you drop a plate in your foot and break it. It'll set you back a few weeks but you'll come out on the other side with more motivation. Otherwise nothing else changes.
It's what happens when you get too caught up in that gym lifestyle and every fiber of your being goes to climbing a little higher in the gym hierarchy. The hairstyle and facial hair, the tattoos, the PEDs, the token gym thot gf. Dom seems pretty self-aware though which gives him a huge survival edge over the typical equivalents of him in every backwater shit town that typically dies in a drunk driving accident or a drug overdose and then you have to see their gym widow start to get trashier and trashier looking until she finally starts outright stripping or doing porn to make rent. It's the circle of life, but I think Dom will avoid this fate.
his gf is 22 and her youtube channel gets a lot of fricking views so her onlyfans also probably makes bank as well, she would makes way more money than Dom now, her videos are all bikini and leggings try on and booty workout vlogs so she knows her audience
yeah but it its about the attitude, ian still has cuck energy and his wife is ugly and annoying, Dom has based energy and his gf is young, hot, and has dat ass
Dom is a chad meat head gym bro. He can pull hot young woman on the reg. His b***h is top tier. Lover boy mindset, he is pimping her out and stacking cash
PIMP
Idubbz on the other hand is a beta b***h simp. His wife is mid, old, and a roastie. Blown tf out, trash tattoos
remember when everyone made fun ofidubbz and called him a cuck for his GF having an OF?
Everyone thinks cuck but then you come to the enlightened idea of playing the hoe instead
yeah but it its about the attitude, ian still has cuck energy and his wife is ugly and annoying, Dom has based energy and his gf is young, hot, and has dat ass
Dom is a chad meat head gym bro. He can pull hot young woman on the reg. His b***h is top tier. Lover boy mindset, he is pimping her out and stacking cash
PIMP
Idubbz on the other hand is a beta b***h simp. His wife is mid, old, and a roastie. Blown tf out, trash tattoos
both idubbz and his gf went crazy with tattoos. typical hedonism dopamine rush addiction
Paying for pussy is not chad
Dom most likely gets some money out of her and she probably sucks the cum out of his dick regularly. He seems like the type of dude to throw her back to the streets when her expiration date will come around. Leo DiCaprio levels of based.
Idubz is just a sad case, he was basically an incel before meeting his b***h and now he's whiteknighting for her and letting her be a prostitute just because he got attached to the first crumb of pussy he got in a long time.
All my male friends have had sex before with girls that I know. Even the weird nerds had weird girlfriends. Even the pajeet manlets in my school had a pajeet girlfriend. I don't get how you failed. You'd literally have to actively avoid women to not get one. The only thing I can think of is that you're punching way above your weight but idk I'm a zoomer. Maybe shit was harder before social media.
incel, here. but not the one you're talking to.
in my younger years i was reasonably popular and it wasn't a problem for me that i didn't like things like sports.
i had a kind of narcissistic mindset. not like i loved myself but like it was not important to change your behaviour to fit in with others.
in fact, it wouldn't have occurred to me that you could change your behaviour and get on well with others. i just liked what i liked and people either liked or didn't like me.
this became a big problem moving to high school. (which happens when you're around 11 here, no middle school).
suddenly i'm getting bullied by girls for looking and being weird. i shrug that off.
but over time i'm getting bullied by what seems like everyone.
i keep shrugging and keep getting more depressed and introverted with less and less friends.
when everyone starts dating and going to parties i am at home playing vidya. i have a couple of friends left but they don't really go to parties either.
a couple of girls showed interest in me but by this stage i mentally can't accept that they were serious.
(by this time i have had too many of those experiences where the girl comes over to you and pretends to nice and then tries to humiliate you to give her friends a giggle.)
interacting with others was mostly nothing but pain. i was pretty fricked up.
so all that formative experience with girls was not there for me and by early 20s i did not have any friends left.
and there was barely any will there for me to change. being horny is treatable with your hand. having a gf seemed too bizarre to seriously consider and dealing with women strongly associated with pain.
the years went by and i desired it less and less.
i fricked up and i wish i didn't but still i do not desire a wife all that much.
