and give her a deadline (in your head or you can tell her) to improve and then stick to your guns if she makes no meaningful changes
Get her on ozempic boy
femanon here. we only get turned on for chad
My ex gf had a really high sex drive when we first started dating. Then not too long after we move in together, it completely fell off a cliff. It really fricked up my self esteem, because I thought it was my fault. It definitely was in some ways, because I clearly wasn't turning her on anymore, but it just destroyed my own self worth because no matter how hard I tried with her, it never got back to what it used to be. At the end we were fricking close to once a week.
Shit is taking forever to build my confidence back up with women. Thank you for reading my blog.
thats because you spend too much time around your gf.
The maxium upper daily limit you can spend with your gf is like 3-4 hours pr day. Anything more than that and it turns into a friendzone
This is true for marriages aswell
>Spend the rest of your life together in marriage
>Don't actually spend your life together.
This ends in cheating.
its called having a job, its called having hobbies, its called having friends
if you have these things as a normal human should have, then you naturally wont spend more than 2-3 hours a day MAX with your gf/wife, as it should be in a healthy relationship
That makes more sense. Still though if you can't stand eachother for an extended period of time such as,
>Go on vacation together
>Realize this is the most time you've spent together
>Vacation is not fun anymore
Lmao exactly
A tale as old as time
>be me think about my girl nonstop, want to be with her constantly
>actually spend more than 3 hours together, almost want to kill myself
Same for me, except it's 2 times a week as of now. Before we moved in together, we met 2 times a week and had sex at least twice each time. Decrease in sex aside, everything else is great. And all my older friends from work said the same thing, women don't want sex as much after marriage, and then even less after the first birth. Not sure what to do about it, it's getting more and more frustrating
You know what's even more important for a woman's libido then how sexy she thinks her partner is...? How sexy she thinks SHE is. Is there any chance that you guys' gfs let themselves go and don't consider themselves that attractive anymore? This shit happens all the time.
No, if anything she lost a little bit of weight and is generally skinny with a really nice, if untrained body. But her health went to shit in the past year, it's one meme problem after the other. She won't accept my advice of "just eat better, fix muscle knots and then exercise". I'm positive it would fix her problems, as it did all of mine, but she won't listen to me. Why the frick are women like this, bros?
My girlfriend's sex drive has diminished a ton over the years. We have sex about once every 3 weeks now. and it's basically torture. I got her off the pill hoping it would improve but it only improved a little bit. She gets resentful that I'm always asking for sex or asking her to help me jerk off but I hating watching porn like a degen. We're long distance now and it's actually easier because I feel like I can jerk off in peace, but as soon as she's going to be in bed every night I am not going to be able to help myself.
pro tip: steroids will make your gf horny.
try sprinkling a little anavar in her drink and watch her turn into a sex beast
>argue with anecdotes
>get dunked by anecdotes
>well actually you're not real
IST never ceases to impress with moronic, schizophrenic relationship advice. I've been happily married for 10 years and absolutely wouldn't be if I paid attention to anything you morons said about love and sex.
it just dawned on me that all these homosexuals who think crying infront of girls are all some pajeets with arranged marriages or murican amish tards with virgin girls
jesus christ man... dont fricking talk about how you know females when youre in a relationship with a sexslave who has no choice but to be with you
You can totally cry infront of your girl, they love that shit
>T. guy with imported filipino wife who he locks in his basement and threatens to deport if she acts up
>pick up my gf and carry her to bed when I want sex
>only says no if it's late and she has to sleep
>not amazing in bed but she tries
no such thing as too tired 4 sex
>builtfat
so just fat then
I was at the beginning but I was fasting when I met her, but now I'm otter and still tired. I have abs and I still can't keep up, I think I'm 17% now?
The chick I just broke up with definitely didn't have a libido like mine. I need a chick who wants dick everyday.
They're rare and you'll complain they're a prostitute since they've fricked so much before you anyway god speed
God damn I am laughing so hard reading this thread some of you are pathetic porn addicted loser coomers. Thank God I am single, I wouldn't ever date a moron like most of you. Some of you will end up sad and alone and the idea of that makes me laugh so hard.
Nope. Got the opposite goin on. She's a skinnyfat and works out 1/wk and I'm badgermode working out 5/wk. She doesn't want sex much and I'm a horny bastard.
Can someone redpill me on IUDs? What are the effects of an IUD on a woman? My gf has an IUD since before I've known her, what was she like before she got it in? Sorry I didn't pay atention in sex ed
Never had an IUD but was on the pill for a couple of years before I got married so my husband and I didn't have to use condoms. It's HRT, simple as. It absolutely destroyed my sex drive and mental health and took months to get out of my state. Birth control is poison, just use a condom and plan around fertile days instead
Wife has never been happier since getting her IUD out.
