My gf is getting fatter and fatter by the day and i don't know how to stop it.

My gf is getting fatter and fatter by the day and i don't know how to stop it. As of right now she's far from being obese but i'm afraid she'll become a landwhale if i don't intervene. She's 5'6 around 135lbs which is pretty fat by asian standards. I have asked her to train with me a couple of times but she's not interested. What do i do IST? I don't wanna ditch her cuz she is not a prostitute, knows how to cook, doesn't have tattoos and most importantly she was a virgin before she met me.
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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why stop it?

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    start going on walks with her try to get her into running some girls are intimidated by the gym and the culture (there fricked in the head)

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    all asians hit a wall eventually. your time is almost up

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >all asians hit a wall eventually.
      Stop the cap whitoid. Asians are most youthful-looking race. Pic related is 73 yo. Yes she has plastic surgery and a shit ton of makeup but a white woman will never look like this at 70 no matter what she does

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        She looks like a fricking mummy. Why would us "whiteoids" want to look like that at any age?
        It's unnatural and weird.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        lmao rice cope
        A white woman's peak is so much better than an Asian's at any time

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >A white woman's peak

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    you can't stop it. the only thing you can do is find a new one.
    t. tried for 8 years.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This. Eventually around the time they're 45 or so, they realize they're killing themselves. Once they're life is running out, it hits them, and most start losing weight. But that time between 25-45 ... yeah, you're not stopping it. If you trying, they'll break up with you.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Tried and true method: next time you're doing the sexy time, roll her over, shout "Piggies get it in the ass!" and then jam your dick right up in there, and then snort and oink the whole way through. When she asks wtf after, you just say, "Oh, you know, you've gained a little weight recently, so I just kind of figured it was time for hog-fricking."

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >5’6”
      >135
      >fat

      You have absolutely no idea.

      Fricking based

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      As good as the good ol "I drove her into the woods and beat her" copypasta

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Wait what? I've never read that one, please post it.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          https://desuarchive.org/fit/thread/72393550/#72394650

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        did you steal my zoinks manul pic?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I steal my manuls from all over the internet

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            here you can have this one too, I think he looks vaguely disgusted

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        that is not copypasta, that is me repeatedly driving my wife to the woods and beating her

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Piggies get it in the ass!"
      saved

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You're ugly and she's just rebalancing the scales

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Can't stop it unless you manipulate her emotions but even that may not work and she'll just leave instead. By manipulate I mean refuse to share food with her if she asks, order healthy choices compared to what she gets when you guys go out to eat, exercise more and don't shy away from attention or compliments if they happen from girls prettier than her.

    Doing these things are going to kick in her insecurities. So she'll either shape up or take herself out of the picture. Either way you avoid a fat gf.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Is that her, OP? If it is, she looks good and not fat at all wtf.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >not fat at all
      Yes she is fat by asian standards. I mean she's fine for now but in the future there is no guarantee she's gonna keep it this way. She has been slowly gaining approximately 5lbs in every two to three months and it got me worried

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Get a new one
    You know the old saying anon
    If you have a job you can get a job

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I've never heard that saying and I'm not OP, but I like it.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Post another img of her, you can barely tell her weight from this, and it also looks edited or AI generated af.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      here is an unedited photo of her. Yeah its pretty common for asian women to edit the shit out of every photo

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        My bad. Forgot to attach the pic

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Yup she's getting fat. Bro you need to be upfront with her. Yeah its gonna start a fight but she needs a wake up call. Went through the same shit with my chinese gf. They put on weight at 1500 cals bro its crazy

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            How are u so aware of what they are eating lmao, are you tracking for her? Is ur gf fat now?

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              My gf tracks calories since I got her training shes been on 1000 cals and gym for month and only lost 6 lbs

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >shes been on 1000 cals and gym for month and only lost 6 lbs
                nta but 6 lbs in a month is actually really fast isn't it? that's like 1.5 lbs per week which is borderline anorexia honestly

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Idk its hard to judge with women. I could lose 5 lbs in a week easy but my bmr is pretty high.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >but my bmr is pretty high
                so you are telling us your own weight is in the higher numbers.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Im 200 lbs at 6'3, struggling to put on weight at the moment

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >200 lbs at 6'3
                chaddy daddy

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                6 lb in a month is kinda insane, especially assuming shes a small short chinese lady. 6 lb is probably a lot more of her total weight than 6 lb for you, a 200lb 6 foot person.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah I guess so

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                What has she been doing at the gym? Asking for a friend

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Shes doing strength training + cardio. Ppl type split

                You shouldn't fight it, you should guide the weight gain. New and endless delights await you.

