Sexual desire is gone

Help. Is there any herb or anything that makes you want to coom? I’m married, mid thirties and my desire is pretty much gone. My T is fine, in good shape, it’s not an ED problem my shit works when I want it to. I just never really want it to. I don’t watch porn or coom on my own either. I’m gonna be the only guy in history who gets a divorce because I didn’t fuck my wife enough.

  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    What's your diet look like? Sleep habits? Any big life changes fucking with your head?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Started a new job, probably sleeping less than I should but the job isn’t more stressful than my old one, has actually cleared up time/energy to get back in the gym. I might be fucked in the head. Sex for me is like an old habit I grew out of it’s not that interesting anymore. My wife is hot too. Although she never initiates and kinda nags when I haven’t fucked her in a while.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    is your wife actually hot

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Let’s be honest your wife is a cow, right?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      She’s hot, she’s actually probably a little too thin because she had to have a procedure to fix acid reflux

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Get some viagra or something. Start looking at porn and try to find something that is new or interesting to you. Like maybe bondage, choking, whatever floats your boat.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          thanks Dr Rabbi chudberg

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/W5LNXzS.jpg

        Help. Is there any herb or anything that makes you want to coom? I’m married, mid thirties and my desire is pretty much gone. My T is fine, in good shape, it’s not an ED problem my shit works when I want it to. I just never really want it to. I don’t watch porn or coom on my own either. I’m gonna be the only guy in history who gets a divorce because I didn’t fuck my wife enough.

        you gotta Hispanice it up
        get her outfits, if you want to fuck anime girls get her a sailor moon costume. if you want to fuck a cop get her a cop outfit.
        turn the lights low and you arent even fucking her anymore, its someone else.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You don't understand, it's not a case of "my wife doesn't arouse me as much anymore", it's a case of "I don't really care about sex anymore, with my wife or any other women".

          Something has changed with the man himself.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You could try an aphrodisiac. I stand by a quality milk chocolate 50-100g. always seems to get me in the mood.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I had the same problem anon.. just didn’t want to have sex anymore.. idk I am getting on T and hoping that helps

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    This is what I have done.

    Get my wife to stop wearing deodorant… (pheromones really help)

    Had my wife get a VCH piercing and nose piercing cause I like them. (This helps a tiny bit)

    I am trying to work out more though I am not fat and generally pretty fit.

    I have made my wife dress sexier and had her buy a shit ton of lingerie. (It’s helped)

    I have got on Test CYP hoping that will help. But honestly even with my wife sending me a ton of lingerie pics, sucking my dick all the time (this is new) even getting anal sex and I am still not that interested.

    I am really hoping the Test works

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You do know that humans do not have pheromones, not the organ necessary to perceive pheromones, right?

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    what you're experiencing is the Coolidge effect, OP. I know this sounds outrageous, but maybe you should talk to your wife about having sex with other women

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You're free, now you can live life as innocently as a child.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    (OP)
    I have had the same problem before OP and I am late 20s and married. What has worked for me is looking at very softcore porn (solo only and nothing degenerate, no dildos or masturbating or anything like that and sometimes even no nudity) to get really horny and then I DON'T masturbate so I'm basically blueballing myself. Then when I see my wife I just fuck the shit out of her and everyone is happy.

    The trick is to just NEVER jerk off to the porn and only cum from fucking your wife. You will learn to want sex again.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      where do you go for softcore porn?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        /s/ or I go to various onlyfans leaks sites such as bitchesgirls.com or fapello.com and look at the dumb whores who think people are actually paying for their nudes.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I also have to stress that this is a dangerous method because the temptation to jerk it to the softcore porn is very strong and if you do you will lose your desire for real sex. You just have to look at it and not jerk off to it. It's really hard.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Danica collins is all you need

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Based and accurate. This is what I do. Works pretty good.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    This happened to me as well, everything was fine a year ago wtf I always wanted to fuck and now 0 libido, bumping for interest.

    Hijacking, considering I eat / sleep well and go to the gym regularly (mild varicocelle tho) Those are my blood results:
    > 1.80 m / 80kg / 28 yrs
    > Total Test: 3.270 ng/ml
    > Free Test: 25.01 pg/ml
    > Estradiol: 11.5 pg/ml
    > Progesterone: 0.23 ng/ml
    > Prolactine: 5.33 ng/ml
    > LH: 2.50 mui/ml
    > HGH: 0.04 ng/ml
    > SHBG: 19.70 nmol/I
    > Cortisol:10.80 pg/dl
    In January I got similar results (estrogen 43.74 PG/ml that time)

    Hopefully we find a solution OP, nofap didn't work for me

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Now that I think off..maybe I'm being schizoid but my libido dropped after the vaccine...

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    happened to me so I dumped her and got a new girl
    the process repeats

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    seems like coronavirus fucked our libido

    i am young male end twenties, same problem

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You took the vax, didn't you.
      I never met someone with "long covid" or whatever that didn't also take the vax.

      We warned you man.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        How long should the "long COVID" effects last? Sucks to be a fucking eunuch

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You're in the experimental group, so it's up to you to find out
          TYFYS

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You need a Mistress. Ludovici decades agoi wrote about the sexual death of faithful men.
    https://www.anthonymludovici.com/martyr1.htm

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Get sex therapy?
    Sounds lame as fuck, but maby you need to rediscover yourself and find your kinks?

    Or use steroids

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    L-Citrulline and red beet for NO gains

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You dont feel sexy, and you dont think of your wife as sexy. I bet you both eat take-out and have really predictable lives.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    ITT aging men convince themselves that something is wrong with them because they aren't horny 24/7 like they were as teenagers.