Damn bro, same. I was pretty popular in primary school and at 12 moved interstate to an all boys school. I had this mentality that “it will happen eventually” (mostly with regards to making friends at that stage, but later with women) without realising you had to put effort into that kind of thing. And again sort of just fell into gaming instead. Again, exactly the same, no formative experience with girls (the fact it was an all boys school made this so much worse, I don’t even know any women my age). I don’t even know how to interact with women now. I’m 21 and still sort of have that “it will happen” mentality since I don’t really try to do anything. I don’t think it’s totally my fault though since the friends I have could be genuinely asexual for all I know. They don’t seem to want to have anything to do with women. While I’m too clueless to figure anything out alone…
1 year ago
Anonymous
i think one of the biggest stumbling blocks is we get by on this simulated friend product of IST and other places.
guys are like >i want pussy, not mates!
well if you get more irl mates you get more opportunities to meet women.
you have time to fix things but that time will be pissed away before you know it.
find places where you can meet people irl and go there.
this could even be an internet cafe, if those are still a thing, or a D&D or board games group.
there more masculine and well-adjusted the men there will be the better but something nerdy might be more entry-level.
1 year ago
Anonymous
I appreciate the advice. Just to be clear, I’m not a complete homosexual. I do do things, workout, car stuff, uni stuff, climbing. I meet people (almost entirely male, since not only does it seem women just don’t have hobbies, but I just don’t talk to women much) and many of these men are in reationships/ do actual social things like go to parties. I’m not sure if it’s real though I have some strange insecurity but I always feel like people don’t actually want to be around me. Like people I know well often talk to me about parties they went to/ are going to, girls they met, etc, but never actually invite me along. I am always too insecure to ask as wel.
God I feel like such a homosexual for typing that.
1 year ago
Anonymous
it might be helpful to think of yourself like a con man or a salesman.
no one wants to be your friend and hang out with you. you have to talk them into it.
everyone mostly just wants to keep their head down and do what they are already doing.
1 year ago
Anonymous
Nah don't nag it. Don't be a pushy salesman, present yourself as the cool product. Show people what they can have if they were friends with you and let them decide. Smile. Have casual small talk with basically everyone everywhere. Even the 60 year old cashier, it ended up being some girl's great aunt. One mechanic ended up being a dude's dad and I didn't know until I went to his house to buy a pair of Jordans from him.
I remember shit about people's lives to show them I care. If a stranger cares about you more than people you've know for years you'd want to be friends with that stranger.
Be larger than life. Even when I was alone in the library facing the wall I would put my headphones on and vibe to the music, as in visibly bop my head to the rhythm. People have shown me snaps and tiktoks of me being recorded and I didn't even know they were watching me. But a decent amount of people mentioned it and it was nice way to segway into a conversation about music.
I even occasionally go to the predominantly black areas to hoop. You never know when you a hood homie might come in handy, so far it's saved me from getting robbed once.
The grad job I have lined up in summer is because I bumped into one of my professors at a restaurant and met a friend of his who was looking to hire. I've met a receptionist I talked to once a year ago at the beach months later and ended up sleeping with her friend that same day.
And with women, don't pursue them for sex, show zero sexual interest in them and friendzone them, out of 50 girls I've met the one who wants me to frick her will make it known, the rest always respect me because I'm not "like the other guys". Treat them like any male friend. If they're hot all they get are guys wanting to hook up with them. Guys and girls will see you around women and think >"Damn that's a cool dude I wonder what they see in him, I want to talk to him now"
Become the friend you'd want to be friends with.
1 year ago
Anonymous
>I don’t think it’s totally my fault though since the friends I have could be genuinely asexual for all I know
Even the female ones?
i think one of the biggest stumbling blocks is we get by on this simulated friend product of IST and other places.
guys are like >i want pussy, not mates!
well if you get more irl mates you get more opportunities to meet women.
you have time to fix things but that time will be pissed away before you know it.
find places where you can meet people irl and go there.
this could even be an internet cafe, if those are still a thing, or a D&D or board games group.
there more masculine and well-adjusted the men there will be the better but something nerdy might be more entry-level.
