>ex broke up with me >immediately start lifting and losing weight >knowing damn well she will text me on my birthday in 6 months (former lifter so I know 6 months is enough to get my mass back) >gonna get fricking aesthetic by then >lift every damn day expecting that birthday text >already plan out the conversation with great detail >plan out exactly how I’ll ask her to meet and get her back >even plan the jokes I’ll make >the day comes >I’m swole as a mf from 6 months of autistically lifting and counting macros >… >no text from ex >never hear from her, ever >she’s engaged now
At the end of the day I got ripped and managed to meet many other women, and met someone better to be in a relationship with. Listen to and
Your ex is getting railed by 2 men while you post threads on IST. Lift for your future wife
Oh i forgot the saddest part, I actually had a fake convo written down. Like what she was gonna say and what I’ll say in response. I really believed i knew exactly how it will go, silly jokes and everything. It was fricking grim.
Oh i forgot the saddest part, I actually had a fake convo written down. Like what she was gonna say and what I’ll say in response. I really believed i knew exactly how it will go, silly jokes and everything. It was fricking grim.
Literally me right now. Everytime I think like "oh she'll unblock me" or a similar thought, something happens that makes me feel the pain again.
I did. I was the one who ended things but after talking to other chicks, I realized I fricked up. I unblocked her but she blocked me after I reached out to her lol. Now I get to see her with her new man everyday at the gym. On the bright side, it has fueled my lifts and I've gotten stronger.
I know it really sucks anon, I’ve been through this twice. It definitely gets better. Keep lifting and grinding my man, you will get over it eventually
Anon, there were many times I remember how sad and hopeless I was, I would cry daily for months, and I just wish I could go back in time for a bit to talk to my former sad c**t self.
I would give him a hug (no homo) and tell him life is gonna get so much better, and that none of this is going to hurt or even matter in the future, it will just be a distant memory.
But I will also tell him that life doesn’t just magically become amazing one day. It gets better because of the work you put in. So even when you don’t feel like it, keep lifting, keep grinding, keep working on yourself and keep your chin up. Life sucks today but it won’t suck forever. Guaranteed.
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basado
1 year ago
Anonymous
Based beyond belief. I'm glad you replied to my post
The pain will strengthen you. The day will come that you don’t even think about her. You’ll forget what she even looked like.
The pain though, you will not forget. The lesson stays with you.
Verification not required.
As gay as it sounds, I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone. I can't believe this is how I made people feel before. I WILL become a better person and partner for the sake of everyone. >Verification not required
>I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone. I can't believe this is how I made people feel before. I WILL become a better person…
This is exactly why you needed it. I hope you look back in three years and see that the terrible darkness that you felt was only there so you would be forced to bring light into this world through your actions. (As gay as it sounds)
My ex broke up with me about 5 months ago. I still think about her everyday. She’s beautiful, fit, and a high achiever, like I wouldn’t be surprised if she ends up being a senator or something some day. I don’t expect her to text me on my birthday in a month even though I texted her on her birthday about two months after we broke up.
Planning on moving to a different state in a couple months. Was thinking about letting her know but I already asked her about the possibility of getting back together 2 months after we broke up. She was very friendly but said no, but that you never no what will happen.
Same. I know how unhealthy it is. And I’ve all but “let go” but I’ve always had an issue truly forgiving anyone who’s wronged me in any way. I can definitely forgive people, but I never forget shit. Sometimes the cut is too deep and I need to not only get even but leave them so far behind in my dust that it destroys them when they see how far I’ve leveled up in life since knowing them. I’ve destroyed one exes life already (she did everything to herself I just exposed her to her boyfriend and family after she cheated with me), but I need to get to a certain level where she eternally seethes even more.
The ways I’ve experienced betrayal is I’m treated as though I’m some subhuman object in some way and they’re not even sorry about it and have a conviction that they are right for hurting me or using me. It’s made me seethe my whole life. And I have always gotten even.
Unhealthy 100% but frick if it doesn’t make me productive. It’s not enough for me to win I want to watch my enemies fail and cry.
