>husband is trying to lose weight but has a sweet tooth. >we go out to get dessert somewhere after dinner

>husband is trying to lose weight but has a sweet tooth
>we go out to get dessert somewhere after dinner
>Stop at bubble tea/ice cream place
>husband says he doesn’t want to get anything since he needs to lose weight
>I just get a bubble tea, husband sneaks a few sips from my drink
>we drive home, husband decides to stop at Dairy Queen, says he’ll just get a small cone

>he decides to get the medium cone, which is pretty big

>I sneak a taste in the car, and he gets upset that I wanted a bite, even though he snuck sips of my bubble tea earlier
>Meanwhile, he said he didn’t want any dessert since he was trying to lose weight
>I say, in a friendly tone “Gee you’re the one who didn’t want to get any dessert because you wanted to lose weight, and yet you get a big ice cream cone?”

>He says “You know what, you’re right”. Then suddenly takes the ice cream cone and dumps it out the car window

>Well shit, this just got awkward
>Feel like shit the whole drive home

Now he doesn’t want to be in the same room as me

Shit guys, I really hurt my husband’s feelings. I don’t even care how my husband looks, I was just jokingly responding to what he said earlier. How can I make this up to him?

  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He sounds like a fucking manchild. Idk what to tell you, you decided to marry a manchild.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      He’s a good man. I feel really shitty about the whole thing. I didn’t intend to hurt him.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        He may be a good man in other ways, but emotionally he is an undisciplined, selfish, hypocritical manchild. You both seem kinda dumb and immature, tbqh. Who goes to get dessert when they/their SO is trying to lose weight? You both sound like fat dumbasses

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          We weren’t solely going out for just dessert. We were walking around this downtown area that has trendy shops, cafes, etc. It was just to get out after work/dinner. We stopped into a bubble tea/ice cream place that just opened up, and that’s when hubby said he didn’t want dessert since he wanted to lose weight. I just went to get a bubble tea but with a small amount of sugar.

          Then when we drove home, he decided to stop at DQ and got an ice cream cone.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Is anyone else reminded of the underwater weighing test posts? She keeps repeating the same exact shit, including making sure to point out that it's "trendy"

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        He's a manchild

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It seems your husband is struggling with losing weight, the temptation of eating desert sent him over the edge. The reason he is mad is not because of you but because he is going through withdrawl. It's hard to stop doing something your addicted to like drugs alcohol or sweets. Your best bet will be to comfort him but call him out on all his shit, this will make him feel more responsible for his actions, if he says something like he doesnt want ice cream cause he wants to lose weight but changes his mind due to temptation, it's up to you as his second in command to keep him on track, to keep him thinking clearly to voice your concern for him and suggest better alternatives. If you really care about him you wouldn't let him succumb to the temptation of food and you wouldn't let a withdrawl tantrum shake you because if you do if you give in to him and sympathy then the Obesity wins. Trust me I went through the same thing as a pot head and alcoholic.
        PS. Your Hubbys attitude needs to be checked. Honeslty, you shouldn't have to deal with helping someone elses problems you should be with a good, fit and healthy man, a man that can make love to you multiple times a day, a man with enough stamina to rock your world and cook you breakfast, a man who will always treat you right, protect you and never let sone petty squable over ice cream ruin your night. That man is me. Leave your Husband and come be with me. Lifes too short. Would you like to see my penis for insurance?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Fuck you sugar tastes good

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        it's called moderation idiot

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Little head. Works everytime.

    "C'mon baby, I know I messed up. Come here, lemme clear this up."

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >>we go out to get dessert somewhere after dinner
    Fat people activity.
    Way to help your lardass hubby Mrs. Lardass.
    Why don't you cook healthy dinners at home for cheaper than "going out" to eat garbage food at restaurants? If want to "go out", then go out for a long walk.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, try to go to a diff coutry, if u can. Walking. Better, rolling.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      We do cook dinner at home and go on walks almost every day when we’re able to. We were getting dessert at a trendy bubble tea/ice cream spot that opened up in our area, and then hubby said he didn’t want any bubble tea or ice cream since he felt he gained weight and wanted to lose it.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Why did you go get some and tempt him with it then? Do you also bring recovering alcoholics to bars?

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You didn’t call him a fat fuck but you did call him on his bullshit, so he’s being a pussy about it for sure.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    So he was being an asshole and you called him out and now he's sulking? Lmao

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It wasn't a joke, you were mad about him being hypocritical and called him on it, and he didn't know how to respond to it because you normally don't call him out on it. Now he's realizing all the times you were capable of calling him out on it but chose not to. It was easy to pretend that you didn't notice it, but it's difficult to understand how you could notice it and pretend you didn't - until now.

    But it'll pass, don't press it, just let him take a minute. It's not that bad.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Well it’s 10pm at night. He’s now downstairs playing Call of Duty with his friends online and I’m just chilling in the bedroom. Not sure if I should approach him, or just leave him be.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You should masturbate and show us how wet your pussy is. It'll be exciting!