    If you guys were born in China you would be paying thousands of yuan for rhino horn or tiger bone powder right now.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You're free now, enjoy it

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Literally just pin steroids
    The number 1 reason I pin steroids is because it makes me want to fuck like I'm a teenager
    Muscles are just a nice side effect

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why?? Getting a break from the constant horny would be so freeing. Like a break from a prison. Why not enjoy it for awhile??

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Another millenial lost to SSRIs and the Covid vaccine

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don’t even know how to respond to this problem. I am 34 and my wife is 35. She has had 3 kids and is a lot bigger now. She is getting back into shape but the body just isn’t the same as her 20s. I watch porn and masturbate at least 2x a day. I can drink 1/2 a 5th of whiskey and Jack off and still fuck her twice back to back the same night. Maybe I’m just a really horny coomer. I love sucking on her tits and eating her pussy. I love when she sucks my balls. I just love sex. It’s incredible to me guys can’t get it up. As soon as she takes her top off and my dick is anywhere near her nude body I’m diamonds. I also don’t understand how dudes can’t nut and then keep going

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Man I wish it was like this. my wife is getting super dirty, willing to do anything and I barely care.. and she is really hot for her age.. its really frustrating.. takes me an hour to cum too

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Unironically try drugs - weed, mdma, mushrooms, lsd
        I think they're great for relationships in general when used sparingly

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    zinc

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    bros
    its the fucking vaccine

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I wasnt vaxxed but I have had covid multiple times

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You’re a man, your job is to fuck. Not be fucked. The thought of even fucking my wife gets me fucking diamonds. You control your dick not the other way around.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don’t mind when they ride me every so often

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The vaccine is doing its job anon
    Enjoy your new world

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Same, turning 30 soon and I don't really jerk off anymore but I do still look at porn every day, not really sure of the psychological reasons behind that.

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Omega 3,6,9
    B vits
    Vit D3
    Zink
    Magnesium
    L-arginine
    Good sleep
    Be below 25%bf
    Lifting

    Thank me later

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Not op but bought some d3 yesterday and have taken 5000iu then and today. Wondering best dosage and how long it will take? I’m certain I’m quite deficient but also wondering if I should get a blood test?

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    do you smoke? if so, stop.

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Late 20s, moved in with my gf 3 yrs ago
    I easily mog people at my uni gym, some teen girls mired me or looked me blatantly through the mirror even I’m not a good looking guy.
    I do wanna fuck those tight pussy over their tight skin gym clothes or undies whatever.
    My gf sometimes go to gym with me and realize this quite often, and ask my help by working out next to me as soon as I get surrounded by teens at the gym
    Is it cucked or faithful not to fuck girls that I don’t care? God I hate women

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Can I believe this? There are some jacked guys at my gym and never have I seen anybody being surrounded by girls.

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I feel for you OP, i'm in the exact same boat...
    Prior to about a year ago my sex drive was high as fuck. I'd see cute zoomer girls in the gym wearing booty pants like picrel and the primal urge to fuck was undeniable--fast forward to now and the same girls inspire a "that's nice" reaction. I got my T checked and its on the high side of normal and my dick works just fine (no need for viagra or whatever). I feel like i have the sex drive and arousal process of a women now and its fucking depressing. I'm still horny occasionally, but now its more reactive instead of proactive and even then, the sort of visual stimulus that arroused me before just doesn't seem to do as much. My wife has a relatively low sex drive so if anything she probably enjoys that I'm not on her ass 24/7 trying to fuck her, but it distresses me because i know its not normal. For those pushing the "well maybe your wife is just fat, ugly, etc", she's 5'8" 120 lbs with a dumptruck ass and D-cup tits with a cute face, so it ain't that. For those saying its COVID or the vaccine, I'm starting to wonder if that's actually the case. Apparently loss of libido is considered a long-COVID symptom.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      damn, or maybe you're just aging

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I have lost my libido as well sucks rawr

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You need to Goon

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Goon
      Thaiboy Goon?

      You do know that humans do not have pheromones, not the organ necessary to perceive pheromones, right?

      >pheromones
      Smelling my wifes sweaty armpits turns me on, when she is completely clean I am not turned on much at all

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah you like the smell. Like some people.
        Doesn't have anything to do with pheromones though, we're not ants.

        Me I prefer when my wife doesn't smell, to each his own.

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I came on IST to post the literal opposite question. I will piggy back on this thread instead.

    I'm tired of walking down the street in summer and having tits and asses jiggling in front of me and involuntarily getting horny. Short of either moving to a Muslim country or one with permanent coat weather, how can I stop getting this form of stress? I do not wish to be horny any more.

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Look up PT-141.
    It's a peptide that's the only substance that drastically increase your libido without having other effects.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Isn’t that for women with low desire?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Works for both sexes.

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >anon takes the vax
    >urge to have sex and make White children disappear
    Huh, how strange.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >The provisional number of births rose 2% for non-Hispanic White and Hispanic women and declined 2% for non-Hispanic Black women and 3% for non-Hispanic AIAN and non-Hispanic Asian women from 2020 to 2021
      https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/vsrr/vsrr020.pdf

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Bros I can stay hard and go another round right after finishing but after I blow a second load I need like 20 minutes to recover, and after the third time I come my penis literally hurts and I cant keep going. Can I train this somehow?

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Tribulus + L-Arginine worked wonders for me for a while.

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