I was thinking frick yeah let's do it when I saw this thread but all it took was the word "ex" and I remembered how good it feels to jack off to my ex and now I dont think I can do it
I have a folder with 100+ pictures of her and I watch them in slideshow mode while playing JOI audios
Extremely based. Just jacked off to all the content I managed to score during covid lockdowns. I have it all neatly organized on a hidden partition on my C drive, it's camouflaged as a Linux partition but in reality in one of the grub folders I have everything. It mainly consists of my current (and at the time) gf, another girl I met on a discord, and a shy chubby milf I met on valorant. It's basically nudes and screenrecorded "e-sex". There's a few other nudes/lewds too but I couldn't get more out of those chicks(didn't escalate properly or they lost interest or got too shy etc)
I remember it being absurdly easy. For the chicks I had esex with I loosely kept track of their menstrual cycle on an app just to get an estimate on when it would be easier to score. Luckily they didn't overlap so I could divide my attention on all three of them pretty well. It did kinda ruin flirting for me though, once you get into the rhythm and understand how you're supposed to do it it completely gets rid of the "thrill"
Like the whole 2024? Sure, I'm already on day 31 of semen retention. Could have fricked a roastie yesterday but now I realize my seed is just too important.
I have edged almost every day for 90+ days without cumming once.
Why would you ever want to cum? I dont get it
https://i.imgur.com/Y4JSv4W.jpg
Ive had amazing results with nofap, the mental gains are undeniable. Confidence is soaring. Even physical gains, although these are harder to measure. But I do believe it has great impact on skin, hair, voice and test levels. Ill certainly stick with it.
However, Im skeptical about long-term nofap. I feel like it tanks your libido in the long run. It desensitizes you towards all sexuality, which can be a bad thing. You dont want your drive for finding a partner or putting effort into acquiring sex to completely tank. So far, im leaning towards a monthly reset being the best. Just every 1st, jerking off once or twice, and then abstain for the rest of the month. This to me seems to bring out the best of coom retention without switching off your libido. But thats my personal experience with it.
What are other anons thoughts about this? About the frequency and lowering of sex drive?
Sure, I’ll keep some of my porn though since some of it is converted videos of old flash porn games that you can’t find anywhere.
Yes. NNNY 2024... and beyond.
If it isn't in a wooomin, I'm not cooomin.
Just had my last-ever goon session about 15 minutes ago. Pray for me bros, that I can keep my covenant to God and myself.
Btw, are there are discreet browser addons which will block me from coom sites? My router doesn't have a blacklist feature so I need to rely on a browser addon methinks
you can still jerk off, just dont cum. you have control over your own body right? animalistic coomers
>I have edged almost every day for 90+ days without cumming once
There are literally no fricking benefits to this. This is a israelite trap to get people to edge (hence fail because 99% people can't edge for that long of a period, not to mention that you are RAPING your prostate with constant simulation over that long of a period).
Your bullshit of "cultivating" your sexual horny animalistic energy when you've edged but not cummed is a psyop, frick outta here israelite. KYS too while you're at it.
>everything I dont understand is israeli
major L
but at least you recognize your mental weakness and lack of control over your own emotions. You cant do it.
I still have wet dreams every 12 days or so but those do not hurt my energy or drive at all.
I'll tell you a much better way,get a wienertoy and insert it in your ass, have it for the entire day and you'll feel the ungodly pleasure of raping your prostate. Have fun.
I’m 30 and I’ve never had a wet dream. I feel like I was close once because I was about to cum in a dream and then I woke up. Even when not jerking off for a while I still never had a wet dream. I feel like I’ve really missed out on something in life.
same here bro
never had a wet dream
whenever i have a semblance of one i just wake up
good riddance imo, who wants to wake up covered in semen
I constantly have all sorts of sex in my dreams. Most of the time im constantly on the edge of cumming or I have a few dry orgasms before I wake up.
The actual wet dreams suck though, because lf the cleanup and having to wake up instead staying asleep
https://i.imgur.com/76dwDwG.png
Yes I'm in
I will do this as a punishment for being such a loser
ngma with that self punishment attitude. you will punish yourself with indulgence instead
try to find an affirming outlook instead. "I do tennis because it's fun and keeps me healthy. I dont coom because I don't need It and I'd rather focus on work or let my feelings be felt instead of stuffing them down with cooming in some hoe or tissue"
Ive had amazing results with nofap, the mental gains are undeniable. Confidence is soaring. Even physical gains, although these are harder to measure. But I do believe it has great impact on skin, hair, voice and test levels. Ill certainly stick with it.
