I made it, I have a big social circle, I have a bright future in front of me next year when I finish university, I got abs, people respect me, I've been mired a few times and girls flirt with me
And I feel like utter shit, it's worse than ever. I don't think I can keep smiling through the pain bros
>And I feel like utter shit, it's worse than ever. I don't think I can keep smiling through the pain bros
If you're not happy and fulfilled then by definition you have not "made it".
So I guess quit being a whiny emo b***h.
I’ve always hated having a big social circle. My ideal is a small group of friends.
I’ve also always hated having an overstuffed calendar. Better to live at a slower pace with lots is space for spontaneous fun with friends.
You never worked for anything in your life. You're on steroids and have shit nutrition. Probably drink protein shakes. Dad is rich and providing opportunities after school. You're nothing
Occasionally being depressed and hopeless is part of being human anon. Chasing after never being depressed is impossible. Obviously I don't know your medical history, but if you're talking about feeling hopeless, depressed, and unfulfilled about 2-3 times month I'd say that's pretty normal. If you're able to bounce back to you baseline after a few days, then that's healthy. If you find that it's non-stop levels of depression that never gets back to baseline temporarily, then I'd refer back to Maslow's hierarchy of needs to find where your life is lacking.
Maslow was a pedo and his pseudoscientific babble is used mainly by corporations, the entire pyramid was designed with man as consumer and nothing else. Fitting an idea that's useful for corporations, but not based or founded in reality
Depression is never ok and its caused by poor nutrition btw
Depression is the most fundamental of human experiences. I respect the opinion on Maslow because I've never researched if he was a pathetic shill/pedo so I'll take your word for it. But depression is something that every human being on this earth has experienced before. It becomes a bigger and bigger issue the more intelligence that you have. While diet CAN entirely be from poor nutrition (so you're not wrong), but it's incredibly infantile to make a blanket assumption that all depression is always cause of poor diet... So I agree with you and kinda disagree.
Yea, I thought I made it too when I was a senior at university. I got pussy on demand, invites to more parties than I could attend, I had a shredded fizeek, and all the free time in the world to enjoy it. Then when you graduate you start over at level 0. Prepare to have your entire world crushed as you restart as a bottom tier wageslave, getting b***hed out by fat roasties in job interviews, fat basedboys at your job, moronic boomers who are jealous that you are young and look good. And now women expect you to have money and buy them shit because youre working. And if you move away from your college town say bye bye to your social circle and you have to rebuild that from scratch too. Enjoy this short period of bliss while it lasts and Good fricking luck bro
Just make new friends and get good at your job?
Move to NY and plow through new women every weekend?
It’s really not that hard.
>just move to New York bro
Fricking lmao, zoomers live in fantasy world. How much do you think thats gonna cost you monthly? How much free time do you think youll have living in a israeli corporate hellscape designed to drain you of all your money and finances? Its not that hard right bro. Im sure youll make it work bro
Oh few more things to look forward to
>taxes
>student debt
>receding hairline
>car payments and maintenance
>having to look "professional" aka like an npc
>getting fired for no reason
>women shit testing you 20x harder because youre expected to have your shit together
And thats all assuming you even FIND a job. The job market is absolutely fricked, your degree will most likely be useless
lmao all of these can easily be solved by just not being a fricking loser
>not being a loser
>you legally need to give 30-50% of your income to the government just because
You are gonna have a nice day when you dont have mommy and daddy to support you
I paid for college by working minimum wage jobs as a kid.
Today I’m 33 and worth $1.9M.
Nice try though.
If you aren’t moronic then you’ll get a good job in new york that will more than pay your bills.
Did you go to Arizona State or something? Jesus.
You graduated over 10 years ago into a booming economy and you did well. Good job. Post pandemic situation is completely different and youre delusional if you say its not.
I had to interview for my first internships in 2009 right after the financial crisis when the unemployment rate was 10%. Right now the unemployment rate is 3.7%.
I have been through multiple crashes and layoffs since that time, in oil and in finance. The key to not losing your job is to be good at it and provide actual value. I’ve also moved twice to ensure my own success and future.
The big change in that time is real estate, but I’ve only made ~$40k-$50K of my net worth from real estate appreciation, so it’s not exactly like I got carried.
>more millionaires on fit
lmao
Bro a million dollars doesn’t even buy you a two-bedroom townhouse these days in my city.
A million dollars is nothing.
>miami
Disgusting
Try literally any city in the US that isnt overrun by nigs
No thank you. Cities are gross
exactly this.
I had it all in my early 20's. It's all gone now.
The highlight of my day now is watching Black folk ape out on Hard Core Pawn.
Maybe you shouldn’t have been such a fricking loser.
Only poor people’s lives suck in your 30s and beyond. If you make good money life just gets better and better.
t. 19 year old kid whos got it all figured out
Nope. I’m 33 and by next year I will have built a portfolio large enough to fund my expenses for the rest of my life.
Nice bro I hope I can get there at your age. Right now Im 25 and just barely starting to invest because I've paid off my debts and got my essential shit. Should be getting a decent salary increase this year through connections I've made but the last 2 years of waging was absolute hell
MOney isn't a issue you lil fricking internet c**t.
I have my own business.
The problem is most people are frickign clueless sheep and I can't stomach them.
Suck a fricking dick you lil homosexual.
lmao imagine being this psychologically damaged.
Couldn’t be me.
at least we aren't redd*t spacing fricks like you
Don't worry it will all go to shit in 20yrs ....it never lasts forever...enjoy it while it lasts.
Lol. You changed who you are and now you need to wait for yourself to catch up. Still in the fake it phase, still havent made it. Also go to a psychiatrist
>still in university
>I made it
lmfao you haven't even started life yet homosexual
I have no social circle at all, my future is awful as I have no dreams or aspirations or network, I still don't have abs, I genuinely don't know what others think of me as I don't talk to anyone, and whenever my tormented mind convinces itself that it's being mired it then reminds itself that it couldn't even come up with a single sentence to say to the women "mirin" me.
It is what it is
Fucj all of u be good to each for Petes sake brethren be kind!!!
That's because we live in a world that's too easy.
There's no challenge.
Feel free to go die in a war like tons of men throughout history.
I’ll take all the money I make and use it to have a sweet life.
Enjoy your depression, cuck.
>no mention of height and weight or lifts. >just I have abs
I'd also be depressed if I looked like you. You need to lift.
180 lbs bench
6'1''
My point exactly.
You need to aspire towards something, you always need a goal on the horizon to keep moving forward, otherwise the darkness will catch you. What do you want to achieve in the future, what would your wildest dreams be? One journey is nearly over for you, university, and now is the time to make the most of that investment and reach new heights.
Having meaning is important, but it's easy to lose focus or let the nature of this world get you down. Sometimes, all that's needed is a shift in perspective - if even for a moment, because once you get out of your own head for a bit you can really understand how distorted your perception really was. I recommend psychedelic mushrooms or LSD on a sunny day in the park with some good, trusted friends of yours. I know, I know - dude drugs lmao, but sincerely, if you are in dire straits and are suffering, don't you owe it to yourself to try?
We are all going to make it, as long as we don't give up.