My gf is 30lbs overweight. How do I get her to lose weight? Shit is embarrassing, considering I actively maintain my body, while she claims to have been trying to been losing weight since we've started dating two years ago, but she has only gained since. I am starting to lose physical attraction to her, and she's noticed that we don't have sex as much, upsetting her. What do I do guys? I want to tell her how I really feel, but it will for sure hurt her, since she's insecure about this.
it's easier to get a new gf albeit
Take her to the gym with you and do your workouts together.
Fat "people" don't belong in the gym.
No one wants to see that.
My gf gained weight (a lot, like 5-7kg) and didn't put any effort into dropping it so I took it as her not loving me anymore so I dropped her and got myself a nonfat gf.
>30lbs
I mean apparently your girl gained twice as much so I don't know what are you waiting for.
Well I love her parents too and built a relationship with them. That’s a huge part of my hesitation
You can lose 5-7 kilo in a month, are people really struggling with that?
im a woman u have to tell her 30 lbs isn't much I lost that in over a month and now im way happier and take pride in being skinnier than others
30lbs in a month? highly doubtful.
Shhhh, let the normie wordcels live their delusions, they think Christian Bale gained and lost 30+ lbs in a year for two different roles by simply eating more tuna.
I’ve lost 40 pounds in 6 months… that’s an impressive but doable amount. Unless you look like you just came from a filming of my 500 pound life you just can’t physically lose 30 pounds in a month. Even on a literal starvation diet you’ll be losing maybe 10-15 in a month.
30lbs doesn't seem like that much, depending on how it's distributed.
It's quite a bit and noticeable when you're 5'2" like she is.
Good to know femanon. Is there a way I can tell her without making her bawl or do I have to just rip the band aid off?
>5'2" like she is.
>30 lbs
>lazy
Shes never going to lose it anon, especially if you have to force her too. Best case scenario you get her to go to the gym with her a few times and she half asses it to make you happy before giving up.
You're a fat fricking American aren't you? 30 pounds is a massive amount of weight to gain unless your are an 11 foot body building minotaur.
I said something about that and she dumped me
Sounds like problem solved mwhahahaha.
Good. That’s a win.
>I want to tell her how I really feel, but it will for sure hurt her, since she's insecure about this.
Tell her anyways. If you truly love her, you'll want to see her be better. Preface by saying this will hurt to hear, but assure her that you will be with her and that you will help her through it.
If she flips the frick out in rage, tells you that she's fine the way she is (or any flavor of that), or completely shuts down and wants nothing from you after, leave her. She doesn't actually love you at that point and is more concerned about herself to the point of ignoring you entirely.
Embrace the BBW, she can bear you more kids