>started lifting
>got a gf
>started a job in finance
>still feel like shit
what’s wrong with me bros, why am I not happy?
i have a good body, a cute girl, I’m making gainz, I have the grindset…and I still feel miserable.
Am I a piece of shit or what?
I don’t drink / drugs / junk food either
no dreams or goals worth waking up for, just the bare minimum
well me job is pretty interesting, I enjoy that…but it doesn’t make me happy. I feel a little disenchanted
so what should I strive for?
I have money, i have pussy, i have youth, i have looks. What am I missing?
Why is it that retards who have everything can never figure out what to do with it lol
prob means they didnt work for it thats why it seems so meaningless to them. op is a silver spoon gay
hey that’s not fair, I studied pretty hard to get where I am. My parents aren’t rich, both are researchers (nerds)
>nb4 academics are rich
not in europe they aren’t.
We didn’t go travelling, my dad took us skiing once. Most of my holidays I spent at my grandma’s in the countryside walking in the mountains and messing with her retarded cats.
So no I’m not «just another trust fund kiddie» and you’re just bitter that I made it and you didn’t.
>before everything was planned by my parents and then I just went to college and kinda freestyled it from there with no plan.
that's fucking sad you can't see that
If you "made it" then you'd be happy. You have not made it.
>What am I missing?
Romance
i love me gf
>just do what you really want bro
i don’t know what I want! All my life I was told to grind, so I did grind and now here I am, king fuck of shit mountain, and I don’t know what I even want.
gargle on these nuts you n-word
Wrong kind of romance, anon
if he were capable, he wouldn't have made the mistake
pearls before swine
I truly wish he could feel it. Sincerely.
You answered it yourself?
Join a church.
Investigate religion and/or spiritualism.
Take up gardening.
Exactly what and how isn't important. The distinction is activities to meet external validations vs internally motivated shit that makes sense to you and gives a purpose. You can't have someone else tell you precisely what this is.
What you are describing isn't even that rare. It's what happens when you hear about seemingly successful people offing themselves out of the blue. They lived their entire lives chasing shit, while never figuring out who they are and why they are doing what they do, so they have an existential crisis.
>What am I missing?
A purpose and/or real human connection?
You listed straight up material shit. Nothing wrong with that. But unless you're wired 100% grass fed cattle normie, it won't suffice. Living for external validations will never bring you happiness. You have to figure out what you really want.
>I have money, i have pussy, i have youth, i have looks. What am I missing?
Antisemitism.
philosophy
>I have money, i have pussy, i have youth, i have looks. What am I missing?
freedom
You are on your first steps to learn that the dream fed to you that you must achieve by normies is not what humans should strive for.
Do you have good relations with your family? Do they live near you? Do you find your work rewarding outside of the fact that it pays well?
yeah my family’s nice, but they live far away
yeah my job’s nice, I’m actually doing something useful for society (infrastructure) and I like it. But I’m not like those insane M&A guys who work 18 hour days, I usually try to leave the office before 7PM and weekends are strict no-no (boss is very serious on this)
i don’t know. i never asked myself the question. before everything was planned by my parents and then I just went to college and kinda freestyled it from there with no plan.
no a gay (although I almost got peer pressured into fucking a trap in college ngl he was kinda cute but marshallah I’ll be damned if I did)
being a gay piece of shit has nothing to do with whether or not you fucked le epic based trap in your retarded social circle it's because you have spent your whole life pursuing goals set up for you by other people and only when you achieve them do you start to ask "why?" because you are a horse who has been raised with blinders on and you never realized there's more to this thing we call life
Congratulations, you've done everything everyone else said will make you happy. Ever asked yourself what makes you happy, everyone else be damned?
YOURE A gay PEICE OF SHIT
A human being subconsciously wants unlimited expansion and this can only be achieved by having everything in the Universe. You can try having everything by conquest, and fail, or try yoga(which means literally union) and having everything by inclusion. The only thing that you need is the want to have everything and a method. Google Shambhavi Mahamudra for that.
You can thank me later.
Go shit and fall back into it, gay. Take your humblebragging and fuck off.
Get good at something that you WANT to do. Anything
God.
>what’s wrong
You probably hate your job, finance is shit
Go be a marine biologist or something gay
Or whatever dream you left behind
>healthier, fitter body
>companion
>money supply
<-
This is a decent starting point in search of happiness. Now go actually seek it. It will probably be a decent journey.
Godspeed you gay, hope you make it
you are attracted to other males but you can't accept it.
>what’s wrong with me bros, why am I not happy?
Because you haven't accepted him yet.
You need to crash and survive(drugs,lose job,lose gf,literal car crash, combination of these and much more)
Is that you Robert? See you in work tomorrow gay
You’re missing a son or daughter, or you’re missing another purpose that is just as compelling. But meandering along with a woman and a job until you die is not a purposeful life.
i’m 29 i don’t think I’m ready for children
i dont want to be bateman. I love my girlfriend and I’m not a psycho
i’m not a religious man. Fitness is what i like, i go to the gym, maybe do some surfing on the weekends.
>i’m 29 i don’t think I’m ready for children
Oh you're a retard
If i have a child now I would probably be a terrible father. I spend a lot of time working, I’m not even married yet.
Besides I live in a really terrible city to raise a child in. It’s hot as fuck and the schools here are shit.
I’ll wait when I move to HongKong or Singapore, then maybe I’ll go for a child.
But raise my flesh in this hellhole? Hell nah.
>I’ll wait when I move to HongKong or Singapore, then maybe I’ll go for a child.
Either chink or yellow fever loser. Kys.
so it should be obvious now what you need to do. You’re welcome
You need to have some kind of responsibility, something you are beholden to. Kids are the easy/obvious route.
>i’m 29 i don’t think I’m ready for children
Then you don’t get to complain. This is what men have done for all of history. Your ‘lack of purpose’ is just a cope - you obviously want to keep living a life of hedonism and no responsibility. Which is fine, but don’t delude yourself.
>i’m 29 i don’t think I’m ready for children
Modern "man" JFL
People keep saying purpose purpose purpose. But what, apart from having children, is something purposeful? Being a feeder for a turbo fatty would also suffice as having a purposeful life?
No one on earth can just *give* you a purpose. It's either gifted by providence or discovered on your own, depending on your religious outlook. I learned my purpose after seeing a lushpin painting posted on this very site.
You're hollow and materialistic like the girl you chose.
You're Patrick Bateman without his love for Kazakhstan
What is your creative outlet? If its just shitposting on here you won't feel satisfied. How about spiritual purpose?
My goal is to get super aids
>I have the grindset…and I still feel miserable.
There you go.
You need adrenaline or combat. Either will suffice but together is best.
>have gf
>IST
>fancy job
You lack purpose. Don't worry, if you're not proactive purpose will find you. Men richer than you who have decided their purpose is to shape the world as they decide will use you to serve their purpose.