NoPorn bros how do you go about it? I'm not going to bother with nofap since it's benefits are a bit of a meme past a week or two and my problem is more about porn and de-sexualizing my brain. I ofc will do it much much less anyways but do you just use your imagination? Does sexting qts i know count?
I use pic related and I visit hookers every now and then.
I want to de-sexualize my brain I don't think fricking a silicon butthole would help
It did for me. It's more of an imitation of sex than watching others do it on a screen, where there's always the temptation to skip to the good stuff, or opening a new tab with a new video etc. Just constantly feeding your brain with new sexual impulses, only "the good bits".
My dream is to become incredibly wealthy just to frick off into the middle of nowhere in some McMansion trailer home with a $40,000 sex doll.
40k sex doll isn't wealthy level, real wealth is just paying ig thots to do whatever you please, and billionaires just get kids because they've tried pretty much everything else
>$40,000 sex doll.
does such a thing even exist?
Actually kinda based.
I bet its better for your brain than porn.
I'm currently volcel because one night stands are not fulfilling and I want to have my life together and pay off my debts before I start a new relationship.
Might buy it
good one, incel
Do you actually own this? It seems like it can feel great until the moment you coom and then the realization that you just nutted into a piece of rubber hits you like a train
the trick is to buy this when you're not horny, so you know exactly what you're getting into
I make reservation to visit escort this saturday. I have not fapped since wednesday a week ago.
I am battling thoughts - should i jerk off today or not?
I fricked only once but then i was not able to cum after half hour of fricking - then i fapped twice a day before visit.
I would like to finally cum from sex to see whats like, but i am worried that after week and half - i will cum just from looking at her, cum inside my pants or at her before she even put the rubber on me that. That would be cringe and i would probably have to pay twice. It would be enough for me to frick her for 3 minutes and cum, i dont care i just dont want it to be second American Pie. I dont know if fapping today and getting this buffer of 2 days would be healthy compromise.
There is also question of excitement, if i fap today i will just do it becuase i already have reservation but without being full-blown horny. But i would probably act less cringe talking with her on empty balls, feeling less cortison and less nervous and cringe.
>inb4 you can just cum twice in one visit
I doubt tbh , that after so many years of fapping i would cum twice from sex alone through refractionary period. Its not like my test is low, its 510 ng.
Don’t put too much emphasis on how long your streaks are. If you do, the temptation is to say, “well, I am back on 0 days, I might as well watch a bunch before getting back on the horse.” Instead, if you fail just keep going as if nothing happened. Also, if at all possible, try not to jerk off while watching porn. Neurons that fire together wire together. If porn watching is decoupled from pleasure it becomes a lot easier to avoid.
Yeah i could care less about streaks it's just I'm not going to bother quitting fapping altogether so need to figure out what to do. Not using porn while doing it has been fairly easy so far, resisting the urge to just mindlessly look at it has been the bigger hoop but so far so good.
Thats pretty interesting actually, tbh im not going to spend money on a sex toy but if that worked for you nice
I had a habit of cooming in the morning right as I wake up due to morning wood and usually didnt use porn for that just cause i was still so groggy. I think I can make it work with my imagination itll just take more getting used to ig
Based and good advice for everything. Streaks are moronic and make you feel like breaking it somehow invalidates the progress made leading up to the relapse.
yes you just use your imagination. it might not work at first but eventually it will and you'll be far better off.
from my own experience I found weaning myself off worked better than going cold turkey. by that I mean start by moving to more 'softcore' porn and reducing frequency of masturbation. then you can try interspersing masturbation with your imagination more and more until the tables turn and you don't even think about the porn anymore.
if you want to jerk off but can't get hard or turned on to your imagination, don't give in and watch porn, just go on with your day. waiting up to a week between masturbation sessions to reach peak horny levels may make it easier in the beginning.
as the other anon said don't worry about streaks or failures, just look at the bigger picture. as long as you're slowly moving towards that end goal you're on the right path. I mean it took me years to properly quit.
Frick a fleshlight
>do you just use your imagination?
Most likely this will not work for you. In theory, this can be fine, but what happens with porn addicts is that they've conditioned their own sexuality and arousal template, so you'd likely be imagining pornography anyways, which defeats the purpose
>youd likely be imagining porn anyways
im not imagining specific porn or something im imagining me fricking people, is that not what youre supposed to do?