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What is it with women desperately trying to pretend they're not mad or seething?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Because often times when they express they’re mad, they’re told they’re just being a controlling bitch

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Okay roastie

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Which is true.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            There you go. Lose-lose situation. Even if it comes from a genuine place of concern, the guy will always see the woman as nagging and bitching, simply because of they don’t want to hear the message itself especially from that specific messenger.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You didn't hurt anyone, he said you were right.
    I did this before with some trousers my gf made, I just threw them away in front of her and she felt shitty.
    Women don't get that men aren't being rude, were just practical.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      My gf didn't like***

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah but he was very stoic and quiet the whole drive back and then told me to leave him alone once he parked in the driveway. Sooo…

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Só say youre sorry if you offended him and you didn't mean it, end of story.
        Then have sex and let him creampie, that's it. Men aren't hard to figure out.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I apologized profusely, but all he could respond with is “It’s ok”, or “I’m fine” and then avoid me.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah if he actually was upset and acted like that he's a bitch. I think you're interpreting his reaction as though he's a woman. I probably would throw it out in his situation too, not out of spite but to definitively change course.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    your husband needs to learn how to manage his emotions better, and lose weight as well.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Whelp, husband just came into the bedroom to shower and change into sleepwear. Then he grabbed his headphones, pillow and ipad to go back downstairs to the living room while not saying anything to me. He doesn’t want to be around me, I guess.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You need to go worship his cock. That's how you will show him you love him.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        May I worship your cock and drink from it as if it were a fountain?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >May I worship your cock and drink from it as if it were a fountain?
          Are you a comely lass of virtue true?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      god, he's a child

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    why are modern white people such children holy shit

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      like 4 decades in a row of just fucking around

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like he has hypothyroidism and it explains the bad attitude as well. It’s normal to crave sugar but make sure he’s getting it from good sources like fresh orange juice, well cooked potatoes, vanilla ice cream, and basically anything that isn’t grains or processed. Liver and shellfish once or twice a month. Try shredding a carrot and eating that with olive oil daily as well. This should fix his obesity without much effort and drastically improve his mood

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      He’s the one who’s been cooking dinner this past week since he works different hours during the summer. I work a 9-5 graphic design job from home, why he’s been waking up at 7am to work as an athletic trainer for a high school (athletic trainer is someone who helps athletes with physical therapy and injuries, etc). He’s been coming home around 1-3 every day so he’s been making dinner.

      It’s also why I feel super guilty for saying anything about the ice cream. It wasn’t intended to be a criticism, it was just responding to what he said earlier. I should’ve just shut my mouth and let him enjoy the ice cream. He works so hard to provide for us, and I didn’t let him enjoy his ice cream.

      Even if it was calling him out on his hypocrisy, I still feel terrible that I made him depressed to the point he wants to avoid me for the rest of the night, and most likely next morning. I know he grabbed his clothes so he could get dressed in the morning without seeing me.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I know he grabbed his clothes so he could get dressed in the morning without seeing me.
        what a fucking baby

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Him being a great person doesn't mean you can't ever say anything to him. You're not at fault here since you've apologized and he's being a literal retard by sulking like a bitch and not communicating his feelings with you like a grown adult. You shouldn't feel guilty, because you technically didn't even say anything wrong since he's trying to lose weight and you called him out on this shit. I guess he knows you're right and probably he's dissatisfied with himself. You did the emotional heavy lifting and you can only wait until he gets out of this mood. Maybe then you can approach him about the issue and what made him so upset

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You both have poor impulse control and regrets, instead of having goals.
    Encourage him to actually have goals instead of impulses, by doing the same yourself.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Tell him to stop being a fucking fat ass pussy. Lol what a weakling

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You do realize that doesn't work. By saying that I guarantee you, that he'd dive face first into a pepperoni pizza face first. Chastising people is generally a bad idea if you truly want effective results. A lot of times it can make a problem worse, they'll become defensive, double down, or get so stressed out from it that they delver further into that behavior as a way to escape. Surely you nor any family member nor friend has ever face any addiction problems.

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If he can't quit ice cream, start buying Brave Robot ice cream, it's a non-dairy fat-free alternative that tastes like the real thing.

    I have a relative who was trying to lose weight and they fell in love with the stuff.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Terrible advice

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Sloppy

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He needs to go cold turkey and never eat anything sweet again.

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    "how do i make it up to my husband"
    jesus women, who taught you how to please men?
    go see him right now and suck his dick, he wont give a shit anymore halfway through
    and suck it well. swallow and everything, ask for nothing back.
    no better apology than non reciprocal blowjobs

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      There's also no reason she couldn't give a little rim job action too.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        thats borderline gay and much more daring
        OP just go fucking blow him right this instant. if he's sleeping, even better, wake him up with an apology blowjob and all's forgiven

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          There's nothing gay about a woman licking your asshole.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I’ve tried that. When he’s like this he just doesn’t want me to touch him at all. Even if I just try to hug him. When he gets into these kinds of moods it’s like he completely wants to avoid me.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous
        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          100% poof. Obviously a gay, eating his way to an early grave to stay with his wife whom he will never love. He only loves the cock. The ice cream cone is basically like a big cock he can suck on.

