>started lifting in 2007
>reached my peak in my 20s living with my parents
>sleeping 9-10 hours a day, fricking tinder bawds, and killing it in the gym 6-7 days a week
>now in my 30s with a family, a real job and all that other /misc/ shit I got memed into and slowly regressing
I am so tired of sleeping 5 hours a night, working myself into an early grave to earn enough money for a comfortable living and having literally no free time. I have no motivation at all anymore. How do fellow 30+ yo boomers deal with this?
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you regress because of age.
even if you are single and train every day in your 40s, youre not the same.
You cant compare your body at its peak to when you are mid life.
Your delts lose their caps
you get more visceral fat
youre just getting old.
If you need motivation: You need to be fit so your son looks up to you.
if you have a daughter you need to mog her future BFs and be able to beat their asses
I'm not that old, dude.
>30s
>middle age
Fricking zoomers.
That first half sounds like projection. Just because most people peak before they finish college doesn’t mean you can’t start lifting in your 50s and be stronger and better looking body-wise than you were mid 20s.
Idk man, you're the complete paradox to me and you have my goals.
>stuck at parents in late twenties due to inability to work
>it's nice and i'm blessed for the food and the ability to go to the gym and maintain a godtier physique
>uninjured as of last month, finally have the opportunity to work again
>unable to find work, have like 10k worth of savings
>desperately wish I had work to do during the day and to advance my career with the goal of a family in mind
Free time is relatively shit when your goals are put on hold due to binding constraints out of your control. Can only read and "self-improve" so much given all the free time in the world. Be grateful for what you have, your present is my endgame. I'm running out of time, lol.
living with my parents made me hate life and i only started doing truly better once moving out. am i weird? why are you guys saying you enjoyed and were successful living with your parents? also what was your relationsbip with your father like?
OP here. My relationship with my parents is good and multi-generational homes have been the norm for 99% of human history.
Your dad is good too? You grew up talking to him? Did your mom ever cry when you didn’t feel like talking to her and make you feel guilty
Yes, my dad and I are good. My mom's an angel, probably the most hard-working and self-sacrificing person I know.
Not OP, but it's making me hate my life too. I've been stuck here for years. I was disabled so it was out of my control before and I was cognitively impaired so I didn't mind it, but now that the cognitive impairment and physical impairment are gone, I fricking hate it. I am handing out resumes and doing whatever I can to find gainful employment so as to move out. It's genuinely making me suicidal at this point. My relationship with my parents could have been better but they've always been there to support me and I'm very grateful for that and love them very much. Given my physical state, I should be dead, and wish I was, but I'm still not giving up. Surely things will be better for me when I'm able to move out again and live independently, and I'm greatly looking forward to that day. Already lost everything else. Living without working for years didn't bother me at the time as I was cognitively moronic, literally, and now it is fricking destroying me and my self worth. Having a good physique and being healthy doesn't do anything for you when you can't pursue your real goals such as a family etc.
What condition do you have?
Severe hypermobility/Ehlers-danlos syndrome. Normally manageable (I'm told) but in my early twenties with heavy lifting I started developing hand tremors and the inability to hold a proper breathing pattern which progressed to full body numbness and a severe cognitive decline. Doctors called it mental/anxiety induced, or people blamed it on drugs. Did crazy shit, destroyed my apartment, thrown in a mental ward, all because I physically could not breathe or operate my body. A month of progressive stretching and my cognition and physical ability have completely returned, lost my entire twenties because of bad luck and incompetent doctors. It really fricking sucks. Really fricking sucks. Makes you view people differently. No one cared or listened to me. But that's fine, just a harsh dose of reality, you truly are alone and you're as useful as what you can provide for others, exclusively, no one will love or care for you when you're a disabled fricking moron, have had that proven time and time again. It's all artificial.
>end blogpost
Rough. Sorry, anon.
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It’s just part of being a man. Count your blessings and soldier on. The alternative is worse
Sounds like my dream homosexual be happy
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>now in my 30s with a family, a real job and all that other /misc/ shit I got memed into and slowly regressing
Same. Totally worth it.