If you could go back in time...

What would you tell your 20 yo self? ISTness speaking. But general life lesson is OK too.

  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Take finasteride. NOW.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Fpbp, I fell for the side effects fear mongering and let my hair rot away. I finally got in it last year and it stopped my balding completely, had zero sides, but now I'm stuck at NW3 when I had a NW0 just 5 years ago.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I started balding aggresively at 17 and was beyond the point of no return by 19. By 20 it was already shaving time. e-boing at telling myself at 20 it would have already been too late. Fin only started getting talked about widely here a few years ago. i had no idea there was any remedies when i was that young. I was drinking like 6 cups of green tea and taking b12 cause i thought it would do something lmao.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      enjoy your ed

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This right here, don't let the side-effect memes scare you, I guarantee you that you'll regret not starting

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Holy fucking shit it's really true that there are pharmashills on this board.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        yes you are correct, however pharmashills are the ones trash-talking finasteride

        finasteride patents expired and it's a generic drug now, costs *literal* cents per day. I get a years worth supply for like 10 euros. That's why pharmashills are out in full force trying to convince people that they need to stop taking finasteride and get on their newer, patented drugs which makes them a lot more money

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I am against taking any drug. Any who thinks blocking DHT is reasonable is fucking retarded.
          >inb4 it doesn't completely block DHT

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >take fin
      >groggy as fuck
      >cut back to 3 times a week
      >no side effects
      it definitely hasnt made my hair any thicker but loss wise it seems to be about the same as when i started, maybe a little loss. it's no magic pill thats for sure

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Go ham at SS for a year then do a push pull(with deadlift) legs high volume to failure split once a week. Eat a ton of starch and vegetables. Don't eat sweets/fats. Don't obsess over protein quality.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'd tell myself to drop out, it doesn't get any better. You can't start anew without letting things end.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I can relate so much : (

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don’t drink alcohol
    Become Orthodox
    Don’t go to a psychologist or take anti-depressants
    The person who abused you is going to die alone and miserable

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Don’t go to a psychologist or take anti-depressants
      Why not? I've never done either but I'm curious

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It’s all bullshit. SSRI and the like change your brain chemistry and in 99.9% of cases that can be changed through behaviour, plus they have a massive downside of prolonging anxiety/depression and then withdrawal, long lasting side effects.
        Psychology is 99.9% cope and memes. It turns you in on yourself in a bad way. Therapists talk about stuff they don’t understand as if it is an empirical science.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Therapists talk about stuff they don’t understand as if it is an empirical science.
          fuck you, jordan peterson is king

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          SSRI's suck, DNRI's on the other hand...

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            System of a down. You were created by God. You don’t need your brain chemistry “re-balanced” - you need to find out that you have a creator and that you are made in his image. This life is pain because creation is corrupted. That’s why when God became one of us he was crucified. It had to be that way, that was always going to happen. That’s what happens in this world. The righteous get crucified. But there has only ever been one truly, purely righteous man. And he suffered the same fate. The good shepherd lays down his life for his sheep. Fully God, fully man. A perfect man who did nothing but being life to everyone around him, who gave of himself, who loved God, obeyed his commandments amd loved others with everything in his being. Healing them. Showing mercy to thieves and prostitutes and lepers. Befriending outcasts. This world crucified him. All we need to do is believe he did the right thing and do the same.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              shut up

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >they hated him because he told the truth

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              some people need extra chemicals bro my brother is a legit schizo perfectly fine on meds off meds hes throwing feces in the middle of the street screaming about pedophiles in the walls

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I have been using ssri for almost 5 years. read about cbt and actually became social.

          I have almost zero anxiety now. can speak in public and talk to hot girls without losing it.

          shit works. it's literally same as lifting. progressive exposure.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Cock and ball torture?

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              BALL STRETCHER

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        garden gnomes

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Don’t go to a psychologist or take anti-depressants
      Why not? I've never done either but I'm curious

      Not him but I did therapy for 2 years (no meds) and concluded that, although most therapists are good people who want the best for their patients, the industry requires people to not get better. The moment you're healed is the moment you stop paying them.