  18. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    cringe amerilard redditors, I bet you both look like whales. Thanks for reminding me to never respect fatties as they're always weakwilled immature retards.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I am 5’6” and weight 140 pounds. Yes I could afford to get more IST, but I generally watch what I eat. I don’t consider myself a whale. Skinnyfat yes, but I don’t crave sugary drinks or snacks throughout the day.

      Husband has a gym setup in the garage and works out 1-2 times a week

  19. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Buy him another ice cream cone?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I thought about this, but I’m worried he’d then think I’m trying to sabotage him.

      I don’t know if I should buy him a new cone and stick it in the freezer as form of apology, or if that would make him feel worse.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You can buy the cone as a form of apology. Some people here might say it’s enabling, but ultimately it’s his choice when to eat it. If it’s in the freezer, it doesn’t have to be eaten now. It can even be a goal for his weight loss. Him having poor impulse control is not your fault.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I wouldn’t apologize since you didn’t technically do anything wrong. If you wanna help you should probably just not eat unhealthy desserts in his company. It’s nice to be nice but it sounds mostly like he needs to stop being a baby.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          The fact he won’t sleep in the same room as her and won’t even talk to her is giving the vibe that he’s mad at her, even if he says “You’re right” or “I’m fine”.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        lol yeah, i'd advise against this
        it sounds like he's more ashamed of himself for buying it in the first place, this is a super risky move

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Holy shit you feeder gains goblin, the best thing you can do to help your husband trying to lose weight is set a good example and not tempt him with fucking sweets.

  20. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Temptation is very hard to resist, and sometimes the only way is avoidance. Stop driving past Dairy Queen and stock up the home fridge and freezer with lo-cal snacks.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I wasn’t the one driving.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I love this answer because it's the perfect example of a "woman response". You are responsible for the relationshi and your man just like he is responsible for you. You can't absolve yourself completely by saying "I wasn't the one driving" just like he can't just storm off and be a moron cause you were right about something. Anyway, just let it pass, but you need to talk about his childish outbursts. Don't call them childish. Don't use a shitty nagging wife tone. Do it from a place of love and of being constructive.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Don't use a shitty nagging wife tone. Do it from a place of love and of being constructive.

          How does one say it from a place of love without sounding like their nagging? Sometimes people will think the other person is “nagging” or a bitch, solely because they don’t like what they have to say, even if it’s actually in a loving tone.

          Source: The amount of times my mom would say I’m a bitch or snob simply for not liking the same things she likes

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I think it depends on both people having a certain level of understanding between which tone is which. Maturity as well -- the guy has to be able to not storm off like a moron like OP's husband...and a person like that seems to be increasingly difficult these days

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >stock up the home fridge and freezer with lo-cal snacks

      He is a grown man who can buy what he wants. He also does the majority of grocery shopping. He did stock up on halo top ice cream at one point, but he ends up eating the entire pint in one sitting, so…

  21. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >trying to lose weight
    >gets an ice cream
    Divorce him

  22. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Guys can have weird feelings regarding their weight, especially when it's commented upon by others.
    It sounds like he just had an emotional reaction to what you said. Talk with him about it, that you didn't mean it and that in a relationship it's normal to have emotional reactions to what the other one says. Say you're sorry and ask him about maybe getting a gym membership together.

  23. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dude is trying to build a discipline and lose weight, and you're acting like a true gains goblin. Why would you go somewhere to get a dessert in the first place? Don't stop at ice cream/bubble tea/sugar places to get desserts. Don't get desserts.

  24. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Tbh your husband sounds like the type that is never gonna make it. He should either man the fuck up and stop touching that shit (there are significantly better ways to satisfy one's sweet tooth than that) or just give up and accept that he is always gonna be a worthless fattoid.

  25. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    my husband
    husband
    husband
    my husband
    shit guys, my husband
    my husband

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I mean, this is literally about her husband. That being said,
      >trendy
      >trendy
      >Did I mention these places are TRENDY?? This is very significant and adds meaning and nuance to my story so I absolutely cannot avoid letting you know these places are TRENDY

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        dying

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like you’re butthurt for your lack of wife

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Dude clearly wants a husband too.

  26. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    there are more ways to lose weight than eating less and exercise, you know. People don't simply become gluttons out of the blue.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >there are more ways to lose weight than eating less and exercise, you know
      Those are the only ways you lose weight.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        ngmi

        it's your loss, not mine, ultimately. Keep torturing yourselves though.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Eating less and excersising is not torture if you enjoy it. The emotional response of doing these things should be more pleasing than gorging on junk food and being sedentary.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            getting masochistic "enjoyment" out of stress isn't good for your body or metabolism in the long run. It's just gonna get harder and harder to keep weight off. You can try to exercise forever but you'll burn out eventually.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              The body produces dopamine and seretonin when you excersise long enough which means you are guaranteed to feel good when working out. Also, you don't have to run a marathon every day to work out. Not eating food is also hard in the begnning especially if you've been a food addict but over time the desire lessens. The problem with OP's husband is that he's a sugar/food addict and she can't bring this up without hurting his feelings because he knows that it is bad for him in the long term but can't resist it when urges come.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >sugar/food addict
                and what, pray tell, could the origin of one's "sugar/food """addiction"""""? Am I meant to believe it is a disease people contract or something?

