Saturday feels bar

Come, have a drink and share your pain (or hope)

  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    GIVE ME ALL THE FUCKING CASH YOU GOT IN THIS BITCH RIGHT FUCKING NOW IM NOT FUCKING AROUND

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous
    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Cylinder holes different size than bore
      It's fake

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My wife drives me nuts. She didn't want to have sex last night but the second I drive my kids out to see Nene and Pops she texts me wanting me to drive all the way back home and dick her down. Like I'm not driving 40 minutes back across town for mediocre sex, you better send me a detailed description of what you want me to do to all of your holes first.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      i could fuck your wife for you if it's such an inconvenience

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It is an inconvenience.
        >foreplay entirely centered on her
        >basically just lays there the whole time
        >her idea of new and kinky sex is putting a pillow under her butt during missionary
        >trying any dominance play on her to get out of dead fish sex turns her off
        She still wants it 3-4 times a week, cums every time, and will initiate it but as soon as we get started she goes dead fish. I'm starting to think the corrective rape guys are right.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Wow that sounds horrible. Was she always like this? Or did something like having kids change her?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            She has always been pretty vanilla when it comes to sex but she used to be more open to stuff. I used to fuck her in the shower all the time (I'm looking for a house with a nicer shower now although don't think this is the issue). I've gotten two blowjobs from her ever in 17 years and she didn't come close to finishing either time.
            The only exception is anal, she still wants it in her ass all the time and likes butt plugs (although she won't wear them outside the bedroom). But then it's usually prone bone or spooning.

            wow you have a wife which you have sex with everyday,poor you

            Bro you don't realize how monotonous sex gets when you get older and have followed the same script literally 2,000 times.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >I've gotten two blowjobs from her ever in 17 years and she didn't come close to finishing either time.
              I wouldn't make it.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Dude once my girlfriend gave me more than two blowjobs in a 24 hour window...I don't even want it that often but I'm not going to stop her. Two times ever for a wife is unacceptable

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Have you talked to her about it? I'll be honest, you're a better dude than me. I'd be fucking gone if my chick was like that. Maybe she has self esteem issues?

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >Maybe she has self esteem issues?
                Positive she does.
                >Have you talked to her about it?
                Not ever seriously although I've thought about it from time to time. I'm 36 and at the moment we are in "if it happens, it happens" mode with another kid so I am fine just giving her creampies every time. But especially if we have another kid and we get in that post-pregnancy shitty sex phase I'm going to have to sit her down and tell her, I'm getting older and if you want me to get it up and keep it up you're going to have to start being more involved.
                I'll be honest and this might sound like cope but I kind of respect it. Before I started dating her in college I basically used thefacebook as Tinder for a couple of years and fucked all kinds of slutty college girls and as nice as it is to have one you just met face to face an hour ago suck your dick or whatever it makes you view them differently. Like I'm not going to respect you if you've got my dick in your mouth and we just met.
                My wife was a virgin and it was a nice change of pace to have a girl who was not just slutting it up all the time, who was shy and still feeling stuff out. Now I wish she wasn't passive but there's something to be said about the woman you marry having some dignity about sex instead of just doing whatever degrading shit I can think of.
                That being said, again, I put it in her ass fairly often so it's hard to complain if she doesn't like blowjobs.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          wow you have a wife which you have sex with everyday,poor you

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why do women want to fuck at some inconvenient times?

      >gf wants to have sex five minutes before I have to leave to hang with bros, making me late
      >wife makes booty call when I’m across town and have to pick up kids in 40min.
      >side piece wants action, but you’re busy at work with tons of shit to do

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      My wife drives me crazy too, settling down and becoming a parent just feels like being in prison sometimes. I want to inject cocaine and fuck a stranger in a motel or something. Or just a lifting session without a phone call would be nice.

      I am immature and childish

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        This is why every man needs side chicks. Every man grows tired of fucking his wife and wants some stange. Most just use porn to satisfy the urge. High value men get sugar babies, escorts, side chicks or whatever to scratch the itch.

        >t. also married, fucked 5 diff college girls this year, wife is kind of accepting of it but doesnt want details and wants to live in ignorance

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I don’t think high value men get sugar babies or escorts
          If you were that sexually attractive you would just get one for free

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Clearly you’re poor. The time you save just paying for a sugar baby instead of doing multiple dates or club/bar scenes is worth it. Especially when it’s a side chick that you don’t have time to see more than once or twice a week.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It’s pretty early here so I’ll have a coffee with a splash of whiskey, please.
    Feeling hopeful. Living with my parents again because me and the fiancé ended things. Saving until the spring time to find a place to live. Lost over 40 pounds this year and have gained a lot of muscle back. I have my kids 3-4 days a week but when I don’t have them I get pretty lonely. Idt it’s even worth my time looking for someone else until I have my own place again. How are you, OP?

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Feeling like the bro in Ye's Gold Digger

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Now I ain’t sayin she a gold digger but she ain’t messin with no broke Hitler

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I lost my best friend this year

    He wanted to go back to his ex girlfriend who’s cheated on him 3 times with the intent to marry her. I completely disapproved and he pick her over me. I pray to god I’m wrong and she has changed

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >tfw get tinder matches and talk to the girls some but have never been able to ask one out

      He's not only a shit friend but a retard
      Move on

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Why aren't you able to ask them out?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You can't help people who don't want to be helped.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What a fucking retard

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you think that's bad? my virgin friend is being used as an emotional pillow by a single mother 4 years older than him because she promised sex once maybe some time

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Tis unfortunate, but maybe he'll come back around after she cheats the 4th time and takes half his shit.

      My best friend died, there's no maybe in that story,not trying to one up your problem just trying to express there is still hope.

      Good luck anon she will never be faithful.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I don’t think I’d take him back if that happened. Because if he’s willingly to ignore my warnings, and chose a trashing chick over his best friend, he might do it again.

        Betrayal can not be forgiven

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Fair, but oxytocin is a hell of a drug, in this life all that matters is health, brotherhood, and family.

          We're talking about the future uncle of your children I've lost all my uncles and so has my son. The men who molded the man I am are all dead. It's fair to give him a hard time but brothers are few and far between obviously make your own choices.

          hope you can find forgiveness it takes time to let go of this kind of anger when he come crawling back offer him a fair fight if he's willing to bleed for it he's worth keeping. Just my two cents good luck

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I simply do not understand woman signals.

    >Known a girl for over a year now via hobby (sports).
    >Never really talked much other the occasional gg or how was your week.
    >2 months ago she suddenly starts becoming more personal and talkative.
    >She adds me on socials so I message her a joke and she responds.
    >Next time we see each other she stops me in hallway and says "why did you keep me on read".
    >"don't you have a BF?"
    >"Yes but so".
    >Message later that night with some flirting going back and fourth.
    >This week I see her and just ask "have you been hitting on me?"
    >"What NO!! haha"
    >"Asked because you have been completely different and personal lately"
    >"Well I just wanted to know you more, your just so quiet most of the time"
    >tfw am the 2nd loudest on the team.

    Did I do something wrong? I know she has a bf but just wanted clarity. I even asked a friend who one would consider god tier when talking to women and he even said those were some strong signs idk man.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I know she has a bf
      What significance does that have on your relationship with her

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        If she has been flirting with me then I would have told her to figure something out with him first. I am not going to be that person especially after finding out my best friend had his relationship of 3 years destroyed because his girl has been talking and cheating with a dude 1 month before they broke up.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Based king doing the right thing. I'm telling you what the whore is doing:
          >want to break up with bf
          >can't do it because she'd feel guilty about it
          >need to find someone to blame shift aka you
          >it was HIM who seduced ME
          She's using you to prompt a break up

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            This anon is right. She's monkey branching, hoping you'll date her so she can blame you for taking her away. If they do it for you, they'll do it too you

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            This anon is right. She's monkey branching, hoping you'll date her so she can blame you for taking her away. If they do it for you, they'll do it too you

            >if they do it for you, they'll do it too you
            this, this is was my first thought with all this. Thx anons

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >13 posts in
    >every post already about women

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Straight men typically care about women, anon.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i freeze every time im in a group social situation. ive been like this since i was a kid. now im 30 and cant even participate in family gatherings. someone fucking shoot me in the face already

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i'm a fucking retard and fell in love with my coworker.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Been there, done that. Don't sleep with them as it only makes the inevitable separation worse

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I fucked my coworkers wife. Fuck.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I want to have sex with good looking blonde females

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I just want a boyfriend. Can't stand this winter.
    I'm angry all the time because of my injuries and this constant isolation.
    When this trying period is over, I better be the best pixie dreamgirl out there (I'm afraid it will never be over).

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What have you done to find a boyfriend? Or are you the same as dudes who expect a woman to fall into their lap?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >are you the same as dudes who expect a woman to fall into their lap?
        Pretty much. Being thin and as nice as possible, reading books in the bus and hoping the guy in shining armor will ask the book's name.
        I know my best chance is apps and shit like this, but it feels so.. dehumanizing. I'm just going to get even more insensitive and cynical from this.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Men don't want to approach women because we think you'll consider it harassment. Blame the feminists

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Men don't want to approach women because we think you'll consider it harassment. Blame the feminists

          Yeah, for every 1 girl like you, there are probably 4 more who would think it's creepy. Not worth the risk.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Dehumanizing for who? Do you think you deserve a guy falling into your lap just because you're doing the bare minimum?If you really are a chick, then you'd have a much better experience compared to a man on dating apps. How many guys do you see getting on the bus worth talking too? Life is going to pass you by unless you make a change. I know from experience that being cynical and jaded makes bonding worse

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Dehumanizing to me. Perhaps I'll have more matches than guys will, but most of them will probably only want to fuck and go.
            Not being able to tell whether a person actually wants me or just wants to have sex will fuck me up more than years of loneliness. And I'm not pretty enough to hit on guys and be sure that they'll like me back (and if someone rejects me I'll have kill myself from the humiliation).