      My therapist admired that I was proactive about things, reading books in addition to our sessions, always asking for advice on the next step or technique. But ultimately they were only trained to help me talk through what I was going through, never to make things better.

      I forgot who said it but some Ivy league psych professor is outspokenly against therapy, and says the same stuff, notably: "knowing more about the negatives in your life doesn't help you change them. You can study your negatives intimately, and in the end you're still just left with the knowledge of whats bad, and how to fix it. So save the time and money and just fix it".

      So now that's what I do.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        We have to imagine a large proportion of the population lack self-awareness (the npc meme's existence), so ymmv

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'd puch my younger self and tell him to not let that girl go away. Life's a complete joke since then

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    STOP BEING A FUCKING WEAK CUNT
    AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Start roids with 18 instead of 26.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How’s the hair?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        No problem at all, I have good hair genetics.
        And I even tried Masterone and Trenbolon.
        On Mast I lost some hair, when I was going through my hair I always had like 2-3 hairs in my hand.
        But when I stop my hair gets thicker again.

        I guess even if I had hairloss I would just fly to turkey and get a hair transplant, costs nothing.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Stop doing 5x5 you don't need to squat every workout.
    Lifting is the only thing that keeps you mentally sane, so don't stop.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Go to university now
    Start lifting
    The friends you have now suck and w

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I would kill myself

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Go workout every day rest days are a meme

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Not my proudest fap

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Fixed it

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous
  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Get a haircut. Unless you have Willem Defoe hair, shorter is better

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just do pull ups and core exercise and start biking 10hours a week

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Mine and buy bitcoin, dont sell for at least 8 years, start a chain of cheap commerial gyms.

    Start cyvling. (On a roadbike of course, not peds)

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just start lifting, start making your muscles burn in anyway possible, don't worry about routines, you won't be able to make all of them and it will discourage you. Don't worry about min/maxxing and getting 5% out of your lifts, just lift and sprint. Also read Nietzsche through the prism of the importance of the physical form, that will inspire you. Bronze Age Mindset will be released in six years time and you'll be ahead of the curve.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    listen to your fucking dad and start lifting NOW

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Embrace inceldom. Also you're too stupid for college, those assholes who told you your entire life you could do anything you wanted were lying to you.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Gives shit advice to past self
      Based self hater

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I mean my life would be easier if I hadn't failed out of both college and trade school. Also considering every woman I've been with was awful the logical conclusion is that it's probably on me.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Lol, this bro thinks college midwits are actually that much smarter than him.

      t. Retarded uni graduate

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    complete a degree as fast as you can
    learn to code, build a btc mining rig
    maxx out on pullups, then lift and eat a lot
    basically money max

    I want to massage granny soles on the couch inside and cum on her soles

  20. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    hit the gym, put the fork down, and stop giving a fuck. start going boxing and stick with it too. everyone is different, and not all of them are gonna like you. its a lot easier to be self confident when you know you outbench or outbox the average person. sack up and just be yourself. and stop taking yourself so seriously. it makes you look even more insecure, learn to take a fucking joke.

  21. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You left it in the cupboard
    Don't open it anyway

  22. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Lift and start martial arts now, stop eating junk, don’t marry that dumb bitch, pump and dump, you’re more attractive to women than what you think you are, but your game sucks, stop giving a shit what most people think and just be you. Oh, and when that guy offers you a business opportunity, fucking DO IT.

  23. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    it doesn't get better

  24. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    lift,run ,stop wasting your time on internet or on videogames,go learning a martial,go learn to soot and hunting and go back to learn maths,bio and physic.

  25. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don't leave her and don't hurt her because ultimately you are going to hurt yourself
    It might sound unbelievable, but you are the free-est you'll ever will be. Try out the sport options your university offers. Get fit, get to the gym, or literally pick up any sports
    Don't you everever play wow again
    Sleep more
    Eat more
    Don't abandon your childhood friends
    These alone will heal your depression

    Bonus:
    Everything is going to be alright

  26. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >people you party with ain’t your real friends
    >stop drinking and smoking and start running
    >get back on the path you were on at 18
    >wear condoms, retard
    >everything is full of vegetables oils, don’t consoom that shit

  27. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Quit video games and your drive in other things will dramatically improve (ie: studies, gym, etc)
    Quit porn
    Quit weed

    Ultimately there were mistakes that I made that I learned from, so I wouldn't try to change much; but I definitely could have benefitted from dropping some of the things that were sapping my motivation and drive.