>there more masculine
This is massive cope. The guys I know who get the most pussy look like your average tiktok e boy. One of my friends is a degenerate coomer but he uses tinder instead of pornhub to get his nut, and he doesn't do dates but still manages to get a few new girls every week from there. Guess what? He's 6ft 3 and can't bench 1 plate but has a zoomer hairstyle and a pretty face. Zero facial hair, baby smooth skin and a kinda squeaky voice. He's not gay or effeminate btw. Girls go for looks especially on dating sites but if you're slightly above average and really popular you can get girls irl.
>So you did it to yourself.
yes and no. i tried to point out in my story that theoretically i had a lot of power to change those outcomes.
eg. if i had sat down and thought "okay, people are giving me shit for being weird. what can i do to fit in?"
maybe i could have changed a lot of what happened. pretty sure i could have. but it never occurred to me that that was an option.
by the time those girls showed interest i was quite mentally ill. so even if i'd had enough skills to frick up less...
trait narcissism is a terrible thing. all the men in my family seem to have high levels of that.
it got me directly and indirectly through having a shitty dad.
i probably needed either a shrink to set me straight or an old school bully to beat the shit out of me.
Yh but that's life. Just get your looks in order, meet guy friends and be really likeable to as many people as possible. Eventually it'll work out either because you will become popular or you'll find your small friendship circle.
>I'm only 6ft 2 and decently attractive I guess
How do you write a paragraph of decent advice and end it with a shitty troll tier comment?
I'm ending it with some honesty before someone asks the inevitable question about my looks. I've seen guys more popular than me that are a few years older and younger that are below average by a lot but they have clear skin, white teeth and a decent hairstyle which is enough. And when you talk to them they're really funny, likeble and usually leave you with a good memory. I had to partner up with a guy who was really nerdy and socially isolated for an assignment in my first semester, kid wouldn't even make eye contact with me. But I hung out with him during the course of that semester and he began talking to the people who came by and talked to me. Over time he became confident but it took months because confidence has to be reinforced by life experiences. You can't just be confident. Btw that kid ended up getting some nerdy gf the year after. There's someone out there for you but you need to gain the social skills to get them first.
1 year ago
Anonymous
>Even the female ones?
As I said in my post I don’t know a single woman my age. My male friends are all morons who would rather play csgo than frick women. But since I’m finished school several years and lost contact now they’re pretty well the only friends I have.
1 year ago
Anonymous
Damn I didn't even know that was possible. I guess you have zero experience at all. Start of small and get comfortable talking to the cashier at a random shop. If you need baby steps then a thumbs up to the driver when they let you cross the road before asking someone where X is in the shop. Taxi drivers are a good step up. You'll learn how to keep a conversation going there. If you can have a great time with a 40 year old Ethiopian taxi driver then it shouldn't be that difficult to talk to normies irl. Stay up to date with irl stuff but avoid talking politics unless they're clearly political af and then just play dumb or mirror them. Even the deranged leftists like me as a person but I'm sure they wouldn't if they knew my real takes. If you're talking to a NBA addict, know enough to carry a conversation. Read and watch YouTube videos but mainly follow the right accounts on social media. You'll absorb the information scrolling. It'll take months so don't worry. Soon you'll be making friends at the airport.
BTW when it comes to numbers don't ask for it unless you know there's a reason for you to interact again in person very soon. Like if you just had a sportsball session with them or they're in your class. For anything else I realised people are uncomfortable with giving numbers to strangers and take it the wrong way, so if you're going to ask then just say "btw which would you prefer like my insta, snap or whatever" and give them your handle. If they want to talk to you they'll follow you. Same for numbers, give yours so it's their choice. It filters out flakey people and anyone not interested which happens to me to this day.
All of this won't happen if you stay inside all day so go outside as much as possible.
1 year ago
Anonymous
If only you knew how bad things really were.
1 year ago
Anonymous
Seriously though thank you for the advice… I hope I can fix this before it’s really too late.