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >if someone rejects me I'll have kill myself from the humiliation
              Get over it, rejection is inevitable eventually.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Women are wild. Being a man is rejection. For most men it's literally constant rejection by hundreds of women until one happens to like you.

                Nobody will ever be sure anyone will like you back, when you hit on them. It's not a guaranteed process, so you will have to swallow pride, and just don't take it so hard if it were to fail.

                Short term rejection sucks, but the chance of succeeding should make it worth it, If it's someone you genuinely like/ are interested in. Women have an advantage in this too, so if you find somewhat similar to you, they'll probably be more than willing to date you. It's not over, you just gotta step outside your comfort zone.

                And fuck app morons, don't feed the machine.

                I'm sorry, I just can't do it. I'm not strong enough for that.
                I help guys with work, and do everything they ask me, and listen and talk to them whenever, but even texting someone first is painful (I do it sometimes, only about practical matters).
                >the chance of succeeding should make it worth it, If it's someone you genuinely like/ are interested in.
                The chance of succeeding feels like zero. When it's someone ai genuinely like it's much worse, since losing my dignity and making it awkward will ruin every sort of interaction with them.
                Maybe I deserve this hell.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                You can do it, you're just a spineless worm and I hope you get used and never end up with anyone who likes you back and you end up dying alone.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I have no idea who you are and what you've done, so I can't say you deserve hell, but what I do know is you are putting yourself in it.

                You need to stop worrying about "dignity", if it's someone you truly want to be with. The chance of succeeding might feel like zero, but it's not in reality. You're being way too hard on yourself, and way too self conscious of your appearance. You just need more confidence. I wish for things to land in my lap too, but it's rare, too rare to waste your life on waiting for.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >The chance of succeeding feels like zero.
                this is what we dudes think, don't be surprised when we don't approach you on the bus. also metoo etc

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Women are wild. Being a man is rejection. For most men it's literally constant rejection by hundreds of women until one happens to like you.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >And I'm not pretty enough to hit on guys and be sure that they'll like me back (and if someone rejects me I'll have kill myself from the humiliation).
              lol, lmao even, truly living life on recruit mode

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Nobody will ever be sure anyone will like you back, when you hit on them. It's not a guaranteed process, so you will have to swallow pride, and just don't take it so hard if it were to fail.

              Short term rejection sucks, but the chance of succeeding should make it worth it, If it's someone you genuinely like/ are interested in. Women have an advantage in this too, so if you find somewhat similar to you, they'll probably be more than willing to date you. It's not over, you just gotta step outside your comfort zone.

              And fuck app morons, don't feed the machine.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Brother, you don't need to sleep with them right away. However you aren't ready to date judging by all the excuses you make and blaming life instead of realizing you're not doing anything to better it. I have no sympathy for people like you who are scared of rejection and don't want to work towards their goal, but demand life hands them everything they desire. Either change your ways or continue doing the same shit, day in and day out, watching others date while you stay lonely

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >wow can't believe that nerdy anime girl with the blue hair is reading my favorite book 50 shades of gray, gotta talk to this chick before I get to my ceo business meeting

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      GR8 b8

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    why do I come here when it just feeds all my insecurities and doesn't motivate me to workout?

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I love drinking semen

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      If you’re a guy, this is a problem.
      If you’re a girl, this is not a problem
      .if it’s your own, get help.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    hooked up with a lady this week, sex was terrible honestly and she texted me back the next day saying she doesn't think we should see each other anymore. ouch. expected it though so not that hurt about it, only went on 2 dates and didnt really feel any attachment.

    she said she'd like to still be friends though, grab drinks, hit the gym together, etc. i can tell she doesnt have many guy friends.

    i immediately responded along the lines of no im not doing that but it was great meeting you etc no hard feelings.

    thing is ive been trying to live my life lately by saying yes to everything, and so far it's worked out pretty well. im not gonna be simping over this chick, i dont really care what she does with other dudes and im out of uni next semester anyway. what do you guys think? whats the worst that can happen?

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >weekend arrives
    >99.999% of people happy to have free days do anything
    >I just view it as two days seeing no one talking to no one doing nothing

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      get a part time job as a waiter then. you're forced to talk to people and it's pretty fun. Plus it's extra cash. Depends where you work but I'd usually make like $150 in tips per shift on top of wages, so over 200 for saturday night and sunday morning. One time I made $330 in tips on a busy sunday morning. I quit to focus on school but I'll probably start again in January.

      https://i.imgur.com/fkGqR2K.jpg

      what's something I can do today to get closer to getting a gf
      already went to the gym and then went for a run

      >already went to the gym and then went for a run
      kek. guys what can I do today to get closer to being a lawyer? already practiced fixing my toilet and installing pipe fittings. hahahahhahahaha

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'll have a cold one.

    Ended things with my ex late August. Installed Tinder, matched with a 20yo 10/10 fit girl. She lived 100 miles away though. We instantly clicked, had soooo many things in common, our personalities, habits, things we liked. We even ended our last relationships the same day. But she used to smoke weed and lost years to it, was only finishing high school now. She had 3 boyfriends before, junkie friends. But she cut contact with them and changed, started training. So I decided to overlook the red flags. We saw each other 4 times, had sex, had New Years' planned already. She really liked me a lot and things were going great.

    So one night she texts me she goes to the gym. I'm waiting. 11PM, still no text from her. 12PM, 1AM, 2AM. Nothing. Then at 3AM she texts me:

    Anon, I'm sorry if I got your hopes up. We have to end things. I met my ex recently and decided to give our relationship one more chance. I'm sorry.

    Good thing I was with my bro at the time, so I took it relatively easy.

    Anons, bitches are stupid. I'm 24yo, fit (I'm competing in classic physique next ear). Finishing my masters in engineering, got money, cool as fuck car, my own place, rich parents. Now, her then ex was like 20yo, addicted to weed, no education, no job, fat fuck.

    I'm not even blaming myself, I did everything right. Bitches are stupid, man. I just miss the sex and having someone text me good morning every day.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >cool car
      What is it and have you posted it on IST before?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        2019 Camaro 2SS and I live in Poland so its' cool factor is like 4x what it is in US.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah that is a pretty cool car, what a dumb bitch. On a different note, can you mod your car in Poland? For example, I have a tuned and almost fbo 5th gen camaro that I'm thinking of camming in the spring, can you do that in your country?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Dumb bitch. Yes you can mod, but you have to watch out around cops because they can write you a ticket for your car being too loud.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be third worlder
    >college friend is from a rich family
    >he talked to me about how his group is anti-homophobia or anti-racism
    >proceeded to talk about the countless time he and his friends endanger people by drunk driving, shooting people car for driving incorrectly, and other shit they pull and can get away because of corruption
    >mfw I realize that these people are more dangerous the majority of 4chan
    Shit like this makes me depressed. I think I just focus on my lift instead.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      more dangerous than*

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a virgin and jaded about love and relationships
    I feel like every bitch will either betray me or let me down even in the remote possibility that I get a gf. They all have had previous partners and I would never amount to a fraction of what their teen love was. That would require spending years together and I'm pretty sure that wouldn't work out in the slightest

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    what's something I can do today to get closer to getting a gf
    already went to the gym and then went for a run

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      talk to a girl

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        where do I find a girl to talk to

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          please help

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I have no experience, but try and go to any major social area, and if you see someone you're interested in, try and complement them in some way.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Yesterday I was angry. Today I am calm. Tranquility has come upon me

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Been intending on talking to this girl at the gym this week, had the perfect opportunity yesterday, both of us in relatively close proximity with nobody else around us. I just didnt have the balls to go through with it. I'm not intending on sticking to a routine for the next 2-3 weeks so I might not see her for a while.

    I don't know what I need to tell myself or think about to go through with it. I'm looking to start a conversation and see where it goes, if I get nothing but cold talk back then I'll leave it. It's a very important challenge for me, if I can do it this time the next time I want to it will be easier.

    I won't quit on this until I approach her.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      kek are you underaged?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        No I'm not. I'm actually quite good at speaking to people, but I've built it up in my head as a cold approach when it's not.

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why won’t she come back. These random sluts that i get with don’t matter to me. I miss her

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The past is gone, there is only today and tomorrow. Move on.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Based moving anon.

        The moment exists and the future exists as potential. The only thing you will never inhabit is the past.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'll drink to that, anon

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I tried to re-connect with a girl I used to talk to, who I left behind disgustingly, out of my horrible pride and self loathing, and against my odds I ended up reconnecting briefly; however, I also confessed to her at the same time, instead of taking it all slowly.

    2 years have passed in the time I had left, and I said I loved her. She said I was unwell, and didn't believe it. She believed I only wanted her as an object, or for comfort. All this is for good reason in retrospect. as when I told her my feelings, and responded to the claims, I couldn't articulate properly.

    She told me to move on, and to forget her. She blocked me on everything after this. In the last two days, they have been some of the worst days of my life. I've broken down. But the second day, I began trying to start improving. Today is a good day so far, I've been confident, and haven't broken down completely. I want to rebuild myself for her. But will she want me back? After everything I've done to her, past and present?