  28. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Join the triathlon team, lift, do boxing and any grappling martial art, EAT PROPERLY (yes you’re a poor college kid, but this is an absolute priority).
    As for life lessons, just put yourself in uncomfortable positions, that’s how you grow into being a man…getting comfortable with the uncomfortable.
    And one last thing for all the teens to early 20s guys…your body is still developing. My friend just yesterday sent a pic of our little friend group from when we were 21 and in college. It’s almost unbelievable how much more handsome my buddies got face wise years later…their jaws chisseled out and of course having stubble really rounds out their looks. Of course we’ve all been good about taking care of our health etc., but really if you’re under fucking 30 or so, cut that black pill defeatist talk, you’re literally still growing and developing into a man.

  29. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Joy Donaldson, for the uninitiated

  30. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Stop playing video games, they're a waste of time.

  31. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Visit a specialist to find out where that stroke came from in the first place, until then keep taking your meds.
    stop smoking weed and dont watch so much porn you degenerate virgin.
    start to lift again or swim or climb and fucking stick to it, eat regulary and you will stop being a pathetic lanklet.
    As soon as you find that BTC-Atm dump all you have in there and fucking keep it instead of wasting it on drugs, also do not get involved with that succubus, she belongs in a ward!

  32. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    get fit now. drink less. don't be as picky with fuck buddies.

  33. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >play less video games
    >play sports
    >say "yes" to things in general, get out of your fucking room
    video games are great but you have to watch out so you don't get addicted. I used to play games like 8-10 hours a day back in school while my friends were playing sports and kissing girls. At the time I thought they were dumb but now I realize I was the dumb one.

  34. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Eat as much ass as possible before getting married.

  35. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Stop drinking and start lifting, you whiny gay!

  36. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I doubt I could convince the retard that was me at 20 to do anything useful. Going back to body snatch my 20 year old self would be the only way to save myself.

  37. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    buy bitcoin

  38. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    stop fucking playing videogames.
    try different jobs
    fuck more girls even if they look average
    manage your dopamine
    get a sleeping pattern
    drop energy draining looser friends
    try new stuff more regularly
    learn piano and/or guitar
    paint
    draw
    masturbate less
    dont watch porn

    fuck writing this makes me depressed

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >don't join the military. it puts you on a downward spiral until like 25 when you start to get out of it and ~28 when you're "back to normal"

      >invest into btc.

      >cut your parent out of your life. they never change and by hanging with them you are recreating the cycle and bad experiences from your childhood. aka: you never grow up until they're out of your life

      >get on trt asap

      >get on tinder and fuck everything that moves. after 2020 the app becomes infested with tiktok gay and reddit nerds. basically unusable

      >your friends from school become different people. bite the bullet and accept when it is time to let them go. remember the good times, but don't expect things to be like they were in the past.

      get fit now. drink less. don't be as picky with fuck buddies.

      Interesting that you all wish you had fucked more average girls. Where did this come from? Did you hold out for perfect girls that never came along?

      T. someone who fucked literally everything with a pulse and loved it

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        it was a weird mix of
        >self sabotage
        >lack of self respect
        >beta
        >performance anxiety
        >coomer ed
        >porn desensitization

  39. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Eat more and track your calories. Drinking protein after the gym won't do it all.

  40. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Go do the military training

  41. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Nothing , nothing at all…I would just smile and hug myself with a pat on the back and go back in time here again.

  42. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Change majors in uni, but don't take accounting and keep going for that firefighter dream. Start running slowly so you don't fuck your knees permanently

  43. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Go to the garage and have a nice day with that rope next to the lawnmower. The next 20 years of your life is going to be hell on earth. END IT NOW!!!