>a couple of girls showed interest in me
So you did it to yourself.
not him but I am 24 years old and don't have any friends at all, so the only possible way I could meet women is by going up to random ones on the street
Get male friends, ideally ones who are social and interact with women regularly. Don't walk up to random women on the street. Guys don't usually just congregate to talk for the sake of talking, they do it during an activity. So like work, school, sports or a hobby. If they want you around more often, they'll invite you, if not just move on. You've gained an acquaintance which is a decent thing to have. The amount of times I've been places and bumped into a guy I've maybe talked to twice in my life, greeted him like he was my best friend and met the people he was chilling during the interaction is countless. Then you'll bump into the person he was with at another time and place and get to know them. Most social zoomers in my city know me because of that and most want to be my friend.
Like if I go to a party some guy I have seen before walks in and dozens of people greet him, and he's hitting it off with people throughout the night, I'd want to be friends with him. I hop around different social circles but stay within my main one half the time, so people sometimes go months or years without seeing me but since I have almost always left on a good note they're happy when they see me.
My advice to you is to do what I do. Rome isn't built in a year and neither is a reputation as a popular likeable person, I was a nobody when I was 15 but I'm 22 now and even random people's moms and dads talk to me lol.
Have an active social media presence and fake it until you make it.
Of course take care of your looks, get lean and try to be as attractive as possible but I don't think that's the main reason why I'm this well known. Most my friends are taller and hotter than me, I'm only 6ft 2 and decently attractive I guess, it's mostly my personality and word of mouth. Normies gossip all the time.
1 year ago
Anonymous
>So you did it to yourself.
yes and no. i tried to point out in my story that theoretically i had a lot of power to change those outcomes.
eg. if i had sat down and thought "okay, people are giving me shit for being weird. what can i do to fit in?"
maybe i could have changed a lot of what happened. pretty sure i could have. but it never occurred to me that that was an option.
by the time those girls showed interest i was quite mentally ill. so even if i'd had enough skills to frick up less...
trait narcissism is a terrible thing. all the men in my family seem to have high levels of that.
it got me directly and indirectly through having a shitty dad.
i probably needed either a shrink to set me straight or an old school bully to beat the shit out of me.
1 year ago
Anonymous
>I'm only 6ft 2 and decently attractive I guess
How do you write a paragraph of decent advice and end it with a shitty troll tier comment?
not him but I am 24 years old and don't have any friends at all, so the only possible way I could meet women is by going up to random ones on the street
How do you know that roastie isn't crazy? What looks sane about her? She looks like Melaney or whatever that roastie's name is with the webcomic.
This near barren roastie won not him.
>looks sick af bruh
Everyone reacts attractiveness, beauty, etc. on different 'levels' as I consider them. Broadly, there's the primal attraction that's mostly the same in everyone: muscle, breasts, butt,etc. Then there's personality traits that show themselves in peoples appearance, according to which people add or subtract 'attraction points' in their mind:
1. You finding tattoos unattractive while the 'urban youth' into 'thug/gangsta' culture or the guy into biker culture thinks they are pretty cool.
2. Many /misc/ type ISTners finding objectively attractive but nothing special (breasts, ass, etc.) women attractive when they are in modest, traditional attire.
3. The religious guy that thinks tatoos are a desecration of the skin/body, although he has sometimes liked the idea of a good tatoo in the past. (So he likes the look of a certain tattoo, it's the symbolic meaning of desecration of skin/being permanently marked/etc/ that he doesn't like, i.e. a different level)
you drop a plate in your foot and break it. It'll set you back a few weeks but you'll come out on the other side with more motivation. Otherwise nothing else changes.
We become rich and successful with a bunch of awful tattoos?
well they aren't cheap, they just look that way
He made decent leg gains despite his meme videos about legs.
