I've been exchanging glances with this girl at the gym for 3 weeks (I only see her there on saturdays) and still haven't made a move cause i'm fricking clueless when it comes to starting a conversation. How long do i have before she gets tired of it? And how do i talk to her?
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Man I don't know , Im the same to be honest , some girls getting really pissed and just angrily walk away when they tell me "good morning" and im answering with "what the frick do you want?"
Just walk over and say hi and start taking to her like any other human bean
The next time your eyes meet, smile at her. If she smiles back that's your invitation to go talk to her.
>but I don't know what to say
Tell her you like her shoes and go from there.
>but I...
But nothing. Talk to her about anything; how often do you come here? What are your fitness goals? What do you do for work? What got you into your field of work? Have any siblings? Are you close to them? What's your social security number and banking info? Can I stalk you? Show bobs b***h lasagna?
Nice shoes, wanna come back tu my place?
Thanks, but none of these sounds natural/casual enough
Then don't talk to anyone ever again.
Decisive incel victory!
Listen, that might even work, but it doesn't sound good enough to make confident to try it. I want something that feels foolproof
Even 10/10 charismamaxxxed chads get turned down by cuties all the time.
This is not a hentai dating sim. No phrase is fullproof.
It doesn't need to BE foolproof. Just *feel* foolproof so i can take the courage to do it. Either way, i'm starting to think this just isn't meant to be, really. I've met girls before that i started talking with without even having to think. It all just happened. Maybe this one girl isn't for me.
Ask her how many reps she has left. Just pretend like you need to use the machine and ask if you can work in with her. Then you can compliment her on form or strength or whatever. I feel like that's pretty foolproof
Okay homosexual, here is something foolproof.
Hi, how are you doing?
>I'm fine blah blah blah
My name is anon? What's your name?
>I'm x
Nice to meet you, x. Alright, the reason I wanted to meet with you is because I've been seeing you a lot here and I think you're really beautiful. Would you like to have a cup of coffee with me some time?
If she says yes, great. Now you got an actual date instead of trying to make small talk with her in the gym next to the weights. Because how far you can go in there? You have to set a date and exchange some contacts or you're just going to walk up to her at the gym, ask some stupid questions and leave. She is obviously going to realize you like her but what she will also realize that you have no balls to ask her out.
>Well, I can't pull this off. I'm not attractive!!
You can pull it off if SHE finds you attractive. If she doesn't find you attractive, then I'm sorry my friend.
>I want something that feels foolproof
Ok , just wait till a woman will LITERALLY drag you into her bed , the question is , will you leave her halfway thru the fore play? or not ?
Say "UHUHU I GONNA RAEP UR SISTER" and drool a little out the corner of your mouth
Good advice next time I ask a cutie if she ever got slapped on the puss with a kayak paddle....lets see if that break the ice.
If she thinks you're cute she may go with it.
don't ever q&a girls, that's cringe just talk a little ask her something, keep eye contact unless there's instant chemistry with both of you and it's hard because of shyness (authentic shyness not introvert shyness). ask a question and look her in the eyes while she answers, that's the only time you can confidently look at her, if she can't keep eye contact during talking to you that's a good sign it means she's subconsciously scared to frick up and likes you too
What if she says she’s not wearing shoes but she is and walks away?
then you follow her and say "nice feet"
Ask her about her favourite French king and get back to us.
>And how do i talk to her?
How do you talk to anyone?
You're legitimately overthinking this. Stop worrying about controlling people's perception of you based on what you say. Humans are not dating sims where you have to string together the correct sequence of sentences to let you fart in their mouths. Stop worrying that she'll reject you.
Just go up to her and say hi, ask her how her day is going. Tell her your name, ask for hers, etc. It'll come to you when you make the first move.
It's so simple man.
I can't help it. I'm too much of a perfectionist.
>umans are not dating sims where you have to string together the correct sequence of sentences to let you fart in their mouths. Stop worrying that she'll reject you.
>Just say the correct sequence of sentences
Ok guys. I got it. I'm gonna have to make up a situation that allow us to talk. Like using the machine as her and taking turns or something
Just stop looking at her and focus on lifting, moron
Basic information I require from every individual I meet male or female:
>1. What is your name?
>2. Where are you from?
Just ask her if she can check your form.
>t. talks to his mom all the time
Make eye contact. Smile, nod upwards. If she ignores, she's not interested or today's not the day. If she smiles back, "Hey, how was your workout?" Talk a little about your workouts. After a few sentences, "I'm anon. Nice to meet you." She'll tell you her name. "See you around."
Keep it short, the longer the conversation goes, the more it seems like you're trying too hard. You'll talk more the next time you see her.