                A woman who carries weight that well is rare. What you'll actually see is stomach rolls and face fat.

                Imagine reading a 1k+ years old fantasy book to find guidance on your relationship.
                That said that specific piece of advice is pretty sound, despite it being so vague

                >le thousand year old wisdom is so cringe KEK xDDDDDD

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >wisdom
                Kek 90% of that shit is as inane as the other cultist books.
                The only bribes of wisdom are literal common sense that has been around for even longer than the books.
                Organised religion is for the weak of character who desperately need to pretend something greater cares about them and that good deeds and decent actions aren't to be done selflessly and for their own sake.
                Not saying everything said in religious literature needs to be thrown out but it's more a case of a broken clock being right twice a day
                In any case looking at relationships through the lens of centuries old books mostly written by voluntary celibates is pretty moronic

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Did not read

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >shes been on 1000 cals and gym for month and only lost 6 lbs
                nta but 6 lbs in a month is actually really fast isn't it? that's like 1.5 lbs per week which is borderline anorexia honestly

                6lbs for the first month is fine. A decent amount of that is likely water she was retaining from her previous diet. If it continues at 6lbs a months, that could be a problem if she isn't morbidly obese

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                She's 140 now. I'd like to see 6lb a month for the next 3 months. We'll see

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          5 lbs every month sounds more doable. I know you got this OP. Put her on a solid bulk and enjoy the gains.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          FATTTT DIVORCE RIGHT NOWWW AHHHHHHHH

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I would say 60-80% of women get fat as they get older. They give a shit 14-26.

          Then their metabolism slows, they drink more sugary coffees for work, drink more wine after work. If they get pregnant and havent fixed it by then, its all over.

          My wife started at 135, now she’s 175 and weighs more than me.

          Then she cut her hair short. Allah give me the strength.

          Damn, if she maintains that thats pretty good.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            this makes me want to stay single forever tbh

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            https://i.imgur.com/DX30mHH.png

            this makes me want to stay single forever tbh

            It's not always awful. My wife is 50, gave me two kids, works a desk job, etc etc. She was chubby in her youth, but had lost it and looked damn good by the time I met her, clocked in at about 130lbs. She's 140lbs now. I'd prefer her 10lbs lighter, sure, but she looks damn good all the same.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            this is why ill stay single till i meet a girl that likes working out like i do

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >My wife started at 135, now she’s 175 and weighs more than me.
            >Then she cut her hair short. Allah give me the strength.
            Godspeed anon. The short hair would be my last straw because its a clear indication that she doesn't give a frick anymore. Keeping the weight off is hard, sure...I can empathize with that, but chopping your hair off....

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I know this is probably bait but you're such a shame of a male.
          Your gf has the body which men are genetically engineered by God to crave. Wide hips perfect for bearing a strong child. Cute little hands perfect for daily tasks and thin yet sturdy arms.
          If you do not see this women and feel the instinctual urge to procreate you are a genetic dead end and might as well go frick your gym bros in the ass since that's what you clearly like.
          Not only do you not deserve her but you RUINED by taking away her virginity when there are other men out there who are not homosexual who could have already impregnated her at least 3 times.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            learn to read you uneducated mongoloid. I clearly stated that she's GETTING FAT. For now she is fine as is but if it keeps going at this rate she's gonna look like your typical fat activists.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            shut up chubbychaser. you like low-hanging fruit because that is the only thing you can get.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >that have tattoos
            are you out of your fricking mind moron?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          FRICKING COOK FOR HER

          IF YOU MAKE HER HEALTHY FOOD SHE WILL EAT IT AND APPRECIATE YOU

          You frickers KNOW women have no self control and need to be put on a leash yet you let them make moronic decisions

          MAKE HER GO TO THE GYM WITH YOU AND START GRABBING HER TUMMY DURING SEX GOD

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          homosexual. Leave her so she can find a real man.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          https://i.imgur.com/jPpsOqj.jpg

          My gf is getting fatter and fatter by the day and i don't know how to stop it. As of right now she's far from being obese but i'm afraid she'll become a landwhale if i don't intervene. She's 5'6 around 135lbs which is pretty fat by asian standards. I have asked her to train with me a couple of times but she's not interested. What do i do IST? I don't wanna ditch her cuz she is not a prostitute, knows how to cook, doesn't have tattoos and most importantly she was a virgin before she met me.
          Pic very related