    I don't know if I scared her, or I annoyed her. I don't know if she truly wants nothing to do with me, or wants me to improve myself to come back to her. It's all so confusing, and my mind has been racing for these days.

    All I can say is heed my warning. Never neglect someone special to you, if they attempt to contact you constantly and ask you what is wrong, never leave them behind in the dark. They care about you, and they love you. If you don't listen to this, than know you'll be the one left behind, and you will be in the dark. They will want to move on, and not want to look back.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      u can do it

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I don't know if she truly wants nothing to do with me, or wants me to improve myself to come back to her.
      Blocking you everywhere is a pretty clear sign that she wants nothing to do with you. Just learn your lesson and do better next time. Getting over her is going to suck for a while but you'll be fine

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I would've said the same, but she want told me to improve myself, and to remember her as cold. There must be some piece of her that still cares about me, right? She couldn't accept my feelings, and said she wasn't interested, but I don't know if it's purely due to our distance. But she listened to my apology, and she let me back in her life briefly, and she said she didn't hate me. Was it just pity?

        She told me those years ago, when we had our last discussion, that she had loved me. I understand how late I was, returning those feelings. Am I mistaken for hoping they might still be there?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Feelings are separate from someone wanting to be with you. Even if she does have feeling for you (not saying she does), if she doesn't want to be with you, doesn't want to commit, it will never work. "Best" case scenario, her feelings overcome her for a brief moment and she will open the door a tiny bit, only for her mind to catch up and for her to slam the door shut again, leaving you back at square one in terms of misery.

          I got back with my ex after she vowed she was done with me. But that conscious commitment was gone and the whole time I was bending over backwards to get her to stay, and she lost any respect for me or fear of losing me. Someone out there will admire you, will want to be with you and have feelings for you at the same time.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You have the mentality of stalkers
          She blocked and reported me to the police that means she wants me to improov and contact her again on a new account
          Get your fucking meds you dumb fuck

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >She blocked and reported me to the police that means she wants me to improov and contact her again on a new account
            You have the mentality of a daft retard. Can you only evaluate conflict by lying, and simplifying it?

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              shut up fucking autismo, stop stalking girls loser

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Ya done, kid

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I want a gf but I must break free of porn addiction

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    fuck your feels gays
    I NEED MORE POWER, MORE BITCHES, MORE ATTENTION, MORE GAINS, MORE MONEY. AAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    critique my ice breaking approach

    >go to machine near gym crush
    >make eye contact, smile, just to acknowledge her
    >do a few sets
    >ask her if she can watch my stuff for a minute
    >this responsibility and trust immediately increases our relationship from "random person at the gym" to "acquaintance" (similar to asking someone to spot you)

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      A few minutes after you make eye contact and smile, you should just ask her to spot you, and just do a weight you're confident/ sorta confident with. I would hope she'll know you asked her for a specific reason, and maybe as a bonus, attempt to shortly converse with her afterword.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Is this not a known FBI technique for rapid relationship building? Also whose gym needs someone to watch their stuff,, I leave my keys and phone lying around if I go to the toilet.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yes.

        It's well known that asking someone for a favor builds more rapport than doing something for them. Even a small favor obligates them to you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      If you make eye contact. Ask how her day is going, instead of a smile.

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Probably gonna have sex again tomorrow, last time with this girl I couldn't get it up due to small cock performance anxiety and probably years of porn abuse, if this time it won't be different I might just end it

    it's pure suffering knowing that this one extremely important aspect of your body can't really be changed and that it doesn't matter that I'm actually conventionally handsome and <12% bf

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Now replace performance anxiety with PE and being handsome with ugly and that's me. Could always be worse.

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I hate the Christmas gift giving BS. I got a friend who’s cheap, and he’s struggling for gift ideas for me. He offered to cook for my wife and I. Dude cooks like shit; he microwaves raw chicken to cook it. He offered to help with chores around the house. He’s previously tried to fix stuff around my house, gives up halfway thru, and I either have to finish it myself or call a pro. Creepiest of all, he offered to give me and my wife massages. Dude thinks he’s a massage therapist / chiropractor because “experience” though he’s not got the training to be either. And my wife doesn’t like my friend much, other than the fact he’s my long time friend. I’m not good about telling people things they don’t want to hear, like “y your cooking sucks, I don’t trust you fixing my house, and offering a guy and his wife massages is creepy unless you know they’re open to a threesome”.

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Seasonal depression shit is real.

    Haven't caught sunlight in a while, stuck indoors. Feeling pretty down. Arguably no reason to either. In that phase where I'll lie about what I'll do today. Skipped on gym with the lie that I'll work out from home. Here I am on IST

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I have the same issue, but you have to break through it. No matter how shitty the day is, please go outside, and maybe even take a walk. Even if the air is shit, it will keep you afloat. Sadness is a comfortable hole, but you have to get out of it, because it'll cause you to wither away.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks mane, I've decided to do some stretches while shitposting, I'll fit in some jump rope to get the blood flowing

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      take vitamin D

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be Bulgarian
    >lots of Ukranian refugees here
    >meet Ukranian chick
    >fuck her at her apartment
    >while we're snuggling she tells me her husband is on the frontline fighting rn
    >shows me pics of him and her son
    >I leave immediately

    I'm haunted by the thought that a fellow bro is out there fighting ruskis to provide a safe environemnt for his family, while I was unknowingly fucking his wife. It's a weird feeling of second hand betrayal.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      based, dont cuck a man fighting for his nation. maintain your honor

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      it's not your fault, women are whores and know that most men would be uncomfortable fucking them if they knew they were already in a relationship, so they either don't bring it up or make an effort to conceal it. you should have beat the shit out of her.

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Took a week and a half off the gym. Had a great workout this morning

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I just don’t know how to stop being an Incel loser. I’m 20, nobody really likes me, women aren’t interested in me. I don’t know how to change

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      that you? what are your thoughts on the industrial revolution

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      My dude you look dead inside and have a dead end job 40yo vibe

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Well yeah I’m an incel

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          same, but my resting mouth isnt literally 🙁

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      youre not ugly in terms of facial features but you have kind of a dead eyed expression

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        How do I stop being an Incel then? There’s no women in my social circle

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      don't attempt to grow a beard if you have child genetics you gay, it looks like shit

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I just forgot to shave honestly

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Please help me. I’m trying to be more social and go out more and do new things but nothings really changed. I’m still a boring person and I struggle to even hold a conversation most of the time

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        There’s a meet up going on right now. Head over to the arch.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I’m from uk it’s over for me

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      if you're not already start smiling at people here and there. I have a habit of not smiling because it feels disingenuous, but interacting with others I realize that people that smile at you make you feel better & it makes them seem like they want to talk to you, people that don't smile aren't approachable, they seem standoffish and like they don't like you and don't want to talk, I just move on from them.

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i hate insecure men so much its unreal. there is nothing more unflattering, even short men are better

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Always ask her how she's doing
    >Never asks me how I'm doing

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      She's self-absorbed and doesn't care how you're doing. In fact most girls don't think of men as human or as having feelings or be "doing" in general.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah I feel like she doesn't really give a shit about me... she constantly wants to spend time with me and yet she doesn't really seem to care all that much, I really don't understand if she's interested or not, maybe I'm just a way for her to not feel bored.

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    so a friend i've been going out with (the only person i've been doing this really) has moved out to live with his gf and now I've found myself in the need, for the first time after 8 years, to actually find new friends. 28 yo, uni done, working remotely. I dread for what's coming up lol, I was already going out rarely and things will only get worse.

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Ive broken up with my long term gf and I dont know exactly why. We loved each other deeply, but I just couldnt seal the deal with marriage, cant believe Ive done that thinking now retrospectively. Suspecting that there must be some kind of mental issues of mine (feeling really depressed for a few years) and unconscious gut feeling that we are not perfect match, there must have been some kind of reason I did that. Months passed by and I dream of her every night
    Worst of all is I am slowly becoming more and more suicidal, there was a time when I would have laughed at the idea that I would ever consider it at any point in my life. All that shit makes me really exhausted and I couldnt continue to chase my long term goal of 3plates cgbp, which kinda sucks

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      When you're in love you tend to ignore a lot of red flags. People say that you will wake up through that shit once the honeymoon phase ends. For some, the honeymoon phase can last years. In the back of your mind there was some shit that didn't align. You consciously ignored it, but your gut feeling kicked in. Move on.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thank you for answering, honestly I feel like I dropped huge weight from my shoulders just for confessing this, Ive never told anybody how I really feel irl, strange how can just writing this for group of anons help

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How the fuck do I stop being such a fucking loser?
    >no friends
    I started going to uni recently and I have found a few people that I hang around the uni with but we don't do anything outside of uni. So I'm still stuck without any real friends
    >no hobbies or interests
    I don't really have any hobbies or interests except music and playing some vidya. I don't do anything except sitting infront of the pc or doing a bit of studying, or ocasionally lifting (i got very inconsistend since I started uni)
    I wish I could do shit with friends but I don't have any
    >KHHV at 22/soon 23
    got rejected by another girl this week
    I don't really have autism but I'm pretty autistic when it comes to talking to women that I find attractive.
    It's true that women can smell virgins, but honestly I'm not even that much after the sex and just want a gf to make my life more enjoyable

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >no friends
      Ngl alcohol did wonders for my social life, I am just different man on it.
      Not that I encourage you to drink, there are tons of cons, you will feel like shit drinking for 12+ years like myself

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        alcohol also works wonders on me and makes me less awkward. Problem is: i despise the taste and I don't really know where and when I would even drink

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Vodka in small water bottle. Two or three glugs. Chewing gum.
          Don't get wasted.