Everything else is a straight downgrade, however
It's what happens when you get too caught up in that gym lifestyle and every fiber of your being goes to climbing a little higher in the gym hierarchy. The hairstyle and facial hair, the tattoos, the PEDs, the token gym thot gf. Dom seems pretty self-aware though which gives him a huge survival edge over the typical equivalents of him in every backwater shit town that typically dies in a drunk driving accident or a drug overdose and then you have to see their gym widow start to get trashier and trashier looking until she finally starts outright stripping or doing porn to make rent. It's the circle of life, but I think Dom will avoid this fate.
it seems like Dom just became his character
also his gf is like 19 and a massive thot
his gf is 22 and her youtube channel gets a lot of fricking views so her onlyfans also probably makes bank as well, she would makes way more money than Dom now, her videos are all bikini and leggings try on and booty workout vlogs so she knows her audience
remember when everyone made fun ofidubbz and called him a cuck for his GF having an OF?
Everyone thinks cuck but then you come to the enlightened idea of playing the hoe instead
yeah but it its about the attitude, ian still has cuck energy and his wife is ugly and annoying, Dom has based energy and his gf is young, hot, and has dat ass
Dom is a chad meat head gym bro. He can pull hot young woman on the reg. His b***h is top tier. Lover boy mindset, he is pimping her out and stacking cash
PIMP
Idubbz on the other hand is a beta b***h simp. His wife is mid, old, and a roastie. Blown tf out, trash tattoos
both idubbz and his gf went crazy with tattoos. typical hedonism dopamine rush addiction
Paying for pussy is not chad
Pussy is paying him.
They are both pathetic simps
Dom always talks about depraved porn stuff in his videos so he is definitely a degenrate,
You realise it's a character, right?
And? A Christian wouldn't play and promote a degenerate character.
Dom most likely gets some money out of her and she probably sucks the cum out of his dick regularly. He seems like the type of dude to throw her back to the streets when her expiration date will come around. Leo DiCaprio levels of based.
Idubz is just a sad case, he was basically an incel before meeting his b***h and now he's whiteknighting for her and letting her be a prostitute just because he got attached to the first crumb of pussy he got in a long time.
Wow shes frickin gross
>also his gf is like 19 and a massive thot
His gf is 11/10 tbh senpai
>also his gf is like 19 and a massive thot
Good for him
Decent gains, pity about that awful ink
>Decent gains
Motherfricker, he looks like he's been lifting for few months and didn't fall for "eat big" meme.
>for few months
dysmorphia
>get some ink bro, tattoos don't ruin physiques, they enhance them
LMAO
>Tattoos on a average body = Good body
>Tattoos on a great body = Shit body
All there is to it.
That's what happens when you make enough money to not care what you look like.
His lymph nodes are working 24/7 to try and remove that ink from his body. Disgusting.
>what went wrong
They get married in their late 30s
>tfw got married in my early 20s
But at least you can attract women. I have NEVER been with a woman or attracted a woman EVER. So think about that.
How is that even possible? I hear about incels online but I've never met one irl.
How many people irl tell you in person they’ve never had sex? How often would you even ask? Pretty easy to lie anyway.
All my male friends have had sex before with girls that I know. Even the weird nerds had weird girlfriends. Even the pajeet manlets in my school had a pajeet girlfriend. I don't get how you failed. You'd literally have to actively avoid women to not get one. The only thing I can think of is that you're punching way above your weight but idk I'm a zoomer. Maybe shit was harder before social media.
incel, here. but not the one you're talking to.
in my younger years i was reasonably popular and it wasn't a problem for me that i didn't like things like sports.
i had a kind of narcissistic mindset. not like i loved myself but like it was not important to change your behaviour to fit in with others.
in fact, it wouldn't have occurred to me that you could change your behaviour and get on well with others. i just liked what i liked and people either liked or didn't like me.
this became a big problem moving to high school. (which happens when you're around 11 here, no middle school).
suddenly i'm getting bullied by girls for looking and being weird. i shrug that off.
but over time i'm getting bullied by what seems like everyone.
i keep shrugging and keep getting more depressed and introverted with less and less friends.
when everyone starts dating and going to parties i am at home playing vidya. i have a couple of friends left but they don't really go to parties either.
a couple of girls showed interest in me but by this stage i mentally can't accept that they were serious.