Sex drive is honestly probably the least impirtant thing to change. They just wreck hormonal levels and make everything generally worse.
You guys realize that you can get a cupper IUD?
I can't imagine ever crying in front of my gf. I haven't cried in about 20 years, but if I do it won't be anywhere near her.
current gf's sex drive is insane (everything I see listed here and more, almost every day of the week) but she also sleeps with exes and goes to orgies, also doesn't want kids... my previous gf wouldn't even touch my cum but wanted to have and raise many children. be careful what you all wish for
THIS.
Gf is fun, cooks chef lvl food, great body, but doesn't want kids and barely works out and has near 0% sex drive and no kinky but loves to swallow. We haven't had sex in a monthand the pattern is now ~monthlyish sex~ I think I'm slowly dying. She wont try new stuff, doean't want any roughness to sex. dating 3years now and it's only been like this for a year. I do kettlebells and functional strength (following Mark Wildman almost religiously)and my body is ready. She won't accept any coaching or instructionb and id I see her using bad form an I'M THE JERK for pointing it out and then she auto-ends her workout
My girl hasn't initiated sex in the decade that we've been together, but im would engage any time i did. But honestly i have zero interest in sex at this point so i don't bother anymore
All the girls I ever dated had almost non-existant sex drives
I'm probably ugly as hell
Shit sucks
"Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
"For what the flesh desires is opposed to the Spirit, and what the Spirit desires is opposed to the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to prevent you from doing what you want."
This is a nice sentiment, but doesn't really help when you're in a committed or married relationship, don't want divorce, and stil have difficulty with sex.
Sex was only made for procreation, did God design your body with a natural means of birth control? Stick to cuddling.
Did god design your body with a natural means to cook food? Stick to raw.
Did god design your body with a natural means to stay warm? Stick to naked.
You could go on like that for a while.
>mentions things necessary to survive when we are speaking of sex for pure pleasure which is not needed to survive
Your addiction and love for the flesh is speaking, turn to God.
Most sex is inherently infertile because of women's ovarian cycles. Yet humans have sex outside of that brief period if fertility, unlike many animals. It's more correct to say that the point of sex is intimacy and pair bonding between the couple, with kids as a happy side effect.
Due to having a consciousness and having a much greater tendency for pleasure seeking and entertainment activities. Still doesn't make it natural to seek casual and frequent sex. There are other ways to bond, and kids aren't a side effect, they are the main purpose of having sex or else the creator would have made a way to give birth to your own kind through other means.
"Do not love the world or the things in the world. The love of the Father is not in those who love the world, 16 for all that is in the world—the desire of the flesh, the desire of the eyes, the pride in riches—comes not from the Father but from the world. 17 And the world and its desire[a] are passing away, but those who do the will of God abide forever."
It is your own choice if you wish to stay down here and indulge in material pleasure and do not have the vision to see something greater to strive for. I am not purely Christian or speaking from a Christian stand point either, I have read various points of views and it all points to the same thing, a universal truth; any desire/passion is harmful for your spirit and the ability to obtain divinehood. Good luck and God bless you, you have free will after all.
>the creator
Opinon discarded
So the whole universe came from nothing through the big bang? How can something come from nothing? You may think you are smart for rejecting God because he is unperceivable to you, but the nonsense of the whole universe coming from nothing is fine to you.
Where did god come from?
God always existed, it's the crux of this argument. Since something can't come from nothing, it must have been God who started the universe. it's a circular argument that posits no real explanation and just labels the unknown origin of existence as God and now you have to read these books and follow these rules.
I asked who made God. Might as well say the big bang always existed. moronic take
There will never be an answer to that from a theist, to them God always was and always will be, despite somehow also being the beginning and the end.
Explain how nothing can come from something and how nothing can create law and order to the universe.
Black person you were replying to me. I believe in god and you are moronic, I don't need to explain shit to you, and you trying to say moronic shit makes us all look bad. I believe in god, thats all, while you are coping with fight science by looking like a moron.
What makes more sense? A magical spiritual being coming from nothing... or a purely material world coming from nothing and somehow having laws to its universe, developing animals and humans with specific traits, defense mechanisms, etc.
If God created everything in the universe, this includes space time if one follows einsteins theory of relativity. Ergo he exists outside our experience of time, no beginning, no end. Only him. The Alpha and Omega.
Big bang has always been here homosexual. Big bang is god.
How can something come from nothing?
You're right. Therefore god doesn't exist.
With your logic the universe doesn't exist either.
A magical being that goes beyond time and space is more logical than a pure material time and space bound universe coming from nothing.
Oh yeah the jpeg cope, from a moron
Where did your argument go buddy?
Delete the 2 pixel version do this doesn't happen in future as a neutral party that did kill some of your momentum.
Illogical fallacy. Come up with a counter argument fast, it's getting sad.