          Howd you meet her? How to meet girls like her?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >How to meet girls like her?
            Be white and go to Asia

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          ignore the fat lovers, theyre porn addicts. I know the feeling of ur gf getting fat, you do lose part of being attracted to her. Not much you can do, cant force her to exercise. I made an ultimatum which she failed and that was that. Kept on promising me she was ans wanted to get healthy and fit which was a lie

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            did you dump her?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Built for bbc

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Make her jealous. I love my girlfriend and I don't want anyone else but the only thing that got her on the gym was seeing me getting and reciprocating physical affection with other girls.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Stop feeding her

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I have no control over what she eats.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Well neither does she, it sounds like.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          just tell her to watch herself, soften the blow a little without calling her a calorie vacuum. even if she’s hurt, it’s better than losing the shape you fell in love with

          kek

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    After hinting about it like you have done you should casually show a little bit of interest in other girls that are thinner than her. That will wake her up.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      damn she's a snowflake so by doing that will frick her up emotionally and mentally but i guess no pain no gain

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >GF would have a meltdown if I brought up I like girls that take care of their body
        >but yeah she's the oneitis because she's a virgin with no tats
        lmao

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Become more attractive to her is the hardest but best way to solve this

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You could also go the sneaky way. Try manipulating her macros. Cook protein-rich and fiber-rich food. This way she will feel full faster and consume less calories. If she is cooking, tell her you prefer this or that special dish (make sure to pick the right ones though). Or add a scoop of tasteless whey isolate to her dishes. If she sees you putting the powder in her plate, tell her it's your grandmothers special seasoning.
      Also this
      Captcha:HNNY

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    get her into cosplay and go to anime conventions together. if she gets into buying her costumes she'll eventually max out the available sizes (especially since most full outfits are made in asia where there is way less demand for "plus size" garments). by that point if she's into the culture she might decide to do fork-putdowns on her own

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >My gf is getting fatter and fatter
    >knows how to cook
    so she's cooking too much food. take some off her plate

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Most Asian cultures have no chill, just tell her straight up she's getting fat. Tell her you're worried about her if she gets huffy, but don't bite your tongue like a little b***h. Be a man, have the hard convos

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Just an fyi as an asian, american born asians are not the same as asians that live in their native country. Consider american born asians as basically white girls.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        True

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You should be doing 30 - 60 minutes of love making sessions a day as cardio

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    should've chosen a disciplined girl that values a healthy and active lifestyle bud. the things you listed are bare minimum and you should vet the people you engage with romantically on a more serious level with the future in mind....

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >She's 5'6 around 135lbs
    That's fricking ideal weight for her height

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      5 lbs every month sounds more doable. I know you got this OP. Put her on a solid bulk and enjoy the gains.

      OP here. The problem is she stores fat in undesired places like her face, thighs, arms but not her ass and boobs. If all of the fat went to her ass then i assure you i would be the first one to encourage her to get as fat as possible.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Big thighs are my demise.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          same

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Then feed her until the fat has nowhere else to go but her breasts.

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I dont get it. You have a girl. Youre into her. Invested. Possibly want to marry. Youre close to each other. You run into a problem and your idea is to come asking around for a solution on an anonymous pancake bakers board?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >asking around for a solution on an anonymous pancake bakers board?
      Because its fit-related

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You missed the entire point

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          please elaborate

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            huh this threads still up. look anon, what I mean is, you are unable to say something simple as
            >You're getting fat. Im not happy with this. Stop.
            to the person whos supposed to be the closest person to you, sharing this here instead of her. You sound young by the way youre trying to find sneaky ways around issues instead of facing them head on. What do you think is gonna happen if you marry this woman and actual serious issues that needs addressing start showing up at your door if you cant even do this?
            Listen to this boomer here anon, time to man up is coming for you. You're probably desperate of this woman becoming upset at you if you challenge her by being straight like that, so you're walking on eggshells like this. If you go down that road, youre in for a life of endless torment. Dont. Ask her to stop being fat. Stop the sex due not being interested in that fattiness. Put your needs flat out on the table. Communicate properly. Grow a spine. If she doesnt want to follow you, screw that let her frick off. Easy as that. Good luck.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >Stop the sex due not being interested in that fattiness.
              Most of what you say is right but this bit is applying male priorities to a woman. It's not effective. If you deny sex to a woman, she doesn't bust ass to get it back. She becomes sexless and the relationship craters further.
              Sex is an act of male dominance. Ceasing to frick your wife for any reason is the same as demoting yourself from patriarch to eunuch slave.