(by this time i have had too many of those experiences where the girl comes over to you and pretends to nice and then tries to humiliate you to give her friends a giggle.)
interacting with others was mostly nothing but pain. i was pretty fricked up.
so all that formative experience with girls was not there for me and by early 20s i did not have any friends left.
and there was barely any will there for me to change. being horny is treatable with your hand. having a gf seemed too bizarre to seriously consider and dealing with women strongly associated with pain.
the years went by and i desired it less and less.
i fricked up and i wish i didn't but still i do not desire a wife all that much.
Damn bro, same. I was pretty popular in primary school and at 12 moved interstate to an all boys school. I had this mentality that “it will happen eventually” (mostly with regards to making friends at that stage, but later with women) without realising you had to put effort into that kind of thing. And again sort of just fell into gaming instead. Again, exactly the same, no formative experience with girls (the fact it was an all boys school made this so much worse, I don’t even know any women my age). I don’t even know how to interact with women now. I’m 21 and still sort of have that “it will happen” mentality since I don’t really try to do anything. I don’t think it’s totally my fault though since the friends I have could be genuinely asexual for all I know. They don’t seem to want to have anything to do with women. While I’m too clueless to figure anything out alone…
i think one of the biggest stumbling blocks is we get by on this simulated friend product of IST and other places.
guys are like
>i want pussy, not mates!
well if you get more irl mates you get more opportunities to meet women.
you have time to fix things but that time will be pissed away before you know it.
find places where you can meet people irl and go there.
this could even be an internet cafe, if those are still a thing, or a D&D or board games group.
there more masculine and well-adjusted the men there will be the better but something nerdy might be more entry-level.
I appreciate the advice. Just to be clear, I’m not a complete homosexual. I do do things, workout, car stuff, uni stuff, climbing. I meet people (almost entirely male, since not only does it seem women just don’t have hobbies, but I just don’t talk to women much) and many of these men are in reationships/ do actual social things like go to parties. I’m not sure if it’s real though I have some strange insecurity but I always feel like people don’t actually want to be around me. Like people I know well often talk to me about parties they went to/ are going to, girls they met, etc, but never actually invite me along. I am always too insecure to ask as wel.
God I feel like such a homosexual for typing that.
it might be helpful to think of yourself like a con man or a salesman.
no one wants to be your friend and hang out with you. you have to talk them into it.
everyone mostly just wants to keep their head down and do what they are already doing.
Nah don't nag it. Don't be a pushy salesman, present yourself as the cool product. Show people what they can have if they were friends with you and let them decide. Smile. Have casual small talk with basically everyone everywhere. Even the 60 year old cashier, it ended up being some girl's great aunt. One mechanic ended up being a dude's dad and I didn't know until I went to his house to buy a pair of Jordans from him.
I remember shit about people's lives to show them I care. If a stranger cares about you more than people you've know for years you'd want to be friends with that stranger.
Be larger than life. Even when I was alone in the library facing the wall I would put my headphones on and vibe to the music, as in visibly bop my head to the rhythm. People have shown me snaps and tiktoks of me being recorded and I didn't even know they were watching me. But a decent amount of people mentioned it and it was nice way to segway into a conversation about music.
I even occasionally go to the predominantly black areas to hoop. You never know when you a hood homie might come in handy, so far it's saved me from getting robbed once.
The grad job I have lined up in summer is because I bumped into one of my professors at a restaurant and met a friend of his who was looking to hire. I've met a receptionist I talked to once a year ago at the beach months later and ended up sleeping with her friend that same day.
And with women, don't pursue them for sex, show zero sexual interest in them and friendzone them, out of 50 girls I've met the one who wants me to frick her will make it known, the rest always respect me because I'm not "like the other guys". Treat them like any male friend. If they're hot all they get are guys wanting to hook up with them. Guys and girls will see you around women and think
>"Damn that's a cool dude I wonder what they see in him, I want to talk to him now"
Become the friend you'd want to be friends with.
