A fat guy at my work who I hadn't seen in nearly 6 months asked if I was starving even though I had visibly filled out my shoulders, and still had a slight visible gut in my work shirt.
But when someone does comment on it, it is a nice morale boost. But I tend to only get them from people I haven't seen in a while. I'm looking foward to Christmas day, to get more.
Not telling you you're fat when you and everyone clearly already knows is just trying not to be a dick who's needlessly rubbing it in.
Telling someone how fat they used to be, how much progress they've made, is being supportive in their endeavors to improve themselves. Those two very different motives, both of which are just trying to be nice. People aren't as duplicitous as fatsos want to believe.
Of course, body positive fat fricks will deny this. That's how you know I'm right.
Yes. And if you gain weight, you find out who your true friends are: The ones who tell you that you're starting to get fat. Friends honest enough to tell you when you gain weight are friends worth keeping.
Can you tell you're a day older than you were yesterday?
Gradual changes aren't noticeable, they usually come as sudden realizations when attention is suddenly called to it. And your day to day reference isn't a side by side to your best, it's a comparison of yourself from 5 minutes ago, a day ago, maybe a week ago, but you aren't often looking at yourself in comparison to yourself from the drastically different starting point. There's no immediate obvious feedback long-term body changes.
not really. I can tell by the numbers on the scale, but I don't see much difference in the mirror. I guess if I gained 50 pounds I would notice, but when I gained 20 pounds I didn't see a difference. But some of my good friends + brother told me I was getting fat and that helped me realize I needed to lose weight.
Yes. Except your negligent parents who got you in that situation on the first place. They'll just say "it wasn't that bad, it was just baby fat, it wasn't my fault, you grew out of it so what's the harm, please son please don't kill me, we can still talk about this, fine I'm sorry, please, please let me go I'm sorry, AHHH NO STOP, PLEASE SON IM SORRY I DIDNT MEAN TO IGNORE YOU PLEASE PLEASE LET ME LIVE, AHHH*BANG* *gargle*" and other bullshit copes
I lost 70 pounds and felt great. I walked up stairs faster, I liked looking at myself in the mirror, at night I felt my own abs up in bed, and people (mainly men) congratulated me on my weight loss.
Then I discovered power lifting and the weight came right back.
>Is it really like this?
Not in my experience. I've said this on previous threads, when I was a teenager, girls used to say that I would've been good looking and they'd date me if I wasn't fat.
100%, but mostly I just noticed people being 10x nicer to me than when I was a fat slob. Women don't cringe when I tell jokes and they notice me more in general. I've also noticed people don't talk to fatties about food, EVER, but they always take note of the large milkshake and extra fries Fatty Mcc**terson ordered at the work luncheon or whatever and just look at them with pity and disgust and shittalk them in private afterwards.
Unironically, one of the best things you can do for a fatty is strive to be as healthy, lean, muscular and strong as possible. Just being around you should make them feel overweight and ashamed like they are years behind on exercise, which plants the seed in their head that they should lose some weight.
This is how you let them know they are fat without having to use any words to directly put them down. And if they are in the “healthy at all sizes” mindset they were NeverGMI anyway
nobody cares, people are pretty accepting these days.
hell, they even act supportive of trannies.
being mean on purpose as a man is social suicide in this day and age.
Yeah it do be like that
I actually appreciate the positive comments THOUGH
opposite for me
A fat guy at my work who I hadn't seen in nearly 6 months asked if I was starving even though I had visibly filled out my shoulders, and still had a slight visible gut in my work shirt.
But when someone does comment on it, it is a nice morale boost. But I tend to only get them from people I haven't seen in a while. I'm looking foward to Christmas day, to get more.
They're acknowledging your achievements you stupid c**t
I hate twitter threads and stupid women
Not telling you you're fat when you and everyone clearly already knows is just trying not to be a dick who's needlessly rubbing it in.
Telling someone how fat they used to be, how much progress they've made, is being supportive in their endeavors to improve themselves. Those two very different motives, both of which are just trying to be nice. People aren't as duplicitous as fatsos want to believe.
Of course, body positive fat fricks will deny this. That's how you know I'm right.
Yes and they don't sugarcoat it. They act like you were 600 lbs even if you weren't even 250
Still overweight
Still ugly
🙂
she'd be angry as shit if anyone called her fat to her face
just say she looks like Lizzo
Yes. And if you gain weight, you find out who your true friends are: The ones who tell you that you're starting to get fat. Friends honest enough to tell you when you gain weight are friends worth keeping.
my fat friends gave no fricks when I gained 70lb. now that im skinny again, they give me low key verbal abuse lmao.
>The ones who tell you that you're starting to get fat.
Are people unable to tell when they are getting fat THEMSELVES?. I'm legitimately curious.
I was like 12% body fat in 2020
Early 2021 I bulked to like 20% and in my delusional mind I thought I looked the same. It do be like that.
Can you tell you're a day older than you were yesterday?
Gradual changes aren't noticeable, they usually come as sudden realizations when attention is suddenly called to it. And your day to day reference isn't a side by side to your best, it's a comparison of yourself from 5 minutes ago, a day ago, maybe a week ago, but you aren't often looking at yourself in comparison to yourself from the drastically different starting point. There's no immediate obvious feedback long-term body changes.
not really. I can tell by the numbers on the scale, but I don't see much difference in the mirror. I guess if I gained 50 pounds I would notice, but when I gained 20 pounds I didn't see a difference. But some of my good friends + brother told me I was getting fat and that helped me realize I needed to lose weight.
i treat fat people like they dont exist
they can pick up on it lmao
Yes. Except your negligent parents who got you in that situation on the first place. They'll just say "it wasn't that bad, it was just baby fat, it wasn't my fault, you grew out of it so what's the harm, please son please don't kill me, we can still talk about this, fine I'm sorry, please, please let me go I'm sorry, AHHH NO STOP, PLEASE SON IM SORRY I DIDNT MEAN TO IGNORE YOU PLEASE PLEASE LET ME LIVE, AHHH*BANG* *gargle*" and other bullshit copes
I lost 70 pounds and felt great. I walked up stairs faster, I liked looking at myself in the mirror, at night I felt my own abs up in bed, and people (mainly men) congratulated me on my weight loss.
Then I discovered power lifting and the weight came right back.
>Is it really like this?
Not in my experience. I've said this on previous threads, when I was a teenager, girls used to say that I would've been good looking and they'd date me if I wasn't fat.
Because fat people start crying if you call them fat, and then they will buy potato chips and ice cream to console themselves.
100%, but mostly I just noticed people being 10x nicer to me than when I was a fat slob. Women don't cringe when I tell jokes and they notice me more in general. I've also noticed people don't talk to fatties about food, EVER, but they always take note of the large milkshake and extra fries Fatty Mcc**terson ordered at the work luncheon or whatever and just look at them with pity and disgust and shittalk them in private afterwards.
Unironically, one of the best things you can do for a fatty is strive to be as healthy, lean, muscular and strong as possible. Just being around you should make them feel overweight and ashamed like they are years behind on exercise, which plants the seed in their head that they should lose some weight.
This is how you let them know they are fat without having to use any words to directly put them down. And if they are in the “healthy at all sizes” mindset they were NeverGMI anyway
nobody cares, people are pretty accepting these days.
hell, they even act supportive of trannies.
being mean on purpose as a man is social suicide in this day and age.