Were you bullied in school? Because I was and the only thing I learned from it was that the strong don't need a reason to kill the weak, they do it because you can.
It makes me cringe to think that I thought myself a pacifist because I never fought back, but in reality I didn't fight back because I didn't have it in me. You can only be a pacifist if you have the strength to kill and choose not to. I didn't actually have a choice back then, but I didn't realize it until my early 20's.
I can't forgive unless they know that I've become better, stronger and more wealthier than every single one of these mfkers.
Same & I'm married to someone else now. I still get lunch with my ex every now and then and she still looks alright but has definitely started hitting the wall. I’m in the best shape of my life (physically, probably not mentally). Also: how do you have a picture of my cat?
He's bald and married a roastie with a niglet so I mog him.
I think he quit lifting idk I stopped paying attention to him a while ago because I started obsessing over how huge my ass and chest are now and became a giant narcissist.
You telling me she isnt going to see how strong and fit I've become and jump into my arms and love me?
Jk, needed to hear this. She doesnt give a frick about me, but I do get satisfaction out of knowing I could destroy her new partner. And the attention from other and more attractive girls is nice, but not the same.
“That’s cute” she says as she’s about to go on a date where she knows she’s going to ride some cook’s greasy wiener and let him coat her pussy with seamen.
You frickin pathetic cuckold.
I lift and run because I want to compete in a sport. I couldn't give less a shit about my ex. OP, you are a gay. I cheated on my ex, told her, and then we broke up. I was so damn tired of her emasculating nonsense. I just wanted to do drugs and relax but all she ever did was b***h and moan 24/7.
Youre not going to get the reaction that you want
I already got some reaction and it is motivating me even more. I don‘t really want her back, just make her mad. I know its cringe but it works for me.
>ex broke up with me
>immediately start lifting and losing weight
>knowing damn well she will text me on my birthday in 6 months (former lifter so I know 6 months is enough to get my mass back)
>gonna get fricking aesthetic by then
>lift every damn day expecting that birthday text
>already plan out the conversation with great detail
>plan out exactly how I’ll ask her to meet and get her back
>even plan the jokes I’ll make
>the day comes
>I’m swole as a mf from 6 months of autistically lifting and counting macros
>…
>no text from ex
>never hear from her, ever
>she’s engaged now
At the end of the day I got ripped and managed to meet many other women, and met someone better to be in a relationship with. Listen to and
. Your ex is not thinking about you.
Oh i forgot the saddest part, I actually had a fake convo written down. Like what she was gonna say and what I’ll say in response. I really believed i knew exactly how it will go, silly jokes and everything. It was fricking grim.
Fricking kek
First break ups are the worse.
Now I wouldn't give a frick. Great, time to update to the new model.
Literally me right now. Everytime I think like "oh she'll unblock me" or a similar thought, something happens that makes me feel the pain again.
>she’ll unblock me
Jfc, anon, you should have been the first to block her. Learn from this and lift moar.
I did. I was the one who ended things but after talking to other chicks, I realized I fricked up. I unblocked her but she blocked me after I reached out to her lol. Now I get to see her with her new man everyday at the gym. On the bright side, it has fueled my lifts and I've gotten stronger.
I know it really sucks anon, I’ve been through this twice. It definitely gets better. Keep lifting and grinding my man, you will get over it eventually
Thanks for the kind words anon, sorry you've been through this before. I'll remember your words when I start feeling down. WAGMI
Anon, there were many times I remember how sad and hopeless I was, I would cry daily for months, and I just wish I could go back in time for a bit to talk to my former sad c**t self.
I would give him a hug (no homo) and tell him life is gonna get so much better, and that none of this is going to hurt or even matter in the future, it will just be a distant memory.
But I will also tell him that life doesn’t just magically become amazing one day. It gets better because of the work you put in. So even when you don’t feel like it, keep lifting, keep grinding, keep working on yourself and keep your chin up. Life sucks today but it won’t suck forever. Guaranteed.
basado
Based beyond belief. I'm glad you replied to my post
The pain will strengthen you. The day will come that you don’t even think about her. You’ll forget what she even looked like.