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    One thing I learned from a lot of dating and one failed marriage is:

    Most women in America will get fat after a commitment (long term relationship, marriage, or a kid). So how can you tell if they are they type? Because most of them stay skinny until they have their hooks in you. If a woman is into regular exercise and is committed to her program, that is a good sign, and if her mother is thin, that's also a good sign.

    Literally every single woman I dated for over a year, got fat. Always 10lbs more every few months.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >if her mother is thin
      My gf's mom is very thin. However she doesn't live with her mom as her parents got divorced a long time ago. Her dad is a lardass btw

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Her dad is a lardass btw
        that's worrisome, definitely do something about it but don't be too harsh since she's not a fatass yet

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The fix is so fricking simple
      Explain clearly that the commitment has implications on both sides. Been married for 3 years now. It came with the explicit promise to take care of our bodies because it is now each other's property.
      Made it very clear that it was a non negotiable condition and that everything stops if it is broken, exactly like cheating or the likes would.
      It's extremely easy to do something if you made a promise to do so, especially if the rest of your life relies on it.
      You don't want to be with someone that doesn't respect her body and treats it poorly, I mean OP specifically mentions tattoos and being a prostitute, I don't see how you can consider these absolute prerequisites and not consider staying fit a prerequisite aswell

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You date low quality women. My GF is 120lbs and committed to never turning into the ham planet that is her mother. She told me to hold her accountable if she ever gains too much weight or starts making terrible food choices on a consistent basis. We both want to be healthy and active as long as possible. Most people don't care about their bodies and see weight gain as an inevitability of aging. It's not, it just requires a bit of effort as you get older

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Crazy idea.
    You say "you're gaining weight and it's not okay. What are you planning on doing about it?"

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Women are moronic and they have it so easy and still manage to frick it up it's absurd.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      My gf used to be very pretty, absolutely gorgeous. First she decided to stop straightening her hair
      >ok must be a 'natural beauty' phase and she's tired of her hair style
      After that she "overcame" her ""burger trauma"" (forced to eat one from the trash can when she was little)
      >ok I guess it's empowering for her? Don't really see the big deal
      Shortly after I started to notice how much butter she was adding to her cooking, which I am certain is the reason for her acne. Last year she decided to change her hair again because she saw some girl on TikTok with curly hair and bangs, basically her oily hair now constantly looks messy and is always on her face and she moves it away from her eyes causing her even more acne. Her own mother even told her once that her hair looked ugly. I remember last year she had a discussion with her father because he said something along the lines of "you are very pretty how you are now, don't gain any more weight". Fast forward to today.... She's fat. No surprise. She "started dieting" 2 or 3 weeks ago but obviously not counting calories because that's too complicated for women and she's conditioned to believe that's an eating disorder because of twitter or whatever. I'm writing all this as a warning to other anons. Don't let it get out of control, even if she's already a grown adult that can take care of her self, she can not.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I'm trying to force my gf to do situps and stretch the lazy b***h said she fell asleep when she laid down to do the crunches

        are you fricking kidding me? how are women real

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        This anon is correct.
        Women expect you to set boundaries.
        If you fail to do that, then they will punish you for your failure to control them.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Women expect you to set boundaries.
          this. when i pick out groceries, it's fruit & veggies, whole grains, healthy nuts, lean meats, etc. when she picks, it's processed snacks, individually-wrapped breakfast bars, sugary yogurt, etc.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Not OP but this was the first moment my ex gave me the "ick", we went to aldis her choice of groceries made me seethe inside but didn't wanna sperg out at that moment. I told her the fake seed oil butter was not good for you and recommended other brands but she wasn't interested. I was not man enough to change her bad health habits and now we are broken up. But she really was a nice girl so I still do miss her and feel bad. I figured I did not have it in me to "manipulate" her into exercising and diet so I just thought I would let her go and find a gymfu instead, still having no luck with that...

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Women expect you to set boundaries.
          this. when i pick out groceries, it's fruit & veggies, whole grains, healthy nuts, lean meats, etc. when she picks, it's processed snacks, individually-wrapped breakfast bars, sugary yogurt, etc.