>I don’t think it’s totally my fault though since the friends I have could be genuinely asexual for all I know
Even the female ones?
>there more masculine
This is massive cope. The guys I know who get the most pussy look like your average tiktok e boy. One of my friends is a degenerate coomer but he uses tinder instead of pornhub to get his nut, and he doesn't do dates but still manages to get a few new girls every week from there. Guess what? He's 6ft 3 and can't bench 1 plate but has a zoomer hairstyle and a pretty face. Zero facial hair, baby smooth skin and a kinda squeaky voice. He's not gay or effeminate btw. Girls go for looks especially on dating sites but if you're slightly above average and really popular you can get girls irl.
Yh but that's life. Just get your looks in order, meet guy friends and be really likeable to as many people as possible. Eventually it'll work out either because you will become popular or you'll find your small friendship circle.
I'm ending it with some honesty before someone asks the inevitable question about my looks. I've seen guys more popular than me that are a few years older and younger that are below average by a lot but they have clear skin, white teeth and a decent hairstyle which is enough. And when you talk to them they're really funny, likeble and usually leave you with a good memory. I had to partner up with a guy who was really nerdy and socially isolated for an assignment in my first semester, kid wouldn't even make eye contact with me. But I hung out with him during the course of that semester and he began talking to the people who came by and talked to me. Over time he became confident but it took months because confidence has to be reinforced by life experiences. You can't just be confident. Btw that kid ended up getting some nerdy gf the year after. There's someone out there for you but you need to gain the social skills to get them first.
>Even the female ones?
As I said in my post I don’t know a single woman my age. My male friends are all morons who would rather play csgo than frick women. But since I’m finished school several years and lost contact now they’re pretty well the only friends I have.
Damn I didn't even know that was possible. I guess you have zero experience at all. Start of small and get comfortable talking to the cashier at a random shop. If you need baby steps then a thumbs up to the driver when they let you cross the road before asking someone where X is in the shop. Taxi drivers are a good step up. You'll learn how to keep a conversation going there. If you can have a great time with a 40 year old Ethiopian taxi driver then it shouldn't be that difficult to talk to normies irl. Stay up to date with irl stuff but avoid talking politics unless they're clearly political af and then just play dumb or mirror them. Even the deranged leftists like me as a person but I'm sure they wouldn't if they knew my real takes. If you're talking to a NBA addict, know enough to carry a conversation. Read and watch YouTube videos but mainly follow the right accounts on social media. You'll absorb the information scrolling. It'll take months so don't worry. Soon you'll be making friends at the airport.
BTW when it comes to numbers don't ask for it unless you know there's a reason for you to interact again in person very soon. Like if you just had a sportsball session with them or they're in your class. For anything else I realised people are uncomfortable with giving numbers to strangers and take it the wrong way, so if you're going to ask then just say "btw which would you prefer like my insta, snap or whatever" and give them your handle. If they want to talk to you they'll follow you. Same for numbers, give yours so it's their choice. It filters out flakey people and anyone not interested which happens to me to this day.
All of this won't happen if you stay inside all day so go outside as much as possible.
If only you knew how bad things really were.
Seriously though thank you for the advice… I hope I can fix this before it’s really too late.
>a couple of girls showed interest in me
So you did it to yourself.
Get male friends, ideally ones who are social and interact with women regularly. Don't walk up to random women on the street. Guys don't usually just congregate to talk for the sake of talking, they do it during an activity. So like work, school, sports or a hobby. If they want you around more often, they'll invite you, if not just move on. You've gained an acquaintance which is a decent thing to have. The amount of times I've been places and bumped into a guy I've maybe talked to twice in my life, greeted him like he was my best friend and met the people he was chilling during the interaction is countless. Then you'll bump into the person he was with at another time and place and get to know them. Most social zoomers in my city know me because of that and most want to be my friend.
Like if I go to a party some guy I have seen before walks in and dozens of people greet him, and he's hitting it off with people throughout the night, I'd want to be friends with him. I hop around different social circles but stay within my main one half the time, so people sometimes go months or years without seeing me but since I have almost always left on a good note they're happy when they see me.