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >sent from my iPhone

  44. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >What would you tell your 20 yo self? ISTness speaking. But general life lesson is OK too.
    Go lift, bro. Stop wasting time on video games and chasin' skirts. Don't be a pussy, eat big and lift big. Trust me, it pays off in the long run

  45. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Start a business in college.
    Don't get a PhD.
    Lift weights instead of exclusively doing cardio.
    Start more groups instead of joining groups.
    Be more empathetic towards other people.

  46. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Ditch your loser friends, quit drinking, and eat properly.

  47. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    CICO to lose weight, pescatarian just fruit and fish is the best for skin and looksmaxxing

  48. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >don't join the military. it puts you on a downward spiral until like 25 when you start to get out of it and ~28 when you're "back to normal"

    >invest into btc.

    >cut your parent out of your life. they never change and by hanging with them you are recreating the cycle and bad experiences from your childhood. aka: you never grow up until they're out of your life

    >get on trt asap

    >get on tinder and fuck everything that moves. after 2020 the app becomes infested with tiktok gay and reddit nerds. basically unusable

    >your friends from school become different people. bite the bullet and accept when it is time to let them go. remember the good times, but don't expect things to be like they were in the past.

  49. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I would tell myself to invest everything I had into bitcoin and then NFTs and then tell myself exactly when to bail out.

  50. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >go to the gym
    >Get a job
    >Work on your social skills by talking to your coworkers and classmates in college
    >Going out alone to clubs and raves is easier when it’s music you’re genuinely interested in
    >There are more girls who think your more attractive then you actually think

  51. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It doesn't matter, I'd never listen to it.

  52. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Don't stop lifting, and eat like shit because you are depressed that only makes it worse.
    >Start meditating everyday
    >Talk to people even if it fells awkward no progress can be made if you don't put in effort.
    >Buy BTC sell as soon as normies start talking about it.

  53. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You're not chubby because of your genetics, but because your mom is obese and tells you you're already lean (not her fault, tho, she really thought that way). You CAN get leaner.

    Don't lower your calories too much, it's killing your gains. Stick to the gym and trust the process.

  54. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    > don’t cheat on her
    > don’t cheat on her
    > don’t cheat on her

  55. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dont give her 6 years of your life. She will leave you for refusing to take part in medical experimentation and replace you within a month.

  56. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don’t run from God.

  57. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don't be a dick to Debora. She's a great girl and if she leaves you will miss her.

  58. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’m 20 now so nothing

  59. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Get fit, apply for student-neetbux, move in with your gf ASAP and study engineering instead of physics.

  60. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    20 year old me would not listen to 40 year old me

  61. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Work full time with school part time.
    Save and invest money to buy a house.
    Say yes more often.
    Start learning to cook now.
    Use the internet less.
    Travel more.
    Game less.
    Exercise and gym more.
    Join the military earlier.
    Cut toxic people from your life, family and friends.
    I could go on and on.

  62. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    kill women

  63. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Im 20 years old and i would go back in time to few days ago to talk to that cute girl from my class more sooner. Oh well, go big or go home, and the more i go the better i get

  64. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >dump current gf it will end in a year anyways and you’ll be a wreck
    >start cutting, dont stop lifting, get assessed for sleep apnea/sleep on the floor
    >stay away from all drugs
    >give up on current desired career path it sucks, the people getting into it mostly suck, and the pay is ass. Go to trade school for electrician, learn to weld. Get job asap. Save. You do not want to be almost 30 still living at home.
    >move out asap, always have $20,000 MINIMUM saved. Ensure you never have to live at home again
    >keep loose contact with these friends because through them you will meet another girl. It still may not last but it will be better than your current gf and you need to experience that. But after that cut them off, they’re scumbags holding you back
    >still get your EMT license anyways, try to have approx $50k saved up. A virus will hit and there will be a massive money finesse that the state pays for. Start learning about CLIA certificates/licenses and at about 2019 try to get in touch with [these medical professionals] to become an owner. Propose to them the ideas on [drawn out list of bsuiness plan I stole] to have 1/4th ownership of the entire company. [this doctor] is the friendliest and easiest to work with, he will genuinely help you without fucking you over like the other 3]. You will make half a mil a month. If you’re an owner. You will be in a position to never work again if you operate even a half of the duration of state funded testing. You’ll be able to retire before your even late 20s.
    >never shit where you eat btw bro, you will make out with a coworker and she will tell everyone you raped her. In fact once you get that security gig, allow people you know to steal and split profits with you out of spite towards the black supremacist management. They can’t do anything but fire you and will never be able to prove you know the people you let steal.
    >Enjoy life
    There is a lot I would do differently