          >when I go to a specialty Asian meat market for my husband, my treat is one small bag of these delicious chips
          Hmm lmao w/e I'm happy as frick

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I don't wanna ditch her cuz she is not a prostitute, knows how to cook, doesn't have tattoos and most importantly she was a virgin before she met me.
    These aren't good reasons to stay with someone though
    They're red flags of they aren't there, but they don't make someone better of they are
    Find someone that shares your interests and has a similar outlook on life and your future. Not caring about your body is literally the equivalent of saying "I don't give a flying frick at what happens after I reach 40". You can't build a life with someone like that, would you try building your life with someone that spends every last cent of his pay every month ? Would you try building your life with someone that takes drugs/alcohol on the regular ? Or with someone that doesn't take having a job/education seriously ?
    These are actual red flags, you're much better off with a non virgin girl with a tattoo that's sober and has a great job and education, and that takes serious care of her health and aging than with someone that's adhering to the incel standard you uphold but won't take care of what really matters.
    I mean frick, in the long run she may grow your children in that body, would you want it to be trash ?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Dunno bud. I'll be real honest here and believe me I'm trying to get my mind changed. I've got a great girl, cooks, no tats, takes care of herself, I genuinely like being with her. But she wasn't a virgin. I wasn't a virgin when I met her and It still fricks me up from time to time. I sometimes wonder if I would trade one for the other.
      Besides, you don't want the mother of your children to be a prostitute. Would you consider a non virgin girl to be trash? Not trying to mess more people up, but your kid will come out of the same place that another wiener was in.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        sloppy
        seconds

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        its just your turn

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >she wasn't a virgin. I wasn't a virgin
        youre legitimately moronic bro

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Man you're way too concerned about dicks to be straight

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I broke up with her for the exact same reasons. She was a virgin and was 100% loyal and in love with me but:
      >doesn't like exercising or eating healthy
      >crippling student loan debt with no real job and plan
      >weed addiction
      >zero interests in common
      >adhd and bpd
      So I started growing distant and decided I'd trade with a non-virgin for a fit one that that is not on meds and have the same interests that I do. I like to believe I made the right choice but goddamn do I miss her a lot.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >So I started growing distant
        Why didn't you beat her up anon? Women like bad guys

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Many problems here can be solved with semaglutide. Just inject your GF in her sleep. Mine has only had 7000 calories this week, it's the fast track to weight loss and women love showing off that they are not eating.

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >i don't know how to stop it
    go to the gf store and exchange her

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Subtle defection cues

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You shouldn't fight it, you should guide the weight gain. New and endless delights await you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Quit coping for your fat sow wife on here with pictures of diseased obese bawds.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Cope, seethe and dilate troon. You will never be a woman.

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i dumped a girl after a month because she was a lunatic, but the main thing was that she was thicc and p much would put butter on everything & drank 2 pepsis a day. I knew that this was the last year she would ever be in the realm of hot. she was a 9 in college, a 7 now, but is gonna be a 3 in a year.

    she said "i will never understand" why I dropped her when all the while I continuous mentioned how I've come such a long way and health & fitness are super important to me. i love hot women, but women on average are stupid beyond reasoning.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >"i will never understand" why
      Young women, especially 7/10 or above ones aren't used to getting dumped in this gay simp world we find ourselves in.
      She'll be coping and seething about that one for years.

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Tell her that her health and fitness is important to you and you'll be here for her every step of the way and that you won't let her hurt herself.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      In regards to this cite the bible phrase explaining the duties of a husband and wife. It's pretty explicit, husbands love your wife as Christ loved the church, leaving her without spot or blemish. So to should husbands love their wives as they love their own bodies.

      It's literally spelled out.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Imagine reading a 1k+ years old fantasy book to find guidance on your relationship.
        That said that specific piece of advice is pretty sound, despite it being so vague

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >And most importantly she's not mutated by mRNA injections
    I thought this was IST.
    This thread is bait.

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    homosexual detected

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-qnqaajTk6bfs3UZuue6IQ
    give her compliments about how good she's looking and whatnot every single time you see her doing something good for her fitness

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    IMO you've just gotta be willing to take it on the chin and bring it up lol. Don't be a dick about it but be up front and honest. There's a price to pay for telling the truth, but a bigger price to pay for not.

    Real ones see the truth, fall in line, will do what needs to be done for the relationship. Shitty ones will yell at you, cry, and use it in the next argument. Figure out which one she is if this is a deal breaker for you.

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Frick blackpills or whitepills. Here’s my realitypill.

    Your gf/wife will get fat. Girls I knew at 20 all got fat. Even skinny ones I never thought would be fat got fat. When you impregnate them, they get fat. When you live together, they get fat.

    If you don’t love her when she’s fat, you don’t love her at all. That’s not the same as attraction. If she reached morbidly obese of course you’re not gonna find her as attractive.