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                For many, it's a coping mechanism for people when they have negative feelings. For some, they just want the high.
                >Am I meant to believe it is a disease people contract or something?
                It's psychological. If OP's husband can't even resist buying ice cream for a day then he has issues.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Obesity is increasing
                Food quality is getting worse
                Our environment is getting worse
                People did not randomly become lazy gluttonous slobs overnight.
                Yes, food is a coping mechanism, but its not just an emotional one. Cravings are our bodies way of getting us to meet its needs. Sugar is energy, so we can reasonably assume that someone who is craving sugar is deficient in energy in some way.

                I am sure you can google that yourself.

                [...]
                It's not a disease, it's an addiction, a pleasurable, stress-releasing or otherwise beneficial habit that requires immense will power to break because the baseline for happiness becomes dependent on regularly consuming/doing it.

                When most people say something is addictive, it is a statement based in moralism. The implication is that the addicted person is that way simply because they are a weakling or morally deficient in some way. But addiction is a physical problem with physical causes.
                >requires immense will power to break
                Breaking addiction is not about "will power", but restoring physiological stability. Specific addictions say a lot about what exactly is missing. As i said above, stress, poor metabolism and energy will create a craving for sugar, because that's what the body needs to deal with it.
                >because the baseline for happiness becomes dependent on regularly consuming/doing it.
                I argue that the baseline has become chronically lowered, and addiction allows the organism to bump it up to a normal level, if only for a brief moment. It's not that addicts are euphoria chasing hedonists, but people chronically mired in stress and dysphoria and seeking to feel "normal" again.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Obesity is increasing
                >Food quality is getting worse
                >Our environment is getting worse
                >People did not randomly become lazy gluttonous slobs overnight.
                Are all right and then you say
                >Yes, food is a coping mechanism, but its not just an emotional one.
                Maybe all of the factors mentioned beforehand, along with things like increasing working hours and shittier conditions create the emotional turmoil needed to create this addiction?

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yes, you are correct. Those are absolutely major factors. What I want to emphasise is that emotional problems are deeply interconnected with physical ones. Emotional stresses of every kind, from grief, overwork, shock and so on all affect the body in a similar way; the release of stress hormones, which, when chronically elevated, cause long term damage, ageing, and most importantly, decreased metabolism.

                The dominant view today is that "doc couldn't find a physical cause, so it must be in my head". This is a dualistic way of thinking which I think is a huge mistake.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Or you could just eat less and exercise more. That is how I went from morbidly obese to normal weight without therapy, drugs, surgeries, etc. CICO works and is piss-easy once you develop a modicum of self-control.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >What I want to emphasise is that emotional problems are deeply interconnected with physical ones. Emotional stresses of every kind, from grief, overwork, shock and so on all affect the body in a similar way; the release of stress hormones, which, when chronically elevated, cause long term damage, ageing, and most importantly, decreased metabolism.
                Yeah, you can't seperate the hardware from the software because the two are interconnected. My point is that some "copes" are stronger and more stable than other copes. Eating junk food, playing vidya, and staying sedentary are all rational responses to emotional and physical instability, however it becomes detrimental to your health as you use it more and more. Things like eating healthy and excersising are also other ways of coping, but the difference is that it is much harder to overdo those things because they are not instananeously pleasurable and they actually help your body and mind.

                The problem with addicts is that they have to overcome a huge hump mentally and physically. They do not have the conception of being mentally and physically stable without the use of short term pleasure. It truly is painful when they try to wean themselves off whatever they are addicted to and because they can't imagine this pain going away they can fall back into their habits very easily. This is worse when they use substances like heroin or cocaine which are 100x as worse as food or vidya and are much, much harder to remove dependence.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Perhaps, instead of trying to wean themselves off of the addiction, removing the stressors would kill the need for it in the first place?

                >You can try to exercise forever but you'll burn out eventually.
                Yeah, when you fucking die. Humans need exercise, dude, all mammals do, we've just engineered it out of our lives to the point that we have to actively add it back in.

                How many people continue to exercise at 40? 50? Or beyond? If you are already in a shit state, piling on more cortisol and endorphins isn't going to help you live long.

                Or you could just eat less and exercise more. That is how I went from morbidly obese to normal weight without therapy, drugs, surgeries, etc. CICO works and is piss-easy once you develop a modicum of self-control.

