is edging just as bad as busting to porn ?
is jerking to your imagination just as bad as jerking to porn?
is the only solution to do neither or can you get away with edging or jerking to imagination
>t. coomer who cant go cold turkey just yet
is edging just as bad as busting to porn ? is jerking to your imagination just as bad as jerking to porn?
very fit thread homosexual
meh. this is about my health and fitness
i feel like shit and have 0 energy or motivation if i coom
im too addicted to stop but if i could circumvent it by jerking without porn or something i could wane off
Then dont make a thread. Regardless of what anyone says you won't change. This isnt your blog.
Stop watching porn, especially if you jerk off to hentai, you can jack off every once in a while but porn has to go, sorry
for me the solution is to not jerk it or watch porn for a few days (particularly when I am busy) and then watch porn and jerking for a few days.
Honestly I've done it this way since I was about 11 and I've never had a problem. I relatively often also go through periods where I just realize it's been something like 9 days since I've even looked at a tit off a screen
>is edging just as bad as busting to porn ?
It's even worse
>is jerking to your imagination just as bad as jerking to porn?
No that's the healthier way. If you couldn't have sex throughout most of human history, including through prostitutes or rape, you'd normally just jerk off to your imagination
>you'd normally just jerk off to your imagination
actually, cave men used to go out into the woods and look for trees with knots that look like baginas
jackpot if you found a trunk with boob-like or butt-like features
Besides, with that mindset you're not going to achieve shit.
>waah can't quit cause addicted
that's why you should quit moron
>It's even worse
it doesnt make sense. what if you edge to your own thoughts?
No fap and no porn >> fap and no porn >>> porn
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>is edging just as bad as busting to porn ?
Yes
>is jerking to your imagination just as bad as jerking to porn?
No
>is the only solution to do neither or can you get away with edging or jerking to imagination
You can jerk off to your imagination as much as you like. Men have been doing it for centuries. Just don't look at porn man it's not that hard
I think ideally you would just jerk it to nothing but the feeling of your penis being jerked. I think for may former porn users our imaginations are a bit fricked from it. If you are fantasizing about a sexual encounter you had, fine. But I think most guys imagine some anime waifu degenerate fantasy that is not realistic.
>is edging just as bad as busting to porn ?
if you are concerned that you have coomer tendencies, then yeah, edging is basically just as bad as porn
sometimes a man needs to coom, but you don't want to turn it into an all-afternoon affair
just crank one out and move on with your day
edging and then not cumming is more unhealthy than cumming
everything in moderation. i realized quitting porn wasn’t realistic for me. i now watch it a couple times a month. sometimes not at all. i don’t crave it anymore and feel good.
It's even worse because you're cucking yourself not only by watching a better man frick but also by denying yourself the nut
Only if your imagination is real memories and not porns you saw
i can live with those consequences
porn is the bad part
Bad behaviour begets more bad behaviour. Doing one will lead you to the other and vice versa, so you're better to quit both for as long as you can. I still struggle with it tbqh. There's coombait everywhere, and even when I log off and go outside, all the woman are coombait wearing cycling shorts and no bras.
Orgasm is the problem. If you stop cumming, your biology becomes chad, but your mental doesn't change.
Porn makes you mentally moronic but doesn't change your biology.
Pick your poison or non at all. Either improve mental, physical or both
This is a very based take. But by saying "orgasm is the problem" you are implying that the physical problem is more important than the mental problem. I'm not sure if I'd agree with that. Ultimately, the mental problem is what makes us be a loser with bad habits (which also leads to the physical problem).
Yeah, the first phrase doesn't make any sense, i was probably too tired at the point of writing it, or just a moron
Imagination > edging > cooming to porn
However, in my experience, edging is impossible without cooming unless you're already a level-33 monk nofapper. And imagination can easily lead you back to porn, so if you're severely addicted, it's best to quit all of them cold turkey.
I edge to porn before I frick escorts it gives me a massive cumshot and I always give them facials. Pretty satisfying
is edging better than faping?
I just don't jerk off because the next day I feel without energy at all and that sucks because I go to the gym at 6am
I never understood a lot of things society normalize, one of those things is porn, I never felt like watching two people fricking and get off to that
Porn and masturbation addiction works the same as cigarette addiction. You must not engage in it even if you've abstained for months or else you'll go downhill again.
my guess is that porn is worse than fapping by far. if you want to quit, do what i did and just fap as soon as you get the urge to look at porn. it will take a lot of time. i still look at porn but its a lot less frequently and i dont look at all the fricked up stuff i used to.
>if you want to quit
>Proceeds to explain a method that doesn't work since he still watches porn
Why do you struggle so much? You guys like to be online cucks that much?
it works because i used to watch porn multiple times a day every day. now i slip up after two weeks.i have a lot of triggers from all my years watching porn that i am working on breaking down. each time gets better and better so that one day i will not have to even try to not watch porn.
but my advice will work because if you fap before you start watching porn you will lose a lot of motivation to look at porn.
watching porn and not jerking off leaves me even more mind-numbed because I watch it longer
>Jerking to porn is like soda, always bad
>Jerking to imagination is like water. A baseline amount is heslthy, more doesn't do anything extra, too much causes harm
Stick to normal fantasies involving people you personally know. Edging isn't harmful
Am I the only person who isn't aroused by porn? Most of the women look like chubby trailer trash and also don't look genuinely interested and appear sort of bored and fake excited.
I prefer genuine mires discreetly captured on camera of actually attractive women getting bothered and hot
all recreational sex leads to evil. why do yo uthink adam and eve felt ashamed of their nakedness after they ate the forbidden fruit?
Yes, it's dopamine depleting and makes you a premature ejaculator.
If you want to unbecome a coomer, you have stop looking at porn/bitches, you have to stop THINKING about it, if you let it take root in your thoughts it's over, and you have to stop touching your dick
this thread made me fap i need to filter that word now
>is edging just as bad as busting to porn ?
edging is way worse. Fricks up your pelvic floor, kills your libido when it comes to real sex, increases your prolactin, decreases testosterone, kills your boners, etc.
here's the basic rundown
more time spent jerking off = more exhausted dopamine receptor system
(affects: memory, attention, impulse control, regulation of renal function, locomotion, sleep, learning, cognition, decision making, renin secretion)
more ejaculations = greater exposure of prolactin hormone
(Too much prolactin in males results in headaches and decreased libido.)
I don't believe there's a large difference between porn usage and imagination with equal time spent. Both will exhaust your dopamine receptor system if abused.
I really REALLY want to stop jerking it because:
a) it makes me SO tired the next day, and doing just one day of nofap I can feel the drastic difference in how tired I am the morning
b) it makes me sweat a bit
c) it takes me ~30-45min everytime
d) I usually do it the night and everytime I cum I'm awake for the next hour,
e) I feel like it makes my hairline worse
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However everytime I see something slightly erotic I have a boner. An ass? Boner. A girl in a swimsuit? Boner. And I have to jerk off later
It's become really hard to browse anything here, there's coombait on every board I go (/misc/ IST IST IST)
try meditation for increased impulse control
I will look into, thanks for the advice
simple fricking solution: don't visit IST if you can't control yourself
How about you stop posting coombait instead
dont be a moron, go full monk mode to feel like a man on your own.
Worst to best
>Jerking it to 3D
>Jerking it to 2D
>Jerking it to imagination
>Paying prostie to jerk it
>Paying prostie for segz
>Rape prostie
>Gf/wife
Edging can be bad. I once got blue balls so bad that I felt nauseous, kinda like after getting hit in the nuts