It's crazy how heart break affects you physiologically. I've been lifting weight, eating clean and doing cardio, yet I feel like shit 24/7 because the girl I loved dumped me. How do I get out of this hellhole, IST?
It's crazy how heart break affects you physiologically.
It eventually fades. Just keep lifting. You'll be glad you did.
I hope so, anon. I don't want to an hero, not yet. But it seems so tempting sometimes. I should stfu. Sorry.
Sometimes it's kinda depressing/relieving realizing you got over someone you thought you couldn't live without
4 years later I'm still not over her.
9 for me
I can't live on like this for such a long time. I'd rather an hero. I'm weak.
>I'd rather an hero
Keep in mind, you do this and you let her win. Don't let her win. No one knows what will happen in the next 10 years for us. Gotta live to see it.
You should livestream it like ronnie mcnut
That's because she's a stand-in for some other figure you're still attached to.
...picrel?
I didn't realize the manga is gotten that far now. Haven't looked at it in like 2 years.
You'll never be 100% like you were before, but that doesn't mean you'll be worse off. And don't worry if it takes long. Just do what you gotta do for yourself.
yeh
Didn't know king started lifting. Idk if it's where they're going, but I had a feeling they'd finish with making king comedy levels strong (when all the monsters are gone or something)
I broke up on Oct22 and still very depressed
You are doing it to yourself. Break up is not real, she didnt dump you, she left. Your life should be the same as before you met her, but it isn't because you dont have an identity, friends, hobbies or goals, you need a woman to feel something. Do you realise how stupid it is? And how repulsive is it? You are weaker than her, thats disgusting
It fades, and people like op just do it again and again, thinking that they are the victim, and the next girl is just a prostitute. The reality is, she is a victim. When you attracted her, you acted differently. Stronger. Turns out now you are as strong as a child emotionally, so she left to look for a proper man
That, plus do things properly next time. Learn how women work, how women attraction works and why do women need men, for which qualities
Thoughts like this is exactly why you are not together anymore, that is what a woman feels, its repulsive. A mans thought is - glad I had all these relationships, it was a blessing and I learned a lot, but my life is ready for a new challenge
And you wonder why she left? How do you plan to live your life if average girl leaving makes you give up completely? Why would anyone risk being impregnated by you? Having sex with someone like you is a suicide 10000 years ago. Apply yourself
You are better than op, but still your perception is disgusting. Apply yourself
>There is absolutely nothing you can do to avoid hitting the wall like that
If you would have happy family (your parents/siblings), fulfilling job, exciting hobbies, good investments, good friends to hang out regularly, and ten hot girls trying to see you on a date tomorrow, would you hot a wall? You would replace someone who is leaving in a week. So this wall is something you created by negligence
To sum: women are simple. They are slaves to their weakness. They crave the opposite of themselves. Use that against them and there will be no competition
This is satanic bullshit. I found a wife who loves me truly and won't leave if I cry. Yeah I don't care that I cry in private occasionally, I have enough ego boosts in my life without larping as some robotic Andrew Tate knockoff.
There are good women out there, women who will stick with you and be your housewife and always be faithful and loving. A good way to filter for them is to start practicing abstinence before marriage, becoming a Christian etc
Honestly based. Looking for the same. Alone on NYE again… very basado
Does it really? I've been with seven different women throughout my life, and I'm still in love with four of my ex girlfriends. What's wrong with me? Why can't I fall out of love? The rebirth cycle just keeps repeating - I meet someone, we click as though we've known each other for years, and we date for a few months, maybe a year or two - but then we break up, and the love never fades away. It just gets pushed under the rug.
Maybe I accidentally cast some kinda spell when I said "I'll never stop loving you".
why did you choose a girl who dumps you?
that doesn't sound smart
>How do I get out of this hellhole, IST?
Get another girl
I don't feel like talking other girls, anon. I don't feel like talking to anyone irl, actually.
I've been there and it's always a big waste of time, the sooner you move on the better you'll feel trust me.
>thing that affects your brain makes your brain feel bad
whoa
It's not just the brain, anon. I feel like there's something wrong with my body because of the situation. I feel like puking and fainting at random hours of the day. There's also this unceasing mild headache that just won't go away. I've also begun missing my dad a lot who passed away a few years back. Feels like life has cursed me.
Well at least you got a chance to date someone you love
Same bro. She completely shut me out and now I don’t feel a need to go on. but I have just kept going to the gym and dragging myself to work because what else is there to do. Anyway keep going homosexual, you’re just playing hard mode at the moment for some better shit or something.
I had a lot of relationships but only 1 girl I was crazy about and went through this. There is absolutely nothing you can do to avoid hitting the wall like that. Best thing to do is try and make it to the bottom as fast as possible so you can start going up again. Listen to sad music, watch sad movies, cry as much as possible, relive all the good times in your head. Eventually you get to saddest you can get and then it starts to fade. One thing you can't do is try and trick yourself into feeling good or distract your mind, it doesn't work. You literally have to wallow in your own misery until your brain decides it's had enough.
One pro about being an inkwell is that you will never have to deal with breakups, heartaches and dealing with the complications of maintaining a relationship. Although >no sex, life is a bliss
Oxytocin withdrawal.
>How do I get out of this hellhole, IST?
after you run through about 10 women you start to realize that "love" you felt was just insecurity and naivety from having a tiny sample size of what women offer. after a while you realize women don't really offer much at all aside from being a friend who also lets you creampie them. it turns out you can have many friends
What if I wanted her to be the mother of my children? A wife is not just something you have sex with
You'll find out that the wife is the oldest child in the home and needs to be trained ikea a dog.
>t.muzzie
humans with a minimum intellectual potential then understand that love and inner wellbeing are not more than a decision one makes.
Is that actually ride or is it photoshop
I'm in the same situation right now, but all I can say is we are going to make it through brother
i hate this Black person and the Black person loving homosexuals that like this shit so much you might as well collect funko pops and have a switch if you like Black folk
>what is mental illness
yes if you like shitty Black person music
I'm in my mid 20s now, I have no emotions anymore and I'm glad for it. There's literally no benefits to curling up and crying like a little b***h or dwelling over something out of your control.
I haven't cried, literally shed a single tear, in over 8 years.
That's just emotional constipation, my man. Make sure you have someone in your life to lean on to when all those emotions hit ya all at once.
It's called emotional maturity. There's nothing pent up because emotions are not real, they are a figment of your imagination. Something society encourages you to invest your precious time and resources in for some reason and the majority buy into it. It's completely and absolutely meaningless.
You sound like a 19 year old normie who hasn't emotionally matured yet.
Hope you grow out of this phase soon.
Hopes don't affect reality, homosexual. You will continue to jerk off to troony porn and cry yourself to sleep for years to come.
>develop irrational romantic fantasy around hailee steinfeld that lasts several years
>being reminded she's dating a star nfl quarterback fills me with unbearable rage because it feels like we had a several year long relationship and she left me for him
>at the gym yesterday, tmz is on tv
>chyron show hosts discussing her and the guh
>nearly trip and fall over, press my phone against my face to hide my shame
>feel like i'm about to burst into tears and run out of the gym
>cry myself into a nap when I get home
I had a dream we were together and i swear to God it was the happiest I've felt in my entire life. I'd kill myself but I can't inflict that on my mom.
Let her go bro, you are the one holding onto the pain. Let yourself let her go