                If your only goal is "not being fat", sure, CICO works. Under-eating and over-training are both stressful on the body, so you can imagine why people are averse to it, yes?

                is this guy arguing exercise

                I'm not, but it sounds like I've just blasphemed your religion (lmao)
                If you gain weight so easily from being sedentary, your metabolism isn't optimal.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                lol

                >exercise is hard so just sit in place

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >all that matters if exercise and genes. You're just weak bro.
                ok homie. keeping pinning tren and getting high on endorphins. you will live to 100. Make sure to get those cold showers in too.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                still laughing, thnx

                >dont challenge yourself, i should know, i'm an expert

                im dying. this is brilliant

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >How many people continue to exercise at 40? 50? Or beyond?
                Healthy people. My parents are 70 and still exercise, my grandmother is a 90 year old mall walker. What you're capable of obviously tapers down, but fucking use it or lose it.
                Not long ago you wouldn't have had a choice, you'd "exercise" by default because you had to walk a lot more and household chores were a lot more labor intensive.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Under-eating and over-training
                Those are completely different to eating healthy and exercising. No one is saying OP's husband needs to be on a stairmaster for 8 hours a day.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                have you seen all the masochists doing fasted cardio? LMAO

                https://i.imgur.com/78E49FU.png

                still laughing, thnx

                >dont challenge yourself, i should know, i'm an expert

                im dying. this is brilliant

                keep lifting the depression away bro. and keep up with the strawmen too.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >have you seen all the masochists doing fasted cardio? LMAO
                What's your point?
                (That's rhetorical, please don't answer, you're an idiot).

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                https://i.imgur.com/78E49FU.png

                still laughing, thnx

                >dont challenge yourself, i should know, i'm an expert

                im dying. this is brilliant

                /fit/monkeys really are religious idiots huh

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                alright alright. good luck man

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >have you seen all the masochists doing fasted cardio?
                There is nothing better in the world than a relaxed 10km jog after water fasting for 36 hours.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                enjoy your estrogen homie
                How is the hairline? Those wrinkles coming in nicely?

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                my secret is i cut water for 5 days! These guys at LA Methodist ER are the best!

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                i saw a friend i hadnt seen in a long time, and he looked hippie af. said he was fruitarian. it's what it sounds like. and also had been turned flat earther.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Perhaps, instead of trying to wean themselves off of the addiction, removing the stressors would kill the need for it in the first place?
                Oftentimes removing the addiction and creating good habits gives you the insight regarding what is giving you the stress. I think a lot of people don't have the self awareness to fully process what is causing their problem because they numb themselves with food, porn, and drugs, when in reality it may be working hours, loneliness, fear, etc. that makes them resort to addictions.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                That is true. People are so used to their shitty environment and health that they can't hear what their body is telling them, too.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                So the logical thing would be to do things like sleeping 8 hours a day, eating healthy, and excersising like 30 minutes each day to clear the mind and then find out what the problems are. From there you can eliminate the stressors that cause pain in your life.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Perhaps, instead of trying to wean themselves off of the addiction, removing the stressors would kill the need for it in the first place?
                With a physical addiction the latter will certainly help, but at the end of the day you still need to have the willpower and support structures to overrule your body's cravings.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Perhaps. But positive substances can help immensely. It doesn't necessarily have to be an uphill battle.

                You're being a gay and you know it.

                you are the one with the kneejerk response. Give nuance a try please.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >you are the one with the kneejerk response. Give nuance a try please.
                I don't humour obvious bait. If you wanted a worthwhile discussing you'd have conducted yourself in better faith.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I've typed paragraphs explaining my view
                you post literal strawmen, and then claim I'm the one arguing in bad faith. Come on. You literally reacted like a directionbrain hearing vaguely political talking points you didn't like.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >I've typed paragraphs explaining my view
                Yeah, paragraphs of bait. You don't want a discussion, you want to weed out a needless confrontation so you can pat yourself on the back for being smart.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >When most people say something is addictive, it is a statement based in moralism. The implication is that the addicted person is that way simply because they are a weakling or morally deficient in some way. But addiction is a physical problem with physical causes.
                this sounds like a you problem

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >You can try to exercise forever but you'll burn out eventually.
              Yeah, when you fucking die. Humans need exercise, dude, all mammals do, we've just engineered it out of our lives to the point that we have to actively add it back in.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                is this guy arguing exercise

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                lol

                >exercise is hard so just sit in place

                https://i.imgur.com/78E49FU.png

                still laughing, thnx

                >dont challenge yourself, i should know, i'm an expert

                im dying. this is brilliant

                >have you seen all the masochists doing fasted cardio? LMAO
                What's your point?
                (That's rhetorical, please don't answer, you're an idiot).

                Note that at no point did I argue against exercise itself.. ISToids have tied their egos up so hard in their exercise routines (literally coping with their shit metabolism) that the mere suggestion that there is more to the problem than lifting weights triggers them. Unbelievable.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You're being a gay and you know it.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Lmao this is the biggest obese fat cope I have ever heard. Who is getting stressed out by eating a few less calories a day and going for a walk once in a while???

              I lost 30lbs this year by just eating less. Everyone can do it, show me the evidence otherwise

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      ngmi

  27. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >>I sneak a taste in the car, and he gets upset that I wanted a bite, even though he snuck sips of my bubble tea earlier
    Sounds like he is a sugar junkie.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      what possible reason could there be for the body to crave glucose?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I am sure you can google that yourself.