          Good luck

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            hold on I can't quite follow you. You mean I should be slightly drunk casually and hide the smell with gum?

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm spending Saturday night watching old Delray Misfits videos.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      comfy

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Literally me

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Im doing the same

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >was gonna get wasted last night at a college party and text her
    >got drunk but never felt quite like I was far enough gone
    >the feel to actually do it never comes
    >friend eventually drags me home as party is ending
    >wish I'd drank more
    I don't even know what kind of response I'm hoping for. I just wanna see her bros.

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Went to a uni party yesterday and had a lot of fun. Probably one of the best experiences i ever had in uni but now my fear of missing out only got worse. I constantly feel like i am running out of time and should therefore excel at everything i do, go to as many parties as i can while also spending as much time as possible with my friends while also forcing myself to become a extrovert. I dont even want to live like that but since i see other people doing exactly that i feel like i will make a mistake if i dont imitate that behaviour

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I need a Midori and sprite.

    I recently got out of a codependent relationship and toxic work place.
    I realized that my issues were basing my happiness on others, not expressing my needs, overextending myself, and then growing resentment when my needs weren't met.
    I'm in a more peaceful place right now, but I feel lost and unmotivated.
    The urge is still in the back of my head to be nice and take care of others for validation. I feel like I need an external cause to get behind to be motivated to work hard as hell.
    It's like I know how to live alone, but I don't know how to live for myself.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don't have much to say that can help you, but know that I'm like you, word by word. I've lived my life up until recently for others. Conversations, hanging out, helping out, tabletop sessions, everything in my life was for the sake of someone else. There came points in the night, when everybody was asleep and I was awake, that I was lost. I had no one to help or to entertain. I had nothing. Nothing but myself.

      Nowadays I'm slowly getting to know myself better. However, I'm like you; I'm still lost and uncertain. But if I can give you an advice (as good as a drunk can give another), is to try and see yourself as a new person you're getting to meet. Try to notice the things you like to do, like you would someone else. Just recently I've realized I liked watching cooking vids while eating, even though I spent years doing that. But it's the first time the realization actually came; ''Me, anon, likes to watch cooking videos while eating. Like a habit.''

      Still, codependency hurts a lot.

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've got an absolute 11/10 wife material girl just matched on Hinge on Thursday. Today sent her a voice note. Pray for me bros. I've been taking nothing but a beating with girls the last two years since breaking up with me ex, all of them treating me like subhuman trash. I just need one of them to work out and turn out not to be an insane liar, literally just one. Please spare all your energy. It's a nice confidence booster that she's in my inbox, but this is literally a one in a billion gal who's both aesthetically perfect and also seems like she might not be fucking awful.

    Honestly I've been getting fucked up by life for a few years in general, but then this month I:
    >got a book all published
    >got a big promotion at work
    >got this girl I've been seeing on dating apps once in a while hoping to match with appear

    Hoping maybe life is coming around to give me some wins after dragging me through the mud and broken glass. Or it's just lifting me up a bit with hope just to crush it as usual and it's just upping the game this time around.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'll lend you some energy

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thank you bro I'll pay you back.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      praying for you OP. Sometimes things just have to go your way. Sounds like you are reaping the rewards of your hard work

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    may flunk out of university, drnking and smoking again, broke up things w the girl i was seeing because apparently she was still seeing her ex a lot and i dont play like that, i cant fucking keep the weight i gain, i feel like i have no drive left, i think im becoming addicted to masturbation but i was able to keep a hard on while having sex any time in the last 2 months. my mental health keeps getting worse and i cant shake off the feeling that its getting to the point of no return.
    feels like l´ll be over before the year is.
    sorry for blogposting

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Don't be sorry for blogposting. To be IST requires a strong body AND mind. I don't know if I have any advice that can help, but please don't give up. I've been there and decided to get strong enough to beat my demons or die trying.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      look into options for taking a leave of absence instead of dropping out

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >out with friends to a concert
    >slowly everyone starts leaving
    >finally just me and a girl that I've been friends with for about a half year
    >long story short, we start kissing on the dance floor
    >have no idea what to make of it, one night fling, maybe more than that?
    >we grab an uber to drop us off at our respective places
    >hold hands on the way back
    >kiss goodnight
    >ok this seems like it might be something
    >go out for drinks the next day to talk about it
    >decide to go steady, nothing official
    >now we're both in our respective hometowns for the holidays
    >texting everyday, late night phone calls, making plans for when we get back
    Feeling good about this one, boys. But I can't shake the feeling that I'm going to have my heart broken. She has all these plans about the cities she wants to move to, things she wants to do. If we do last, I think it will end with her moving away for a new experience. Makes me wonder what the point of it all will be and why should I set myself up for all of it? I'm going to go forward with it, but no amount of introspection will prep me for what will happen. Any thoughts or tips to help me cope? I'm nervous bros

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >kiss goodnight
      >no sex
      why didn't you go for it you fucking idiot

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        She's not that kind of girl. She doesn't do dating apps and she explicitly said she likes to take things slow, she wanted to know I wasn't going to pump&dump. If it's worth anything, we hooked up weeks later.

        >we're both in our respective hometowns
        Had this exact same experience you're describing although we fucked like crazy, met up again in between our places and had another amazing day and night.

        It ended with her making plans to see eachother again, then suddenly ghosting out and posting pictures with some fag dude on her IG in a relationship with their relationship. AND she put their relationship start date as a week or more before she was still talking flirting and planning with me.

        I hope it works out for you anon but that wasn't even the only time that happened. It's a blackpill but never get too invested. Girls nowadays literally have no ability to form bonds and are only able to LARP affection. They can essentially behave as if they're in love with you, share incredible times together, spend months and months texting and talking on calls falling asleep together, and it all means nothing they will jump on the more convenient dick when it comes along and do all that shit with them too.

        Sorry anon, super shitty. Usually I keep detached but she's doing a damn good job getting me invested. If it doesn't work out, at least it'll be good character growth for me

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >She's not that kind of girl
          Anon, I...

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Ok, incel. Good luck with life

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              just wanted to warn you, bro

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Some just don't want to hear the truth

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                it's totally understandable. truth hurts sometimes

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >not that kind of girls
          >likes to take things slow
          >tongue fucking some guy's mouth on a club dance floor within an hour of meeting him

          Anon. You're my bro, a fellow ISTizen, and I got you, and you gotta know never to judge a woman by what she says and instead figure her out by what she does. Girls will say all kinds of things under the sun and do the exact opposite. If you had gone for it that night you would've been balls deep in her blasting your load and that is likely a normal experience for her based on her actions.

          Girls will say "NO HOOKUPS" and "I'm looking for a relationship" while getting fucked by random dudes and excusing it as "He took advantage of me and used me" after they choose to open their legs.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            This guy gets it. Women DO NOT MEAN WHAT THEY SAY. Some will even actively blame you for doing things according to what they told you because you didn't realize that they meant the opposite. This is not a meme and it's known to anyone who has actually dealt with women.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            She's not that kind of girl. She doesn't do dating apps and she explicitly said she likes to take things slow, she wanted to know I wasn't going to pump&dump. If it's worth anything, we hooked up weeks later.

            [...]
            Sorry anon, super shitty. Usually I keep detached but she's doing a damn good job getting me invested. If it doesn't work out, at least it'll be good character growth for me

            This. Girls who wind up making out with strangers at the club are not taking things slow my dude. That doesn't mean write her off, it just means understand what kinda girl she is so you know how to handle her.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >She's not that kind of girl
            OH NO NO... my brother in basedjack

            [...]
            This. Girls who wind up making out with strangers at the club are not taking things slow my dude. That doesn't mean write her off, it just means understand what kinda girl she is so you know how to handle her.

            Idk if you guys are illiterate, retarded, or just have no reading comprehension. Ive known her for a half year and she hasn't hooked up with anyone, she doesn't bring guys around, and she wants to hang out everyday / night I'm in town. Appreciate the input, y'all just aren't helpful at all lol

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Simp or underage b&

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >She's not that kind of girl
          OH NO NO... my brother in basedjack

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >we're both in our respective hometowns
      Had this exact same experience you're describing although we fucked like crazy, met up again in between our places and had another amazing day and night.

      It ended with her making plans to see eachother again, then suddenly ghosting out and posting pictures with some fag dude on her IG in a relationship with their relationship. AND she put their relationship start date as a week or more before she was still talking flirting and planning with me.

      I hope it works out for you anon but that wasn't even the only time that happened. It's a blackpill but never get too invested. Girls nowadays literally have no ability to form bonds and are only able to LARP affection. They can essentially behave as if they're in love with you, share incredible times together, spend months and months texting and talking on calls falling asleep together, and it all means nothing they will jump on the more convenient dick when it comes along and do all that shit with them too.

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    An heroing on New Year's. So long, fuckers. Hope you make it.

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone else feel as worse after using dating apps as much as I do?
    "Look at all these beautiful women that you will never be able to talk to" is basically my experience.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Not really

      beauty is easy, you can buy it. There's a level of vapidness on dating apps that doesn't really translate well beyond pretty profile pictures. These women are all beautiful, but do they have anything interesting to talk about. If they're not willing to reach out then probably not really.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yep, dating apps are weird, if you're a man, don't expect much even if you do paypig.
      Some truly "beautiful" men or those that send the currently lauded societal signals will have a chance to do very well but even the women are burnt out and picky at this point.

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm starting to think that women might somehow be able to tell that I'm a sub. Not sure how to feel about that.