I'm not the anon you were replying to!
(You)
>Where did your argument go buddy?
Anon you evolutionary culdesac, post the basedjack when you've earned it. Not when you have no argument.
I wrote basedjack even with my phone failing me I still write circles around you.
Ahhhhhhhhh I see now it was the board itself. Let's see If it also changes this: basedjack.
>Anon you evolutionary culdesac, post the basedjack when you've earned it. Not when you have no argument.
Have a monument to both my and God's victory over this derailed thread.
Not any of the previous anons, but you've missed something that fits within the logic
We agree that "Something cannot come from nothing" because this does not fit within the causality laws evident in the universe as we know it.
Therefore, you say that God must exist, and must have always existed, so that he could create "something from nothing" by means that are not of this universe
BUT, if we accept that the universe has not always existed, then we can agree that the "state before the universe" is NOT the universe, and therefore logically not necessarily bound by the same logical and causal rules that we observe in the universe.
Therefore, "before" the existence of the universe, it is not impossible that "something could come from nothing"
Therefore, REGARDLESS of whether or not God exists (he still might), he is not a singular necessary logical terminus to explain the beginning of causality and the universe as we know it.
If we are to employ Ockham's razor for simplicity, introducing a being or force with responsibility requires a further "invention" than the possibility that it simply could happen.
Anyone god doesn't exist in our reality, he doesn't play by our rules. He is a being that exists without time. He can still travel through space-time, take form in it, and shape it to his desires. For 2000 years men who have come to my conclusions have thought and argued over this, yet none have disproved it.
*Anon frick my phone.
>Inb4 phone posting
The frick else am I supposed to do on an exercise bike.
It actually hasn't. You can't have something happen If it's always been here. Besides a widely accepted idea in the widespread theory of the big bang is that there indeed could be multiple and we would have no idea of knowing as a vast void surrounds our observable universe. But you wouldn't know that as you don't actually read the scientific papers you worship.
bruh even if some supernatural thing created this universe, why is your religion even special?
go fix your pedophile church leader problem and then come back about how superior your worldview is to everyone else's.
I know jumping to wild conclusions is your thing but cool it dude. Not everyone who believes in god likes your specific book, not everything has a grand purpose, his ways are not our ways, in all probability he hates us, etc.
Whether or not these things are necessary to survive has absolutely nothing to do with the point you made or my analogies. You are just trying to come up with something completely unrelated to disprove my analogies. Also, you are not even doing a good job at it, because cooking food is not actually necessary to survive. You could survive perfectly well on raw meat and fruits.
Are you the raw chicken anon from the other thread?!
Its pretty good, last night after sex she looked at me deeply and said “I give you permission to frick me whenever, wherever, and however you want” that made my dick diamonds again and went for round 2, but she is still shy in initiating, wish she would just unzip me out of nowhere thatd be fun
I do and it's kind of shit, I'm not humblebragging, I often feel like a woman who has sex only because she feels like she's supposed to, which is funny, because I'm a man.
I think it's kinda related to the fact that I would really want to frick something else from time to time and I get really tired of having sex with the same woman all the time, I'm just so not into it rn.
Anons…I come in a few minutes generally. I want to last longer but how do I do it?
deathgrip your dick and jack off 3x a day. Also helps if you actually dont find her attractive and she is loose as a bucket
Luckily for you there are dozens of solutions for ED.
>thick condoms
>desensitisation spray
>edging
>stamina trainer Fleshlight
>deep breaths and pressure to your taint when about to cum
>just fricking cum and go for round 2
Try having delayed ejaculation, now that's a different type of hell
That causes the dick to lose sensitivity. He might get soft with that shit. You're assuming he is healthy. You missed a wiener ring for some reason.
round 2 and experience at fricking
persist
My gf's sex drive is almost non-existent which is great because so is mine. We have sex like once a month.
Yeah all my gfs were like that and it's annoying. Sunna maybe if they were super hot like 9 or10 but even then might gets boring fast.
Yeah my ex wife would get angry at me if we didn't have sex at least once a day
She'd come into my office at random times of the day (work from home due to covid) wearing a sexy costume or nothing at all and then try to seduce me
One strange thing is that she didn't care for foreplay at all, she just wanted my dick
it's normal, some people just derive pleasure from pleasing others
Ive dated a girl like this, turned out she was so mentally ill that she equated sex to love and couldn’t comprehend that anyone cared for her if they wouldn’t stick their dick in her, broke up with her because she had melt downs whenever I turned her down.
Reading the replies here, some of you are in for a nasty shock when you get into your later middle age and your other half shuts down due to medical issues or just lack of interest.
If she is unwilling or unable to put out and you have anywhere from 5-20 years if active libido ahead of you, then you are going to be in for a frustrating time if you remain faithful.