        >sugar/food addict
        and what, pray tell, could the origin of one's "sugar/food """addiction"""""? Am I meant to believe it is a disease people contract or something?

        It's not a disease, it's an addiction, a pleasurable, stress-releasing or otherwise beneficial habit that requires immense will power to break because the baseline for happiness becomes dependent on regularly consuming/doing it.

  28. 4 weeks ago
    Sean

    Bice bream. Bum.

  29. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    At least in rats sugar is more addictive than cocaine. OP's husband should cut that shit to bare minimum tbh and probably start intermittent fasting combined with calorie restriction.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >At least in rats sugar is more addictive than cocaine
      >da sugar lights up the same part of the brain as cocaine!!!
      this is bullshit, i hope you aren't really convinced by this.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1931610/
        >Virtually all rats preferred saccharin over intravenous cocaine, a highly addictive drug. The preference for saccharin is not attributable to its unnatural ability to induce sweetness without subsequent caloric input because the same preference was also observed with an equipotent concentration of sucrose, a natural sugar. Importantly, the preference for saccharin sweet taste was not surmountable by increasing doses of cocaine and was observed despite either cocaine intoxication, sensitization or intake escalation – the latter being a hallmark of drug addiction [22], [34]. In addition, in several cases, the preference for saccharin emerged in rats which had originally developed a strong preference for the cocaine-rewarded lever. Such reversals of preference clearly show that in our setting, animals are not stuck with their initial preferences and can change them according to new reward contingencies. Finally, the preference for saccharin was maintained in the face of increasing reward price or cost, suggesting that rats did not only prefer saccharin over cocaine (‘liking’) but they were also more willing to work for it than for cocaine (‘wanting’). As a whole, these findings extend previous research [31], [32] by showing that an intense sensation of sweetness surpasses maximal cocaine stimulation, even in drug-sensitized and -addicted users. The absolute preference for taste sweetness may lead to a re-ordering in the hierarchy of potentially addictive stimuli, with sweetened diets (i.e., containing natural sugars or artificial sweeteners) taking precedence over cocaine and possibly other drugs of abuse.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          sugar fulfils basic biological functions, this is like giving rats food and morphine and wondering why they choose the food. This study is saying nothing more than "rats like sugar more than cocaine".

          Addictiveness isn't measured by how attractive a substance is its not a magic spell. Its like offering children candy or meth, what do you think they are going to choose?

  30. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A person being mad and not talking over something like this....
    Some people don't have enough problems in their lives

  31. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    ITT: a fatso gets triggered by weight loss and uses every single excuse possible in an attempt to claim that his weight isn't solely his fault. Sorry m8, but unless you have something likePrader–Willi syndrome (which causes a person to be both intellectually impaired as well as constantly hungry), or are being forcefed by someone else, your weight is solely a result of your own bad choices. Muh stress doesn't make you shove 4000 calories of McDonald's down your throat and gulp it down with a couple of liters of coke; you actively choose to do so. Muh poverty doesn't also cause obesity; if you are wealthy enough to afford enough food to get those extra calories that make your excessive bulk possible, it means that you are significantly better off than most of humanity. Muh bad metabolism is also bullshit; if your body really magically uses less calories than usual then just eat less and be happy that you can save that money for something else. Muh cravings are just your addicted brain trying to get you to deliver it the next dose of the poison you are addicted to. Thankfully, unlike some shit that can really fuck you up if you go cold turkey on it without any outside help, sugar withdrawal effects are mostly minor mental ones.Ultimately, the only reason why, under normal circumstances, a person can't lose weight is that the person doesn't really want to do so and self-sabotages himself.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It is funny how much dudes are concerned about all the microplastics, radiation, pollution, shit food, and so on are damaging their testosterone production. Offering no solution beyond "just take TRT/roids bro". Do you understand that thyroid, arguably the most important hormone in the body, is adversely affected by all these things also? Test levels are the lowest ever, obesity is on the rise, but its just CICO bro. Really?
      >Muh bad metabolism is also bullshit
      If metabolism doesn't matter, then low test mustn't either.
      >Muh cravings are just your addicted brain trying to get you to deliver it the next dose of the poison you are addicted to
      As i explained earlier, just saying something is addictive is religious bullfuck. You literally have to believe addiction is a magic curse that makes you crave shit for no reason.
      >ugar withdrawal effects are mostly minor mental ones
      nothing is "just mental", ever. Dualistic chud retards think like this.

      >I've typed paragraphs explaining my view
      Yeah, paragraphs of bait. You don't want a discussion, you want to weed out a needless confrontation so you can pat yourself on the back for being smart.

      Now i know you're just fucking with me. Very funny bro.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Now i know you're just fucking with me. Very funny bro.
        I accept your concession.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          grow up.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I can't, I'm out of HGH

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >he thinks HGH is good
              oh nononono

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                It was a joke, dingus

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                you should have seen the dead-serious expression on my face

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                send pics, bb

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                you first !!!!