  48. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    vodka, please. change of habit today
    painted again, but this one spawned on a sudden mood. idk, probably nothing but it's on my mind for quite a while

  49. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    everything is a lie

  50. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You DO have worth anon.

  51. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Seltzer please.
    GF had a fwb for 4 years before me and today it hit me. Here I am slaving away for something some other dude got for free, fuck me.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How are you slaving away?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        She didn't want to a sexual relationship before she knew I would be her boyfriend to "not get played with again". Holy shit im dumb aint i

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Yes. Leave.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          It happens to us all bro. You’re not dumb so long as you don’t make the same mistake or stay with her. But it’s kind of hard unless you knew before hand she had a FWB for years to not make that mistake with the next girl. You found out now, it’s not okay for her to treat you like that and you’re not comfortable with it, so leave.

          Girl I just broke off did me similarly. 90% sure she just wanted to use me for sex until she got back with her ex. Here I am big dicked italian wanting love just getting treated like a human dildo until they lose interest. I hate bitches. It seems all I can do is be physically enough for women, but they all inevitably lose interest.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            She didn't want to a sexual relationship before she knew I would be her boyfriend to "not get played with again". Holy shit im dumb aint i

            Oh and my first gf did something similar as yours, except she would casually mention the guy at random times. I found out through mutual friends they were FWB. She would say this guys name and light up. When I confronted her she starts crying playing victim saying I’m unfair to her, because I asked that she no longer mention a guy she used to fuck’s name to me and that it made me feel bad when she did. Then she starts saying he raped her and all this bullshit. Just run now.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You've come to an important realization. Cut things off with her because she treated you unfairly. No one wants to find out that their partner is asking more of them then they have anyone else for the same benefits. You're wiser now and will know what to look out for in the next relationship

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Now imagine being a father to a daughter slaving away for over a decade to grow a fuckdoll for another man.

  52. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Starting to fantasize about suicide for the first time in over a decade. I’ve wasted my 20s. I will be 27 this month and I have $500 to my name, no skills or any passions or anything. I want to find a career which would enable me to move the fuck out and start living my life. I have no skills.

    I have very basic computer literacy skills but I was looking into coding and I believe I can teach myself everything. Supposedly I would need a bachelors to get hired anywhere and I can’t be fucked to go to school full time, I need money now. If I could find a job with reasonable pay and hours that allowed me to move out, I would be more than happy to take classes part time on the side. That’s my priority is moving out. But I can’t find jack shit. Nothing that pays enough for me to even have a shitty studio apartment in my area.

    My father called me disrespectful because I said “that was a waste of time” after he made me wait for him to finish playing world of warcraft to tell me “I can’t help you get a therapist”. I really can’t live at home anymore. I’m getting too old.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Have you considered doing computer shit in the military? Assuming you're in the U.S. it's a great way to get certified in that field and you can have a job lined up when your contract is over. If you're truly going to be homeless and all that shit then it doesn't hurt to try

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I have but here’s the one problem in my way: I’m a fat fuck who can’t even run a quarter mile right now. I’m cutting and have resumed a healthy life style for the first time since I was a teen but I have like 100lbs to lose to be lean. 60lbs before running isn’t such a bitch or as big of a risk to old knee injuries and I can run c25k or something.

        It would be perfect for me if I can avoid having panic attacks being yelled at and shit. I also tried to do marines when I was 23 but gave up to pursue something else and I couldn’t even raise my voice to call shit out during PT I’m so timid. Maybe it wouldn’t be perfect or good for me.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Can you talk to people? What about being a car salesman? It could be a good way to earn money and confidence as the amount of work you put in, typically matches the amount of money you make. Also, you'll be walking the lot in hopes of catching a customer so a few extra calories are being burnt. That way you have spending money and can take classes for computer shit. Or what about a CNA or hospital security? I don't even think you need any certs to work in a hospital and they usually let you do class work on your down time, if there's any depending on your floor

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Nah I’ve tried literally all of that. It’s like nothing I try is something I have or can gain any decent amounts of competency in or there’s a way bigger con than any pros of working in that field. I’m feeling kind of fucked. Then there’s the fact that those jobs excluding sales literally don’t pay enough for one adult to support themself.
            Like I realize a lot of this is genuine unmanaged depression and anxiety and issues of recently getting sober mixed into that, and I WANT to work and be doing something I want goals and tasks that lead to money, but fuck I can’t justify giving away my time for something I’m not passionate about or interested in and shitty hours and circumstances all for a less than appropriate and unlivable pay. I’ll take any job I can actually do that both pays enough to get a 1 bed 1 bath on or even a studio ffs and allows for enough off time to study and go to school. In my area that’s $45k to just get by.
            If I was having this issue at 20 it would okay no problem, change major and finish school and get job at 23. I have an associates in psychology so there’s that as far as having some of school taken care of even if I would need to take extra classes, but the immediate problem to me is moving the fuck out. I can barely focus on anything living here. It’s a long story but I promise I’m not just bitching about typical annoying parent shit.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Brother I don't think you're bitching just to bitch at all. Sorry you're in that predicament, have you looked for jobs outside of your area? Like moving away to a different state or something?

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I’ve considered it but the problem is I don’t have the money to up and move. If I had a good $20k saved and a 100% guarantee’d job lined up that covered COL I would do that. I already want to leave my state.
                I’m gonna explore this coding thing, DL python tmrw and try to do a mini project and see how I feel about it. I’m sure I can pick up a job with no degree if I develop the skill especially if I plan to finish classes.

  53. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw you'll never get a feel thread where posts crying about women aren't allowed
    would be such a better thread

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The only challenge most men have in life anymore is getting modern women to behave. We don't have to fight for survival or hunt mammoths or whatever.

      But even ancient greeks spent half their time theorizing around women, it's not new.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        the difference is, ancient greeks had them under control. it was a breeze compared to modern times

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >The only challenge most men have in life anymore is getting modern women to behave.

        I'm starting to think religions like Islam are correct

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          the difference is, ancient greeks had them under control. it was a breeze compared to modern times

          It's becoming hard to argue with the fact that letting female vanity run free is destructive not only to themselves but your civilization as a whole. They wind up influencing politics and markets in destructive way while destroying the family and in doing so community/society cohesion as a whole.

          Other cultures recognize the destructive power of females unleashed and keep it pointed and directed positively into family bonds.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            the pendulum will eventually swing back. it has to.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nobody cares that you're gay.

  54. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My last ex was very religious, and in my own readings and study I got closer and closer to it as well. We eventually broke up but its something I've kept up with and tried to keep active with.

    Maybe its cucked, maybe its a garden gnome psyop. I don't think so. I wake up everyday feeling blessed for everything in my life, try to love and be kind to those around me. I'm trying to be a better person. I have to think that whether its fake or real at the end of the day its a win for me and hopefully for those around me as well.

    Have a good weekend bros.

  55. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My GF complains she doesn't want to go to the gym with me because when I'm there with my brothers I act like Dom from Broscience.

  56. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Got COVID again. No gym for 2-4 weeks. Gonna feel like shit and lose my gains. Have 2 weeks vacation. Gonna spend it sick.

  57. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My GF gained like 50lbs and is constantly whining about how depressed it makes her yet does nothing to fix it. She says she's addicted to food/sugar and can't just stop eating when she hits her daily calories like I can.

  58. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Hey barkeep, mineral water for me thanks.

    Finally have some good news: Have a verbal close for a 2k deal on some freelance work. If I get my other sale closed, I'll have replaced an entire month of my normie bitch dayjob income, I can quit that shit, and I'll be able to make more money working less.

    I remember calling my mom to tell her and she started choking up a bit. My dad worked until he died and shitty jobs had stolen most of my mom's life too. By working as hard as I have taking this risk, I've broken the cycle of bondage, disappointment, and resentment and I finally have a shot at living.

    I feel fucking amazing bros, I don't even want to drink, I just want to live- do more, be able to go on vacations, and finally MEET SOME BITCHES since I won't be working myself 16-18 hours a day across two jobs anymore.

    Oh, and I'll finally be able to hit a real gym instead of doing fucking calisthenics like a nerd.
    WAGMI

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'm happy to hear that anon.

  59. 1 month ago
    <3 Dua Lipa

    >the lord trying to tell me something

    feelin fucking great , it’s one of them days when I know the lord just take his hand and put me back on the right road. I know that I want to do shit my way , but I can’t , the lords way come first , me coming second. I probably did something good that I don’t remember that I deserved his grace over me sometimes. But that’s not the point , I always praise you in your ways , this is all I want , that you’ll keep your servant straight , no matter what it takes. I’m praying for you all anons here in your situations of whatever it be. I’m gonna have one of the hardest time now in my life , but I have no fear , I’ve seen the “streets while being naked” , the lord took it all just so he could give me back. And I want to dedicate this post to the lord , Jesus and “Leeny” , you are the baddest bitch I ever saw untill now , every time I saw you reading prayers on the side , it made my day. Bless y’all bros on this board , stayin forever gang , I hope I will stop shitposting one day tho.

    > “O give thanks unto the LORD; for he is good: because his mercy endureth for ever.” Psalms 118:1

    Thanks for the food that you provide me , because I remember days when I had shit.
    Thanks for the roof and the bed , because I were sleeping whenever. Thanks for saving my sinner soul , because I’ve signed too much , Thanks for everything I have.

  60. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >hear about how Jim Carrey thought he was going to die on that false nuclear alarm in Hawaii
    >hear about his experience, how he felt extreme relief, and put his life into a new perspective
    >search for interviews of Jim Carrey about it
    >none ever goes into it a lot
    >no philosophical questions, no apparent change in behavior or life vision
    >he mostly uses them to shill his book
    >which is more about ((misinformation)) then getting a second chance at life

    What a waste of time. I was sure the guy was gonna have his redemption arc and give a few insights to the world, but nothing.