However, Im skeptical about long-term nofap. I feel like it tanks your libido in the long run. It desensitizes you towards all sexuality, which can be a bad thing. You dont want your drive for finding a partner or putting effort into acquiring sex to completely tank. So far, im leaning towards a monthly reset being the best. Just every 1st, jerking off once or twice, and then abstain for the rest of the month. This to me seems to bring out the best of coom retention without switching off your libido. But thats my personal experience with it.
What are other anons thoughts about this? About the frequency and lowering of sex drive?
>However, Im skeptical about long-term nofap. I feel like it tanks your libido in the long run. It desensitizes you towards all sexuality
How many months for that to happen? Asking for a friend
I'm nearly 5 months in and for me at least my libido and urge to find a partner are both very strong. But I have to repress it somewhat because otherwise I'll go crazy. I chose full nofap because I have no self control and can't moderate, it's all or nothing with me
>You dont want your drive for finding a partner or putting effort into acquiring sex to completely tank.
why not, eliminating a desire seems like it would lead to more success.
yeah i think the elimination of the desire is the point where the most powerful part of your brain is actually available for whatever it is you wish to accomplish which is probably what they say day 90 is but as a massive coomer and drug user itl probably take me double that (i cant streak past 5 days i wont make it)
>going to be more serious about not compulsively jerking off and instead be more truly appreciative of the sexiness and beauty of women i see online and irl >going to get over my past ed like fears of "being fat" and get serious about bulking with good meal prep, planning macros, etc >going to get on a serious program and not be afraid of going all out and exerting myself
wagmi
Yes. NNNY 2024... and beyond.
If it isn't in a wooomin, I'm not cooomin.
Just had my last-ever goon session about 15 minutes ago. Pray for me bros, that I can keep my covenant to God and myself.
Btw, are there are discreet browser addons which will block me from coom sites? My router doesn't have a blacklist feature so I need to rely on a browser addon methinks
I was planning to abstain from alcohol, weed, tobacco and loose women for 2024 after being not overweight for the longest time in my life this year.
Nofap on top of that? I'll be nominating myself for sainthood if I pulled that off instead of myself.
I actually used to track my weight and stuff in /MIS/ back in October but a few events in my life kind of stressed the frick out of me. Since the first day of the year will be monday I think I'll do it again... despite how lowly saying "starting next year" or "my new years resolution" is.
>tfw my cum has had blood in it for the last month >even had a visible clot once >currently forcing myself to fap every couple of days despite my sex drive never being lower, just to see if it clears itself out
Apparently it can be normal and should clear itself out. So I'm giving it another month.
My wife's and my sex drive has been at rock bottom since having a kid a few months ago, so my reasoning is that the cum might just be sitting there for long enough that whatever caused the blood hasn't had a chance to get flushed out yet.
No nut. That’s why this is stupid. I nut in my gf’s pussy, ass, mouth, on her breasts, face, feet, pits, etc. It’s all still nutting. If it was no porn, or no jerking, okay whatever. But no nut? Yeah frick off with that.
im a virgin. please tell why YOU want to cum during sex. doesnt that lessen and pause the pleasure you can get and it only feels good for a moment or two.
please think of an answer if its such a basic that I should know already. Have you never thought about it?
You bring up karezza, which presumably means you’ve researched this, but claim you have no idea what cumming feels like. This seems like a huge discrepancy.
4 months ago
Anonymous
i dont know what I could add to this, try rereading?
>
Why frick her without nutting? Semen retention? Post body immediately with timestamp so we can see what glorious benefits there are to this practice.
>im a virgin. please tell why YOU want to cum during sex. doesnt that lessen and pause the pleasure you can get and it only feels good for a moment or two. > >please tell me im not memeing and I dont have sex
4 months ago
Anonymous
Okay, how about this? Have sex. Then YOU tell us whether or not you like it more with nutting or without. Till then, nothing more to talk about.