Yes. The other guy is moronic. Even the memory of porn is significantly less damaging than watching porn itself. If you're wanking with your eyes closed you are on the path
>NoPorn bros how do you go about it?
You age, your T levels plummet, quitting becomes easy af. Its that simple and easy.
im 25 with 900 test naturally so that might be a while
lmao porn addicts have low test, i think you meant 90 lil guy
nice projection lil guy
yea it will probably be like twice a week now.
i only browse IST and IST. most of it on this board is softcore and i just dont click on it when i see it so not too bad
>yea it will probably be like twice a week now.
If that's your natural level then thats cool. I know when I was watching it was most days, like 5 times a week. Don't try to fight nutting at the same time as fighting porn. The problem isn't watching porn becase you need to wank, its wanking because you need to watch porn. If you try and fight both at the same time you'll wear out your mental strenth instantly. Trust me, the urge to wank deals with itself and dies down after you've sorted out your porn problem. If you feel the urge to watch porn, go nut one out instantly to whatevers going on in your head, as long as it isnt with porn.
>25
30 is the number around which you start loosing lean tissue, big guy. Come back after 5 years.
I managed to quit recently and have been about a month clean. First thing I did was an affirmation. Say to yourself, "I, [name here] will quit porn for good." That seals a contract with yourself you can't break. The main thing is not restricting yourself from jerking off. In fact, do it as much as you like. Jacking off to the thought of porn you used to watch is the easiest way to start. I also had some smut literature I used as well, which I guess helps the imagination, but I got bored of it pretty fast and switched to entirely imagination. This should be enough to quit porn completely. Getting that filth out of your brain and thoughts is definitely worth it. You will see results very fast.
Im 22 btw and I think I've actually quit for 2 months. It's not something I even think about anymore.
Stop going on this website for one. Porn is unavoidable here. If you can't do that, you're not serious.
realize that i'm committing a mortal sin as a christian and ask God for help. we are fighting a great war against the demons anon. you can do it
I made the mistake of fapping on coke so now when I'm not on coke I don't want to fap because it just doesn't compare.
>porn
Sight, maybe sound, possibly just a still image. Severely limited by selection and popularity of fetishes.
>imagination
Sight, sound, touch, smell, taste. Any scenario possible, any time. Don’t have to waste time searching for the right one.
Instead of watching porn, I use that time and energy arguing about anime and manda at IST
>Massive break up with ex back in March
>Started jerking off once a day
>Now 3-4 times a day
>Penis has started to get red and dry cracking
Help I think its an addiction now, also any cream I can put to reduce redness and cracking?
>Penis has started to get red and dry cracking
Circumcised?
Non circumcised
Have phimosis and cured it but now also have a short frenulum
Same here dude. Actually I think I am partially circumcised, I had phimosis surgery as a kid, but I actually had my foreskin still covering my glans up until puberty (even had a yeast infection once because I went camping for 6 days and didn't wash lmao).
cured my ED with it + nofap. Get bricked on command now like a fricking sex robot. Went 2 weeks not busting at all, had a girl over tonight, bricked just thinking about her coming over and at work while sexting. 0 foreplay required im just ready to go. Didnt last as long as I'd have liked to. Came so hard I felt that shit in my central nervous system and brain stem, for real. I screamed like a DBZ character going super saiyan and let off probably a quarter cup of seed into her mouth.
Really thought I'd be able to go another round after with the assistance of a dick pill. I did get it up after like a 30 min refractory period but was not interested honestly, just let her ride me. Will require some tuning to figure out how to maintain the ability to just be ready to go, ready to frick like a primal caveman, but not wanna bust in the first 5 minutes. Also I think the stark contrast between how ravenous I was to having got off played a part in why I wasn't so interested in a second round. Think I just need slightly more frequent sex.
This is all in contrast to ED I was experiencing where I required a lot of foreplay, had a mid tier erection at best, lost it frequently, wasn't very aggressive or assertive, and even on occasion with looser women couldn't even get off. I only beat it a few times a week and experienced that shit. 2 weeks is about where I turn into a sexual assault suspect though, I needed to let one off before I did something I regretted. Granted Im on test and tren currently so maybe I wouldnt be so ravenous at such an early marker if I was natty
>tl;dr cured my ED and am subscribed to nofap and noporn for life. Frick cumming in my hand to pixels, especially at the cost of my dick function. that shit is pathetic
It’s 100% the steroids. Enjoy it while it lasts, I had no chance of not beating off myself on test/tren I’m impressed you can make it 2 weeks and frankly alarmed. I’d probably be trying to have sex with my cat at that point
200 test 200 tren e is a baby dose
I do 9 hours of zone 2 or 3 LISS cardio a week. After working up to this over 3 months I have no desire to jerk off, but I am compelled to seek out women and chat them up.
wiener is massive, stupidly hard, and I can frick without breaking a sweat due to strong heart.