  61. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Day 1954 of no-sex and I'm feeling comfy.

  62. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My kid's mother, and her mother, a couple of nagging witches. So glad to be split with her yet still we have to see each other all the time for the kid's sake.

    Please, if this is relevant to anyone right now be VERY careful who you make children with. If it goes south you will literally never be free of this person. If you love your child you will never be able to eject the other parent from your life.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Man I’m at the point I don’t even want to fuck a girl unless I think she’s worth my time…

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Stay on that mindset bro. Being a father is awesome of itself, but being yoked to the wrong woman, just straight up having to know her for the rest of my days, biggest regret I got.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          In starting to think this is what happened to me. We're not all gonna make it

  63. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Is it possible to get a confidence boost from fucking hookers?.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Only regret.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe it'll downplay the importance of sex to you, but you won't learn the game people play to get each other and you won't have the confidence gain from bagging a girl

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's much, much more likely to do the opposite.

  64. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Is it normal to lift for a woman that isn't your gf bros? I have a loving asian girlfriend but lift for blonde/fake blonde white women like pic related...

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why do you have an asian gf then? Can't get a white girl?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        My asian gf is beautiful but the thing that sets her apart is that she is a virgin, conservative politically, and does not care about money. I have not met a single hot blonde white woman who is like that. Like this anon

        [...]
        What the fuck are you me? Asian girlfriend as well. She's wonderful. Soft. Happy. Somehow accepts my flaws and encourages me to improve. But I know I must aspire to something greater, for the future generations.
        [...]
        Its more a question of finding someone that reaches certain standards. As well, the value system that a lot of white women have is crazy. They place relatively little significance on the actions that consititute your life and existence (guiltlessly doing things that should be considered disgusting, immoral, reprehensible), but place a lot of significance on apparition. For example the beliefs that you say that you have, regardless of whether this manifests in how you live your life

        said, the value system for attractive white women is fucked.

  65. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Be dating girl who is solid 6/10 but share interests, we really talk like friends
    >She has BPD and depression but keeps it manageable
    >She loses job and family issues
    >Gets angrier every day, screams at me or ghosts me when I try to help
    >She tells me she hates me and deletes me from everything
    >Thought I was going to marry this girl
    >Spiral into deep depression, fuck up my own career and get passed on promotion
    >Begin drinking heavily, gained 30 pounds
    >Have friends and family but keep getting stuck in my own head and fucking up everything because I'm too depressed to do anything
    I'm 29 and it's not awful but is it over for me to find a new person to spend life with?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Want to add that our mutual friends tell me that she's still unhappy but acts like everything is normal. She talks shit about me all the time to people we knew. My cousin tells me she wasn't worth it and I'm better off but I feel so fucking dead. I feel like an emotional black hole.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's not even close to being over for you, you're only just getting started.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >>She has BPD and depression but keeps it manageable
      You should have bailed the second she said this. There's no point in being close to this sort of people, even as friends, specially girls. BPD girls are a whole other category of home wreckers. Nature for some reason gave them devil-tier manipulation skills, perhaps as an evolutionary trick for them to not be wiped out, since no one would bother otherwise.

      And yes, you obviously can find the love of your life at any age. I know a guy who married at 44 and has a little girl whom he loves deeply, and has a loving wife.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It's not even close to being over for you, you're only just getting started.

        It doens't feel like it now but it's a good thing to have her out of your life. She didn't actually love you and would only be more destructive to you if she did. Same age as you, still plenty of time to meet someone better.

        Thanks dudes. I've been feeling rock bottom for a long time but I just cleaned up my stuff and am trying to get back into normal life shit again.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It doens't feel like it now but it's a good thing to have her out of your life. She didn't actually love you and would only be more destructive to you if she did. Same age as you, still plenty of time to meet someone better.

  66. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    decided to get back on a diet again and finish this bitch up, 20lb more to go until ripped, but I miss eating chocolate already ;(

  67. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My gym is having an awards banquet tonight and I keep self sabotaging in order to not go
    >running on little sleep
    >none of my friends/family want to go with me
    >it started an hour ago
    >always been an outcast within that group
    I know going out and making the attempt is better than sitting home, but I just don't feel like going. We may have training tomorrow morning so I'll just go to that instead.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What kind of gym do you go to where they have an awards ceremony?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It's a martial arts/fight gym. They give out awards for fighter of the year, student of the year, etc. It's at this Thai restaurant, usually a good time. But I'm feeling out of it, so I'm heading to sleep early.

  68. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Got a really sick girlfriend. Shes super smart, funny, very beautiful. I feel drunk around her. Although when I'm not around her its strange realizing that we can't be together forever, since she's chinese and I'm a white dude (our children would be strange). I feel like while we both enjoy out time together, I'm fundamentally robbing her of something give how much more valuable this time of our life is to her than to myself. I feel like while our relationship is great, it amounts to the action of drawing back your hand before slapping the shit out of someone

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why can't you two be together?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Because time goes by so fast, and continues past our death for so long that the eternal is all that matters. Genetics play a big part of what is eternal about you, along with some other stuff. She has good genes but they're just so different that our kids would be scrambled. Neither one thing nor another. Wasians

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I'm all for selecting a fit partner, but you like this girl and you yourself said she has nice genes, which I expect you to also have. At the very least you'd have a Chad Wasian son raised by two loving parents. If you're fit and you get him into fitness from an young age, he'll grow to be a formidable man. The idea that every happa is an ugly incel is perpetuated because loser whites get on with submissive asians because they have no other options. You, I assume, are different on the matter, so it's not the same.

          We live in a different weird today, and if you're the ideologist-type, at least you're getting on with an ally of the whites; the asians.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/AjG1lzj.png

      Is it normal to lift for a woman that isn't your gf bros? I have a loving asian girlfriend but lift for blonde/fake blonde white women like pic related...

      What the fuck are you me? Asian girlfriend as well. She's wonderful. Soft. Happy. Somehow accepts my flaws and encourages me to improve. But I know I must aspire to something greater, for the future generations.

      Why do you have an asian gf then? Can't get a white girl?

      Its more a question of finding someone that reaches certain standards. As well, the value system that a lot of white women have is crazy. They place relatively little significance on the actions that consititute your life and existence (guiltlessly doing things that should be considered disgusting, immoral, reprehensible), but place a lot of significance on apparition. For example the beliefs that you say that you have, regardless of whether this manifests in how you live your life

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        My asian gf is beautiful but the thing that sets her apart is that she is a virgin, conservative politically, and does not care about money. I have not met a single hot blonde white woman who is like that. Like this anon [...]
        said, the value system for attractive white women is fucked.

        Pure cope honestly, but hey you guys do you.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >t. guy who settled for a woman who isn't a virgin

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Gross dude drop the chink. Fuckin pathetic man
        >shes a conthervative moron
        How conservative could she be if she is a fucking racemixer. Do you even read what you write? She doesnt even conserve her fucking race

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Non-white female + White male producing female children isn't racemixing.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            retard, reap what you sow

  69. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    just got a gf, wagmi

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How?

  70. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    ate an entire can of baked beans yesterday and been farting since, pretty sure the neighbors can smell it and are pissed

  71. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Going through a break-up. I was a simp for a psycho for a year. She had a 5 yr old. Realized I want a child. I taught her a lot. Was a great influence. Don't create ideas of people that aren't reality. See things for what they are and not worse than what they are. Realized I am not a savior. You cannot change people who don't want to change. Back to focusing on myself. God has a plan for all of us.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Be dating girl who is solid 6/10 but share interests, we really talk like friends
      >She has BPD and depression but keeps it manageable
      >She loses job and family issues
      >Gets angrier every day, screams at me or ghosts me when I try to help
      >She tells me she hates me and deletes me from everything
      >Thought I was going to marry this girl
      >Spiral into deep depression, fuck up my own career and get passed on promotion
      >Begin drinking heavily, gained 30 pounds
      >Have friends and family but keep getting stuck in my own head and fucking up everything because I'm too depressed to do anything
      I'm 29 and it's not awful but is it over for me to find a new person to spend life with?

      Genuinely curious but how do you guys end up deciding to date trainwrecks that you know are mentally ill?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I had all the signs early on and choose not to listen to my intuition. I sincerely thought my affection and positive influence could repair someone who viewed themselves as "broken." Basically my ego.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Holy fuck [...] had the exact same reason. I thought I could fix her and it just ended up breaking me.

          Similar shit. Thought it would make her truly love me. Lmfao. I had the clearest fo signs and still dun goofed.
          >After first time fucking she puts her forearm on my chest and starts telling me who each guy was that caused each individual scar, then tells me “I was going to kill my self in a week from now u til I met you.”
          >still kept seeing her
          I laugh at my self now, regret wasting the time when deep down I knew, but it is what it is

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Ego is a funny thing. How long did the relationship last?

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Lasted a full year. It’s even worse, she took my virginity and then 3 months in moved to Boston. No reason for me to believe she was loyal, and you can imagine how the rest of everything else went. Complete train wreck.

              [...]
              Also, the sex was good. She loved bonded me because at the end of it all she wasn't doing anything for me I couldn't do for myself besides pleasure me.

              Checked. Crazy pussy is the best pussy. To this day the only pussy I’ve had that was that good. Was lucky enough to get similar head a few times. But it’s as you said, looking back she was kind of just a human fleshlight for me. She didn’t really do anything for me.