4 months ago
Anonymous
mate I know what orgasms feel like but theyre rather pointless and shortlived unless youre trying to conceive,
alas, sadly I wont be having sex anytime soon, goodbye mrIcantanswerhonestly
4 months ago
Anonymous
>I know what orgasms feel like but theyre rather pointless and shortlived unless youre trying to conceive
No normal virgin thinks this way. This isn't a virgin problem. This is a (You) problem, or somehow you can't separate the fleetingness of cumming from masturbation from the emotional bonding built by sharing an orgasm with someone. If you make a girl cum, it will permanently change her perspective of you.
im a virgin. please tell why YOU want to cum during sex. doesnt that lessen and pause the pleasure you can get and it only feels good for a moment or two.
please tell me im not memeing and I dont have sex
Without even going into why a guy wouldn't want to stave off his own pleasure:
Girls are even more insecure about failing to get their man off than men are about getting their girls to cum. If you are deliberately avoiding nutting with her she's going to think you don't love her or you're saving your cum for some other woman or that she's become 'unworthy' and a whole other slew of hypotheticals. While orgasm is not a requirement for sex, intentionally avoiding orgasm is unhealthy behavior.
why not just explain to her that you feel better without ejaculating because of semen retention? If she can't understand that, she is not the one and onto the next one.
Ok, I'm sorry. I can't even agree with the premise. Noporn is done because pornography is bad for you. Nofap is done because you should be going outside and talking to girls instead of jerking off. Semen retention is only good for about a week then you need to come, otherwise you aren't actually gonna increase your T levels. Not orgasming for a whole year is just asking for early prostate cancer.
But also there's thing you do when you're in a relationship, it's called "compromising." Denying your gf your cum for an entire year is just gonna make her break up with you. Semen does more to women than just get them pregnant.
4 months ago
Anonymous
>Semen does more to women than just get them pregnant.
yes it nourishes them (not even kidding, women feel better when swallowing or absorbing semen in their sexual organ/anal), and depletes my vitality when I ejaculate. I always feel bad. I don't need that. I'm on day 32 and moving to day 90. To each their own I guess my dude.
4 months ago
Anonymous
When you put it that way you just sound selfish
4 months ago
Anonymous
>Not orgasming for a whole year is just asking for early prostate cancer.
wrong, also your body can and will make you orgasm in your sleep if it deems that neccesary. as previously stated those orgasms have seem to be mostly innocuous
> Denying your gf your cum for an entire year is just gonna make her break up with you. Semen does more to women than just get them pregnant.
you reject the premise that cultivating your lifeenergy through retention is possible yet you argue every woman needs to eat their partners cum or theyll leave them? how odd
how odd. im going to sleep now.
I have experienced life solo so far but that knowledge lined up with what I later read about karezza. look that up and also semen retention if you want to understand where im coming from
the basic premise is that relationships turn sour because both parties use eachothers to coom and numb/ignore their feelings instead of listening to them and working through them - building their relationship in the process.
love dies because of repeated, violent, mutual energy stealing without a fruit showing for it. (unless you actually breed).
Not being in this rape/breed mode all the time allows for energy cultivation instead of deprivation.
4 months ago
Anonymous
>you reject the premise that cultivating your lifeenergy through retention is possible yet you argue every woman needs to eat their partners cum or theyll leave them? how odd
No, I reject the idea that cumming is bad for you and that denying your partner from experiencing giving you an orgasm is unhealthy. I didn't say anything about eating cum.
>I read about it in a book
Try experiencing real life and not just living in books
4 months ago
Anonymous
>No, I reject the idea that cumming is bad for you and that denying your partner from experiencing giving you an orgasm is unhealthy
I see. Sex is very rewarding and pleasurable in itself, nlt just the last 20seconds you seem to be focusing on so much. If you or your partner disagrees you might need to learn how to connect with your partner better.
And yes,. cumming very often IS unhealthy, especially when you do It blindly for pleasure thinking it will magically glue your relationship together without actually putting in effort (or having a kid).
cumming to feel good as a coping mechanism does not suddenly become a healthy thing when you cum in your gf instead of your hand. you're still a coping coomer. It will drain and hurt both of you and eventually "the spark" will be gone and she'll leave.
>>I read about it in a book
never said this. I realized mush of this firsthand or through observation, then later found out others have also realized this. thats only relevant because I can now tell you to go look up those two terms to learn.
There are three classes of people: those who see, those who see when they are shown, those who do not see.
Agreed. I’d much rather explain to my gf that I can’t but in/on her because some random incel virgins said I shouldn’t online. LET’S FRICKING GOOOOOO!!!
