I literally just go up to random girls in the club and ask them to dance or tell them they are cute and pretty much every time I at least make out with one or two and get a couple numbers. Like 1 in 3 times I get laid. Literally just spam approaches girls go to these places to meet guys
What's the point though if those girls have done the same a hundred times before with previous random homies and will continue to do so with other randoms?
Lol yea better to just stay in your house and not try at all and have your le dignity while you jack off alone on a weekend night. Its fun to go out and meet people and feel that rush when you click with someone and the vibes are good and shes staring into her eyes and you know you can do anything with this chick for the night etc... Incels wouldnt understand
>shes staring into her eyes and you know you can do anything with this chick for the night etc
What's the point of chasing validation from random women, especially those who would forget you in an instant if a better looking taller guy walked in?
Its fun, I grew up ugly and skinnyfat so the validation feels good. Plus I tell myself I hook up with/ date enough girls Ill increase my odds of eventually finding that unicorn. I found one once. Lost her because I was a young moron. Now Im trying to do it again.
>Its fun
Fair enough then. >grew up ugly
Same. Was a super late bloomer. In uni I had major acne, looked awkward, and I was still growing. After I looksmaxxed and physically matured I started getting approached by chicks but it all felt empty. Seeing their nastier side in my younger years spoiled girls for me. Interesting how our approaches to women turned out differently.
Yes I am quite IST. Fake natty influencer type of physique. I really cant dance that well but recently I started branching out and learning to line dance and shit and go to country bars (im in a red state) and man its a game changer you impress these girls with some moves spin her around a few times and you got a connection right there
Get some drinks into you until your social anxiety is gone.
Move to the middle this eliminates the clowns at the bar and walls.. gives you a 2:1 ratio now. If you assume most men won’t even talk to a girl it’s a 1:1 or even a 2:1 (woman:men) ratio now. The game is in your favor… come up with a convo starter. Last week I was out an there was small flyer for a cornhole tournament. I would ask the girls if they are good. If they said yes I asked them to be my partner (most said yes) then I said my name and asked for her number. If she said no she wasn’t good at cornhole I said I can teach you and processed to introduce and ask for the number. It’s actually fun and good practice to do for when you see a woman you really like. (hopefully not at a bar and your sober) good luck
If you get rejected just move on it doesn’t matter. If I did I said have a good night bye. You’ll find out some woman are just rude off the jump but don’t let it destroy your confidence
No.
stand like this
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I would never go to a concrete.
Once you are not afraid to dance, you’ve truly made it.
I literally just go up to random girls in the club and ask them to dance or tell them they are cute and pretty much every time I at least make out with one or two and get a couple numbers. Like 1 in 3 times I get laid. Literally just spam approaches girls go to these places to meet guys
What's the point though if those girls have done the same a hundred times before with previous random homies and will continue to do so with other randoms?
Youd be surprised. I usually dont go for the hottest chicks bc they are like that but I go for cute 6s and 7s and there usually not even ran thru.
This post lacks dignity and reeks of simp. "Keep trying until one is desperate enough to have you."
Lol yea better to just stay in your house and not try at all and have your le dignity while you jack off alone on a weekend night. Its fun to go out and meet people and feel that rush when you click with someone and the vibes are good and shes staring into her eyes and you know you can do anything with this chick for the night etc... Incels wouldnt understand
>shes staring into her eyes and you know you can do anything with this chick for the night etc
What's the point of chasing validation from random women, especially those who would forget you in an instant if a better looking taller guy walked in?
Its fun, I grew up ugly and skinnyfat so the validation feels good. Plus I tell myself I hook up with/ date enough girls Ill increase my odds of eventually finding that unicorn. I found one once. Lost her because I was a young moron. Now Im trying to do it again.
>Its fun
Fair enough then.
>grew up ugly
Same. Was a super late bloomer. In uni I had major acne, looked awkward, and I was still growing. After I looksmaxxed and physically matured I started getting approached by chicks but it all felt empty. Seeing their nastier side in my younger years spoiled girls for me. Interesting how our approaches to women turned out differently.
My point stands. If shallow meet ups is your thing, great. Its still a simp mentality regardless.
are you IST and do you usually dance?
Yes I am quite IST. Fake natty influencer type of physique. I really cant dance that well but recently I started branching out and learning to line dance and shit and go to country bars (im in a red state) and man its a game changer you impress these girls with some moves spin her around a few times and you got a connection right there
true , women like being spun around and moved around on the dance floor
damn I'm in Long Island. no country bars or line dancing out here.
meanwhile the music is too loud to say much of anything. I hate it here.
Im in a red state also and this is 100% true … country bar girls are the best usually very respectful
do you go by yourself
OP it’s easy
Get some drinks into you until your social anxiety is gone.
Move to the middle this eliminates the clowns at the bar and walls.. gives you a 2:1 ratio now. If you assume most men won’t even talk to a girl it’s a 1:1 or even a 2:1 (woman:men) ratio now. The game is in your favor… come up with a convo starter. Last week I was out an there was small flyer for a cornhole tournament. I would ask the girls if they are good. If they said yes I asked them to be my partner (most said yes) then I said my name and asked for her number. If she said no she wasn’t good at cornhole I said I can teach you and processed to introduce and ask for the number. It’s actually fun and good practice to do for when you see a woman you really like. (hopefully not at a bar and your sober) good luck
If you get rejected just move on it doesn’t matter. If I did I said have a good night bye. You’ll find out some woman are just rude off the jump but don’t let it destroy your confidence
I'm in the backstage stealing stuff from the band which will be available in DNM in 48 hours
Who the frick is still going to clubs?
youre funny