My advice to you is to do what I do. Rome isn't built in a year and neither is a reputation as a popular likeable person, I was a nobody when I was 15 but I'm 22 now and even random people's moms and dads talk to me lol.
Have an active social media presence and fake it until you make it.
Of course take care of your looks, get lean and try to be as attractive as possible but I don't think that's the main reason why I'm this well known. Most my friends are taller and hotter than me, I'm only 6ft 2 and decently attractive I guess, it's mostly my personality and word of mouth. Normies gossip all the time.
>So you did it to yourself.
yes and no. i tried to point out in my story that theoretically i had a lot of power to change those outcomes.
eg. if i had sat down and thought "okay, people are giving me shit for being weird. what can i do to fit in?"
maybe i could have changed a lot of what happened. pretty sure i could have. but it never occurred to me that that was an option.
by the time those girls showed interest i was quite mentally ill. so even if i'd had enough skills to frick up less...
trait narcissism is a terrible thing. all the men in my family seem to have high levels of that.
it got me directly and indirectly through having a shitty dad.
i probably needed either a shrink to set me straight or an old school bully to beat the shit out of me.
>I'm only 6ft 2 and decently attractive I guess
How do you write a paragraph of decent advice and end it with a shitty troll tier comment?
not him but I am 24 years old and don't have any friends at all, so the only possible way I could meet women is by going up to random ones on the street
That chick is UGLY, as a 4/10 man I have pulled girls that interest me more than her, with better bodies. Why do some chads date really ugly girls?
Dude's dated hot ass women. He went with someone who isn't crazy
How do you know that roastie isn't crazy? What looks sane about her? She looks like Melaney or whatever that roastie's name is with the webcomic.
This near barren roastie won not him.
Do you really not realize that *he* thinks she's pretty and that's all that matters
Ok but what if she's very feminine and had a low body count
It would explain why he chose her and not the hot prostitutes he was getting
I know ugly men with hotter wives
I plan to die before 30
So did I.
god damn tattoos look like shit
He looks better tf u mean
t. Femanon
i'm trans btw don't know if that matters
Every time. Yes, it does matter
he looks sexier now
t. gayanon
Tattoos are for vermin
you roid and get shitty tattoos as your realize gym isn't replacement for a healthy adult personality, career and family life?
Gym enhances career via halo effect
Apparently.
>what do you want to get inked
>I want uhhhh tattoos
>say less
Tattoos look so dam awful. What goes through peoples minds when they think of doing this to their bodies?
>looks sick af bruh
Everyone reacts attractiveness, beauty, etc. on different 'levels' as I consider them. Broadly, there's the primal attraction that's mostly the same in everyone: muscle, breasts, butt,etc. Then there's personality traits that show themselves in peoples appearance, according to which people add or subtract 'attraction points' in their mind:
1. You finding tattoos unattractive while the 'urban youth' into 'thug/gangsta' culture or the guy into biker culture thinks they are pretty cool.
2. Many /misc/ type ISTners finding objectively attractive but nothing special (breasts, ass, etc.) women attractive when they are in modest, traditional attire.
3. The religious guy that thinks tatoos are a desecration of the skin/body, although he has sometimes liked the idea of a good tatoo in the past. (So he likes the look of a certain tattoo, it's the symbolic meaning of desecration of skin/being permanently marked/etc/ that he doesn't like, i.e. a different level)
Sorry for the spelling errors and weak grammar, I typed this up in a hurry on my phone.
To second point I should clarify that I mean /misc/ types finding them particularly attractive.
hoes like tattoos, thats it
I surely hope I dont get my body covered in horrible tattoos like those
>tattoos
>balder
sad
a boy is past his prime after 20
the eagles on his chest are kinda cool
they're not the right kind of eagles
>being a tattooed dudebrag after 30
Cringe.
I get the appeal of some tattoos but holy moly what was he thinking with any of these? He looks like an edgy 9 year old's coloring book
They are just traditional tattoos anon, chill.
They all look well done/healed & will age better than any other style of tattoo.