>first gf broke up with me because she said i was too emotional (sharing vulnerability etc)
>look up internet for help
>everyone tells me should never open up to women because they’ll that’s weak subconsciously or not and they’ll leave you
>start hiding emotions and keeping things to myself
>2nd gf leaves me, says i’m too unemotional
how do i cope with the fact that no one will ever accept me fully
I fully love and accept you, as does my friend Jesus Christ
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christcel cope is truly depressing
it's depressing if you are deluded. if you soften up your heart is actually the opposite
when i was a boy in a christian family the reward of good is only hinted in religion. the reward of peace and heaven come after death. it's cope. you have no respite. it doesn't work. idk if can even explain what i mean here hope you understand
Thats because your view on women is wrong.
You need to see them only as a fucktoy.
Don't develop feelings.
>caring about being accepted by others
kek, this feeling will go away when you realize 90% of people are garbage
>how do i cope with the fact that no one will ever accept me fully
Start by not accepting anybody fully except yourself.
Nice blogpost,we can tell you are one lucky motherfucker,you dont know the mental hell of many anons here.
you went from a whiney bitch to a boring gay? You need to give her some drama
why do i have to act a certain way and play games in order to be loved
women that's why.
You don't have to play games, but if she feels like you're on a mission an potentially going places it will be enough. They want to live in a fairy tale or a movie.
Just put your worries on God, He will take care of you.
God is a rock. The whole family leans on the man of God, and the man of God leans on the Almighty, so he will never falter.
God and Jesus love you. You should still strive for companionship, but at the end of the day it is comforting to know that regardless of if a woman loves you, God always will.
“Could it be possible! This old saint in the forest hath not yet heard of it, that God is dead!”
dont worry dumb moron im going to help you but i think you wont like the answer
basically be yourself. dont spend your life molding the way you act because you want to keep other people in your life, thats a lot of effort and its bad for your mental health.
of course you shouldnt be a girl and talk about your emotions all the time, but you also shouldnt be a wall and never talk about it.
if you can solve the problem thats making you feel bad, then do it.
if your gf asks why you are feeling so sad lately, just say its nothing important while you work towards fixing the actual problem. but if she insists (and its a good thing because it shows she cares about you) then open up to her, but dont try to victimize yourself, just be honest.
Dawg there ain't no way you fumbled the bag not once but TWICE. You got bout as much game in you as the red ring of death. Boy you better go check if someone swapped your daily cologne for “bitches repellant” KEK. But seriously bro are you Scandinavian because there’s norway you’re finding love kekk
That's why it's better to now worry about shit like this and just act naturally, share as much about your emotion as you feel comfortable sharing. If the person you're with responds negatively to that then you just were not meant to be together and that's life.
Bruh it's about you not about "people on the internet". You want a gf that accepts your weaknesses and that helps you when you aren't strong enough? Be open about your emotions then and if she is disgusted by it, then she is not the one that suit you.
Keep trying, it is hard af I know but keep trying
You ever think they left you because you post relationship advice on a fitness board?
Early in a relationship women want to see a man's vulnerability, but if they get it too easily then it makes you look weak. The first year or two of a relationship is a play between two actors. During that time, you being vulnerable should be a reward for her persistence, not a given.
Funny I have a problem getting rid of gfs when I get tired of them. Finally got my last girl to leave my place two weeks ago after months of trying but it took me breaking her phone for her to walrk out. Bitch still want to come back but fuck that. Just be alpha bro I already got new pussy.
>IST-Fitness
why do you allow people to tell you what to do
the only reason to do something is because you feel like doing it. nothing else will ever work. talking, not talking, lifting, not lifting, all your choice. being alive is glorious brother please realize
Good morning sir!
That's what happens when you try to please women. You get fucked. If you have a gf and doesn't like the way you are and breaks up with you, maybe it wasn't meant to be. Unless you're a shit person that doesn't take care of himself, there's to need to change that much.
I want to rock
This exact shit happened to me.
Now I just hope I'll find someone I can and should open up to, or someone I can't and shouldn't open up to.
Girls are leaving you for everyother reason than what they tell you. I broke up with a girl because she had no boobs, and another because her vagina was not that tight. Those are the real reasons but i would never say that to them
Be glad. Most people spend entire lives without learning and getting past this. You're learning you need NOT to live your life for the eyes of others.
>men need to be more open and emotional!
>women do not exist to be men's therapists!