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                mm, daddy likes 'em shy

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        This fucker is the funniest shit I've ever seen this week. Singlehandedly coming up with so many excuses to not excercise and having a proper diet. Someone give him a fucking medal. Also, picrel.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          when did i say diet didn't matter? LMAO
          My argument is that diet quality is immensely more important than quantity (cico)
          Do you think you can maintain good metabolism wihilst downing PUFA laden garbage?
          Please, reading comprehension.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Every human being to functional should be doing 60 minutes of exercise AT LEAST per day. This is non-negotiable. All other exercises you can shove up your ass. And if we take a look at your diet it'll be laughably hilarious why you're fat.

  32. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You are dating an overemotional manchild. He will strangle you one day

  33. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Update from OP here. Husband came into the room this morning just to brush his teeth and grab his work clothes as fast as possible. When I asked if he was ok, he didn’t say anything. He just rushed out of there as fast as he could to go to work.

    Not sure how to handle this when he gets home later.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Fill the house with sweets like in one of those shock therapy addiction shows, "here's all the shit you eat in a year"
      go on, it'll be funny

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You know the silent treatment like that is abusive right? He's dragging this out to make YOU apologize and grovel to HIM. Just ignore him and he will get over his tantrum

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I have apologized to him. Numerous times. He would just respond with “I’m fine.” or “It’s ok”. But it’s obviously not since he’s intentionally avoiding me and won’t respond to anything else.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          GIRL the issue is that he's not 100% mad at YOU. He's moping because he's ashamed of HIMSELF and his diet. You are taking this way too personally and think that if he wasn't mad at you that he'd be cheerful. You called him out for fucking up. Sure, part of his annoyance is that you called him out. But another part is that HE FUCKED UP. You apologizing will not solve that

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            So how can I cheer him up?

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Understand that you can't cure his grief and frustration. Talking it out isn't going to really help him when it's not what he wants. Just be there for him, show him you love him. Do some chores, invite him to watch a show with you, give him space if he needs it, suck his dick. And don't get mad at him when he's not immediately cheerful.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                absolutelysuck his dick, but watch glory hole porn for some pointers. start by googling cum swallow vids to get an idea of how to handle a man

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >the silent treatment like that is abusive
        KEK, now not talking to someone is abuse. What will those radfems think of next?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It's abusive. There is a difference between needing some time to cool off and punishing your wife with the silent treatment. It's a petty and fucked up way to act, if you do that you need to learn to communicate instead of pouting like a manipulative kid

          I thought about this, but I’m worried he’d then think I’m trying to sabotage him.

          I don’t know if I should buy him a new cone and stick it in the freezer as form of apology, or if that would make him feel worse.

          Don't buy him an ice cream retard

          I wouldn’t apologize since you didn’t technically do anything wrong. If you wanna help you should probably just not eat unhealthy desserts in his company. It’s nice to be nice but it sounds mostly like he needs to stop being a baby.

          Shouldn't matter if she eats ice cream in front of him if he has self control. It's food not weed
          I'm so glad my bf isn't a pussy like op's husband OP you are a saint for putting up with his attitude

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You're right, so is withholding sex. So are for or against duty sex? If you are against duty sex it's the man's right to withhold attention aka the silent treatment. Suck on those balls.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Expecting someone to act like a decent human being isn't the same as demanding sex acts

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yup that's what I thought. Women want attention, men want sex. You don't give sex, I don't give attention. It's that simple. Typical hypocrite. Sucks to get what you give, huh? Think twice the next time you're being a bitch about sex.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                We are talking about people that are actually married not losers like you

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah it's even worse when a married woman withholds sex and you know it's fucked because you know you wouldn't do it if you weren't married. Women inherently know if a man knew you'd withhold sex they would've never gotten married in the first place. That's why it almost never happens before marriage. Everyone knows women get fat and stop having sex after the ring goes on.

                Also he's not being silent about sex he's being bitchy about an ice cream cone because OP's husband is a fatty bo batty pouting that he got called out on it

                My point is a correctly knew you were a hypocrite on the issue. You can't call being emotionally withdrawn as abusive while saying it's okay to not fuck your husband during your marriage. If you AT ALL use sex as a mechanism for compliance then you're also an abuser by your own standard.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                It's abusive to use silence as a weapon and letting a conflict fester and create a bad environment instead of just resolving the issue. If your spouse apologizes, you either accept it and work to move on or you work through it to find a better solution going forward. You don't pout and give them the silent treatment and avoid your wife that just wants the best for you. Sex is the least of op's husband's worries

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I'm not saying he's right, he sounds like a massive gay. But don't call him abusive if you think withholding sex is okay. Emotional distance is the most effective means of getting compliance from a woman and I can see it's working in his situation (just as withholding sex is a means to compliance from a man). But I'm not shocked he's a little baby about the situation as most fat people have these weird tantrums. But I'd have to hear his side of the story, I doubt OP is a clean as the driven snow, she married a crybaby after all.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Also he's not being silent about sex he's being bitchy about an ice cream cone because OP's husband is a fatty bo batty pouting that he got called out on it

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Withholding sex as punishment is abuse, withholding sex because you don't want to have sex right now isn't abuse.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                > withholding sex because you don't want to have sex right now isn't abuse.
                Oh yeah you're right, that's why I'm too tired right now to give you emotional attention. Too tired for sex? I'm too tired to talk to you.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >OP you are a saint for putting up with his attitude
            No, she just has daddy issues and feels she deserves to be treated this way.