  65. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >lower the weights on all your lifts, focus on form, slow reps and time under tension, do more drop sets and sets x failure (failure = concentric>isometric>cheat into eccentric)
    >sleep more, eat more vegetables and a more varied diet to get more micronutrients
    >cardio at least once a week, preferably twice
    I assume you're not allowed to cheat by saying buy crypto or stock X that went to the moon so
    >find 2-4 good index funds and dump all your cash there, save monthly
    >say yes to more things
    >quit porn
    >make more of an effort to make new friends, when you meet new people don't just because an acquaintance, become a friend
    >be more sincere with people, you know you don't like small talk so try having deeper conversations with those who are interested instead of having a layer of irony over almost all your interactions
    Probably more shit I could add but I've got to go to bed now. The problem with giving your younger self advice is that you would probably be too stupid to listen, even if you knew it came from yourself.

  66. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Leave your missus, today.

    She’s a lazy piece of shit and will only get worse after having the kids. The love will fizzle out and the next 18 years of you giving her all you could will be repaid by her turning into an overweight, weak person who blows up in the face of anything slightly difficult.

    You’ll wander aimlessly through life in a daze, your only joy being your two kids which you lovely dearly. Attempting to avoid your partner by spending your evenings working out in your garage gym.

    But yeah, your garage gym is fucking sweet, so there’s that at least.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      it feels so weird reading stuff like this, how many things in life can't be undone, scary af.

  67. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >But general life lesson is OK too.
    Don't Fucking Join the Army.

  68. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Fitness:
    It’s not vain, it’s easier than you think, you can still be an intellectual just look at Plato

    Life: No one is going to rescue you, you have to get off your own ass and take the things you want for yourself. Also, don’t chase a woman who doesn’t want you. Even if she dates you in the end it won’t be worth it. And stop letting your pride prevent you from improving your life.

  69. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Stop using 4ch

  70. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's never going to be a perfect time to buy a horse so just do it right now.

  71. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don't let your brother go to college. Do everything you can to stop that from happening.

  72. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’m 20 right now. How do I live a life with no regrets?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Just do everything in the thread

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >take calculated risk
      >say yes to things
      >get out your comfort zone
      >spend as much time as you can with friends and family
      >enjoy your free time
      >do that thing you want even if you think it won't work out

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >do that thing you want even if you think it won't work out
        Fuck this hits hard. I’m trying to get into medschool one day but I’m afraid I won’t make it. But I’m trying. Thanks dude.
        >t. The 20 year old anon

  73. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don't get addicted to heroin you little retarded gay

    cost me like 5 years of rehab and therapy

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I’m sorry to hear that

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      costed my best friend his life on 10/30

  74. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Get the fuck out of the military and go be a truck driver.

  75. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Learn some humility.

  76. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'd be 5, so I'm not sure I'd listen
    >Do chad sports, like Hockey and Lacrosse
    >Make friends, even if you don't like them
    >Don't play Pokemon cards, your parents will never support your hobby
    >Don't get chubby
    >Learn to lift in high school
    >Don't study mandarin, study cs or math
    >Join a frat or sports team
    >Start interning as soon as possible

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >what would you tell your 20 year old self?
      >I'd be 5
      So you were 5 years old when you were 20 years old?
      lol retard

  77. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Kms

  78. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 21 and already doing more than half the advice given in this insufferable thread, Common W

  79. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Stop going back to the apartment and napping between classes. It fucks with your sleep schedule.

  80. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'd tell my 20y/o self to just end it

  81. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    20 was 13 years ago for me...

    I would have started saving and investing now. Do not drink, do not smoke pot, do not waste money on needless expenses. Do not masterbate. Do not put woman on a pedestal and work on self-improvement constantly. Don't get sucked into the bar/hookup scene. Be your own man and own who you are.

    That's about it. All that I listed I did and I regret most of it.