I have been on nofap for 1 month, and vow I will not fap in 2024, and will try and not view any coombait. I will only nut in or on my girlfriend. I hope she is ready for the onslaught
I'm actually planning on just having 1 goon night a month where i put on earphones, play some 1080p, pour a drink and jack off all night. Then not watch porn again until the next month.
its been three months no nut no porn for me, its pretty chill, nothing special so far. u realize how sad and pathetic porn really is and jerking it makes no sense
i didnt jerk off for like 2 weeks, but overnight i had a dream about sex and woke up at 2:30 am and could not get back to sleep just laid there thinking about the sex dream so at 3 am i had to roll on my side to get my phone and jerk offd and got to sleep within a few minutes
im about a week in
was thinking about things and many of my trips on hallucinogens i came to the conclusion that porn is the ''biggest waste of time for a man'' literally no benefits at all
its a tough addiction to break but i feel more confident that others feels the same way and have made the decision to make a change in their life
godspeed anons
I've been clean since November 19 and intend to stay that for at least 3 months since then.
I've experience the nofap benefits are real.
I might release after/every 3 months or so but I'll see.
I've been on a real bender recently. Been going back to some old, old ways after losing about a two-week streak. Struggling with lots of HOCD (H stands for homosexual, if you catch my drift), which has really deepened the lows I've been feeling.
I'm going to take these last few days to reflect and set up a game plan for NNNY2024. We can do this. It's time to let go of the shame and the distractions and focus inward.
Best of luck, everyone. WAGMI.
kinda, it makes my voice deeper because I’m more relaxed even though I’m not really an anxious person (a lot of people carry tension that they don’t even realize). if you nut however it will go back to normal.
yeah sure
mmm idk
I fapped probably 50 nuts this weekend getting over a bad breakup so I'll need probably need that long to recover.
Frick it. If I want to nut I'll hit up my ex and then her rejecting me or blocking my number will make me not horny. I'm down for NNN2024
I was thinking frick yeah let's do it when I saw this thread but all it took was the word "ex" and I remembered how good it feels to jack off to my ex and now I dont think I can do it
I have a folder with 100+ pictures of her and I watch them in slideshow mode while playing JOI audios
Based. Share some?
Extremely based. Just jacked off to all the content I managed to score during covid lockdowns. I have it all neatly organized on a hidden partition on my C drive, it's camouflaged as a Linux partition but in reality in one of the grub folders I have everything. It mainly consists of my current (and at the time) gf, another girl I met on a discord, and a shy chubby milf I met on valorant. It's basically nudes and screenrecorded "e-sex". There's a few other nudes/lewds too but I couldn't get more out of those chicks(didn't escalate properly or they lost interest or got too shy etc)
I remember it being absurdly easy. For the chicks I had esex with I loosely kept track of their menstrual cycle on an app just to get an estimate on when it would be easier to score. Luckily they didn't overlap so I could divide my attention on all three of them pretty well. It did kinda ruin flirting for me though, once you get into the rhythm and understand how you're supposed to do it it completely gets rid of the "thrill"
I can't tell you how many times I've done this. BUT, frick it. I'm down for NNN babyyyy
60 days in with no semen emissions somehow. Committing to monk mode now with the expectation this cranks up the mythical benefits.
i've cut it down to 4 pics and 10 videos, nearly lost last night edging to her. she wants to get back together too frick
Like the whole 2024? Sure, I'm already on day 31 of semen retention. Could have fricked a roastie yesterday but now I realize my seed is just too important.
holy shit great picrel
thanks for the image fren. i will read this often to beat the urges in 2024. wagmi!
I have edged almost every day for 90+ days without cumming once.
Why would you ever want to cum? I dont get it
you can still jerk off, just dont cum. you have control over your own body right? animalistic coomers
Wrong homie, Porn is more destructive than masturbation. You'd want to rather jerk off than watch porn
You're wrong. I speak from personal experience. You're repeating words you've read on the internet.
Orgasms take away my energy and make me physically ill for days, and emotionally dull. You are too numb to even perceive this change.
I am horny, in control, perceptive and powerful. I cultivate my energy. You waste it.
>I have edged almost every day for 90+ days without cumming once
There are literally no fricking benefits to this. This is a israelite trap to get people to edge (hence fail because 99% people can't edge for that long of a period, not to mention that you are RAPING your prostate with constant simulation over that long of a period).
