That if you at any point of your life had had a functioning social life you wouldn't even have to ask that question, and if you haven't, it's because you're terminally spergic.
5 months ago
Anonymous
I grew up in isolation, help me out
5 months ago
Anonymous
help him out
Do you have something you enjoy doing other than jerking off? Try finding a social venue for doing that thing. Other than jerking off.
5 months ago
Anonymous
noted
5 months ago
Anonymous
any other advice?
5 months ago
Anonymous
Thing is, if you want to be liked by someone, you're gonna have to accept that you'll have to find someone who likes you for who you are, because you will never become that popular smooth guy you want to be. You can become more popular and smoother, absolutely (training social interaction and meeting more people with your interests for instance, taking better care of your hygiene if you aren't etc.), but you'll still have the interest you have, the humour you have, the face you have. If you're basically weird, you'll have to hope you meet someone who likes that weird you. Some weird things can be changed through changing your lifestyle, some can't. Don't dream about being someone you can't be and then feel bad when you're stuck being you.
5 months ago
Anonymous
I don't have a problem with talking to people, Ijust dont know where to meet them.
5 months ago
Anonymous
>because you will never become that popular smooth guy you want to be
wtf does this even mean?
5 months ago
Anonymous
It means that unpopular guys often dream of being popular and charming. That won't happen.
5 months ago
Anonymous
I was fine socially at university and school and everywhere else.
I just lost my grip on society and its habits during covid lockdown.
I know it was general advice but still.
5 months ago
Anonymous
I have been socially isolated essentially my entire life, growing up playing runescape like 15 hours a day. Yet most people Ive met have described me as charming and charismatic.
Socializing is a game and once you get it you get it. There’s nothing to brush up on. You either got it or you dont.
5 months ago
Anonymous
help him out
5 months ago
Anonymous
I can’t find women man. I have hobbies, but they’re all old man hobbies. I lift alone at my home gym, or I run after work (nobody is in the park at 7pm this time of year, and runners don’t want to strike up a conversation). The women at work are all 15-30 years older than me. I go trap shooting and the only women there are brought by their husbands. Building miniatures and model rockets aren’t very social and they only attract boomer men.
I’m not going to take up a hobby I dont want just to meet women. So going out to clubs or book clubs or yoga or whatever are off the table. I just don’t know where to find 20something women. If I didn’t know better I’d think the world was 80/20 men to women.
Danm she is so hot god I am so alone
>god I am so alone
me too anon, me too
Have you tried you know, talking to women in real life?
where?
where the frick can I randomly turn up alone and meet women?
what venue
It never began for you
meaning?
That if you at any point of your life had had a functioning social life you wouldn't even have to ask that question, and if you haven't, it's because you're terminally spergic.
I grew up in isolation, help me out
Do you have something you enjoy doing other than jerking off? Try finding a social venue for doing that thing. Other than jerking off.
noted
any other advice?
Thing is, if you want to be liked by someone, you're gonna have to accept that you'll have to find someone who likes you for who you are, because you will never become that popular smooth guy you want to be. You can become more popular and smoother, absolutely (training social interaction and meeting more people with your interests for instance, taking better care of your hygiene if you aren't etc.), but you'll still have the interest you have, the humour you have, the face you have. If you're basically weird, you'll have to hope you meet someone who likes that weird you. Some weird things can be changed through changing your lifestyle, some can't. Don't dream about being someone you can't be and then feel bad when you're stuck being you.
I don't have a problem with talking to people, Ijust dont know where to meet them.
>because you will never become that popular smooth guy you want to be
wtf does this even mean?
It means that unpopular guys often dream of being popular and charming. That won't happen.
I was fine socially at university and school and everywhere else.
I just lost my grip on society and its habits during covid lockdown.
I know it was general advice but still.
I have been socially isolated essentially my entire life, growing up playing runescape like 15 hours a day. Yet most people Ive met have described me as charming and charismatic.
Socializing is a game and once you get it you get it. There’s nothing to brush up on. You either got it or you dont.
help him out
I can’t find women man. I have hobbies, but they’re all old man hobbies. I lift alone at my home gym, or I run after work (nobody is in the park at 7pm this time of year, and runners don’t want to strike up a conversation). The women at work are all 15-30 years older than me. I go trap shooting and the only women there are brought by their husbands. Building miniatures and model rockets aren’t very social and they only attract boomer men.
I’m not going to take up a hobby I dont want just to meet women. So going out to clubs or book clubs or yoga or whatever are off the table. I just don’t know where to find 20something women. If I didn’t know better I’d think the world was 80/20 men to women.
Unhinged post
don't waste your energy, anon, she eats pussy
noooooo
dont eat the kitty 🙁
Yes bro