  34. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >
    first of all show tits
    second of all just fucking talk to him and apologize instead of writing a IST thread
    third of all show vagine

  35. 4 weeks ago
    Sean

    Dropping an ice cream cone is a very sad thing.

  36. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    As someone who was in a similar situation and lost weight, that’s what he needs. Although you shouldn’t have to babysit him on what to eat, he needs to take accountability for himself. Alternatives that saved me when I was craving bad were halotop ice cream and protein powder mixed with Greek yogurt. It takes time and he will fail again and again but if he keeps at it it’ll click eventually. I suggest he starts lifting weights as well

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >halo top

      I must be the only one who thinks Halo Top sabotages weight loss. Their whole marketing campaign is all about eating the entire pint without guilt but the problem with that is wanting to eat the entire pint in the first place. One should learn how to have portion control.

      If halo top helped you with your fitness goals though, then good for you.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I agree entirely, you need self control even with the lower calorie alternatives. I would treat myself to it once a week after a hard lift/workout so the damage was negligible as my diet was still in check

  37. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just how big is your husband? Is it possible he's a binge eater, and is maybe avoiding you in order to eat and hide his shame? Just a thought, I know a lot of people with serious weight struggles will go through that sort of thing. But if he's just a bit tubby, that's highly unlikely.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I personally don’t think he’s that big. He’s a bit tubby, maybe slightly tubbier than pic-related, but he feels he’s gained weight. I will support him in his weight-loss goals, but I honestly didn’t notice his weight gain because we’ve both just been too busy I guess.

      Now if he started looking like, idk, pre-divorced boogie2988, I’d notice and have a problem.

  38. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Based wife, your husband is a manchild if he gets upset over an offhand remark, you helped him to gain his goal of losing weight.

    Tell him to stop being a pussy.

  39. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Put on a Whipped Cream Bikini and say, " hey I heard you like Sundays. Or "Hey, ready for desert?"

  40. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OP should keep feeding her husband until death then find a healthy chad to juice her daily.

  41. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why did you settle for a fat ass when there are so many muscular or lean dudes out there willing to marry you?

  42. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Show us your tits op.
    Show us why your husband wont ever leave your fine ass.

  43. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You guys know that he need eating in deficit surplus of calories?

    So, count them. Rice gives weight too, lmfao, a ice cream can not give weight too. Better to him workout (calisthenics or gym), this will increase the calories burns that means he will have to eat more to maintenance weight but he wanna loss, so

    Wake up, go to nutrition professional

  44. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    he sounds like a bitch

  45. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You did good. The only way to make fat people change is to humiliate them.
    Did you know more people are afraid of performing on stage than being killed? Yeah, it's like that.

  46. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    fat people have a lot of estrogen so they're mentally unstable
    there's nothing you can do that won't just make it worse
    that's how it works with manchildren, their tantrums only escalate when confronted

  47. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Does he have siblings?
    this is food aggression you see it really common in dogs
    The problem is that you can train bad behavior out of a dog but you can't in a human

  48. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    honey
    fruits
    fruit salad
    yogurt
    fresh beets
    fruits with honey

    stop eating industrial sludge

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Honey in the United States doesn't even have to contain any actual honey, for it to still be labeled "Honey". Just make sure you get the good shit, read the ingredients.

  49. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    In all honesty. Others are saying it. It's primal, but its true. Fuck him, fuck him hard, let him ravage you, tell him for every ice cream cone he doesnt get, you'll let him fuck your ass. Sorry about being graphic, but I'm serious. He'll be fighting fit in weeks, you might be sore, but he'll be a new man. You want to help him, let him screw your brains out.

  50. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why do men come on this website and larp as women? In this case a particularly oblivious one?

  51. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sweets addiction is a huge problem in modern society. After the first two weeks the physical withdrawls stop, but the psychological triggers still exist. You need to suffer with him together and change your diet and avoid sugar. No artificial sweeteners because they still trigger the psyche. Eating without sugar means learning how to cook as such! Also, for snacks you can always eat fruits, at least in the beginning of your ISTjourney

  52. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Maybe being a belly-roll fat-cat is a byproduct if his impulsivity. In everyone's mind they are always rational, if he saw a therapist for adhd or whatever he has then maybe his nucleus accumbens would be corrected so he doesn't have the same insatiable appetites.

    What I mean is he's not hungry his brain is magnifying all his hunger because it is imbalanced.

  53. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How can I make this up to him?
    Suck his dick and he'll get over it.

    You have nothing to apologise for you did the right thing. Stop letting your husband be a fat fuck.

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