Your bullshit of "cultivating" your sexual horny animalistic energy when you've edged but not cummed is a psyop, frick outta here israelite. KYS too while you're at it.
stimulation*
>everything I dont understand is israeli
major L
but at least you recognize your mental weakness and lack of control over your own emotions. You cant do it.
I still have wet dreams every 12 days or so but those do not hurt my energy or drive at all.
to the anons reading, don't edge like this deluded man. For he is too weak.
>you are RAPING your prostate
h-hot…
I'll tell you a much better way,get a wienertoy and insert it in your ass, have it for the entire day and you'll feel the ungodly pleasure of raping your prostate. Have fun.
I'm in. I'm a fricking degenerate, but I'm goooonaaaaaaa... AHHHHHHH. I'M... GONNNNAAAAAA... COOOOOOOOOOOOM
not in 2024 you aint
You will eventually nut while sleeping though
Not necessarily true. Multiple times I've done 3+ months of no fap and no wet dreams
how do you do it, also how old are you. Iam 20 and i get one every two weeks or so
just keep exercising and transmute that sexual energy
I’m 30 and I’ve never had a wet dream. I feel like I was close once because I was about to cum in a dream and then I woke up. Even when not jerking off for a while I still never had a wet dream. I feel like I’ve really missed out on something in life.
same here bro
never had a wet dream
whenever i have a semblance of one i just wake up
good riddance imo, who wants to wake up covered in semen
I constantly have all sorts of sex in my dreams. Most of the time im constantly on the edge of cumming or I have a few dry orgasms before I wake up.
The actual wet dreams suck though, because lf the cleanup and having to wake up instead staying asleep
ngma with that self punishment attitude. you will punish yourself with indulgence instead
I got almost 4 months with that attitude, when I was "not punishing me", I couldn't make 2 weeks
It just works for me to be in a "you ain't shit" zone
enslaving yourself does not better your problems
try to find an affirming outlook instead. "I do tennis because it's fun and keeps me healthy. I dont coom because I don't need It and I'd rather focus on work or let my feelings be felt instead of stuffing them down with cooming in some hoe or tissue"
>The actual wet dreams suck though, because lf the cleanup and having to wake up instead staying asleep
Really? I always just went back to bed if it was too early to get up. Either way I shower first thing in the morning so it really isn't a problem.
as a powerful lucid dreamer i can wake myself up just before ejaculation
Ive had amazing results with nofap, the mental gains are undeniable. Confidence is soaring. Even physical gains, although these are harder to measure. But I do believe it has great impact on skin, hair, voice and test levels. Ill certainly stick with it.
However, Im skeptical about long-term nofap. I feel like it tanks your libido in the long run. It desensitizes you towards all sexuality, which can be a bad thing. You dont want your drive for finding a partner or putting effort into acquiring sex to completely tank. So far, im leaning towards a monthly reset being the best. Just every 1st, jerking off once or twice, and then abstain for the rest of the month. This to me seems to bring out the best of coom retention without switching off your libido. But thats my personal experience with it.
What are other anons thoughts about this? About the frequency and lowering of sex drive?
>However, Im skeptical about long-term nofap. I feel like it tanks your libido in the long run. It desensitizes you towards all sexuality
How many months for that to happen? Asking for a friend
I'm nearly 5 months in and for me at least my libido and urge to find a partner are both very strong. But I have to repress it somewhat because otherwise I'll go crazy. I chose full nofap because I have no self control and can't moderate, it's all or nothing with me
>You dont want your drive for finding a partner or putting effort into acquiring sex to completely tank.
why not, eliminating a desire seems like it would lead to more success.
yeah i think the elimination of the desire is the point where the most powerful part of your brain is actually available for whatever it is you wish to accomplish which is probably what they say day 90 is but as a massive coomer and drug user itl probably take me double that (i cant streak past 5 days i wont make it)
Just for new gears eve and new years day? Ok I'll try
Sure, I’ll keep some of my porn though since some of it is converted videos of old flash porn games that you can’t find anywhere.
>going to be more serious about not compulsively jerking off and instead be more truly appreciative of the sexiness and beauty of women i see online and irl
>going to get over my past ed like fears of "being fat" and get serious about bulking with good meal prep, planning macros, etc
>going to get on a serious program and not be afraid of going all out and exerting myself
wagmi
Yes. NNNY 2024... and beyond.
If it isn't in a wooomin, I'm not cooomin.