    Find a girl who can dedicate herself to her health and body image. She needs to possess these
    >time management
    When she becomes a mom, she’ll be really busy. She has to find the time to balance time for you, the kids, work, and herself.
    >good eating habits
    She doesn’t run to treats or knows what to eat.
    >confidence
    A girl who gets fat is like a flower who lost her petals. You want one who won’t fall apart or make excuses when her weight plateaus or fluctuates.
    >problem solving
    She can find a way to lose weight and can find ways to get around setbacks.
    >realist
    She will research diet plans and workouts for herself and stick to them for herself.

    If you can find this, you’ve found a keeper. But most likely you won’t. There’s not many women I’ve met who can realistically understand a diet and keep to it. A woman needs stability and routines for her to be able to take care of herself like she should. Stress will throw a woman’s hormones off and she’ll gain weight quickly. Women, especially mothers tend to put the needs of others before her own. Time she could use to workout or cook a healthy meal often gets divided to others. Your gf will get fat because she’s taking time out of her meticulously planned day to spend with you and neglect herself.

    Husbands that say they’ll lead her through weight loss will help about 25%. The rest of the 75% is all on her.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Grim..

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I was going to type up a comment but finished reading, sounds pretty sensible tbh.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Your gf/wife will get fat.
      >If you don’t love her when she’s fat, you don’t love her at all.
      American post

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >burgerstani "reality"
      A woman getting fat is one of the most common grounds for a breakup or a divorce. There's nothing more reasonable than not wanting to have sex with a fat or been seen in public with a fat.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      shut up roastie

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      All you've really done is substantiated the reality that fat people are usually fat because they lack good life skills

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >If you don’t love her when she’s fat, you don’t love her at all
      What kind of moronic logic is this? So if she decides to identify as a man and begins to transition, I still have to love her no matter what?

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I wrote a novel but here’s in the small chance one of you small minded dickheads will actually take the time to read something of value. I will elaborate.

    I’m saying a woman will get fat. Her weight will fluctuate through life. There’s an old Chinese saying “in a woman’s life she will change 18 times.” What I said previously is advice for finding a woman who knows how to lose weight and maintain herself. It’s not just about looks but about a long life of good health. Take from that what you will.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I’m saying a woman will get fat
      you mean "a white woman"?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Such a shame. She used to look so good. I think she has a black husband or something

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    unironiclly have sex with her more, and when you do squeeze her stomach and rolls.

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Any good dumbbell routine recommendations? My gf wants to stop the fat and agreed to let me help her. So far i got figured out goblet squats, hip thrust and ab work (like planks o wheels), she's got a bit of a back so i'm not sure if i should add a bit of upper body work or nothing at all.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Push-ups and rows are plenty for a fem, unless she's trying to get beef-swole.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >fell for the exercise to lose weight meme

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        seems like women who lack muscle have a much harder time keeping the weight off

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I guess if you stuff your face either way, then little muscle = lower TDEE

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      goblet squats, overhead press/goblet press, kettlebell swing (watch her form so she doesn't frick up her back). tell her don't worry about the weight number, as long as you see gradual improvement over a couple weeks/months time.

      i did some goblet squats this morning & am trying to get some leg muscle on my rest day

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Same question. Does anyone have a good simple routine for women that targets mainly their asses?

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    https://i.imgur.com/XAhQ2YH.jpg

    >all asians hit a wall eventually.
    Stop the cap whitoid. Asians are most youthful-looking race. Pic related is 73 yo. Yes she has plastic surgery and a shit ton of makeup but a white woman will never look like this at 70 no matter what she does

    Wait i misread that. Shes 73? Wtf. She looks younger

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yes. Her name is vera wang. Look her up. She looks hideous imo but ngl i didn't believe she was 73 when i first knew about her.

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I would have dumped her ten pounds ago.
    Grow a fricking spine.

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't think you understand how to get skinnier.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'm listening anon

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Let her get fat and then quit your job. If you're attractive enough your bills will be paid. You'll be riding the gravy train, I did that for a year straight with no change in lifestyle kek

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You sound like a b***h.

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Your wife from China? My wife is from Japan, same thing. She's getting comfortable with married life and deciding to let herself go. I honestly just cheat on her a lot with other women, but never date/get attached, just bust a nut then bounce.

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    2 choices

    1. threaten to leave her and mean it 100%
    2. actually leave her

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How is it happening to her? I want to replicate this to architect mine.

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