If no fap is so good, then having sex daily would be detrimental. How does your body know the difference between a vagina and your hand? If you fap daily, wouldn't your body think you are getting laid daily?
Nofap and noSex difference?
If no fap is so good, then having sex daily would be detrimental. How does your body know the difference between a vagina and your hand? If you fap daily, wouldn't your body think you are getting laid daily?
Is this catty?
jack off and walk into a elevator with other people... you will feel like a loser and girls will move away from you... fuck a girl and walk into elevator, you will feel like a god and girls will be mirin u
there's a very minor difference that has to do with chemical release and pair bonding but that's it. jerking off itself doesn't have any negative effects. for 99% of people the problem with jerking off is PORN consumption. stop watching porn and you will naturally jerk off less, have less bizarre fetishes and won't feel like shit after you nut.
you're all nutcases. if you don't want to jerk off that's fine but stop spouting these copes and moronic placebo benefits.
if you gained the fetish from watching porn then yes quitting porn can make it go away. it worked for me. but sometimes there are fetishes that are deeply rooted in us that won't disappear because it wasn't porn that made us that way. you'll just have to live with them and ignore them to the best of your ability.
This is truth, you guys can talk all day
About science and shut, but your spiritually is really important, that’s why you feel like a king fucking a chick but feel shit when you jerk off
pretty sure there's some hormonal/bonding type things that happen when u coom in the presence of a woman
nofap is a meme
no porn is a real thing that detoxes you from looking at insane shit and gets you back to you using your imagination, where you are imagining yourself fucking the local waitress instead of looking at some 4'10 goblin with 10kg of makeup
this. i dont just cause i dont like feeling good when i am shit at everything. If i do is after i done something right in my mind. Sex is only different because it is energizing.
>i dont like feeling good when i am shit at everything. If i do is after i done something right in my mind.
Human bodies secrete and absorb hormones through proximity and touch. Also, the chemical cocktail released via traditional sex has been proven to be different than masturbation.
People on the Internet came up with NoFap as a means to motivate themselves to pursue girls more or work on themselves to attract girls. That's it. It was never meant to give you any sort of Jedi powers or whatever.
>How does your body know the difference between a vagina and your hand?
Your mind does
Has anyone managed to erase their dreadful fetish by noporn/ nofap? my largest streak was 4 months but when I relapsed I did it by fetish porn.
If you're getting laid, it negates the physiological effects of nofap but you still get the mental and subconscious benefits.
NoFap will mostly benefit men who don't have enough control of their own lives and who are also single. It's both sacrifice and discipline and it will engender in them aspects they need to get out of whatever funk they may be in.
t. a guy who did nofap for over a year and did a complete transformation and is, this saturday, meeting his first prospective gf in way too goddamn long
A year? Talk more about it
Anything notable
Lots. It sucks for a good while. I guess I might liken it to a drug addict going through withdrawals but directly related to abstinence. I was having really vivid wet dreams for a long time and women became so attractive that seeing them would sometimes cause these weird reactions. The frustration turns into this energy that you need to find some outlet for. For me that was hitting the gym and studying and learning new things and forcing myself to overcome some rather debilitating personal issues. You start looking for new ways to make yourself uncomfortable to obscure it all out and those things you find are beneficial to building you into a better man. It just turns into momentum and you start to bask in your new beneficial miseries. After a while you're just a different person. You just feel pent-up and miserable and don't really notice it but people tell you just how much you've changed. That's when you appreciate having taken that first step and following through with all the other ones.
Thanks for the report, interesting stuff
Think about it like this: People can detect your opinion of yourself when they observe you for a while and they believe your appraisal of yourself to degree.
So when you tug yourself off to fucked up stuff like we all do or have done in the past, you feel like a real fuck up, and you walk around and talk to people looking like someone who thinks they're a real fuck up, and the people who observe you trust your judgement of yourself, and regard you accordingly.
"It's all about confidence bro" is true to an extent. You have to think you're actually not a complete fuck up or else everyone knows you think you are and also thinks you are.
If you are a complete fuck up, you need to do whatever it takes to convince yourself otherwise, even if you still are by anyone else's standards, they trust your own appraisal over theirs when it comes to you a lot of the time. So you can be an unemployed obese heroin addict and still be charismatic because you think you're cool. Conversely, you can be making 7 figures and be jacked and healthy but if you feel like a total loser, a total loser if what you are. It's largely in your own mind.
If nofap makes you feel like less of a fuck up, do it! Do it and never stop trying, because you're not a fuck up! And once you pass that fuck up check in your own head, you pass it in reality.
But don't take my word for it, I'm just a fuck up who probably has it all wrong.
Stop jerking off, our ancestors jerked off and the the guilt or shame became a part of our instinct. They knew that wasting the sperm was not a good thing. I wouldn’t be surprised if it was common to eat your own nut back then in hopes to reabsorb the lost energy. Or give it to someone else.
Congratulations, you've just discovered why NoFap is bullshit that only incel losers from 4chan believe in. There is very little physiological difference between ejaculating from masturbation and from sex.
So noporn, then? Can I still blast my dick everyday masturbating to imagination?
Sure, you can try if you want. Personally I went back to porn because I haven't noticed any benefits at all from abstaining. But then, I was always watching normal porn and in moderation, not some super extreme fucked up shit with women getting killed etc.
The real reason why porn is bad from a purely biological point of view is that it kills your drive to find a real woman and pretty much ends your genetic lineage. That's like w/e if you don't care about kids but it will probably fuck you up later down the line if you change your mind as you get older.
>people say excessive jerking off makes you like more extreme shit
>has never been the case for me but did absolutely make me look at all women as cock starving sluts
I mean technically they are but eventually 1 good one will show up who isnt.
>people say excessive jerking off makes you like more extreme shit
Honestly, I think it is 100% cope. Coming from retards who discovered their fetishes but couldn't accept them so they blamed porn because it's something external. I've been watching porn since I was a teen and the only way it has gotten extreme is extremely high resolution compared to back then.
I think at worst it makes you look at women as a piece of fuck meat. But again... they kinda are so..
Reminder the porn industry makes 57 Billion annually and could easily afford to pay a few gays to make posts like this defending it.