Just had my last-ever goon session about 15 minutes ago. Pray for me bros, that I can keep my covenant to God and myself.
Btw, are there are discreet browser addons which will block me from coom sites? My router doesn't have a blacklist feature so I need to rely on a browser addon methinks
no nut new year is gonna be a lot easier than no cigarette new year, brahs
read allen carr's easyway my friend if you haven't already
I'm in. Last year I did 7 months, I should be able to do 12 now. But I don't want to be the only one making threads all year.
Neva nut homie!
No Natty New years? Hell yeah i am in
>NoFap
>NoDrink
>NoEat
>NoPoo
>NoPee
>NoFeelingGood
>NoEnjoyingThings
Good.
>sleep naked on the ceiling
>abandon your friends. they're weak
>buy money
good
I have a GF.
No.
I already nutted in the gf
I love nutting in my gf
I love my gf
I love it, too.
sure let's go
you son of a b***h, i'm in!
Yes I'm in
I will do this as a punishment for being such a loser
Yessir
>no test 2024
No thanks, I'll keep ejaculating like a normal, healthy male.
good idea!
I’m going to put on my cage and see how long I last :3
yeah I'm in. no sex either. I should have an advantage in this regard.
No Black person New Year
total Black person death in 2024 confirmed
bumo
I was planning to abstain from alcohol, weed, tobacco and loose women for 2024 after being not overweight for the longest time in my life this year.
Nofap on top of that? I'll be nominating myself for sainthood if I pulled that off instead of myself.
Sure, gonna stroke it for what's left of this year though
Are you kidding? I’ve already written down my first 13 weeks’ weekly faps.
Let's do it.
I pretty much did NN2023, but I often edged.
NN2024 will be monk mode.
I'm in
sorry bro, my hummer hands free BJ machine should arrive in the mail any day now.
For me it’s 3514 in that order, no 2 however.
Let's fricking go fellas
Hell yeah
>no fap
>no porn
>no excuses
>no eatting shitty
and by the end of next year
>no longer fat
>and by the end of next year
>>no longer fat
based
I actually used to track my weight and stuff in /MIS/ back in October but a few events in my life kind of stressed the frick out of me. Since the first day of the year will be monday I think I'll do it again... despite how lowly saying "starting next year" or "my new years resolution" is.
I will fail, but by Jove I will try.
>bored of wanking
>erections are shit
>keep saying that I'll give it a rest for a bit
>always come back to it
Fricks sake
Is it true that no fap makes you cum even faster? I already have problems with premature ejaculation
>tfw my cum has had blood in it for the last month
>even had a visible clot once
>currently forcing myself to fap every couple of days despite my sex drive never being lower, just to see if it clears itself out
You need to go to the doctor that is not good mate.
Apparently it can be normal and should clear itself out. So I'm giving it another month.
My wife's and my sex drive has been at rock bottom since having a kid a few months ago, so my reasoning is that the cum might just be sitting there for long enough that whatever caused the blood hasn't had a chance to get flushed out yet.
If I don't wank for a while my cum goes lumpy but not bloody
It's mostly just a slightly darker shade, a bit brown/orange. The clot was a once-off thing.
Lol, lmao even. Have sex incel.
I only jerk off to porn I made with women I know. Checkmate no nut cultists.
yeah i’ll try. im probably gonna jerk off 15-20 times in the next 4 days anyways
>don’t frick your gf for a year bro
Yeah, I’m not doing that.
no nut ever
read Charny's Book of Chivalry
its not about the nut... its about sending a message
>you can still jerk off, just dont cum. you have control over your own body right? animalistic coomers
ironic
the irony here is that you think this ironic yet you don't have the selfcontrol to do it yourself
Maybe I could try to see how long I last. Can I still have sex or is this no nutting at all?
No nut. That’s why this is stupid. I nut in my gf’s pussy, ass, mouth, on her breasts, face, feet, pits, etc. It’s all still nutting. If it was no porn, or no jerking, okay whatever. But no nut? Yeah frick off with that.
why not frick her without nutting? karezza. what benefit does she or you get from a nut?
im a virgin so please seriously explain it to me
Why frick her without nutting? Semen retention? Post body immediately with timestamp so we can see what glorious benefits there are to this practice.
im a virgin. please tell why YOU want to cum during sex. doesnt that lessen and pause the pleasure you can get and it only feels good for a moment or two.
please tell me im not memeing and I dont have sex
Do you have autism?
please think of an answer if its such a basic that I should know already. Have you never thought about it?
