How do I increase my willpower? I want to stop doing things that are bad for me (Fapping/Eating shit food) yet I can't stop, I hate doing these things and yet I can't control myself, what do I do?
Iron Will
How do I increase my willpower? I want to stop doing things that are bad for me (Fapping/Eating shit food) yet I can't stop, I hate doing these things and yet I can't control myself, what do I do?
Stop telling yourself that these behaviours are a factor of "willpower" or some other resource that you can pretend you lack and makes you powerless.
Pledge your soul to Christ, and ask to be moved in accordance to the will of the Lord. Atheistic "euphoria" is inherently fleeting, only the Lord grants eternal glory.
>Praise soul to Christ
>Picrel is Muslim
To be honest, I've wanted to get deeper into my faith for a while, I've bought a bible but I haven't really read through much of it, how do I get closer with Christ?
Pledge*
Islam recognises Christ as a prophet, not necessarily a Messiah; the point is the piety in the image.
Just begin by contemplation, thinking on it.
I thought muslims considering praising Christ as idolatry.
They Worship Muhammad and kiss the black stone.
Muslims first rule is willing submission to God alone and they interpret a lot of Jesus' teachings as him saying the same thing, worship God only
Worshiping, not praising. He is considered a great prophet in addition to being the Messiah, very praiseworthy. He is revered as the prophet Jesus PBUH (peace be upon him) one of the great prophets who brought divine guidance to humanity
100% referred to as Messiah in the Quran
Fapping is not bad for you tho.
Just build long term habits. They start piling up and after a couple of years you're performing at a higher level on everything.
It is if I can't stop doing it, or can't go a few days without it, plus NNN is tomorrow
NNN is a meme and you're gonna end up being a repressed coomer for a month. It's like making a fent junky quit cold turkey. The moment he is back on the streets, he will look for the next dealer asap.
I feel like a loser after I fap
You feel like loser if you don’t fap.
I HATE THE ANTICHRIST
Shock therapy.
Go into a monastery for a period of 1 month. You can travel to the Himalayan mountains into a Buddhist monastery with Shaolin monks if Christian monasteries are not you thing.
If monasteries in general are not your style, go to fatty camp (which is a ripoff so you actually shouldn't).
Also maybe what you need is just ADHD meds (started 1 year ago and I'm getting great progress with my procastrination and impulsive issues)
You just need ONE GOOD DAY.
Hold your willpower for one day, that you'll be proud of.
The day after, you yourself will want to keep the positive direction, and keep going.
Even if you relapse, you just need another ONE GOOD DAY to get back on track.
And the days after will come easier, because your overall willpower pool will grow.
Trips of truth because that's what Anon was speaking
Uninstall tiktok
Also, power of will is not something tangible, homosexual.
Simply dont do something and that's it. Think about what's more important, to be good or to eat shit and jack your dick.
See for yourself what matters more.
If you still do it, then frick you, you clearly care more about being shit than being good. Live likke the pig you are and alone.
As a human you are the only animal who can control its own behavior and you are not using that power.
You stop feeding into your denial. “I can’t stop” isn’t true. You can stop, but you choose not to. You need to figure out why- it’s not super complicated, probably it’s that you aren’t setting yourself up for success with your environment because you don’t want it enough. Keep junk food out of your house (a little is fine unless you have a serious binging problem) and stop feeding into routines that lead to fapping. For example, if being in bed late at night scrolling this coombait filled board makes you want to jerk off, obviously stop doing that for a while.
Either way, it’s always a choice. “I can’t stop” is just trying to remove responsibility from yourself by pretending like you can’t change your habits. You can. So stop lying to yourself and make an effort if you actually want to