I was finally able to lift myself out of a depressive hole and now I want to get back into dating, but I don't know how. How do we ISTzens meet women post-college?
I was finally able to lift myself out of a depressive hole and now I want to get back into dating, but I don't know how.
The playground
sitting on the park bench
Dating advice isn't fitness or health related, no matter how much you'll cope and say it is.
Black person
at work or the gym
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not at work, op. don’t shit where you eat. try some new hobbies and go outside. try meeting new people. i just go to random people and starrt conversations and that’s it for me but i somehow charismamaxxed and people love talking to me.
This right here. NEVER at work.
homosexual
Hang out in places near School Zone signs
wear a watch and cologne, talk like her father would, make up a pet name for her and make her call you "daddy"
You dont. If you left school without any connections to meet women, it’s over. Everyone now has their established group of friends and they wont add new people. Ldar it will never get better.
Pretty much this. If you are in college just force yourself into any social interaction. Because past that you either find a date at work and suffer rest of time you work there when you break up or just suffer alone forever because you'll never meet someone of your age.
Why do Americans have such trouble using dating apps?
College is where you hang out with people you are already friends with.
https://bookofpook.com/
https://archive.org/details/pdfy-vDOT9mHtML-iRqpU/mode/2up
Pook was a good read
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>How do we ISTzens meet women post-college?
Friends
Friends girlfriends/wives friends
Work
Workmates social events
Hobbys
Assuming you're a sperg (very likely) and need some form of external influence to get you there.
Keep in mind, people will only introduce you to their single friends if they like you. Everyone loves playing matchmaker, no one wants to be the cause of an abusive relationship.
Just start small conversations with strangers. It’s a muscle and you need to work it out as much as you can when it doesn’t matter. Then when you see a girl you may be interested in, start a conversation with her. You can even just say walk up and say “hi!”. Ask questions, read her body language, if her body language isn’t horrible, just say hey you want to grab a coffee sometime? Don’t start with dinner or something, coffee or a drink somewhere gives you both a chance to see if there’s something there. Also being rejected isn’t a big deal, the more girls you ask out, the more you’ll get rejected but the more you’ll get laid as well.
t. former khv that fricked 50 girls and is now married w/kids
>t. former khv
every single person is either a khv or a former khv
im a 29 year old khv
>I was finally able to lift myself out of a depressive hole
as in LIFT?