You bring up karezza, which presumably means you’ve researched this, but claim you have no idea what cumming feels like. This seems like a huge discrepancy.
i dont know what I could add to this, try rereading?
>
>im a virgin. please tell why YOU want to cum during sex. doesnt that lessen and pause the pleasure you can get and it only feels good for a moment or two.
>
>please tell me im not memeing and I dont have sex
Okay, how about this? Have sex. Then YOU tell us whether or not you like it more with nutting or without. Till then, nothing more to talk about.
mate I know what orgasms feel like but theyre rather pointless and shortlived unless youre trying to conceive,
alas, sadly I wont be having sex anytime soon, goodbye mrIcantanswerhonestly
>I know what orgasms feel like but theyre rather pointless and shortlived unless youre trying to conceive
No normal virgin thinks this way. This isn't a virgin problem. This is a (You) problem, or somehow you can't separate the fleetingness of cumming from masturbation from the emotional bonding built by sharing an orgasm with someone. If you make a girl cum, it will permanently change her perspective of you.
Without even going into why a guy wouldn't want to stave off his own pleasure:
Girls are even more insecure about failing to get their man off than men are about getting their girls to cum. If you are deliberately avoiding nutting with her she's going to think you don't love her or you're saving your cum for some other woman or that she's become 'unworthy' and a whole other slew of hypotheticals. While orgasm is not a requirement for sex, intentionally avoiding orgasm is unhealthy behavior.
why not just explain to her that you feel better without ejaculating because of semen retention? If she can't understand that, she is not the one and onto the next one.
Ok, I'm sorry. I can't even agree with the premise. Noporn is done because pornography is bad for you. Nofap is done because you should be going outside and talking to girls instead of jerking off. Semen retention is only good for about a week then you need to come, otherwise you aren't actually gonna increase your T levels. Not orgasming for a whole year is just asking for early prostate cancer.
But also there's thing you do when you're in a relationship, it's called "compromising." Denying your gf your cum for an entire year is just gonna make her break up with you. Semen does more to women than just get them pregnant.
>Semen does more to women than just get them pregnant.
yes it nourishes them (not even kidding, women feel better when swallowing or absorbing semen in their sexual organ/anal), and depletes my vitality when I ejaculate. I always feel bad. I don't need that. I'm on day 32 and moving to day 90. To each their own I guess my dude.
When you put it that way you just sound selfish
>Not orgasming for a whole year is just asking for early prostate cancer.
wrong, also your body can and will make you orgasm in your sleep if it deems that neccesary. as previously stated those orgasms have seem to be mostly innocuous
> Denying your gf your cum for an entire year is just gonna make her break up with you. Semen does more to women than just get them pregnant.
you reject the premise that cultivating your lifeenergy through retention is possible yet you argue every woman needs to eat their partners cum or theyll leave them? how odd
how odd. im going to sleep now.
I have experienced life solo so far but that knowledge lined up with what I later read about karezza. look that up and also semen retention if you want to understand where im coming from
the basic premise is that relationships turn sour because both parties use eachothers to coom and numb/ignore their feelings instead of listening to them and working through them - building their relationship in the process.
love dies because of repeated, violent, mutual energy stealing without a fruit showing for it. (unless you actually breed).
Not being in this rape/breed mode all the time allows for energy cultivation instead of deprivation.
>you reject the premise that cultivating your lifeenergy through retention is possible yet you argue every woman needs to eat their partners cum or theyll leave them? how odd
No, I reject the idea that cumming is bad for you and that denying your partner from experiencing giving you an orgasm is unhealthy. I didn't say anything about eating cum.
>I read about it in a book
Try experiencing real life and not just living in books
>No, I reject the idea that cumming is bad for you and that denying your partner from experiencing giving you an orgasm is unhealthy
I see. Sex is very rewarding and pleasurable in itself, nlt just the last 20seconds you seem to be focusing on so much. If you or your partner disagrees you might need to learn how to connect with your partner better.
And yes,. cumming very often IS unhealthy, especially when you do It blindly for pleasure thinking it will magically glue your relationship together without actually putting in effort (or having a kid).
cumming to feel good as a coping mechanism does not suddenly become a healthy thing when you cum in your gf instead of your hand. you're still a coping coomer. It will drain and hurt both of you and eventually "the spark" will be gone and she'll leave.