              Yeah dude, it fucking sucks. It was a harsh but necessary lesson for me. Even if she was a "quirky gaming tomboy" and the good times were really fucking good, depression and other mental shit just makes it fucking impossible to form any meaningful connection and the bad shit really stuck to me for a long time. They're broken beyond repair and it's really whether you want to anchor yourself to her and sink with her unless she can fix herself or cut your losses or if she decides to cut you off. "I can fix her" is a meme and is exhausting on top of the other shit life already throws at you.

              I was fucked up for 5 years after the ex I mentioned above. It was a necessary lesson like you said but I wish I could have learned it as a teen not a 20 yr old. Couldn’t date, sank into a really bad rock bottom. Had opportunities but avoided out of genuine fear and anxiety but also felt kind of revolted about dating. Ended up falling off the horse completely. Still fixing shit but I’ve at least had another gf since, cut it off when I realized she was no good instead of convincing myself of the same shit again. I noticed I can’t really form that same deep bond as easily. Maybe it was just the girl or maybe it takes longer for me to bond now or maybe I can’t to that same level. Idk.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I always want to believe the best in people. But I cant think of one good quality of her and that makes me feel like a sucker. Once trust is lost it cannot be regained.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Ego is a funny thing. How long did the relationship last?

            Also, the sex was good. She loved bonded me because at the end of it all she wasn't doing anything for me I couldn't do for myself besides pleasure me.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah dude, it fucking sucks. It was a harsh but necessary lesson for me. Even if she was a "quirky gaming tomboy" and the good times were really fucking good, depression and other mental shit just makes it fucking impossible to form any meaningful connection and the bad shit really stuck to me for a long time. They're broken beyond repair and it's really whether you want to anchor yourself to her and sink with her unless she can fix herself or cut your losses or if she decides to cut you off. "I can fix her" is a meme and is exhausting on top of the other shit life already throws at you.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Holy fuck

        https://i.imgur.com/7Fx2LLU.jpg

        I had all the signs early on and choose not to listen to my intuition. I sincerely thought my affection and positive influence could repair someone who viewed themselves as "broken." Basically my ego.

        had the exact same reason. I thought I could fix her and it just ended up breaking me.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Anon, she did not break you. Everything you thought about her was a lie. Accept you made a mistake and move forward. Lots of women in this world. Learn from our mistakes and don't repeat.

  72. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't know why but my gym as of late has drawn some absolute refuse. Tryhard retards growling like they're being stabbed while squatting 1.5pl8, plebs curling in the squat rack, nobody ever reracks, roaming zoomer gangs galore etc etc. I've found that this has decreased my motivation to go to the gym
    How do you guys deal with that feel? I like fitness and all but i despise some of the culture around it and most ppl that are drawn to it. It wasn't like that always

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Been lifting 10 years. Sometimes you got to move gyms. Going from somewhere like that to somewhere ideal can change your entire mindset towards lifting

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah been thinking of that too, unfortunately the gym us really close though, like 1 min by foot.
        It's either that or going really early in the morning or late at night

  73. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I beat the homosexual thoughts bros, feels good

  74. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No job. All my friends are distant with me. And people seem to enjoy using me as their lightning rod. The common question i always say, " why are you doing this, i would never do that to you?"

    "Because your you."

  75. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm lonely. I saw an old friend of mine a few weeks ago and it was painfully obvious that our lives and personalities have diverged enough that we are no longer compatible friends anymore. My birthday was a week after that and I didn't get a text from them like I have a few years past, in fact the only people I got texts from were my sister and brother in law. I just want friends.

  76. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    my best friend’s gf seems to be obsessed with me. she kept touching my throughout the night and basically ignored my friend, all the attention was on me. friend was too drunk to care luckily

    i’ll have a handle of vodka, i hate women good night. i’m seriously thinking of catfishing her and sending the proof to my friend, she needs to go before i lose him

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >i’m seriously thinking of catfishing her and sending the proof to my friend
      Do it.

  77. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    anyone else never had a gf?

    i'm 28 and not a virgin, but i've never had a gf.

    it blows my mind how easily most people seem to be able to hop into relationships regardless of looks. hell i have cousins who are like 14/15 and already have girlfriends. i've also had female cousins tell me that they're honestly shocked that i'm still single.

    i'm not an ugly looking guy, i'm self-employed making half decent money, and i go on dates from apps maybe once every 1-2 weeks, but nothing over the past couple of years of me actively dating has ever turned into a relationship.

    i'm really confused about what the problem is. most first dates i go on turn into second dates so i feel like i make a good impression in person.

    i'm starting to wonder if something is seriously wrong with me, because i'm 28 (turning 29 in a few months) and have never been in love.

    what is the best lift for this feel?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You can't force love. These people who are jumping in and out of relationships are not in love, they're just immature and lonely.

  78. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Does your long term partners body type matter?
    I love tits. Juicy boobies in my face.

    I'm gonna start dating a girl who's more of a sticc but really pretty. Would I regret being with her forever?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The girl I fell for the hardest didn't have big bonkers and it mattered jack shit to me, she could have had As and I wouldn't have cared even though I'm a >titguy too.

  79. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Fuck it I'm uncleposting
    >Have niece in law who's 15
    >Latches on to me every family gathering
    >Fucked up mother who abandoned her
    I dunno,it's fucking weird.she basically won't leave me alone anytime I go see the senpai. But I feel bad for her because she gets treated like the black sheep by the rest of the family so I try to talk to her so she isn't alone. I am jacked as shit (thanks tren,superdrol and John meadows) but she's play fighting, and touching me all the time. This is can go bad real quick.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How could it go bad? Obviously you're not attracted to her nor she to you, you're not some sort of pedo.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How could it go bad? Obviously you're not attracted to her nor she to you, you're not some sort of pedo.

      Girls don’t play fight for fun. She probably has a crush on anon. Anon don’t be a creep. It’s your family. You clearly see some of yourself in her being a black sheep. Just be the cool young fun uncle you wish you had growling up. Treat her like a sister since that’s basically what she is.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Girl don't play fight for fun
        Nieces do with their uncles.

  80. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have dug myself a beautifully deep hole in my life, and the further I crawl out, the less I feel. It's not the challenge of pushing myself that is hindering me, its the ever-growing emptiness I feel while growing closer to the goal. Why do I feel so comfortable at the bottom? Its not supposed to be this way

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Being comfortable feels nice but it leads to stagnation.

  81. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I downloaded one of those language exchange apps basically just to talk to foreign girls when I’m bored and it really puts into perspective how much American women fucking suck. These South American, Russian, and Eastern euro girls are so cool, funny, and traditionally feminine. They’re all into like painting and dancing and shit like that. They all dream of coming to America cause they hate the shitty countries they live in. Meanwhile most of the women here in America are ungrateful hoes who just wanna watch Netflix, get sloppy drunk every weekend, and sleep around till they’re 28 and well past their prime. I need to find a trad foreign wife bros.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I need to find a trad foreign wife bros.
      You realize that American women act the way they do because of American men, right? And if you bring a foreign girl here you'll corrupt her just like you corrupted the other women in your life?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        t. virgin

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >if you don't encourage women to sleep around, you're a virgin
          Anon do you know what a self-fulfilling prophecy is?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >t. virgin

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              got'eeeeeeeem

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Can you elaborate? Because I kind of see a flaw in this. Not saying it’s not true. But if American Women = Y and American men =X, foreign man/woman =A/B

        If X + B =Y
        Then
        A + Y=/= B
        My understanding is foreign men don’t WANT American women. Any man who does shit right will make a woman feminine and submissive but it’s kind of fucked when they’re so damaged to begin with

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Any man who does shit right will make a woman feminine and submissive but it’s kind of fucked when they’re so damaged to begin with
          That's your problem, though. They aren't damaged "to begin with". Foreign women are born with the same brain as American women, it's their environment that turns the latter into self-important whores.
          Now you can argue that a lot of this happens with their upbringing, before you enter the picture. But 1) it's still true for the women in your life, sisters, cousins, (god forbid) daughters, etc.; and 2) you encourage their behavior by your response to it.
          IST spends his whole teens and twenties giving women attention (the sole female currency) for being degenerate sluts in hopes of getting his dick wet. Then after he hits the male wall he complains because all these used-up roasties did exactly what he begged them to do.
          If you bring a foreign girl here, or if she shows up on her own, she'll be an American woman in a few years because she'll be set upon by thirsty betas giving her attention for being a degenerate slut, not expecting her to have any hobbies or pursuits besides watching Netflix, etc. You're taking her natural drive for attention, validating it, and redirecting it towards what she can do for you sexually.
          Conversely it shouldn't be surprising that foreign (white) men don't want American women. Why would they? They work towards building a society that expects young women to behave properly, to have meaningful hobbies, and (most importantly) they are willing to overlook their own sexual desire to push women in these directions. Throwing an American woman amongst them is a waste of time, she is a project and she has been put on a pedestal too much by American men to understand that she has flaws that need work.
          You need to fix yourself first, and understand the consequences of your actions. Bringing in more girls to ruin only prolongs and spreads the rot.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The women are already corrupted because of the culture they’re brought up in. American women are raised and taught that they’re as strong as men and they should be independent and strive for a successful career. In most other parts of the world, your job is to be a homemaker first. I have no issue with hard working, successful, powerful women, but culturally the responsibilities of being a mother/wife should always be prioritized.

        That said, behavior of a lot of men + dating apps are a big part of the problem today by putting women on a pedestal, giving them that sense of entitlement.