>stop making me do emotional labor!
which fucking one is it
>he just has 2 gfs like it's nothing
stop using the doomer wojak, normie scum
bpd gf wants to get back together. im dry since oct 22 and nofap 2 months. WHAT DO she is is town her pussy is wet and she is waiting for an answer. i told her that ill call her when i get off work
You've asked this question like 20 times you fucktard
how do you meet your gfs? how do you make the first step to a relatioship or hook up?
just talk to her
Women don't know what they want. They will do or say anything in order to justify their actions. The only way to properly understand what a woman is thinking is to watch what she does and not what she says. They both left you because you have bitch-ass punk energy. If you were a man then they would want to be around or with you regardless of what comes out of your mouth. You could have told them that the only reason you are with them is to fuck a warm hole and that you don't want to hear them speak unless you say so and if you had a strong and attractive energy then they would still be with you
Hi anon, you're doing ok, you're obviously attracting women, so somethings working there.
A bit of advice though. Women will say one thing, but want the other. A woman will say she wants you to be a bit more emotionally connected, fantastic. That doesn't mean that you pour your heart and soul out to her, it's a layer of intimacy that she has to earn that you trust her. You want to give them flashcard insights, into your inner emotional life, but not everything, especially if it's early in the relationship.
That said, when I say emotional, please don't misconstrue this. Every man has emotions which they feel, but some things are important and others aren't, so for instance. "My father died in my arms, after telling me I turned out ok," is an emotionally impactful message. "I'm pissed off cause my favorite funko pop was sold out." Isn't. It just makes you look shallow and weak, if you are shallow and weak then you need to work on that.
You're only allowed to cry at deeply emotional things, and then its only acceptable for a short while, you're a man. It might be a death in the family, it might be the finale of a beethoven symphony, it's fine, as long as it's something that has real meaning behind it.
The new release of an avengers movie isn't, you get me? The woman in the relationship is the emotional partner, you aren't.
Are you fucking telling me I can’t cry after watching the new Avengers movie?
In the privacy of your room cloistered, go for it. In the movie theatre in front of the QT who's excited you asked her out for the date, under absolutely no circumstances, unless you want to be wanking alone.
There's nothing wrong with crying during a movie. I cried during plenty of movies. I get so caught up in the story I forget it's fake
>emotionally vulnerable with a woman that doesn't like emotionally vulnerable men
>emotionally distant with a woman that doesn't like emotionally distant men
It's your fault for treating all women the same as if they all liked the same thing. If anything YOU are the one playing games. Youre trying to change your personality to fit some kind of perceived image you think women like. That's a game. Stop playing and you'll start winning
>i was too emotional (sharing vulnerability etc)
Think about what women want in a man: stability, strength, & security. In relationships they don't want a friend, they want a man. They want you to be vulnerable but not about your weaknesses. You should open up about your day/dreams/desires/goals/interests, not about "Omg my mommy & daddy neglected me & today I had to work so much I wanna cry. Please I need a shoulder to cry on. Waaaaaa!" It's not weak to be emotional, its weak to be insecure & needy.
There are two types of needy men: The ones who cope about their insecurities by acting like tough guys who can never make fun of themselves & take shit too seriously. The other type is the sucky dude who makes fun of himself or is super worried about upsetting people. Tread a fine line & give less of a fuck, not at the expense of being an asshole.
Every love note my wife gives me she calls me her rock that weather's her emotional storms.
Girls like stability. Not neediness
>The other type is the sucky dude who makes fun of himself or is super worried about upsetting people.
How the fuck do I fix this?
Different people have different needs, congrats you figured that out. Understanding and communicating those boundaries is what makes relationships possible, seriously, ngmi if you're putting people in boxes and categories. And learn how to navigate the hedgehog dilemma, your gf is not your emotional shadow but she's not supposed to be emotionally void in your relationship either. Learn from your mistakes and stop coming to the internet for interpersonal help, talk to a fucking friend.
When women say they want an “emotional” man, what they actually want is a man who is emotional over the same, nonsensical shit that they overreact to.
Women are retarded and don’t believe anything they say at face value. Just assume every woman you speak to is a literal child seeing everything through a societal influenced veil of emotional retardation and you will then understand them.
I never had a gf
Don’t make shitty women your gf, you need to test them to find a tolerable woman. You will probably have to date down in terms of looks for that, but will be happier in the end.