The pain though, you will not forget. The lesson stays with you.
Verification not required.
As gay as it sounds, I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone. I can't believe this is how I made people feel before. I WILL become a better person and partner for the sake of everyone.
>Verification not required
>I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone. I can't believe this is how I made people feel before. I WILL become a better person…
This is exactly why you needed it. I hope you look back in three years and see that the terrible darkness that you felt was only there so you would be forced to bring light into this world through your actions. (As gay as it sounds)
My ex broke up with me about 5 months ago. I still think about her everyday. She’s beautiful, fit, and a high achiever, like I wouldn’t be surprised if she ends up being a senator or something some day. I don’t expect her to text me on my birthday in a month even though I texted her on her birthday about two months after we broke up.
Planning on moving to a different state in a couple months. Was thinking about letting her know but I already asked her about the possibility of getting back together 2 months after we broke up. She was very friendly but said no, but that you never no what will happen.
Dubs and we all will
I was so close
Same. I know how unhealthy it is. And I’ve all but “let go” but I’ve always had an issue truly forgiving anyone who’s wronged me in any way. I can definitely forgive people, but I never forget shit. Sometimes the cut is too deep and I need to not only get even but leave them so far behind in my dust that it destroys them when they see how far I’ve leveled up in life since knowing them. I’ve destroyed one exes life already (she did everything to herself I just exposed her to her boyfriend and family after she cheated with me), but I need to get to a certain level where she eternally seethes even more.
The ways I’ve experienced betrayal is I’m treated as though I’m some subhuman object in some way and they’re not even sorry about it and have a conviction that they are right for hurting me or using me. It’s made me seethe my whole life. And I have always gotten even.
Unhealthy 100% but frick if it doesn’t make me productive. It’s not enough for me to win I want to watch my enemies fail and cry.
Based af. I don‘t give a frick about how unhealthy it is, it motivates me more than anything else and thats quite something.
Yes, i‘m narcissistic btw
I have a very hard time forgiving people too.
Were you bullied in school? Because I was and the only thing I learned from it was that the strong don't need a reason to kill the weak, they do it because you can.
It makes me cringe to think that I thought myself a pacifist because I never fought back, but in reality I didn't fight back because I didn't have it in me. You can only be a pacifist if you have the strength to kill and choose not to. I didn't actually have a choice back then, but I didn't realize it until my early 20's.
I can't forgive unless they know that I've become better, stronger and more wealthier than every single one of these mfkers.
She is not yours, it was just your turn.
Your ex is getting railed by 2 men while you post threads on IST. Lift for your future wife
This guy is so far ahead that he is already taking revenge on his future ex.
I lift because the kid I bullied in high school started lifting and I have to make sure I stay ahead of him.
based, but do you mog him or does he mog you
He's bald and married a roastie with a niglet so I mog him.
I think he quit lifting idk I stopped paying attention to him a while ago because I started obsessing over how huge my ass and chest are now and became a giant narcissist.
Post body
You telling me she isnt going to see how strong and fit I've become and jump into my arms and love me?
Jk, needed to hear this. She doesnt give a frick about me, but I do get satisfaction out of knowing I could destroy her new partner. And the attention from other and more attractive girls is nice, but not the same.
“That’s cute” she says as she’s about to go on a date where she knows she’s going to ride some cook’s greasy wiener and let him coat her pussy with seamen.
You frickin pathetic cuckold.
shes getting pounded into oblivion
I lift and run because I want to compete in a sport. I couldn't give less a shit about my ex. OP, you are a gay. I cheated on my ex, told her, and then we broke up. I was so damn tired of her emasculating nonsense. I just wanted to do drugs and relax but all she ever did was b***h and moan 24/7.
Degenerate frick
Blessed thread
Where did you get a photo of my cat's doppelganger
Cute cat
Spite is a poison you swallow while hoping it hurts someone else. This is not sustainable.
Look forward. Lift for your future wife and for your son that will be proud of his strong father .