>>I read about it in a book
never said this. I realized mush of this firsthand or through observation, then later found out others have also realized this. thats only relevant because I can now tell you to go look up those two terms to learn.
There are three classes of people: those who see, those who see when they are shown, those who do not see.
tell her then, she doesn't need to guess blindly
>homies forcing themselves to nut because they’re to pussy whipped
could never be me
Agreed. I’d much rather explain to my gf that I can’t but in/on her because some random incel virgins said I shouldn’t online. LET’S FRICKING GOOOOOO!!!
Now that’s more like it
You son of a b***h...
I'm in.
>no masturbation
>no video games
I've done no video games. Man you better have a hobby to replace cause it's gonna get boring quick without one.
No. Moderation is key and you should be nutting 1-2x per month minimum even if you're just jacking off.
I'll try my best op
noporn is much more important than nofap
I have been on nofap for 1 month, and vow I will not fap in 2024, and will try and not view any coombait. I will only nut in or on my girlfriend. I hope she is ready for the onslaught
I'm actually planning on just having 1 goon night a month where i put on earphones, play some 1080p, pour a drink and jack off all night. Then not watch porn again until the next month.
Just finishing NNN2023
Sure, lets go for another one
>no porn
>no fap
sure
>no nut
I'd rather be motivated to nut inside or onto a girl
yes
Already on day 27
are you resisting the urge or did it go away?
day 32, reaching for 90. lesago
I wanna try, its been so long
No offence but if you think some internet meme challenge will turn your life around then you need professional help.
I will be participating in FMWAMAP2024 (Frick my wife as much as possible 2024).
I injured myself on Friday on my coked out edgefest so I'm out for the rest of the year
I was already in from the start.
Dunno about not fapping but I do want to quit jerking off to porn. I wish it wasn't so hard after the first week.
Let's do it boys
ok, let's go! challenge accepted.
its been three months no nut no porn for me, its pretty chill, nothing special so far. u realize how sad and pathetic porn really is and jerking it makes no sense
Managed two 2 month streaks this year, but 2023 also marks the peak of my degeneracy
2024, I WILL RIP YOUR THROAT OUT
I'm in, damn it. Sick of these semen stains.
i didnt jerk off for like 2 weeks, but overnight i had a dream about sex and woke up at 2:30 am and could not get back to sleep just laid there thinking about the sex dream so at 3 am i had to roll on my side to get my phone and jerk offd and got to sleep within a few minutes
Your problem is porn, not masturbation.
i dont understand, i have to use porn (the porn i watch is solo girls jerking off/showering/try-ons)
its either in bed or at my desk. i wasnt gonna get up at 3 am and go over to my desk and start turning on the computer
>i have to use porn
You don't have to. Before I fell into the porn trap I used to be able to get off to my imagination.
Nasty. jerking off anywhere near where I sleep feels disgusting.
Wait until you find out about sex.
im about a week in
was thinking about things and many of my trips on hallucinogens i came to the conclusion that porn is the ''biggest waste of time for a man'' literally no benefits at all
its a tough addiction to break but i feel more confident that others feels the same way and have made the decision to make a change in their life
godspeed anons
Alright, homosexual, I'm in. Good stuff. I will start now. FOR THE BROTHERHOOD OF IST!
I've been clean since November 19 and intend to stay that for at least 3 months since then.
I've experience the nofap benefits are real.
I might release after/every 3 months or so but I'll see.
I've been on a real bender recently. Been going back to some old, old ways after losing about a two-week streak. Struggling with lots of HOCD (H stands for homosexual, if you catch my drift), which has really deepened the lows I've been feeling.
I'm going to take these last few days to reflect and set up a game plan for NNNY2024. We can do this. It's time to let go of the shame and the distractions and focus inward.
Best of luck, everyone. WAGMI.
can you really get a deeper voice?
can any anons confirm this
kinda, it makes my voice deeper because I’m more relaxed even though I’m not really an anxious person (a lot of people carry tension that they don’t even realize). if you nut however it will go back to normal.
you know what bro frick it, just because you asked so casually, lets go
Im in
I'm doing nofap and noporn
Cooming inside grills is fine
> Longest i´ve lasted was 11 days
Bros, I dont think im going to make it
I lasted all november, but man was it rough
I'm in bros. Let's fricking go.
I'll shoot for the stars, if I land on the Moon, that'll be pretty good already