  82. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I wouldn't say anything at all because despite all the bad times it's made me who I am right now.
    I do not live with regret and neither should anyone here. You are your best self because you're the only version of yourself that made it this far.

  83. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I would tell him nothing helps.

  84. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Nothing I say to my past self will matter. I will end up the same, otherwise I would never go back in time to tell myself that nothing will change. Grandfather paradox is a heartless bastard.

  85. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Eat more, like way more, learn to count calories
    >Lift smart, stretch and warm up even even you don't think you need to, injury will put you way further back
    >No one at the gym cares that you're dyel, don't waste months lifting at home first
    >Invest in Bitcoin like a lot a lot.

  86. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I would rape myself. Now neither of us would be virgins.

  87. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Don't smoke weed, or, if you must, only do it on the weekends. Long story short, at this point you are no longer really smoking weed; the weed is smoking you.
    >Don't even bother with alcohol.
    >Mind-altering substances, including SSRI's, prevent you from thinking clearly and slowly turn you into a different (worse) version of yourself.
    >The reason why you're underperforming at school is because you believe in binge studying (cramming) and multitasking. Instead, study each subject for 10-15 minutes a day, every day.
    >Try lots of extracurricular activities. Get out more.
    >Don't eat shit. Get a handle on the basics of nutrition science.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Dude weed is not that bad in moderation

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        only krokodil is bad

  88. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >life is great
    >life will become even better
    >you’ll have a kid with the perfect woman in your life
    >you’ll enjoy every moment
    >don’t be stupid and use up all your savings when Covid hits, you’ll need it for when Ukraine gets invaded and prices go up like crazy.
    >don’t sell your car, the EV car you swap with will be a complete disaster.

  89. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    cut the beer consumption and video games
    dont have a girlfriend, ever
    drop university
    work

  90. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    dont worry about how women/ your peers think of you, you are alone, they'll be gone, just focus on your interests

  91. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    please for the love if everything, source

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Joy Donaldson

  92. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Start Intermittent Fasting

  93. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    1. People who tell you money doesn't matter have never had money. By working hard in your twenties and maximising your income, you'll make the rest of your life a hell of a lot easier.
    2. Pick up a sport as a hobby and stick to it, team sports, especially like soccer and rugby, you'll make new friends and have a great time. It's also something you can turn to when going through a bad patch.
    3. The only woman's opinion you should ever care about is your mother's. She's one of only two people you'll meet in your life who has your best interests at heart.
    4. Listen to your parents: see 3
    5. Don't party too much. It takes up time you could be self-improving.
    6. If you're ever on the fence about going to the gym one day. Go. You'll feel much better about it.
    7. Travel as much as you can in your twenties
    8. If you get the opportunity to work abroad, go.
    9. Don't overly worry about anything. By the time you reach your mid-30s, you'll realise how short life is, and there's nothing worth worrying about.
    10. Change jobs fairly frequently - the loyalty you give to a company is never reciprocal.

  94. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Get your ED issues examined by a doctor. Fuck more. Don't get in a relationship with a woman who earns way less than you. You're so far from done, you'll only just begun.

  95. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Go to Church
    Take that advanced Jap class
    Go dance

  96. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Lift heavy and don't focus so much cardio. Stop drinking, smoking weed and playing video games. Stop thinking women are rational and what they say should be taken at face value. Study harder. Drink 4+ cups of black coffee a day. Wake up earlier. Eat carnivore. Stop eating sugar and sneed oils. Embrace and be happy with my autism instead of trying to somehow correct it. Don't get married.

  97. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That girl who for three years always sat in front of you, without fail, in lectures and seminars is into you and if you go for her you can at least brag you banged an heiress.

  98. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Stop playing video games. Don't play league ever.

  99. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don't waste your time with college, take whatever little savings you have and put it all in BTC and ETH. Start lifting a 12x3 routine and forget about that sharding strength shit, forget about vidya because that shit sucks. Don't bother chasing skirts, it won't make you happy. Even if you end up a billionaire, you will never be happy, and honestly, it's only in struggle do we truly feel alive. One day, you'll look back and realize you "made it," but you'll find a new mountain to climb.

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