        The idea that foreign women are corrupted by coming to America is stupid.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >The idea that foreign women are corrupted by coming to America is stupid.
          They will be corrupted in the sense that they will learn quickly that they don't have to try as hard to get attention. They can get fat, they don't have to be interesting or engaging.
          American men have much lower standards for women, that is the bottom line.

  82. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not having fun lifting anymore

  83. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I think I'm falling in love with my manager. She's way out of my league, every guy at work wants her and I'm just her ugly subordinate way far from his goals.

  84. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Have to work until 3 am
    >Have to get up for Church at 7 am
    Pain

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >drink till 4 am
      >have work at 5 am
      pain

  85. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Let me get a Dark n Stormy, please.
    I'm torn, I have a better job, but I'm still trying to lose weight (sup /fat/ bros) and find a gf, or hell, a trap at this point.
    I'm tired of feeling like an outcast, I can be sociable, but I just don't have a group of friends IRL.
    I'm meeting with a friend who's a girl. I have feelings for her, but I feel like she's only meeting me for lunch out of pity. She's also not interested in dating anyone, but cmon, that's gotta be bullshit, right?
    Sex would be nice, but honestly I just want someone who I can care about and cares about me, but that seems like a fever dream for outcasts like us, huh?

  86. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My right ball has been in moderate pain for a few days now and I don't know why

  87. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >gf comes over last night
    >spends the night
    >today I wake up, feel like I'm on the verge of cumming
    >wake up frozen in place
    >look down, gf has her hand around my penis, very slowly rubbing it up and down, I didn't want to move
    >I came, shot on my stomach
    >gf rolls over opens her phone and just starts scrolling on her phone
    >I'm unable to move and just close my eyes and pretend to be asleep
    >I lay there for I don't know how long stewing in my shame and humiliation
    Does this count as rape? I still feel so bad about it. How could she do this to me? I feel completely unsafe now. How can I trust her?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Are you fucking retarded?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      So she gave you a handjob? lol

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        If you didn't want it, why didn't you say something or move when she was jerking you off?

        He feared for his life, he is a fragile man with a modern masculinity

        IST is pro-rape now?wtf?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      If you didn't want it, why didn't you say something or move when she was jerking you off?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        He feared for his life, he is a fragile man with a modern masculinity

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Next time she falls asleep, wake her up with anal.

  88. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Kind of pissed off. Broke up with my ex. Briefly started talking again. Remembered exactly why I left her. During the breakup it wasn’t all that clear to me I just knew it was time to end it. She didn’t respect me. I’m mad because I can never date her again knowing she’s probably had other dick, yet I seek to “win” this imaginary fight of respect. Idk what’s wrong with me. I realize it’s like a bird repeatedly flying into a glass door; useless and even if I managed to get what I wanted it would only come with pain. But I can’t shake this pissy vengeful feeling. Yeah best revenge is no revenge I know. But fuck this infuriates me I don’t ever want to deal with a girl who can’t simply respect me.

  89. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Fucking hinge and all the dating apps seem like a waste of time. I get matches, but I don't know what to fucking say. Do I need to be witty? Flirty? Friendly?
    The fuck am I supposed to do? It sucks the ball is in my court.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Say whatever you want. They're whores, anon.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Before anyone recommends bumble, the ball is still in our court from what I’ve experienced. 99% dry ass “hey” “what’s up” “hello” or maybe with an emoji or two. Just stupid greetings. Women complain when men do this but they’re even worse with it. I’ve started replying back with the same message and they have nothing to follow up with. Some are even saying I’m the one being dry in their very next message. It’s fucking retarded.

      The only bitches I seem to have a chance with because they’re way less dry and the convo goes somewhere I wouldn’t even check out IRL and it isn’t been all the women in that category that do talk. I’m convinced I need to get shredded, pay a photographer like $200 to follow me for the day, change all my pics and have a shirtless selfie if tinder, and then I’ll have a much different experience.

      But I also worry my lack of success and dryness is due to genuine disinterest in any woman who uses a dating app. Like yeah I’d fuck some of them but I can’t even take them seriously enough to put in the work. It’s almost like I have the ego of a chad and think they should be nearly begging me to fuck them. I’m not that delusional and realize where I need to improve in life and I’m working on it but fuck I can’t even fake interest. It’s like a donkey with a carrot on a stick vs a carrot on a screen, obviously it’ll be more incentivized by the IRL carrot.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yup. Bumble is the worst of all the apps.

        >girls "message first" but half of them are literally too stupid to realize that and just don't message then time out
        >so when they do message they just type a " hi" or "hey" because that's the fastest way to automate out the one word message to her 10000 matches
        >small userbase of girls too ugly or shy for tinder
        >still just full of girls there getting IG followers

  90. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >getting drunk
    >google streetviewing my old childhood home and neighborhood to try and relive when I had friends and was happy
    haha i'm pathetic man...

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >had friends and happiness as a child
      haha i bet that was nice anon haha

  91. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Moscow mule plzkthx

    >Meet new grill
    >Has clown/danger hair but she used to rave and isn't a lefty so I guess that's okay
    >Doesn't get much out of me playing with her boobs but that's okay
    >Doesnt want to have sex on the first date at my place, but that's okay (really it is)
    >Doesnt want to have sex on the second date at my place, but that's okay (again, I'm horny all the time but it's not a huge rush)
    >Doesn't want to perform oral because "reasons"
    >Doesn't like people performing oral on her
    >Doesn't mind playing with my junk, doesn't mind me playing with hers, but that's it
    >we're both 30+

    I guess back to square one, again.

  92. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just found out my wife is pregnant with our second child, like is good. I'm already blessed with a son, hoping for a girl this time.

    It's mostly thanks to fit that I got my shit together. The discipline I picked up from here to loose weight and work out is what helped me meet my wife. If it wasn't for fit of still be a fat, depressed, and alone.

  93. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >at the bar trying to get comfortable being in public after being neet for 10 years
    >waitress brings my drink
    >"Thank you ma'am"
    >"MA'AM???"
    >she yelled
    >felt like every eyeball in the joint was pointed directly at me
    >don't know what I did wrong
    >just had my drink and left, no tip

    Why is it so hard out there?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You’re supposed to call her “sweetie” or “onechan” not maam

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      LMFAO. Bro I hear you and I need to start doing that if I’m stuck neet until I into a job, but that lady was 100% the weirdo there. She was either just plain fucking wierd, a chud, or young and socially awkward and it made her feel old. Anyone who sided with her is also weird. I sometimes call women my age or even young ma’am to be a dick.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You're supposed to call her bitch.

  94. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I think I'm getting too old to get a girlfriend, I'm 25 now and weight 120kg from SW 125kg, by the time I'm 80kg I'll be 26 at minimum and women at 26 are either single moms, washed up sluts or fat. I want to be a father one day, but I don't want a shitty woman to be the mother of my children. This is very unsettling.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I’m 27 this month and 118kg and had a gf this year. I feel the same way as you. I only got her because we met years ago when I was lean and I simply kept rejecting her because I bloated after last seeing her, which made her what me more, then I dated her just to not kiss out on the pussy. Shit was bad and I believe it’s because I’m fat. Cutting and I’ll be 27/28 when I’m done, no idea how I’ll meet a new girlfriend. Obviously a dating app girl is a whore. I’m not going to date a bar skank. I like hiking and being in nature or indoors. Not gonna meet many women that way.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I'll be 26
      >women at 26
      Why would you as a 26 year old male, be dating a 26 year old female.

      Date girls 18-22, no matter what age you are.

  95. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    PLEASE MY RIGHT TESTICLE FEELS SWOLLEN WHEN MY LEGS ARE TOO CLOSE WHAT DO I DOOO. DID I HURT IT LIFTING?

  96. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My friend talked me into trying edibles. Never done drugs ever before, pretty much never drink. I tried them out, third time on them right now. Don't think I'll again after this, my face feels hot and Hispanicy which is kinda uncomfortable but other than that it's not really enjoyable.

    It does seem to give me insane powerboners though.

  97. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >bailed on a night out because I'm poorcel
    As much as I want to go out and drink a bunch of 8$ beers while getting ignored by women maybe this was for the best.

    Still feel bad for canceling last minute.

  98. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I liked this girl whose a really close friend and for a moment I thought we had something even though we didn't really do anything. I got burned after her and another friend in our circle did whatever. I was heartbroken etc etc I got over it? I think I did? Mostly did? I was supposed to air my grievances but there's never a good time for something like that. Anyways I'm over it, I don't desire her, I'm looking at other woman and yet we still end up doing weirdly close things that borders on friendship. Now I'm conflicted despite being sure of myself, I don't like her, but she ends up doing these things. How am I not to be smitten by someone who thinks and cares about me and wants to do things for me? At the same time I don't want to feel this desire yet I think its creeping up. I might just not talk to her over the break and pursue other women.

  99. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Recently had a revelation. For a while I've been stuck trying to figure out the path forward, and I think I must make myself into a leader. Make myself into someone who bleeds pure energy, grounded in the real world.

    And it starts with doubling down with my fitness. Gotta hit a lean 180lbs first and foremost.

  100. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Met a girl, she was a plus one to a friend group I was a plus one of. Pretty hot, 7/10. Said off bat that I was attractive etc. Never had this happen to me before so I have a few alarm bells ringing. Turns out she has a bf. She kissed me out of nowhere and I pushed her away refusing her advance. Fuark bros, feels good man.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Good, anon. Good. Make her go to her gf to say you kissed her.

  101. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Important question, can you digest more than 30g of protein in a meal?

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