I'm gonna get laid in a couple of days but I have this persistent problem with performance anxiety
It takes a long time for me to relax and get into the mood, how do I get rid of this?
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I'm gonna get laid in a couple of days but I have this persistent problem with performance anxiety
You have to visualize her as a cheap prostitute when you are sexing
This unironically works.
Sex is better if you’re just natural and enjoying he body.
Lie down and get her to suck your dick for awhile. Then go in raw. After the first time it fades.
We had sex before, lot of foreplay and stuff but I did do it. Took too long
I worry and stress over things in general
Just stop caring so much. What are you even so worried about?
You probably will be nervous which is fine. Focus on the positives in the situation. Look at her breasts, her ass, watch your dick going in and out, find a smooth rhythm, close your eyes and focus on how her pussy feels on your dick. You don't have to worry about her. Finger her for a few minutes while you kiss her, play with her breasts, whatever; but have the attitude that she is a toy for you to play with. It's better for both of you that you see it as you enjoying her body while expressing how she turns you on (through words and/or actions). Most girls like being used to an extent, if she's the softer type just kiss and hold her more while you have your way with her.
Call me a beta or whatever but I usually focus a lot on the pleasure of the other person. I just like making them feel good and nobody has complained so far
Is this "cheap prostitute" mindset really that beneficial?
As long as you don't come across as supplicating it's fine but I think women like to feel like they make you so horny you kind of lose control, and I think they like to feel primal. The thing is women who like you tend to mirror whatever you want so it's hard to tell what they actually like. OP is anxious so I think focusing on his own pleasure is better for him (you?).
Don't think of it as treating her like a prostitute. Think of it as you two forgetting about your modern lives and getting to be two animals together for a while.
It's OP and I might be a little supplicating
I think I'm just gonna take it easy since I've been with this person. No use overthinking. BTW it's not a woman
Well I have no idea how to frick a man/dog/troony/gundam/whatever you're fricking so disregard everything I said.
Same as a woman just a bit more foreplay since you got to loosen them up
Nice fricking bait dude, pls screencap so we know its not really OP.
I have the opposite problem
Op here forgot to mention I'm transgender in a relationshil with another transgender dont know if that matters
Unironically have a nice day you disgusting homosexual
Don't think you will frick it up, that would be awful, don't you think? haha imagine that... phew
hold your breath + buy a $30 vibrator off amazon. You could be fricking a donkey and this would work
pop a perc dumb ass homie
Drink a frickin beer or two (or seltzer if u zoom). They don’t call it liquid courage for nothin.