3 hours upper body with ski erg, assault bike, maxiclimber, or speed bag.
6 hours lower body with max incline treadmill walking, light toe jogging, or uphill sprints (granted this is zone 5 HIIT).
Combine with stronglifts or gymnastics calisthenics for strength/aesthetics and you're good to go.
>9 hours of cardio
how the frick
oh you said a week, that makes more sense. Still a lot
I just read erotica tbh. Imaginationmaxxing since I was 14 lel. Also helped me learn English when I was a teenager.
i just imagine your mom jumping on my dick and going silly t2g2rw
Just jerk off to memories/imagination
Anyone got any of those nofap timeline charts?
I've been noporn for a while, tugging maybe once every day or so, but on a whim went nofap. Lasted 4 days then had a really disappointing wank, then been almost 3 weeks since and I feel unbelievably different. I always thought those charts were a meme and that porn was the israelite, not jerking off, but I want to compare them.
The main differences I feel are more motivation which is obviously because of dopamine, which makes sense as prolactin is a dopamine antagonist, and that I actually want to spend time and bond with women now. My drive for sex has changed completely from primal urge to actually seeking companionship. I don't think I can ever go back to fapping like the monkeys trapped in the zoo.
I converted to Orthodox Christianity, and stay away from pol and v now
Getting laid works fine, idk if you have difficulties with this and I don't want to offend you, but it's actually helpful to engage in sexual activity with real people and then stopping the porn use. Also, the more sexual experiencies you have = the more mental images you can create when you fap with your imagination.
You can still jerk off, just don’t watch porn. Use your imagination, unless you’re an NPC
>Day 10
This thread is what happens when you dont believe in God
Yeah priests never diddle little kids
Typical satan, ignoring that there are more pedo teachers than priests.
had it since i was 10 years old, only got over it this year (16 year addiction). the only thing that really kicks it not yoinking your meat and not looking. you HAVE to do no porn and no fap together. it won't work otherwise.
Did you know that masturbation will make you weak and give you ED and porn will frick your brain up? Plus sexual abstinence has some pretty unbeliveable benefits:
https://imgur.io/gallery/g4eGH
Here are some studies:
Three weeks of abstinence increases testostorone levelshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11760788
Masturbation is associated with lower psychological health and reproductive well-beinghttps://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/14681994.2019.1677883
Sperm contains compounds that prolong lifespan, fight cancer & heart diseasehttps://vitalrecord.tamhsc.edu/spermidine-rich-foods-may-prevent-liver-cancer-extend-lifespan/
Masturbation decreases dopamine levelshttps://sites.tufts.edu/emotiononthebrain/2014/11/18/postcoital-neurochemistry-the-blues-and-the-highs/
Watching porn reduces gray matter in prefrontal cortexhttps://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/1874574
Porn addiction has similar mechanism with substance addictionhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4600144/
Prevalence of erectile dysfunction doubled between 2004 and 2013http://cir.usc.edu/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/Genital-Image-Sexual-Anxiety-and-Erectile-Dysfunction-Among-Young-Male-Military-Personnel.pdf
Pornography consumption is associated with mental health issueshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6327603/w1
>NoPorn bros how do you go about it?
i turnt 30. lol seriously i used to jerk off 2-3 times a day ever since i was 13 then i just stopped. i know guys keep spamming muh hormones but im high test af. i just realized girls are not attracted to me. that's it. every girl ive ever spoken to has been either very cut and dry or hostile. i jerk off like 3-4 times a year.
Slightly off-topic but how do I cope with severe psychological ED? The only woman I don't get nervous with is my ex, and I still fantasize about her. The though of fricking any other female honestly makes me a bit nervous. I've missed out on intercourse with 5 other women after we broke up because of this issue, none of them wanted to meet me again for a 2nd try. I know I could just blast test or something to force myself through that mental barrier but I wanna stay natty for life