Hoping for once or twice a year might be unreasonably optimistic...
Joe do you deal with it anon?
It's getting increasingly frustrating. I make sure that there's still body contact (cuddles etc), which she has responded to a bit, but I have given up on trying to initiate.
In the meantime I have a very pretty 25 y.o. on my case (no obvious dad issues yet) which is slowly breaking my restraint over the situation. We never married (only really showing itself as a problem now) so if I didn't have two teenagers to keep a stable household for, I might well have cut and run by now.
Go for it anon. Let your teens know it's not ok to be frigid. Even if she caught you, what will she do? Not have sex with you? https://youtu.be/mxsJM_H__E4
Life is short man.
>gf wants sex daily
>I'm unironically good with 2 times a month
>she's attractive, I just have extremely low drive
>she gets moody if I don't initiate for too long, so it feels like a chore
I've never experienced the feeling of being repeatedly shut down
try cardio fatty, you should be able to pound away for hours
I do cardio in fact I'm not builtfat anymore. I got fat for bulking (like a moron) now I'm sub 20% for sure, and probably 17% now? I can seee my abs but I could lose some weight.
As low as fricking possible and I hate it. She hasn't initiated sex in years and when I try myself I'm always met with the infamous "maybe later." We are both relatively fit and in our late 20's but only have sex maybe twice a month if that. Even when we do have sex she always just lays there motionless and basically let's me jerk off with her body. She at least kinda let's me do whatever I want like rim her butthole a lot which I love but I long for any kind reaction or participation. I eat her out constantly but she'll only suck my dick like once every 2 years. She says shes just lazy but I know it's because she doesn't really want to frick me and it really kills my confidence and motivation. I'd never cheat and she literally has no opportunity to either so I know that's not the problem. I just want to feel desired...
>Even when we do have sex she always just lays there motionless and basically let's me jerk off with her body.
God, why do they fricking do that? Like no honey, it isn't fun to frick a warm Fleshlight when I was expecting to have sex the woman I love.
And god fricking forbid you try and introduce new and exciting things into the bedroom. I propose the idea of erotic roleplay? "No, I'm not good at roleplaying so it wouldn't be fun for me.". I suggest we try new positions? "Nah, that sounds like work.". I ask her to wear a fricking cowprint bikini? "Thats fricking weird Anon, I'm not doing that."
Christ, the things we do for love sometimes.
You love her, does she love you when you're needs aren't being met?
I really want to take pictures and videos of her naked or me fricking ber but she is just so absolutely against it. I can get her to do pretty much anything milk toast if I'm smooth with it but I'll never achieve the higher sexual fantasies in life. How do I turn my girlfriend into a bawd?
Just hide the camera? Duh captain obvious.
Samegay
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Seeing all these stories about people with gf's yet little to no fricking is depressing as hell. Why the hell would you subject yourself to the awfulness of women if you don't even get warm holes in return?
I don’t get pussy, I never get pussy. When I’m healthy BMI I’d get hit on but I’m such an aloof manic moron that I’d always frick it up. No sex trying semen retention best streak was like a month but the urge to coom is intense. Starting lifting but not sure it’s going to fix my lack of confidence or lack of a job/life, now on the low of a manic depressive low.
easy, just shut the frick up and go with the flow. Your mouth is your greatest enemy
My ex wife has endometriosis. It's a pretty fricked up disease where tissue that's similar to the stuff growing inside of the uterus grows outside of it. Including towards the intestines.
As a result, her periods tended to be quite painful, she was constantly in some sort of pain. Her sex drive, while initially moderate dropped off after half a year when her condition kept progressing. Sex itself seemed painful, very moody, not feeling it. Most times when we would have sex due to the tissue growth in and around the vegana it was quite painful for her and we stopped early.
Long story short, I could go for a chick that wants to have sex more than once a blue moon.
People should be more aware of endometrios, that shit can get out of hand fast.
Sounds awful. Why even get in a relationship when you cannot provide intimacy?
We found out about that condition after a year and a half or so. Before that it just seemed like she just had bad periods and I'd have to work around that.
After that relationship, I definitely won't undervalue how important being intimate and sex is for me. After you get rejected for the nth time, but you excuse it because she's clearly not doing well, it's starts to eat away at you.
>more than you after working out
you mean her sex drive is higher than you despite you working out, or hers is higher after she worked out compared to your sex drive when you worked out?
My gf can't come from penetration alone. I make things work usually, but have any anons dealt with things like this and have any tips?
Get her a vibrator
Eat her out
Learn how to finger her
Buy a vibrating wiener ring
These are the options that come to mind. Godspeed, anon
Are you hitting her spot ? Try different positions and angles. My GF comes the most from missionary but not straight away. We just frick, changing the position and angle slightly every now and then and when she says I'm hitting the spot I keep that position and then she can come pretty much every time.